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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im basically just after some info/advice on hot wife from all parties who have been involved. How did you do it, how did it make you feel, do you now need it?
I keep fantasising about having my wife satisfied by another guy but am not sure in reality how that would make me feel? I think it would freshen her sex drive up, but might leave me out in the cold?
What are your experiences? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im basically just after some info/advice on hot wife from all parties who have been involved. How did you do it, how did it make you feel, do you now need it?
I keep fantasising about having my wife satisfied by another guy but am not sure in reality how that would make me feel? I think it would freshen her sex drive up, but might leave me out in the cold?
What are your experiences? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It might work for you but you sound unsure so i'd side step that one if I was you until you both are! High risk strategy otherwise."
High risk? Mostly I want to please the wife, if that takes another guy for her to erupt, so be it? |
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"Im basically just after some info/advice on hot wife from all parties who have been involved. How did you do it, how did it make you feel, do you now need it?
I keep fantasising about having my wife satisfied by another guy but am not sure in reality how that would make me feel? I think it would freshen her sex drive up, but might leave me out in the cold?
What are your experiences? "
Step 1 talk to your wife
Step 2 create a couples profile
The rest is easy. |
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I've always loved it. Always the same male but we've played together, them alone me at work, us first and then them, them together me on phone etc.
Sent them away to park inn west brom and he fucked her all night long.
Totally addicted. Wind him up often by inviting him around whilst he's at work.
Only disappointment is that he's shit at pics and they don't take the initiative enough - leave it for me to organise.
I do have 2 films of them fucking - my 'mummy porn' - always my choice of what to watch if she doesn't want sex ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We talked dirty about another man joining us for years.
It was my wife who then suggested a possible participant (a married friend).
We did it, we all loved it, friend unfortunately decided he wanted more i.e. my wife to himself.
Friendship terminated, not seen him for years.
On the lookout now for someone else.
It is *very* sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks, all interesting stuff. When you are not part of the 'lifestyle' how do you even start that conversation though?
Baby I think you should fuck another man??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mr raised it ( he had done before ) I said yes and here we are . The most important thing is ground rules to be set before you start . For example We play with Mr there and without him there ( I then film for him ) and we have a rule that I never meet the same guy twice on a one to one basis . That might not be everyone's cup of tea but it works for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It might work for you but you sound unsure so i'd side step that one if I was you until you both are! High risk strategy otherwise.
High risk? Mostly I want to please the wife, if that takes another guy for her to erupt, so be it?"
You really can't see why it might be high risk? |
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You've got to talk to her find out what she wants, what she'd like. Ask her if she's got any fantasies and play it from there. Always agree on things never try and force her into anything she doesn't want to do. Try blindfolding her and act out different scenarios. Have fun whatever happens...... just let us know the outcome  |
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As previous post. Had to be something you both want. Approach it slowly. Bring it into fantasies that both of you enjoy together, role play etc where you take role of someone else. If that works then move in to reality! |
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"Thanks, all interesting stuff. When you are not part of the 'lifestyle' how do you even start that conversation though?
Baby I think you should fuck another man???"
Maybe start with more subtle language unless she likes it to be that blunt. But Yes.
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"Thanks, all interesting stuff. When you are not part of the 'lifestyle' how do you even start that conversation though?
Baby I think you should fuck another man???"
We started off as sex talk then progressed from there to where we are today  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well for starters you need to be 100%honest with each other.
Also have a solid relationship, understand why you are doing it and why she is doing it.
Ditch any notion that it's about you, coz once they are in the swing of things last thing they will think about is you.
Leave jealously and ego behind because it's no place for insecurity.
Realise that you are not the only man who can satisfy your wife sexually but work on being the only one she needs emotionally.
Be true to yourselves and don't lie about anything.
A good place to start is tell her your on a swinging site, if she freaks out and kicks you out then maybe this lifestyle is not for you.
Personally I would ditch this account, talk to her, find out what she wants rather than what you want.
And work together as a couple.
Then suggest some hung stud fucks the shit out of her while you are at work and test her reaction.
Sorry if this sounds sarcastic but honestly it's got to be about both of you and if you can't be honest then you will falter at the first hurdle.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well for starters you need to be 100%honest with each other.
Also have a solid relationship, understand why you are doing it and why she is doing it.
Ditch any notion that it's about you, coz once they are in the swing of things last thing they will think about is you.
Leave jealously and ego behind because it's no place for insecurity.
Realise that you are not the only man who can satisfy your wife sexually but work on being the only one she needs emotionally.
Be true to yourselves and don't lie about anything.
A good place to start is tell her your on a swinging site, if she freaks out and kicks you out then maybe this lifestyle is not for you.
Personally I would ditch this account, talk to her, find out what she wants rather than what you want.
And work together as a couple.
Then suggest some hung stud fucks the shit out of her while you are at work and test her reaction.
Sorry if this sounds sarcastic but honestly it's got to be about both of you and if you can't be honest then you will falter at the first hurdle.
Good luck "
Thanks, all good advice from you all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've always loved it. Always the same male but we've played together, them alone me at work, us first and then them, them together me on phone etc.
Sent them away to park inn west brom and he fucked her all night long.
Totally addicted. Wind him up often by inviting him around whilst he's at work.
Only disappointment is that he's shit at pics and they don't take the initiative enough - leave it for me to organise.
I do have 2 films of them fucking - my 'mummy porn' - always my choice of what to watch if she doesn't want sex !"
Great profile pics btw |
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"I've always loved it. Always the same male but we've played together, them alone me at work, us first and then them, them together me on phone etc.
Sent them away to park inn west brom and he fucked her all night long.
Totally addicted. Wind him up often by inviting him around whilst he's at work.
Only disappointment is that he's shit at pics and they don't take the initiative enough - leave it for me to organise.
I do have 2 films of them fucking - my 'mummy porn' - always my choice of what to watch if she doesn't want sex !
Great profile pics btw"
Thanks - just taken a peek and fabbed some of yours to. Good profile ... |
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