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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I guess it had to happen one day! Whilst 'surfing' through the site we recognised my wifes cousin and her partner (some ten years younger than us). I sent a message saying not to worry, but they havent been on here since! (only a few days) Has anybody else had a similar experience and how did you deal with it?
Mike 7 Gee |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm sure there are many pictures you wouldnt want a family member to see. thats why we dont put 'facepics' on here
We cant be recognised by our pics ( but we can by our profile!)
mike & Gee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think what Filthsdc mean is that if you wrote to them from your profile, your cousins will clearly know that its you, so any photos on your profile is we assume you,...and that not something that they might want to see
Our kids and their spouces know what we do, and are great about it, but I wouldnt want them seeing a photo of us like that if its at all possible to avoid it
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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My daughter's standard line to hearing we are going out is.....
"Which poor bloke are you going to break this time?"
Who cares if your friends or family know what you do. It's none of their business and if they don't like it....... so what? It's not your problem if they are anally retentive halfwits! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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not hugely defensive at all .the question i asked was whether anybody else had had similar experience and how did they deal with it. didnt expect to have to justify the pictures we put on the site!
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nobody has asked you to justify anything. Between your mail on here and your private email to us you seem somewhat preturbed that we've said 'maybe your cousin dosn't want to see your cock n mimsy pics.'
Quite frankly we find it odd you'd contact them with shots like which they are then inevitably going to see but thats your call. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well it must have happened many, many times, though I am not sure if I would have sent them a message, we might well have talked about it.
Our grown up kids and their partners often talk to us about our swinging, and we dont think anything of it,.. but if we saw their profile on this site, we would asked them nicely to find another...[lol we were here first], we wouldnt send them a message.
To the best of our knowledge they are not swingers.
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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As many on here know, I attend Derby University.
One day 2 years ago I was standing outside having a crafty fag when all I heard was............
Madchickkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk!
Low and behold 5 swingers who I knew from another site ran up to me, threw their arms around me, dragged me off for a drink in the spewdent union bar and introduced me to another load of swingers.
FFS...... it's like swinger central in there.
One of the exam adjudicators is someone we see at Chams quite alot. One of the Maintenance men is a dear frind from another site. One of the tutors (not my area) is a well known swinger within the Derby/Midlands area and a class I sat in once had more swingers than Vanilla's!
So yes...... it does happen to quite a few.
Never be suprised at who swings........ |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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It's funnier when walking round Ann Summers and spotting someone wandering round, looking bored, with their other half. We go to say hi...... and stop.... realising that the woman they are with is NOT the person they take to the club or who is on their profile.
One day, I will put my foot in it!
So for future reference........ ooopppssss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All my family some of my friends know i am about on the scene, and if i was to see any friends or family that are close to me on here i would choose to ignore. what is the point in contacting them?
I did start chatting to a guy on AFF a few months ago, didnt say exactally which town we where both from, but the flirting and banter was perfect for a meet in the nr future. As the days went by we decided to do cam, all excited and looking forward to seeing him. He switched cam on. I think it took about 30 secs to sink in who it was, i paniced and switched the cam off...it was only a guy who lived in my home town who i had grown up with, but not seen him for many years.
The feeling of seeing sumone you know was exciting yet worrying!
Anyways we kept in touch and eventually met and he was one hell of shag!
And we also both chatted and agreed about descretion! and that is how it has stayed and will remain to.
I have always said i would never play on my own doorstep, so to say. but well worth it when u need a service and they only 5 mins away |
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we have not seen any of our family on the site yet but did run into one of my cousins teachers at a socail and at one of are social a cpl came and her nephew was working the door and her daughter was down stair in the nite club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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mine is not exactly the same experiance,, but what a small world believe it or not the bloke who works in barclays bank told me as he was handing over my cash he had seen my pics on here and also a bloke in tesco im not fussed what goes on in my home has no bearing on other ppls lives ..happy swinging folks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We were in the local on New Years Eve and another local couple came up and said they'd seen us on the site,lol.We just had a laugh about it,its no big deal.Trace has been at work in the gym and a guy or two has come up and said "nice pix on Fab",to which she just says thanks.We've also had mail from ppl who've seen us out shopping.
Its great to be "out",we'd hate to live life just waiting for the hammer to fall.
Trace & Ric
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By (user no longer on site)
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We run a small business... Many times we have spotted customers who are or were on sites and more often than not they say hello etc.. Why not!!
We don't actively tell people what we do.. but if someone shows genuine interest or sort of says 'we know what your doing' we don't deny or hide it lol.. Plays right into their hands eh.
Were far from ashamed anyways... Never had so much fun....
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