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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Single men are often dismayed at the lack of interest in them,..one possible way to overcome this is to do a good profile.
Your profile is your sexual C.V., because there are so many of you out there, you have to be prepared to sell yourself better than the next guy, no one liners will win you fair maidens.
Think about what you are looking for and write about it, dont just say, `I am after anything`, women will more than likely think you are desperate, tell them what you are looking for slim, BBW, long hair, tall, short.
Tell them what you are willing to do for them, this is not just about you, if you want to meet socialy first, say so, if you dont and want to get right to it, then say that,
Tell people about yourself, your likes, your dislikes how you enjoy sex, what your preferences are, put a little humour into it,.. make a women smile and you might be half way there.
A photo speaks more than words, but you will be suprised how many women are not interested in cock shots,...they know what they look like, most will either want to see your face if you are able to do that, if not, then put some thought into other kind of shots, take a photo in your bathroom mirror, the flash will hide your face, a photo of your back, give people some idea of your general shape, remember your cameras have timers, so use them
Be honest, dont have photos on your profile that are ten years old, word will get around and you will be no-where fast.
...and last but not least, be patient, it will not always happen over night, dont get down hearted, just keep trying
If you find someone who wants to meet, be sure to get there in good time, a no show [without good reason] will do the same as dishonesty
...and good luck
Stuart and Allison |
i would like to add one more thing.
I have recently and still carrying on, had an unpleasurable experience with some guy stalking me, but no concrete evidence to take it any further, he being clever about it.
So now i will not accept pics as proof of identity,and will not show myself to anyone unless i see who is at the other end of comp, so PLEASE single guys get a web cam as most ladies and im sure most couples would like to see before we try.(i do have cam)
Wondering if anyone else agrees with me? 
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As a result we find ourselves being so very careful, and always looking for the catch when it comes to guys!
Sadly it is fair to say that the idiots on these sites do make it hard for the genuine ones..