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To put matters into perspective, when it relates to Single Males trying to get responses, in general terms, it takes ages for guys to achieve a reply.
That's because as there are likely to be 1000's all seeking ladies but the fact you have a specific request or "like" built in, you are narrowing the field down!
Your profile needs to be just like a CV you'd present for a Job. State what you can bring to a meet and what you would expect in turn.
You'd best try, as suggested already, attending a club and in particular, look for Fetish Nights being held as some clubs will hold periodic meets for both newcomers and established followers, but crucially, a club is a safe environment from which to start.
Look out too for Socials as they can be a route within which to meet others and build from there.
I've been on FAB for 15 years, so know the score for single guys. It takes time, you'll need patience in abundance, with added perseverance and a thick skin dealing with the zero answers.
Your several weeks on here, makes you a mere beginner but any success won't happen quickly. Start small and build up from there.
It can work, but only if you put in the effort as the Ladies get swamped with 100's of messages, so hold the cards and can be picky!
Good luck.
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"To put matters into perspective, when it relates to Single Males trying to get responses, in general terms, it takes ages for guys to achieve a reply.
That's because as there are likely to be 1000's all seeking ladies but the fact you have a specific request or "like" built in, you are narrowing the field down!
Your profile needs to be just like a CV you'd present for a Job. State what you can bring to a meet and what you would expect in turn.
You'd best try, as suggested already, attending a club and in particular, look for Fetish Nights being held as some clubs will hold periodic meets for both newcomers and established followers, but crucially, a club is a safe environment from which to start.
Look out too for Socials as they can be a route within which to meet others and build from there.
I've been on FAB for 15 years, so know the score for single guys. It takes time, you'll need patience in abundance, with added perseverance and a thick skin dealing with the zero answers.
Your several weeks on here, makes you a mere beginner but any success won't happen quickly. Start small and build up from there.
It can work, but only if you put in the effort as the Ladies get swamped with 100's of messages, so hold the cards and can be picky!
Good luck.
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Pretty much this, the site isn’t full of women waiting for ‘you’ in particular but send a decent and genuine message and you will eventually find some women who are interested. The fact your bio is very particular is going to really reduce your chances so it will take longer but engage in the community forums, become part of the site and go to socials etc and you will find what you’re looking for.
Maybe consider widening the bio scope, talk about what else you like and pics of other things than boots but mention it as part of your overall profile. |
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"Westcorts ire , cheaper in the end game and cuts out the power tripping bullshit on here, your welcome  "
I’d agree on the “power tripping bullshit” part, and those ladies are certainly easier to meet lol, but not cheaper…..
Someone above mentioned about lowering expectations OP. I would agree with this. Fab can be fun, depending on who/what you are looking for. But it isn’t instant ‘success’, especially when you are looking for something quite niche! Look for fetish events at swinger clubs for this, or there’s a particular website caters for a life of fetish….. |
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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS 24 hours ago
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"Why not start a kinky boots post on the forum?"
This is the best advice OP. For now stick with what you want and a forum post like that will get people with a similar interested. It may take a while and several posts my be needed but does seem the best way forward for now. And, by the way, great boots in your pictures. |
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By *enelope2UWoman 16 hours ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
Minus the boots I think the profile is good can't tell if you Cross dress, are fab straight, or, you're into TVs with the boots.
Otherwise I like the profile.
The whole knows you might surprise yourself bit, I'd ditch
As well as the hotel bit unless you want the Scorts and Dug users on here to rob you in a hotel room. |
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By *obdukesMan 11 hours ago
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"Hi, I've been on the site a while and struggle to get any replies, any tips would be appreciated, thanks."
Yep try the catfish approach! I’ve gone that route but doesn’t end well ! But works for a reply  |
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Youve checked looking for couples, so if you're messaging couples I'm just going to respectfully point out that what you actually say in your profile seems that you are more geared towards meeting single women, which is something that puts us off single men when they message us. |
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Personally we quite like your profile.
Your pictures are good,but you don't need 2 pics of your cock.
Try putting one on in nice boxers.
You have narrowed your demographic with your user name.
Personally we would have mentioned the boot fetish in your bio.
But mentioning that it is something that really interests you,but it's not the only thing too.
But saying that there is a huge difference in what people are looking for and want out of this site.
So what works for some doesn't work for others.just got to find what works for you.
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"Youve checked looking for couples, so if you're messaging couples I'm just going to respectfully point out that what you actually say in your profile seems that you are more geared towards meeting single women, which is something that puts us off single men when they message us. "
Agree with this too. |
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