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"How am i supposed to know what a random internet stranger finds interesting? " By putting your own, and them reading it and finding it either similar or interesting to want to indulge further | |||
"How am i supposed to know what a random internet stranger finds interesting? " It's a conundrum for sure. I think they might mean be personable. It always sounds like a command to me "Be interesting!"  | |||
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"Well for me it just means can they think on their feet and stand out... I had someone send a message saying... Life is a highway Well, I wanna ride it all night long (whoo!) and If you're goin' my way... finish the verse To meet that was interesting because I actually know the song and at first glance it looks like the typical fab message and we ended up chatting exchanging song lyrics and probably both playing each others songs.. I value effort like that.. makes me instantly think of the effort they'd do sexually " That's the problem though. That's what's interesting to you. The next woman might just see that as a cheesy pick up line (not bashing the line, just speaking generally). Trust me, if you girls had to do the work, you'd realise how much hoop jumping the average man has to do just to get a response in here. Personally (and this is just me), I've given up with trying to meet on Fab. Women get all the attention and have all the options. And yes, I'm aware many of the options are not what you want but at least you have them. Its not a critisism, its just how it works. You'll get loads of messages. I get barely any..the ones that stand out..stand out where as a simple hello would get a response from me. As such i preffer socials and clubs. That's where I get attention. All I have to do is keep it..and I do. Socially that is! Not claiming I'm a sex God that will rock a woman's world! But maybe I am..who knows   | |||
"When people in their profile say in the bio say something interesting. I'm trying to figure out what do they expect lol. Ps feel free in this to say something interesting lol" Ask questions, say things about yourself, pick up something from their profile that might start a conversation. As a single guy, how often each day are you asked "how's you?" or "what you up to?". Guessing an average of just above zero. Now imagine being asked the same thing twenty times each day.... (Bry) | |||
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"When people in their profile say in the bio say something interesting. I'm trying to figure out what do they expect lol. Ps feel free in this to say something interesting lol" Generally it means they want something different to the 83 hey how are yous already clogging up their inbox. What that is depends on the person. If there's no clues in the profile text and there's nothing you actually want to say to them, just don't message them 💜 | |||
"Well for me it just means can they think on their feet and stand out... I had someone send a message saying... Life is a highway Well, I wanna ride it all night long (whoo!) and If you're goin' my way... finish the verse To meet that was interesting because I actually know the song and at first glance it looks like the typical fab message and we ended up chatting exchanging song lyrics and probably both playing each others songs.. I value effort like that.. makes me instantly think of the effort they'd do sexually That's the problem though. That's what's interesting to you. The next woman might just see that as a cheesy pick up line (not bashing the line, just speaking generally). Trust me, if you girls had to do the work, you'd realise how much hoop jumping the average man has to do just to get a response in here. Personally (and this is just me), I've given up with trying to meet on Fab. Women get all the attention and have all the options. And yes, I'm aware many of the options are not what you want but at least you have them. Its not a critisism, its just how it works. You'll get loads of messages. I get barely any..the ones that stand out..stand out where as a simple hello would get a response from me. As such i preffer socials and clubs. That's where I get attention. All I have to do is keep it..and I do. Socially that is! Not claiming I'm a sex God that will rock a woman's world! But maybe I am..who knows "That's my EXACT point if he's trying that on EVERYONE then he's already lost. It's just one me and he us just one guy..if he can't take the effort to do something specific to the individual in that situation he's not my type and I'm not his.. if I want a copy and paste I have toys for that and can reorder the exact model and carry on | |||
"When people in their profile say in the bio say something interesting. I'm trying to figure out what do they expect lol. Ps feel free in this to say something interesting lol Generally it means they want something different to the 83 hey how are yous already clogging up their inbox. What that is depends on the person. If there's no clues in the profile text and there's nothing you actually want to say to them, just don't message them 💜" Common sense like that is lost..most men want to be women or pursue other men bold enough to pretend to be women..neither are my type | |||
"Well for me it just means can they think on their feet and stand out... I had someone send a message saying... Life is a highway Well, I wanna ride it all night long (whoo!) and If you're goin' my way... finish the verse To meet that was interesting because I actually know the song and at first glance it looks like the typical fab message and we ended up chatting exchanging song lyrics and probably both playing each others songs.. I value effort like that.. makes me instantly think of the effort they'd do sexually That's the problem though. That's what's interesting to you. The next woman might just see that as a cheesy pick up line (not bashing the line, just speaking generally). Trust me, if you girls had to do the work, you'd realise how much hoop jumping the average man has to do just to get a response in here. Personally (and this is just me), I've given up with trying to meet on Fab. Women get all the attention and have all the options. And yes, I'm aware many of the options are not what you want but at least you have them. Its not a criticism, its just how it works. You'll get loads of messages. I get barely any..the ones that stand out..stand out where as a simple hello would get a response from me. As such i prefer socials and clubs. That's where I get attention. All I have to do is keep it..and I do. Socially that is! Not claiming I'm a sex God that will rock a woman's world! But maybe I am..who knows
That's my EXACT point if he's trying that on EVERYONE then he's already lost. It's just one me and he us just one guy..if he can't take the effort to do something specific to the individual in that situation he's not my type and I'm not his.. if I want a copy and paste I have toys for that and can reorder the exact model and carry on "No..I think you've missed the point. You dont see it from the other side! I'm just going to be a bit blunt. It's not personal, I'm just speaking generalisticly. YOU (as a woman) want special princess treatment. YOU want that special message that going to tickle you pink. And so does just about every other woman on here. Now me, as a man, already knows you're getting lots of messages. But I also know, dosnt matter what I write (and belive me, I did put effort in. I'm not a "hi how are you" or "copy paste" type of guy! And that is where the math comes in. It's not "just one girl and just one boy"situation. It's one girl and 100 men trying to get her attention on here! You will get how many messages a day? 50? 100? Men dont get that. I don't get any messages off women unless we met at a club or social. So on here....YOU get to dictate everything on how you are approached. And for you that means you want every single man to write you a "interesting unique message" because thats how it works on here. You can do that! But no matter how many "interesting messages" you get, you still get to pick! But that isn't really how it works. Now let's be honest. I could write you an interesting message, one you could find VERY appealing. For example: "Are you a magician? Because whenever I look at you, everyone else disappears. Should rehearse a disappearing act together"? or "If you were a song, you’d be the best track on the album. I think we should record a duet? What would you like to sing about"? BUT...you may take one look at my picture and think...not a chance! On the flip side... You could get a "hi, how are you" message (boring according to you) but you can guarantee if the guy attached a picture and he looked like Ryan Reynolds (or whatever you find attractive) and you wouldn't think twice about replying. Look, I'm not bashing. I'm just telling you the truth! I know how it works, I know how you ladies are and there's a million and one social studies on the subject. BUT...we do the whole real life thing! Meet in a club orin a bar. You flash me a smile so I come up and say hello. I start a polite conversation. I read the room and your responses. I make you laugh, we flirt, pheromones play into it the tension builds.. Next thing we know, I've got you up against the wall and you're pulling my shirt off. OR You've shown no interest in talking to me and I've walked away! This is why I don't play the online game. It's stacked in your favour, not mine! It's a more level playing field in the real world. And just to address another thing: " Common sense like that is lost..most men want to be women or pursue other men bold enough to pretend to be women..neither are my type " No, most men don't want to be women! They're just sick of the games, especially ones online. I know you women have your complaints about men and the online behaviour of some of them (and I'm not detracting from those complaints, nor am I saying they're not valid). But single men (I'm not one of them), the vast majority are completely invisible to women online when it comes to mating and dating. And they're aware of it now! It's why the dating apps are falling apart. Yeah..this isnt a dating app and I know that but there's overlap. As I said, "Women get all the attention and have all the options" online and well more and more men are putting in less and less effort and this is a very real thing thats happening in society now. | |||
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