"How am i supposed to know what a random internet stranger finds interesting? "
It's a conundrum for sure.
I think they might mean be personable.
It always sounds like a command to me
"Be interesting!"  |
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I don't tend to send that many messages and when I do it's usually because there's something on the profile that's caught my eye and I can talk about it.
But I've seen a few profiles that have "if you going to message write something interesting" Yet that's all they have got in their bio! |
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Well for me it just means can they think on their feet and stand out...
I had someone send a message saying...
Life is a highway
Well, I wanna ride it all night long (whoo!) and
If you're goin' my way...
finish the verse
To meet that was interesting because I actually know the song and at first glance it looks like the typical fab message and we ended up chatting exchanging song lyrics and probably both playing each others songs.. I value effort like that.. makes me instantly think of the effort they'd do sexually |
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"Well for me it just means can they think on their feet and stand out...
I had someone send a message saying...
Life is a highway
Well, I wanna ride it all night long (whoo!) and
If you're goin' my way...
finish the verse
To meet that was interesting because I actually know the song and at first glance it looks like the typical fab message and we ended up chatting exchanging song lyrics and probably both playing each others songs.. I value effort like that.. makes me instantly think of the effort they'd do sexually "
That's the problem though.
That's what's interesting to you. The next woman might just see that as a cheesy pick up line (not bashing the line, just speaking generally).
Trust me, if you girls had to do the work, you'd realise how much hoop jumping the average man has to do just to get a response in here.
Personally (and this is just me), I've given up with trying to meet on Fab. Women get all the attention and have all the options. And yes, I'm aware many of the options are not what you want but at least you have them. Its not a critisism, its just how it works. You'll get loads of messages. I get barely any..the ones that stand out..stand out where as a simple hello would get a response from me.
As such i preffer socials and clubs. That's where I get attention. All I have to do is keep it..and I do. Socially that is! Not claiming I'm a sex God that will rock a woman's world! But maybe I am..who knows   |
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By *harAndBryCouple 59 minutes ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"When people in their profile say in the bio say something interesting. I'm trying to figure out what do they expect lol.
Ps feel free in this to say something interesting lol"
Ask questions, say things about yourself, pick up something from their profile that might start a conversation.
As a single guy, how often each day are you asked "how's you?" or "what you up to?". Guessing an average of just above zero. Now imagine being asked the same thing twenty times each day....
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I would take it to mean the following.....
Please take a few minutes to write something I can actually draw some knowledge about you from. What aspects of swinging are you interested in? What can you offer? What 'exactly' are you looking for. Is there anything unique about you which people might gravitate towards?
OR
In layman's terms.... if you're profile basically says 'always horny, message me to find out more', you're not what a would consider as compatible.
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