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Does anyone talk/message on here?
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By *WANDTGCouple 3 weeks ago
Borough of Greenwich |
We chat with people on here and if we decide to do a social transfer the chat to another means. We've had a few coffees with people and still keep in touch via wattsapp. Depends if you click or have something in common. |
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Of course they do, but they can't chat with everyone.
I probably get 4 or 5 messages per day asking do I want to chat. How do I chat with those people, and the 4 or 5 from the previous day, and the day before that, etc, etc? A person can only spread themselves so thinly.
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Yup have had some lovely conversations with people on here via messages. Its not always easy to get noticed when messaging women though as they often get bombarded with messages from guys so your messages can get lost in the delug. |
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By *oxy jWoman 3 weeks ago
taunton somerset |
im always talking to people that ive met or want to meet all the time i dont both with those ive no interest in .. im here to meet for real not to be a wank bank for guys...
also you have to remember zillions of guys seeking the few that means alot wont get a sniff at all |
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"Hi I'm just wondering if anybody ever talks in here? I don't mean in chat rooms etc I mean on message so they can get to know each other?"
Yes. I have had some great advice on various matters that I put into practice that worked. I was online company for a very bored security guard working from New Year’s Eve to New Year’s Day nearly a year ago. Chatted to a stunt man who told me about the stunts he did on Hot Fuzz. I have connected up people with information that they needed. Not everything on here has been about getting someone or some people into bed.
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We have chatted on here. Got some really good advice and contacts in the French forum when we bought a holiday cottage there. Ended up locating an electrician to re-wire the place via a Fab contact.
We actually find that most guys (and its nearly always guys) that contact us saying they want to chat dint really want to chat. They start out all chatty but soon lose interest when we say we aren't going to meet them right away.
In short they don't really want to chat they want to see more pics or get a meet. |
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"It just seems like everyone who i message either deletes or ignores 🤔"
Maybe they just aren't interested in you? Have you checked that their profiles match up with what you're looking for and vice versa before you message? |
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Yes people chat.
However, women are absolutely innundated - so you may end up frustrated, with your message going unread for months (or completely).
It's not about rejection because we all have to suck that up - it's more about the amount of men blowing up women's inboxes.
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"Yes people chat.
However, women are absolutely innundated - so you may end up frustrated, with your message going unread for months (or completely).
It's not about rejection because we all have to suck that up - it's more about the amount of men blowing up women's inboxes.
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I very rarely message single women. Couples I message the most.
To meet single women it's best going to a club. Well clubs are always much better to meet anyone.  |
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I rather have a bit of a chat with someone first, get to know what they're into, sexual health etc. See if there are any red flags before meeting.
Although I've had many "want a BJ?" Messages where they're just expecting me to go "yes" and leave the house straight away lol. |
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"Are there any fake profiles on here that anyone knows of?
Probably some, just report them if you come across them. Naming and shaming is against site rules. "
How would I know, im only asking because recently there has been alot of new profiles but no picture and interested in everything, and no description 🤔 |
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It all depends what you are looking for.
We tend to politely refuse chat requests unless we are planning a meet as we can't see the point in just chatting to random folks who have no intention of meeting, much prefer chatting at swingers socials or 121.
It's each to their own but we have plenty of vanilla friends for chatting we use sites like FAB for swinging.
Good luck whatever it is you are searching for.
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"I rather have a bit of a chat with someone first, get to know what they're into, sexual health etc. See if there are any red flags before meeting.
Although I've had many "want a BJ?" Messages where they're just expecting me to go "yes" and leave the house straight away lol."
Had the check because that's usually what women get sent and do..... refreshing to hear a man with standards |
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"I rather have a bit of a chat with someone first, get to know what they're into, sexual health etc. See if there are any red flags before meeting.
Although I've had many "want a BJ?" Messages where they're just expecting me to go "yes" and leave the house straight away lol.
Had the check because that's usually what women get sent and do..... refreshing to hear a man with standards "
I've made it clear on my profile to everyone that I'm not desperate to meet anyone from here. I would much rather quality over quantity so when it comes to that we definitely need to have some kind of standards lol |
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I talk to loads of people who message me.