Just had a guy around for some fun someone we've previously met but my Mrs asked him to stop & refused anal to which he replied it's fine & tried to continue. Much to her discomfort tried again. No she said & he refused to comply. She's now being comforted by myself as she can't stop crying. No repeat No |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Jeez.. isnt it technically ra pe if you said no and they carry on. Shouldnt matter the circumstances or setting"
It's more than technically
If someone say's no and the other person continues that IS ra pe, unequivocally |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I appreciate it's not easy, but please consider making this a police matter. Also, please report on here.
This is not okay. What an absolute scum bag."
It is very easy it is at least sexual assault depends if penetrated anally then far more than assault |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Just had a guy around for some fun someone we've previously met but my Mrs asked him to stop & refused anal to which he replied it's fine & tried to continue. Much to her discomfort tried again. No she said & he refused to comply. She's now being comforted by myself as she can't stop crying. No repeat No"
This is appropriate I feel for you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
And why didn't you stop it for her!
Why didn't you take it serious to do something about it consoling is BS!!
Did you not hear or believe what she said?
Once she told you as her husband this site would have been the last place to have gone. Either he'd be at the police or I'd be at the police for battering him in!!!
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"And why didn't you stop it for her!
Why didn't you take it serious to do something about it consoling is BS!!
Did you not hear or believe what she said?
Once she told you as her husband this site would have been the last place to have gone. Either he'd be at the police or I'd be at the police for battering him in!!!
"
Let’s not blame the victims here please. I am sure there are reasons for their perceived “inaction” but this is not relevant or helpful. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Being upset isn't a valid reason to not go to the police.
If ive read rightly your wife was r*ped. You wrote she said no and he didn't 'comply'.
Maybe that should have been the first thing instead of writing here and writing your status which shouldn't include the word 'gentle'
I hope that you do the Right thing with of you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Being upset isn't a valid reason to not go to the police.
If ive read rightly your wife was r*ped. You wrote she said no and he didn't 'comply'.
Maybe that should have been the first thing instead of writing here and writing your status which shouldn't include the word 'gentle'
I hope that you do the Right thing both of you"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
In fairness, the OP hasn't said how the guy was removed, we can only assume that this meet didn’t exactly end smoothly and if the police are now investigating it’s probably wise to not mention any violent assault on an Internet forum. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"And why didn't you stop it for her!
Why didn't you take it serious to do something about it consoling is BS!!
Did you not hear or believe what she said?
Once she told you as her husband this site would have been the last place to have gone. Either he'd be at the police or I'd be at the police for battering him in!!!
"
I have interpreted this as the Mrs met him on her own on this occasion. But I could be wrong. I hope the Mrs is ok. Being violated in this way is absolutely awful and please report him to the police. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By *WB85Man 11 minutes ago
Staffordshire |
Please make sure you take all the necessary steps to deal with this situation correctly.
It's honestly our biggest fear as a couple that do this lifestyle.
I do hope your partner is OK. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Just had a guy around for some fun someone we've previously met but my Mrs asked him to stop & refused anal to which he replied it's fine & tried to continue. Much to her discomfort tried again. No she said & he refused to comply. She's now being comforted by myself as she can't stop crying. No repeat No"
Absolutely disgusting.
That is surely attempted r ape when she clearly told him No.
Just no respect or manners at all.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
