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James here. I get really hard and last ages, I can go on as long as needed tbh although coming can be an issue unless I get really turned on.
I have just read a profile that said they like their meets to be an hour long, that is way too short for me!
We recently had a foursome, it was brilliant but suddenly ended after an hour and a half for transport reasons, and left me thinking I want far more.
For me two hours plus fucking is about right with a swapping partner, too long for most? |
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"James here. I get really hard and last ages, I can go on as long as needed tbh although coming can be an issue unless I get really turned on.
I have just read a profile that said they like their meets to be an hour long, that is way too short for me!
We recently had a foursome, it was brilliant but suddenly ended after an hour and a half for transport reasons, and left me thinking I want far more.
For me two hours plus fucking is about right with a swapping partner, too long for most?"
Do you stop for a tea break? |
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"James here. I get really hard and last ages, I can go on as long as needed tbh although coming can be an issue unless I get really turned on.
I have just read a profile that said they like their meets to be an hour long, that is way too short for me!
We recently had a foursome, it was brilliant but suddenly ended after an hour and a half for transport reasons, and left me thinking I want far more.
For me two hours plus fucking is about right with a swapping partner, too long for most?
Do you stop for a tea break?"
That is a brilliant idea! And a custard cream. |
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OP, if you're a "one-shot wonder", and the play is over for you once you've cum, I could understand you wanting to last as long as possible. However, from the point of view of a woman, I don't want to be fucked for hours. My hips would give up first before my pussy, most likely, even with changing positions. Could you not mix fucking with foreplay? Some fingering, some licking etc? |
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"How do you train to last longer?
Won’t lie
If Foreplsy involved I could prob just last to an hour but direct fucking no where near that long
What’s the trick "
For me, if I want to prolong, the secret is to just pause slightly when I first feel myself about to cum - it is probably only a second or two but if I can stop that initial urge then I am good to go for ages. |
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By *oxy jWoman 5 days ago
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very very rare any of my meets are under 2 hrs and alot of them are even longer but then when exchanging message i do tend to make sure that i get rid of those who just want a quick pump minimum is 2 hours unless im looking for a quicky and thats not often
and its not about how quick a guy comes as long as he can go again and even better if again and again ..
its just about finding the right people everytime |
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"and its not about how quick a guy comes as long as he can go again and even better if again and again .."
Totally this.
I like a guy to cum and I don't like being fucked for an age as... yeah hips, knees etc.
But the ability to not run away after he's cum, to stick around and then go again?
Fucking golden.
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"James here. I get really hard and last ages, I can go on as long as needed tbh although coming can be an issue unless I get really turned on.
I have just read a profile that said they like their meets to be an hour long, that is way too short for me!
We recently had a foursome, it was brilliant but suddenly ended after an hour and a half for transport reasons, and left me thinking I want far more.
For me two hours plus fucking is about right with a swapping partner, too long for most?"
2+ hours of actual PIV? No thanks |
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"A good few hours,but with no time limit really.
Lots of stops and chilling / chatting in-between activities  
- this for us too, its all part of the sharing experience-"
See 2 hour session of this is perfect
If it’s 2 hours of pumping then defo not haha
I’d gladly edge chat and edge etc
No issues with that
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Meets should last several hours to facilitate deep connection, relaxation, and meaningful exploration, allowing all to fully immerse themselves in the experience. Much better than a quick fuck next to the bins however everything has its place. |
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By *oxy jWoman 3 days ago
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the worse meets are those mainly penetration then dress and off they go thinking they've pleased you lol they dont get a second chance ..
ive had meets that as a meet has lasted all weekend had some longer and the sex is constant even when stopping for breaks meals and even a rest sex it for me about the whole package yes plenty of good fucking but lots of fingers mouth toys i love to please guys so thats taking them to those highs more than once and they return the favor |
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I'm exactly the same OP, I can unfortunately go for hours, it's a curse sometimes. When we play we like long sessions as the Mrs doesn't mind it, but sometimes meets are cut short after the other guy has finished, and I'm like...... I'm still good to go!
Mr F. |
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This thread reminds me why I'm reluctant to do private meets. In a club probably play lasts between 15mins to 35 at tops.. and after no awkward bit about how long you wait before you leave.
Perhaps a little different if you do private club play but majority of ours are public group play..
Also I've found in private meets cuddles are often a thing afterwards.. thankfully at clubs this doesn't really happen..
Cali x |
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We can see why some people might want a quick chat, sex then goodbye.
For us the majority of our meetings have been plenty of chat, drinks, sex, more chat, possibly meal or bar, more sex. Many of our meetings have been 3-6 hours. |
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