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Is there a caring soft Domme dynamic like a mommy Domme but without the mommy part
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"It absolutely does exist. There are lots of different dynamics but they are as individual as as people and of course it's quite difficult to find your exact match. But they definitely do exist."
That's incredibly refreshing to learn, well I guess the only course is to continue to try make connections on here thankyouuuu |
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"Gentle femdom, yes, it does exist."
Femdom alone seems very rare, the none professional kind that is, lifestyle Domme I suppose, but knowing that there are women out there like this is very refreshing, now I just need to figure out how to bump onto maybe one two or ten thousand of them, in the hopes one chooses me 😅 |
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"Gentle femdom, yes, it does exist.
Femdom alone seems very rare, the none professional kind that is, lifestyle Domme I suppose, but knowing that there are women out there like this is very refreshing, now I just need to figure out how to bump onto maybe one two or ten thousand of them, in the hopes one chooses me 😅"
I have no experience in that area but from what I’ve seen on here it’s usually advised to attend specific kink events and take it from there.
Good luck OP |
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"Gentle femdom, yes, it does exist.
Femdom alone seems very rare, the none professional kind that is, lifestyle Domme I suppose, but knowing that there are women out there like this is very refreshing, now I just need to figure out how to bump onto maybe one two or ten thousand of them, in the hopes one chooses me 😅
I have no experience in that area but from what I’ve seen on here it’s usually advised to attend specific kink events and take it from there.
Good luck OP "
I do just need to bite the bullet and attend an event haha thankyouu xx |
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"Also a well known club in the Wirral does specific fem Dom events "
I have absolutely no ability to utilize that site haha everyone is from antarctica and doesn't respond, I think I just don't seem like fun to talk with maybe 😅 maybe I give off basic bitch vibes |
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Yes it exists, every dynamic is unique.
Circus Maximus parties at Celestial Studios in Shardlow are good to attend to get to know people, but there are many more!
Someone else in one of the previous comments mentioned another site... It's much better than here for kink.
It also has a great events section on there to look for events and socials (munches) |
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By *JohnMan 1 week ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
"I have absolutely no ability to utilize that site haha everyone is from antarctica and doesn't respond"
There's more to the site than browsing profiles and sending messages. Find a munch near you, go there, and meet people in person. Your initial goal is not to find the one person you think you're looking for, but to build yourself a social network. People get a lot friendlier once your local community sees you as a decent person rather than yet another random anonymous creep.
I'm not saying that you are a creep. It's just that there's a number of dangerous people prowling around, and people quickly learn to be cautious. |
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By *elkieWoman 1 week ago
Durham |
"Also a well known club in the Wirral does specific fem Dom events
I have absolutely no ability to utilize that site haha everyone is from antarctica and doesn't respond, I think I just don't seem like fun to talk with maybe 😅 maybe I give off basic bitch vibes "
Don’t message people. Join groups aimed at submissive men and the women who love them - and others with similar names. Be funny and respectful. Go to events and be funny and respectful. Ask dominant women out for coffee and be funny and respectful. Build a connection. Ask for play. Go on dates with dominant women. Kink scene is small and people talk. If you have a reputation as a submissive gentleman any mistress would be proud to have accompanying her, you’ll have a LOT of opportunities.
Also, follow dominant women and interact with their profiles in a respectful fashion. I cannot stress enough the need for respect. |
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I think first stage is to get off trying to put a square into a circle.. being in a true lifestyle it's chemistry and person... If you're just looking at fucking and having no connection then no caring done requires a personality and that personality knowing yours to push you provoke you tease and engage you...
But by all means keep trying to find a person to fuck without wanting a connection and you'll definitely miss out on most other sexual experiences. |
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"Also a well known club in the Wirral does specific fem Dom events
I have absolutely no ability to utilize that site haha everyone is from antarctica and doesn't respond, I think I just don't seem like fun to talk with maybe 😅 maybe I give off basic bitch vibes
Don’t message people. Join groups aimed at submissive men and the women who love them - and others with similar names. Be funny and respectful. Go to events and be funny and respectful. Ask dominant women out for coffee and be funny and respectful. Build a connection. Ask for play. Go on dates with dominant women. Kink scene is small and people talk. If you have a reputation as a submissive gentleman any mistress would be proud to have accompanying her, you’ll have a LOT of opportunities.
Also, follow dominant women and interact with their profiles in a respectful fashion. I cannot stress enough the need for respect. "
This is possibly one of the most comprehensive answers I have received thank you deeply for your help x |
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"I have absolutely no ability to utilize that site haha everyone is from antarctica and doesn't respond
There's more to the site than browsing profiles and sending messages. Find a munch near you, go there, and meet people in person. Your initial goal is not to find the one person you think you're looking for, but to build yourself a social network. People get a lot friendlier once your local community sees you as a decent person rather than yet another random anonymous creep.
I'm not saying that you are a creep. It's just that there's a number of dangerous people prowling around, and people quickly learn to be cautious."
My local much is either dying or no more, however I will search for the next nearest one and begin ingratiating myself into the community |
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"I think first stage is to get off trying to put a square into a circle.. being in a true lifestyle it's chemistry and person... If you're just looking at fucking and having no connection then no caring done requires a personality and that personality knowing yours to push you provoke you tease and engage you...
But by all means keep trying to find a person to fuck without wanting a connection and you'll definitely miss out on most other sexual experiences."
No no that's precisely my reason for the forum thread I know what I'm doing isn't right and I need to learn much much more, it has just been difficult to alone, I'm just developing bad habits from interacting here without knowing enough, so I agree finding someone to forge a connection with comes before getting my rocks off |
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