Guys offering massage saying they are good usually haven't a clue and usually ends up in quick rub down with the sporting life and straight on to sex, so sensual pleasures involved atal and no erotic pleasure, get qualified or a least read up about it ffs |
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I like to think I am pretty good.
I use Orli massage candles to provide a rich cosmetic grade warm oil which feels great and a small amount goes a long way.
I start with individual fingers, then front and back of hands and gradually work my way all over, some toe sucking and rimming acts as a pleasant accompanyment.
That takes a good half an hour before you turn over and have another 30 minutes on the other side.
My recipients feel totally relaxed and horny in equal measures by the end. |
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By *ee-LiteWoman 7 weeks ago
northampton |
Yes, there’s so many offering ‘tantric massage’, which is usually a bottle of baby oil and a rub down
Never trust a guy offering a massage!
I met one once who brought along his massage table, which he set up in my lounge, very disappointing, more for his weird kink though |
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It just goes to show it’s always worth having a good discussion about expectations, limits and such beforehand. So far, never been disappointed.
Although I agree that starting from the presumption that someone’s a bit of a chancer unless they can prove otherwise is probably sensible! |
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"Yes, there’s so many offering ‘tantric massage’, which is usually a bottle of baby oil and a rub down
Never trust a guy offering a massage!
I met one once who brought along his massage table, which he set up in my lounge, very disappointing, more for his weird kink though "
That may have been the same guy that I met once. He brought his own massage table and got very upset when he found out there was nowhere to put it (I did ask before if he was happy to massage me just on the bed). He just turned back and left  . |
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"Yes, there’s so many offering ‘tantric massage’, which is usually a bottle of baby oil and a rub down
Never trust a guy offering a massage!
I met one once who brought along his massage table, which he set up in my lounge, very disappointing, more for his weird kink though
That may have been the same guy that I met once. He brought his own massage table and got very upset when he found out there was nowhere to put it (I did ask before if he was happy to massage me just on the bed). He just turned back and left . "
Now, you see, I’d see that as someone who is bothered about giving a good massage experience, and cares about their own ergonomics etc when giving a massage. Different strokes for different folks. Literally. |
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I am into naked bodies, slippery stuff, touch and exploration. I like to bring my own warm oils and happy to use a bed or any other appliance.
None of my recipients have expressed anything other than enjoyment of the experience.
I dont consider myself a chancer, the experience with me is not a fleeting one but relaxing sensuous and of long duration. |
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By *stwo60Couple 7 weeks ago
Hampshire |
Well from a professional point of view, with both of us being fully qualified and one of us teaching massage (different techniques), you really should know what you’re doing. You can cause problems is you don’t understand if someone has contraindications. When it comes to using different oils even more important. As a clinical aromatherapist I can tell you that the wrong combination/concentration of essential oil can be quite dangerous. Just an opinion and each to their own and all that! |
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"Yes, there’s so many offering ‘tantric massage’, which is usually a bottle of baby oil and a rub down
Never trust a guy offering a massage!
I met one once who brought along his massage table, which he set up in my lounge, very disappointing, more for his weird kink though "
I had an experience like that with a woman full of erotic chat who I had been dating a few times.
Thought it was my lucky day when she said she would come to my place and give me a massage. Arrived at the door with the ruddy table and set it up downstairs.
The massage was ok but not sexual in any way.
Unfortunately the worst part was having to endure hearing her saying "Dj'a gett mah drift" all the time during conversation.
With hindsight, I should have got the drift a lot earlier in the relationship.
I expect she made a reasonable living out of lucrative dating, but that was the end of a beautiful friendship as far as I was concerned. |
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I don't think it's fair to just blanket wipe out everyone who offered this with bad intentions.
I (Mrs) had a lovely experience with a guy who offered this.... he spent an hour massaging me, nothing sexual and then we parted ways. He had loads of positive reviews showing he didn't exactly that and I have a great time!!
As a giant massage slut it's right up my street hehehe
K
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"I don't think it's fair to just blanket wipe out everyone who offered this with bad intentions.
I (Mrs) had a lovely experience with a guy who offered this.... he spent an hour massaging me, nothing sexual and then we parted ways. He had loads of positive reviews showing he didn't exactly that and I have a great time!!
As a giant massage slut it's right up my street hehehe
K
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Haha, massage slut; I’m stealing that, thank you! |
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