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If you ( a lady) or your Mrs is outwith no bra on and her nipples are sticking out, do you ( or does she) like men looking, has I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at? |
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There will be women who don’t mind it or actively like it. But there will be many more who don’t and we should have the social skills to not sexualise women who are just going about their daily business. |
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I would go without a bra often as it's just way more comfortable.
I find it quite funny that men can't help but look!
Especially when they are with a partner and trying to pretend they are not looking! |
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I rarely wear a bra and hound loves it when he catches other men looking at my tiny titties and nipples... hes even been known to turn my seats around in bars to ensure someone who's been interested can get a better view.... he loves it when he catches people looking.
It turns me on knowing he's enjoying it  |
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"I always check with hubby before I go out with bra (nipple covers) if he’s happy then I go out and we both accept that I will get looks… but then I do have rather large (coat hanging) nipples 👀😂"
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"If you ( a lady) or your Mrs is outwith no bra on and her nipples are sticking out, do you ( or does she) like men looking, has I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at?"
Jesus Christ at your age I would assume you had the social skills to work this out. Some will. Some won't. Don't be creepy when yer peepin |
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"I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at?"
You should not be embarrassed about looking.
However, society has sexualised the female breasts, and that's where the problem lies. So oogiling at bra less breasts is creepy....
So, eyes front. Eyes up. Listen, engage and only look if she let's you or wants you to!!!  |
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can't do it... the boobs are simply too big to go anywhere unfettered. They would swing and sway all over the place and i'd be too uncomfy and get too many stares of the dissapproving kind.
Plus I cover up whenever the nips accidentally go hard in public. I'm a shy girl at heart. 
Liz |
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"If you ( a lady) or your Mrs is outwith no bra on and her nipples are sticking out, do you ( or does she) like men looking, has I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at?"
I've never got on with bras. now I know it's probably because I'm autistic. Caught a manager at work looking at my nipples which was embarrassing but now I'm like to hell with it. if he wants to embarrass me I'll embarrass him back!!!
If men refuse to train themselves, I have zero problems, letting them know where exactly they can to put their leg over ...and it usually isn't me or another woman!  
Nothing wrong with looking discreetly. Pulling a face, sticking out your tongue making lewd comments, "advice" and opinions, staring, pointing, gesturing...are ill-advised.
Also I'm a naturist/nudist and I don't go around staring or commenting or gesticulating on men's floppy disks or hard..drives....lol! Allow me my Millenial jokes.   |
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"I love it
All part of the fun seeing who is having a sneaky peek.
Especially if their with their partner 
You’d definitely catch me looking "
now that i like, maybe unbutton top  |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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If I had breasts, I'd never wear one... they look uncomfortable as hell. Saying that, there are those, I don't know what their called, tube tops? Or idk, like a tight crop toppy vest, I imagine they're comfy. |
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"Love men looking d "
And I expect that many do. As a guy, we do have to look discretely as there are many ladies that are not as exhibitionist as you. However, it is fun when you come across a lady that obviously enjoys the attention |
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By *essTTWoman 9 weeks ago
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"If you ( a lady) or your Mrs is outwith no bra on and her nipples are sticking out, do you ( or does she) like men looking, has I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at?"
I rarely wear a bra and I hate people staring.
I usually stare back, let's both feel uncomfortable  |
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"If you ( a lady) or your Mrs is outwith no bra on and her nipples are sticking out, do you ( or does she) like men looking, has I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at?
I rarely wear a bra and I hate people staring.
I usually stare back, let's both feel uncomfortable "
I think that is exactly my point. It is freedom of choice, for you, and thus it would be impolite to stare. Guys notice, but you will realise that our eyes are pretty well tuned in to this kind of thing, but I would be horrified if I thought that a lady was feeling awkward or offended. Far better to look her in the eye, say a polite hello, and if she is out there to get attention then she will make it obvious. |
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By *essTTWoman 9 weeks ago
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"If you ( a lady) or your Mrs is outwith no bra on and her nipples are sticking out, do you ( or does she) like men looking, has I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at?
I rarely wear a bra and I hate people staring.
I usually stare back, let's both feel uncomfortable
I think that is exactly my point. It is freedom of choice, for you, and thus it would be impolite to stare. Guys notice, but you will realise that our eyes are pretty well tuned in to this kind of thing, but I would be horrified if I thought that a lady was feeling awkward or offended. Far better to look her in the eye, say a polite hello, and if she is out there to get attention then she will make it obvious."
I'm bisexual and more attracted to women than I am men, equally breasts are my favorite part of a woman's body, however I'm an adult so I know how to control myself when in public and not stare at women just because they don't have a bra on |
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"If you ( a lady) or your Mrs is outwith no bra on and her nipples are sticking out, do you ( or does she) like men looking, has I have seen lots of ladies like this and feel embarrassed to look and often wondered if they like being looked at?
I rarely wear a bra and I hate people staring.
I usually stare back, let's both feel uncomfortable
I think that is exactly my point. It is freedom of choice, for you, and thus it would be impolite to stare. Guys notice, but you will realise that our eyes are pretty well tuned in to this kind of thing, but I would be horrified if I thought that a lady was feeling awkward or offended. Far better to look her in the eye, say a polite hello, and if she is out there to get attention then she will make it obvious.
I'm bisexual and more attracted to women than I am men, equally breasts are my favorite part of a woman's body, however I'm an adult so I know how to control myself when in public and not stare at women just because they don't have a bra on "
My point too. It should never be the starting point. |
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"We are asian when mrs wears no bra only her traditional wear very thin material and her dark brown nipples show through her dress "
I am sure that this is a very sexy look, and does she do it to get noticed? |
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"Have you seen our shopping photo "
I have now, and it is an amazing one. I once had a mate, obviously not me, that would follow such ladies into the frozen food section and check the effect of the cold air on them. |
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"Very rarely wear a bra. I enjoy the attention as long as it doesn’t go into the realms of creepy. Having a little glance and giving a smile is fine. Following me around the supermarket is not!"
My real turn on |
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I am guessing many of the answers you receive here may not be representative of the vast majority of women that aren’t swingers, most of whom would find men staring at their breasts in public creepy. The idea that a woman wearing anything less modest than a burka is doing so to attract male attention is how we ended up with insecure men creating such garments in the first place. Most women dress for themselves and other women (in a non sexual way), not men as male attention really isn’t difficult to get. |
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I have A/B cups and haven't worn a bra in years. I sometimes wear binders but not often so I'm always with them free. I honestly never notice anyone staring st my nipples because I'm in a world of my own hah |
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"I have A/B cups and haven't worn a bra in years. I sometimes wear binders but not often so I'm always with them free. I honestly never notice anyone staring st my nipples because I'm in a world of my own hah"
Best place to be. |
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A girlfriend that I had over 20 years ago had the tiniest firmest tits you could ever imagine, but lovely big nipples. In the 2 years that I was with her, I can never remember her wearing a bra. She thought nothing of it but I loved it. |
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By *essTTWoman 9 weeks ago
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"I am guessing many of the answers you receive here may not be representative of the vast majority of women that aren’t swingers, most of whom would find men staring at their breasts in public creepy. The idea that a woman wearing anything less modest than a burka is doing so to attract male attention is how we ended up with insecure men creating such garments in the first place. Most women dress for themselves and other women (in a non sexual way), not men as male attention really isn’t difficult to get. "
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It’s possible that the women who go out without a bra on are more likely to be the exhibitionist types and enjoy the attention. The shyer ladies will likely wear a bra to avoid the staring.
Still no excuse for guys to be creeps though. I hope the bra less trend cobtinues - it’s absolutely brilliant. |
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"It’s possible that the women who go out without a bra on are more likely to be the exhibitionist types and enjoy the attention. The shyer ladies will likely wear a bra to avoid the staring.
Still no excuse for guys to be creeps though. I hope the bra less trend cobtinues - it’s absolutely brilliant."
You point is well made, especially that guys should be discrete and not make a lady feel uncomfortable. However, like all things, an observant guy is going to clock the nipples.
Thus the lady is either completely innocent and has not considered the nipple effect, is proving the point (pun intended) that it is her right to go out without a bra, or she has dressed that way to show them off.
When looked at in that way, a guy only has a 1 in 3 chance that more than a casual glance will be reciprocated by the lady, and should look for a few more positive signals before jumping to conclusions |
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"Used to say to her are you cold of excited she would look down lol but I would make a pub stop so people could see and I found it a turn on and so did she in the end.
“In the end…?”"
Exactly my thought. Sounds like there ckuld have been an embarassing silence and a bit of smoothing over needed |
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My wife loves having no bra on. She was at work the other day and I popped in to see her and her boobs were looking awesome in the top she was wearing. She was serving a customer and I could notice him looking at her boobs. Her nipples were sticking out and he was literally glued to them. I told her after he had gone and she said that he was one of about 50 people she had caught staring at her boobs |
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"My wife loves having no bra on. She was at work the other day and I popped in to see her and her boobs were looking awesome in the top she was wearing. She was serving a customer and I could notice him looking at her boobs. Her nipples were sticking out and he was literally glued to them. I told her after he had gone and she said that he was one of about 50 people she had caught staring at her boobs "
You lucky guy, having a wife that sets out to please the customers. Great business initiative too |
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"If I had the tits for it (I really don't, so no need to message otherwise) I wouldn't wear a bra, for the sole purpose of men looking, I used to when I was 20 "
I expect you get lots looking if may say so, nice |
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"My wife loves having no bra on. She was at work the other day and I popped in to see her and her boobs were looking awesome in the top she was wearing. She was serving a customer and I could notice him looking at her boobs. Her nipples were sticking out and he was literally glued to them. I told her after he had gone and she said that he was one of about 50 people she had caught staring at her boobs "
Could do with buying some of that literal glue.
Was that what she was serving the customer with? |
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"Used to say to her are you cold of excited she would look down lol but I would make a pub stop so people could see and I found it a turn on and so did she in the end."
Who paid for the drinks on such occasions?
I bet the pub did well, whoever was spending. |
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I like to be looked at in general, I’m quite aware of my surroundings and if I catch someone staring I will smile!
Depending on how much I want to be looked at, I will leave home braless or wear a bra that my breasts will spill out of or my nipples will poke out over the top of!
If a gentleman then chooses to go home and think about how looking at me made him feel and wants to wank over me! I’m also quite happy with that to not that I’ll ever know hahaha …. Mrs C |
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"I like to be looked at in general, I’m quite aware of my surroundings and if I catch someone staring I will smile!
Depending on how much I want to be looked at, I will leave home braless or wear a bra that my breasts will spill out of or my nipples will poke out over the top of!
If a gentleman then chooses to go home and think about how looking at me made him feel and wants to wank over me! I’m also quite happy with that to not that I’ll ever know hahaha …. Mrs C "
Lovely to hear from a confident and naughty lady that understands how we think and likes to indulge us as well as feeling empowered that she can cause guys to wank at her memory |
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"Makes me feel really awkward, and I always notice and then can't stop looking 
Its the female equivalent to grey joggers"
I can imagine that. Is it a little bit like mansplaning? Like the braless lady is trying to outdo all the other ladies an become the centre of attention |
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"I love going out without a bra on and men looking, especially when they are with their partners. I like to wear light tops that show off the shape of my FFs"
I can see why you get noticed, what an awesome view for those lucky guys |
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I love wearing a bra and nip with one on so double dose of bliss..
fortunately not part of the itty bitty or fake titty commitee so I like the support a bra given me... Plus I love lingerie matching |
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