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By *hareme87 OP Couple 12 weeks ago
Cork/Ennis |
Hi all
I’m hoping to have my first mmf experience soon. Me and my fwb have been discussing it and it’s something I’d like to try.
But from a females point of view, how did the girls on here that have done it, how did you find it? How did you feel after it? Any tips |
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I would suggest you discuss beforehand what you each like, what you would like to do /share and what will happen with whom. If there is something you don't like, make sure they know.
Make sure boundaries are known and acknowledged - ie, if condoms are to be used, where they can cum, whether you'll swallow or not, is anal on the table etc... If you've swallowed is the other man ok kissing you with someone else's cum in your mouth etc.
Take a look at some MMF videos to get some sexy ideas, but generally just relax and enjoy the night.
Mine was an MFM, so no play with the two men, just them with me, and me with them-o knew the scenario in advance and one M controlled the play |
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Very nervous to begin with, i knew 1 of them from previous meets & had only chatted to the other as he was a friend of the other guy.
Once we got to the bedroom it all changed, it was so satisfying, more hands, mouths & cocks to play with & it kept the fun going longer.
Set boundaries early on, whether you want anal, dp or not.
It was my first time in a mfm & I went back for more the next week  |
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"Can I just ask, and sorry if this is a silly question. But what is the difference between MMF and MFM? I was of the thinking that they were both the same "
They are both the same. It's only recently people have been trying to say the order of the letters makes a difference.
Ask them to use letters to describe three men and one woman where all are straight, a convention has to work for all cases. |
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From my personal experience with myself and two guys it works so much better if they are used to playing in a group together xx it flows loads better rather than just two random guys ie in a club environment xx |
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My first MMF was a really great experience. Me and a regular partner discussed what we would like to get from the experience and the type of guy we wanted to join us. We had a social before hand and both liked him. We went back to my friends and discussed any boundaries. It was really organic and felt very natural. Really fantastic experience.
My advice...communication, communication, communication |
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By *hareme87 OP Couple 12 weeks ago
Cork/Ennis |
"My first MMF was a really great experience. Me and a regular partner discussed what we would like to get from the experience and the type of guy we wanted to join us. We had a social before hand and both liked him. We went back to my friends and discussed any boundaries. It was really organic and felt very natural. Really fantastic experience.
My advice...communication, communication, communication "
Thank you so much for that. I think that's an important factor, we have gotten caught up in the excitement of organising it at times that we need to communicate with the other guy as to what is wanted |
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Interested in the replies to this as my fb and I were talking about a mmf in our meet today, left him to message me and confirm if he does want to do it as I’m not sure it wasn’t said in the heat of the moment. |
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By *j2015Couple 12 weeks ago
Glasgow |
MFMs are probably our favourite interaction. Mrs loves the confidence it give her afterward and loved to sensory overload but i dont feel like any 2 have ever been the same, unique to who you are with as the 2nd male. We find it helps if either guy isnt so straight that they are scared their hands might touch 
Both men focusing the female regardless of how close they get tends to work wonders.
Fav. Position so far was Mrs getting fucked from behind while i restrained her shoulders so her body could move back and forth with every thrust.  |
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"MFMs are probably our favourite interaction. Mrs loves the confidence it give her afterward and loved to sensory overload but i dont feel like any 2 have ever been the same, unique to who you are with as the 2nd male. We find it helps if either guy isnt so straight that they are scared their hands might touch
Both men focusing the female regardless of how close they get tends to work wonders.
Fav. Position so far was Mrs getting fucked from behind while i restrained her shoulders so her body could move back and forth with every thrust. "
Saving this one! Sounds amazing.
I had an MFM recently and before hand we discussed about how my partner wanted anal to be saved just for us as a special act and we let our male Unicorn know this. We also discussed our hopes, which for me was a first time DVP and although it didn't happen we have further plans.
We did it as like a cuck situation but with no humiliation. Our male Unicorn doing missionary and my partner looking into my eyes from beside me, adoring me and touching my skin. It was so sweet. I was nervous and still a tiny bit wary about how my partner would react but he was enjoying my reactions so much. So I relaxed and just got into the flow. |
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"Can I just ask, and sorry if this is a silly question. But what is the difference between MMF and MFM? I was of the thinking that they were both the same
MMF is generally bi males "
That would be a bi-mmf |
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By *L100Couple 12 weeks ago
Glasgow |
"Can I just ask, and sorry if this is a silly question. But what is the difference between MMF and MFM? I was of the thinking that they were both the same
MMF is generally bi males "
This is recent news to me…! |
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"Can I just ask, and sorry if this is a silly question. But what is the difference between MMF and MFM? I was of the thinking that they were both the same
MMF is generally bi males
This is recent news to me…! "
Yeah but it's fake news lol |
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MMF and MFM is another example of the dangerous modern trend of redefining stuff without making sure everyone is on the same page.
Communication is is key but Communication is difficult when the goalpost change |
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We love an MFM.... as the first poster suggested... lots of discussion can be needed prior but my MFMs have occurred in clubs and came with less pre discussion
Random thoughts from me .....
you have to get used to riding different rhythms.... such as trying to give a BJ (and avoid using teeth) whilst being railed lol
They're a LOT of fun!!! |
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We love an MFM.... as the first poster suggested... lots of discussion can be needed prior but my MFMs have occurred in clubs and came with less pre discussion
Random thoughts from me .....
you have to get used to riding different rhythms.... such as trying to give a BJ (and avoid using teeth) whilst being railed lol
They're a LOT of fun!!! |
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I loved it had that life over 2 years too many times to actually count. I'm open and I have no inhibitions so for me I communicate every desire and need so there's no awkward paused moments etc. my partner's gave also told their guy friends who and how I am so they only included guys on the same page so again I've never had a bad experience because I refused to bite my tongue in what I require sexually or personally from a person. If they want what I offer to then it's a match if not then I'm not the type for them.
Plus I don't interact with bi men so that's a solid pressure the other make doesn't have to deal with. |
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I think of huge importance (especially in a straight male scenario) is the chemistry between the two guys. Because a lot of what makes a MFM great is how at ease the guys are with each other and how the team work flows between them. Sometimes with straight threesome there is a lot focus on what guy the woman likes but importance of the chemistry between the guys can be neglected. However what makes a 3some really hot is when everything flows easily and naturally and the focus is mutual in enjoyment for all.
And this is why sometimes the elusive unicorn is actually the right guy. I know it goes against convention but we tend to find it easier to find the right women than we do the right guys. |
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