I will, first of all, acknowledge that everyone's mileage varies, and what appeals to one person won't appeal to someone else. I'm aware that any advice I get here will be specific to the responder and not necessarily indicative of a general consensus. I still think gathering said feedback is potentially useful, though.
I've had a couple of responses to my messages, and potentially a meet or two coming up, and I'm perfectly happy with that. But I want to make sure I'm putting my best foot forward and maintaining a presence that's worth people's time and attention in future interactions, so if there are any adjustments I can make to facilitate that, I'm all ears.
(thus far, going by feedback on other topics, I've adjusted my public pics a bit and made the dick pics friends-only as some people have said they're put off by those being in the public set)
For information and reference, I tend to send messages that are tailored to the beats of the profile I'm sending them to, and usually thank them for their time even if they're not interested. I do this to A) show that I won't follow up if I don't get a reply, and B) be courteous even in rejection. I'm curious as to whether anyone would consider this a positive aspect to include, though. |
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