Yes it's normal.
It's quite easy when you're reading the fora to believe that every man is able to go all night, is ready for action as soon as they arrive at a meet and all women are multi orgasmic.
The truth is we're just a collection of mortals doing the best we can and sometimes it goes a bit awry  |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"Very normal! Consider getting little blue plls on private prescription for special occasions! "
You don't need any prescription, you can just walk into the pharmacy and buy them after a couple of simple questions from the pharmacist. |
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I agree it is very normal. People should always respect that and not judge anyone if get nervous. Only do what you are comfortable doing and don’t let anyone pressure you otherwise. Take it slowly and I find get on all relax |
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By *xeterCandRCouple 35 weeks ago
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"Yes it's normal.
It's quite easy when you're reading the fora to believe that every man is able to go all night, is ready for action as soon as they arrive at a meet and all women are multi orgasmic.
The truth is we're just a collection of mortals doing the best we can and sometimes it goes a bit awry "
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Yup. First hand experience.
New people is always a biggy because I like to aim to please but ofc it becomes a fallacy with so many thoughts to manage.
Partly why I've never really been that into one nighters with randoms and more open with friendships.. which unfortunately are mostly the norm  . Still waiting on meeting a community of poly/ra/swing etc in person to gauge a different vibe!
Humm so hope that put your mind at ease XD
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"I've not had sex or any kind of intimacy for so long I think nerves would be an understatement. "
Everyone, every single one of us started somewhere.
I was horribly nervous the first time we met someone and even now quite a few years later still feel nerves meeting new people.
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"When on first meet.... is it normal for the gut to struggle getting hard? Is it nerves?
Just wanting advice. Thanks "
Some men like to get to know the other person for a while, several meets, and build up play as time goes on. Trust grows, you learn what the other likes and dislikes, sex usually gets better and better. One reason we like repeat meets and growing naughty friendships... Another can be the environment and how he feels about himself (maybe in comparison to your beauty). We're the lights down low ?, was it rushed or a natural progression over a few hours ?, is he body conscious somewhat ?. I Tony found myself in a situ once with a couple who had invited several other guys round too while the husband filmed the fun. Great you'd think, yet not with a bright white floodlight shining upon us while the other (and older ) guys stood around the bed watching !. Yes it didn't go well lol  .... Cherry adds 'players can get hard instantly yet guys with loving partners back home can find it difficult initially, it's all psychological' |
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totally normal.
Down to the individual, but I'm shit on forst meets, always a bag of stage fright nerves until I've got to know someone or broken the ice enough to feel comfortable.
The last time it happenned I literally spent around an hour and a half giving her oral as there was no way I was going to get hard enough to do anything else.
it would ahve been like trying to pack dough into a tight purse.  |
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