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By *hmygod OP Man 45 weeks ago
Telford Shropshire |
How important is kissing ?
I love to kiss and be close!! But is that too much for feeling to be involved …
Or is it just part of swinging ?? |
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Some people do, some people don't.
I enjoy it very much.
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It's not important to us with our swinging partners. We reserve that just for us. |
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We tried it with a couple who wouldn't, yeah not for us. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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For me it is essential.
I have a friend on here, I’ve met a few times; I’m looking to advance through the FwB steps. Been building a meaningful relationship first and now courage, but now that I know we’re on good foundations; it’s time. Kissing. Will be the catalyst for me.
Then my surrender! 
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If they don't kiss we don't meet. |
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Love a good snog, would be weird swinging without kissing |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Like most things . Some will want it, some won’t, just about your own choice. For me personally, I absolutely love kissing, the feeling it gives, the connection it builds. Not sure I could get too involved without the kissing. It turns me on too much not to kiss on a meet. Can really tell a lot from a kiss. But respect to peoples boundaries and requirements from a meet |
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Do know some have boundaries as feel too personal, but for myself definitely love kissing this is the gentle build up if goes well  |
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Kissing is important for me as it gauges compatibility between potential partners if you get my meaning. |
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By *andy IanMan 45 weeks ago
cheshire/Preston |
Personally I prefer to start any meet with sensual passionate kissing lips neck and shoulders it excites and stimulates |
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Yes we both enjoy the kissing. In some ways more intense. |
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By *cott14Man 45 weeks ago
Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton |
Absolutely essential x |
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I’ve been with some Couples that reserve it strictly for themselves, which I totally understand as kissing to me is probably more intimate that licking or sucking!
Another couple were happy with anything and everything.
It’s all about the honestly and discussions before a meeting, then there’s no awkwardness or offence etc when meeting. |
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By *mmaTTV/TS 45 weeks ago
Chipping Norton |
Kissing is definitely a must for me xx |
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Kissing is very much a must for me. Sex without kissing is way too clinical for me, just strange. And just because I kiss someone it doesn't mean I'm going to drag them down the aisle next! |
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By *olf and RedCouple 45 weeks ago
Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston |
I like kissing another person with Wolf watching and then going back to kiss him. It’s a real turn on.
Red |
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I'd need to be really REALLY into someone to want to kiss them & I don't subscribe to the "kiss test" theory.
While I was here as part of a couple I preferred to not kiss other people on Fab meets. It was an intimacy I preferred to share only with my partner.
I've kind of got tired of trying to defend against the "sex must be cold and clinical without it" line. I'm inclined to think now if someone isn't imaginative enough to understand that there are a multitude of ways a meet can be sensual without kissing me on the mouth, then we're probably not compatible.
I've yet to meet anyone for sex under this solo profile so that preference is as yet untested. |
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I enjoy kissing it’s part of the moment |
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^^ it is all about compatibility isn't it. There really is no need to make a song and dance about it, it's no different to any other boundary people have in place.
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No shade thrown at any of those who prefer not to (totally respectful of boundaries I am), however I hold kissing in high regard, be that playing both solo and in couple swaps situations. I’d probably be saying a big disappointed “oh” in my head as and when told it’s off limits |
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We love kissing but it isn’t a dealbreaker for us |
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"No shade thrown at any of those who prefer not to (totally respectful of boundaries I am), however I hold kissing in high regard, be that playing both solo and in couple swaps situations. I’d probably be saying a big disappointed “oh” in my head as and when told it’s off limits "
That's why it's on our profile. Nobody needs to be disappointed...as long as they read it  . |
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By *iasubTV/TS 45 weeks ago
Ilkeston |
Its important for me it adds so much |
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Yet to kiss a guy but I'm sure in the moment (hopefully bi mmf).
With a woman it's definitely a must, it just wouldn't be the same without it, kissing is a massive turn on for me  |
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"I'd need to be really REALLY into someone to want to kiss them & I don't subscribe to the "kiss test" theory.
While I was here as part of a couple I preferred to not kiss other people on Fab meets. It was an intimacy I preferred to share only with my partner.
I've kind of got tired of trying to defend against the "sex must be cold and clinical without it" line. I'm inclined to think now if someone isn't imaginative enough to understand that there are a multitude of ways a meet can be sensual without kissing me on the mouth, then we're probably not compatible.
I've yet to meet anyone for sex under this solo profile so that preference is as yet untested. "
I'm the same. I will kiss guys when playing as a couple on occasion... women I will often... but if I was playing separately then it's unlikely if kiss a guy
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By *andb69Couple 45 weeks ago
leeds |
It's interesting that the majority of responses here fly in the face of my experiences in over 12 years of swinging. Most men claim it's essential, yet while I love to kiss other women I have no desire to kiss a man we're swinging with. I have never ever had any objection to or disappointment with that stance and all the men we've met are happy to fuck me and then come back for more.
Why no kissing? Because for me kissing another man is romantic, and I don't swing for romance. I have all I need with my own partner who, incidentally, is happy to kiss other women and I am happy to watch him. |
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"It's interesting that the majority of responses here fly in the face of my experiences in over 12 years of swinging. Most men claim it's essential, yet while I love to kiss other women I have no desire to kiss a man we're swinging with. I have never ever had any objection to or disappointment with that stance and all the men we've met are happy to fuck me and then come back for more.
Why no kissing? Because for me kissing another man is romantic, and I don't swing for romance. I have all I need with my own partner who, incidentally, is happy to kiss other women and I am happy to watch him. "
I agree with most of this. In all my years I've rarely kissed guys and can count on one hand the times it's caused any issues. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Kissing is a must for me. I prefer it over the actual sex. I mean at this point if someone said they just wanted to meet for cuddles and kissing then I'd be fine with that. |
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Yes!
She likes to kiss and I love to see her kissing a few guys. |
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By *andydan69Man 45 weeks ago
south west nr you mmm |
Kissing is very important love it |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Kissing definitely important for me. I use it as an indicator as to where it may lead to (or not as the case may be). |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Essential. Before, during, and after fucking. |
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By *esmdMan 45 weeks ago
Woodhall Spa |
I have to kiss makes it a lot more erotic |
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"No shade thrown at any of those who prefer not to (totally respectful of boundaries I am), however I hold kissing in high regard, be that playing both solo and in couple swaps situations. I’d probably be saying a big disappointed “oh” in my head as and when told it’s off limits
That's why it's on our profile. Nobody needs to be disappointed...as long as they read it . "
Fair play… cards are laid on the table from the off in order for whoever is interested to make an informed decision prior to making contact. I’ve had where it’s not been, I’ve asked as the response has been hesitant which I tend to find annoying because if the person had just said from the beginning it’s not for them I wouldn’t of reached out. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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I find intense, close kissing can more intimate than sex, but equally, no kissing ever would feel cold & transactional.. suppose depends on the mood/ vibe of the moment, the situation & the person. Couldn't generalise. |
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"I find intense, close kissing can more intimate than sex, but equally, no kissing ever would feel cold & transactional.. suppose depends on the mood/ vibe of the moment, the situation & the person. Couldn't generalise. "
Not an argumentative question but what do you feel is the transactional element involved in not kissing someone? |
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We enjoy a good kiss and a good one definitely gets us and sets the tone but we do understand that kissing isn't for everyone and can be too intimate. So we are obviously happy to follow the lead of the others and go with their preference xx |
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"How important is kissing ?
I love to kiss and be close!! But is that too much for feeling to be involved …
Or is it just part of swinging ?? "
We understand there are many reasons why people won't kiss on a meet, however, for us it is an important part of the overall sexual chemistry. |
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We have no issues with kissing.. We know a few couples and singles that don't tho and they never seem to have any issues finding meets.. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"I find intense, close kissing can more intimate than sex, but equally, no kissing ever would feel cold & transactional.. suppose depends on the mood/ vibe of the moment, the situation & the person. Couldn't generalise.
Not an argumentative question but what do you feel is the transactional element involved in not kissing someone?"
No judgement, just my pov, as we are all different. I enjoy the build up of banter, chemistry, playfulness & teasing, so kissing is part of the variety in the natural trajectory leading up to & during a meet, not having it as an option feels strange, the thought that the person can be inside me but not kiss me or my body. Equally getting lost in an intimate, extended, close, kissing session feels way more connected than a more casual situation. But it sounds like there's a black & white line for me, when it's more that these are 2 opposite ends of my personal scale & I'll float in the middle or lean 1 way or another on, depending on the dynamics of the person & moment.. |
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For me kissing is a must! It kinda goes hand in hand with foreplay! |
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"I find intense, close kissing can more intimate than sex, but equally, no kissing ever would feel cold & transactional.. suppose depends on the mood/ vibe of the moment, the situation & the person. Couldn't generalise.
Not an argumentative question but what do you feel is the transactional element involved in not kissing someone?
No judgement, just my pov, as we are all different. I enjoy the build up of banter, chemistry, playfulness & teasing, so kissing is part of the variety in the natural trajectory leading up to & during a meet, not having it as an option feels strange, the thought that the person can be inside me but not kiss me or my body. Equally getting lost in an intimate, extended, close, kissing session feels way more connected than a more casual situation. But it sounds like there's a black & white line for me, when it's more that these are 2 opposite ends of my personal scale & I'll float in the middle or lean 1 way or another on, depending on the dynamics of the person & moment.."
Thanks for explaining that. I don't think not kissing is any more transactional than any other way of meeting really though. I'm well aware of the implications of the word and it's meaning however but I accept that you're not judging. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"I find intense, close kissing can more intimate than sex, but equally, no kissing ever would feel cold & transactional.. suppose depends on the mood/ vibe of the moment, the situation & the person. Couldn't generalise.
Not an argumentative question but what do you feel is the transactional element involved in not kissing someone?
No judgement, just my pov, as we are all different. I enjoy the build up of banter, chemistry, playfulness & teasing, so kissing is part of the variety in the natural trajectory leading up to & during a meet, not having it as an option feels strange, the thought that the person can be inside me but not kiss me or my body. Equally getting lost in an intimate, extended, close, kissing session feels way more connected than a more casual situation. But it sounds like there's a black & white line for me, when it's more that these are 2 opposite ends of my personal scale & I'll float in the middle or lean 1 way or another on, depending on the dynamics of the person & moment..
Thanks for explaining that. I don't think not kissing is any more transactional than any other way of meeting really though. I'm well aware of the implications of the word and it's meaning however but I accept that you're not judging. "
I think it feels that way because without any kissing being an option, I feel like I'm removing a natural element to my 'flow' so to speak, so remembering to avoid it would take me out of the moment. That's what makes it transactional and not organic to me. |
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Kissing is a massive turn on for me |
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By *ilva69Man 45 weeks ago
stockport |
Love DFK as part of a good mmf threesome |
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By *uvery30Woman 45 weeks ago
Gloucestershire |
Personally kissing has to be there
Love a good kiss and start things off xx |
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Love kissing ,it's a big part of it for me |
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it's not essential for me but it does make the connection with a woman much better |
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"Love DFK as part of a good mmf threesome "
Me too, although I haven't had a mmf yet |
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Kissing is a personal choice but love a good long kissing session as it adds to the buildup |
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Kissing is so underrated love it |
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Kissing is a must for me or let’s not bother |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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I think it’s essential to get those juice’s flowing |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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I love it, definitely gets the heart racing and sets the mood |
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I don’t like kissing I freeze up if someone starts to kiss me |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"It's not important to us with our swinging partners. We reserve that just for us. "
Totally agree with the comments above, we follow in the same steps when sharing. |
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I met this couple and it was weird not kissing during sex . |
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I love to kiss…but it depends on what game you are playing. Impersonal fuck and go gang bang or bukakke maybe not but more intimate scenarios and interactions would be very weird without kissing. |
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Kissing is a must for me when meeting |
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"We tried it with a couple who wouldn't, yeah not for us. "
We feel kissing is a great way to get warmed up and also a natural part of sex,trying to have sex without kissing would be very frustrating,it's also a great way to show attention,without it you mite as well have bags over your heads lol |
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By *urora1912Woman 45 weeks ago
Norfolk East anglia |
Kissing is an absolute must for me |
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Hubby loves to watch me kissing other men |
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I go with the flow, it does help with intimacy though, in my opinion. |
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By *rmrs95Couple 45 weeks ago
Chester |
Kissing is very important part of foreplay for us, we are more about Intamacy and connecting rather than just sex.
Very difficult to be intimate without kissing involved.
That being said, we also respect everyone's boundaries and what they are comfortable with, we have made good friends in this lifestyle with some that don't do kissing |
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By *riel13Woman 45 weeks ago
Northampton |
Kissing is compulsory for me  |
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We need it to swing, sex is strange without kissing |
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By *94meeMan 45 weeks ago
Manchester |
Kissing is essential to keep this cock hard |
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By *WB85Man 44 weeks ago
Staffordshire |
I genuinely don't know how anyone can be intimate and not kiss. Like what do I do with my face when in certain positions  |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Kissing it's foreplay
Surely |
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By *andb69Couple 44 weeks ago
leeds |
"I genuinely don't know how anyone can be intimate and not kiss. Like what do I do with my face when in certain positions "
People who swing don't necessarily want intimacy. |
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For us it's just as important as playing with others |
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Being New to the scene we find this topic quite interesting, for us kissing is a must, it helps us in many ways, helps loose the newbie nerves, builds excitement ect ect the thought of jumping into fun without the kissing seems odd but we get that everyone is different |
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Tried a meet without it... Once was enough to know that absolutely isn't for me |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Goalposts tend to get moved we find. When we started it was going to be something just for us. Then it became in the heat of the moment. Now it's fine provided we're actually fucking the person we're kissing. |
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Very important for me, an important part of foreplay, I like to real intimate |
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By *ady7Woman 44 weeks ago
Hereford |
Kissing definitely, feels awkward not too |
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Essential - even in an mmf scenario, need all involved to be into kissing |
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By *WB85Man 44 weeks ago
Staffordshire |
"I genuinely don't know how anyone can be intimate and not kiss. Like what do I do with my face when in certain positions
People who swing don't necessarily want intimacy."
Totally agree.....we're all very different. The intimacy is part of it for us, but each to their own. |
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I'm against kissing unless they're pretty feminine or trans |
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Swinging is whatever you want it to be  .
I’m not a massive kisser, specially during sex. So doesn’t bother me not being involved at all.
Each to their own.
Do what you feel comfortable with x |
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Love it!
Had a spontaneous fourway with my best friend and her husband. I french kissed him as much as I did my own hubby.
Kissing makes it more personal, intimate, sensual. Fucking without makes it feel more transactional.
C xoxo |
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Most definitely and being a cuck to see your wife kissing another guy in front of you is such a turn on |
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"Love it!
Had a spontaneous fourway with my best friend and her husband. I french kissed him as much as I did my own hubby.
Kissing makes it more personal, intimate, sensual. Fucking without makes it feel more transactional.
C xoxo"
You can't beat the sensuality of a good kiss! It just ramps up the sensations of everything else.
A great blow job can be amazing. A great blow job while being kissed.... Mind blowing |
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By *avexxMan 44 weeks ago
cheshire |
a kiss is just a kiss but my word its everthing |
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Kissing is important I couldn't do the sex without the kissing, it's the best build up.
Mrs |
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By *w214Couple 44 weeks ago
Wirral |
Absolute must, if my wife finds you attractive she'll then she'll happily kiss you, if she'll kiss you then she'll fuck you. People that don't kiss aren't for us unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"I genuinely don't know how anyone can be intimate and not kiss. Like what do I do with my face when in certain positions
People who swing don't necessarily want intimacy."
100% correct, some couples just want the cock |
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We prefer the intimacy. No kissing? Not for us. To each their own, though!
D x |
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By *ACOLCouple 43 weeks ago
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We need the kisses and passion, after all we not a sex toy.
Lina. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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The more tongue the better I say!! |
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I adore kissing and can’t imagine enjoying any intimate meeting without it… |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Every woman I met has involved kissing so would be odd not doing it |
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I love feeling the passion rise in my partner, which comes through when you kiss, and is a huge part of the turn-on for me.
I’ve only done one meet where the woman doesn’t kiss others, and it just didn’t work for me, so I walked away.
For me; no kissing, no meet  |
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If always amases me when all the guys say they wouldn't meet without it. Yet I've kissed less than 20 guys in my life ... and never had an issue with guys not wanting to meet again. Or lack of passion etc.
When I say kissing though I mean I avoid for the most part mouth to mouth kissing .. I'm happy to tease kisses elsewhere.
But it's worth noting I rarely if ever did 121 meets
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By *mmaTTV/TS 42 weeks ago
Chipping Norton |
Very important to me x |
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By *unchalMan 42 weeks ago
Dartford |
"If they don't kiss we don't meet."
That’s the line I’ve drawn for myself too. It’s usually men who don’t want to kiss men. |
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By *unchalMan 42 weeks ago
Dartford |
"Do know some have boundaries as feel too personal, but for myself definitely love kissing this is the gentle build up if goes well "
I’ve heard that before but struggle to understand it. Given everything else that goes on between people who meet on here, it’s the kissing that is too personal!? |
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"How important is kissing ?
I love to kiss and be close!! But is that too much for feeling to be involved …
Or is it just part of swinging ?? "
Female half doesn't like to kiss men when swinging but will happily kiss females, she likes the intimacy of reserving kissing for male half.
Male half enjoys kissing men and women x |
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By *reg45Man 42 weeks ago
durham |
I think it’s very important love to kiss |
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If we connect with people we love kissing with them |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Best foreplay ever if the connection is there … |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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It's the best! |
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By *ularliWoman 42 weeks ago
Worcester |
Kissing is a must. When done right it can be the biggest turn on with the right person.
But definitely not sloppy kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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I don’t understand the not kissing brigade
I find it so important in the build up and connection to someone |
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"I don’t understand the not kissing brigade
I find it so important in the build up and connection to someone "
Kissing for me is personal I dint feel I need to kiss another man to connect its a mind thing its talking its having a drink its building a mental connection which I consider alot more important than kissing another person!
Mrs _wingnswitch |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Very important I love kissing |
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I think it depends entirely on the circumstances...more intimate meets are enhanced with kissing, I feel. We have friends who don't do opposite sex kissing and it does sometimes feel a bit awkward but it doesn't stop us meeting and having fun with them...
In clubs and at parties though, I have never once had anyone ask me to take their cock out of my mouth because I haven't kissed them first... |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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I wouldn't say its really important, but doesn't all the good stuff start with a kiss? I wouldn't know what to do if we ain't kissing at the beginning?
Mrs C xx |
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By *uboCouple 42 weeks ago
East kilbride |
"I don’t understand the not kissing brigade
I find it so important in the build up and connection to someone
Kissing for me is personal I dint feel I need to kiss another man to connect its a mind thing its talking its having a drink its building a mental connection which I consider alot more important than kissing another person!
Mrs _wingnswitch "
Same here.
Never had a guy refuse a meet yet when told i don’t kiss. |
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"I wouldn't say its really important, but doesn't all the good stuff start with a kiss? I wouldn't know what to do if
we ain't kissing at the beginning?
Mrs C xx "
Exactly this! |
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"I don’t understand the not kissing brigade
I find it so important in the build up and connection to someone
Kissing for me is personal I dint feel I need to kiss another man to connect its a mind thing its talking its having a drink its building a mental connection which I consider alot more important than kissing another person!
Mrs _wingnswitch
Same here.
Never had a guy refuse a meet yet when told i don’t kiss."
Exactly x |
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There’s a first time for everything, so for the 4 people (out of the 120 posts on this thread) who say they’ve never had a guy refuse them because they don’t kiss, feel free to offer me a meet, and I will happily turn you down |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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I don't get it, your fucking, how is Kissing off bounds? People have strange boundaries |
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When we first started out swinging Helen wanted no kissing and kept that just for us. As things progressed we evolved and now kissing is an important part of a meet as it’s definitely a natural part of sex and the build up. |
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"I don't get it, your fucking, how is Kissing off bounds? People have strange boundaries"
Sex is sex kissing is personal..my preference ok! |
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"I don't get it, your fucking, how is Kissing off bounds? People have strange boundaries"
People have boundaries. |
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I couldnt meet if there was no kissing involved |
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We have to kiss straight or bi fun kissing is essential x |
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"I don't get it, your fucking, how is Kissing off bounds? People have strange boundaries"
Because they don't want to. It's that simple. You may not share the same boundaries. That's ok. It doesn't make someone else's boundaries strange. |
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"I don't get it, your fucking, how is Kissing off bounds? People have strange boundaries"
you don't need to get it, just accept it and if its a deal breaker for you, then your not compatible.. it's not strange at all... just a preference
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I like it but it is not critical for me. If they don’t want to kiss whilst fucking then I can live with that. |
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By *oss25Man 42 weeks ago
Flitwick and Fakenham |
Kissing is such an integral part of the build up and foreplay so a must part of any meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"I don’t understand the not kissing brigade
I find it so important in the build up and connection to someone
Kissing for me is personal I dint feel I need to kiss another man to connect its a mind thing its talking its having a drink its building a mental connection which I consider alot more important than kissing another person!
Mrs _wingnswitch "
Fair point and I agree in the getting to know and feel comfortable stage. But do you not need it during the intact part ? |
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"I don’t understand the not kissing brigade
I find it so important in the build up and connection to someone
Kissing for me is personal I dint feel I need to kiss another man to connect its a mind thing its talking its having a drink its building a mental connection which I consider alot more important than kissing another person!
Mrs _wingnswitch
Fair point and I agree in the getting to know and feel comfortable stage. But do you not need it during the intact part ? "
No for me personally it's my choice and no I don't feel I need to kiss a male my choice I choose not to because it makes me feel uncomfortable and its the 1 thing I save for my life partner |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"I don’t understand the not kissing brigade
I find it so important in the build up and connection to someone
Kissing for me is personal I dint feel I need to kiss another man to connect its a mind thing its talking its having a drink its building a mental connection which I consider alot more important than kissing another person!
Mrs _wingnswitch
Fair point and I agree in the getting to know and feel comfortable stage. But do you not need it during the intact part ?
No for me personally it's my choice and no I don't feel I need to kiss a male my choice I choose not to because it makes me feel uncomfortable and its the 1 thing I save for my life partner "
Then fair play if it makes you feel uncomfortable then you absolutely should not do it |
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"We tried it with a couple who wouldn't, yeah not for us. "
Can't imagine meeting a couple and not kissing. Just strange. |
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Not strange at all people are different and have different boundaries. Boundaries are important to people to help separate sex from relationships and real life.
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I love it, but I can understand if someone won't.
I wouldn't consider it a deal breaker.
For some it's the difference between being intimate with theor real partner and having fun with someone just because. Bit like a woman that won't swallow unless it's her partner.
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By *dwalu2Couple 42 weeks ago
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"We tried it with a couple who wouldn't, yeah not for us.
Can't imagine meeting a couple and not kissing. Just strange."
We wouldn’t meet someone who didn’t want to kiss…the kissing is as important as the sex, sometimes even more so. But plenty of people don’t feel the same way, so whatever works for them. |
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It has to be a good compatible kiss for me..best to try it out on a social meet first if the opportunity arises. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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In my mindset kissing is fundamental. More erotic |
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Kissing is a must for me, it leads to better things.
I’ve met couples that don’t kiss and it’s very awkward when trying to play |
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There’s some rubbish kissers out there. Good kissing is definitely a must for me. |
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Kissing is a must for me I can't do clinical sex and also kissing gets the juices flowing so to speak |
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Hound kisses a girlfriend and other people..
I only kiss hound and a girlfriend, for me it's too intimate to share with another man. X |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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I’d love to see my wife kiss another guy.
It would be way more passionate and sexy if kissing was involved. |
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By *ucka39Man 40 weeks ago
Newcastle |
Kissing is part of good or bad chemistry win or lose |
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If a guy doesn't kiss, I meet someone else |
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Kissing is 100% go for me…has to be…you can gauge an awful lot about how much fun somebody can be by a kiss and if done correctly can lead to some serious kink |
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Kissing is a big yes! I want someone who kisses all the time! |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Kissing is such a huge part for me.
No kissing. No fun |
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Tried it without not the same..
Kissing is intimate yes but doesn't mean feelings are there |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Kissing is delicious |
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By *OYFBWoman 40 weeks ago
Jersey (sometimes Notts) |
"How important is kissing ?
I love to kiss and be close!! But is that too much for feeling to be involved …
Or is it just part of swinging ?? "
To me, it’s very important. Love kissing so much. |
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Without kissing, its like washing your hands with your gloves on. So so sad. Everything starts with and ends with kisses. |
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"How important is kissing ?
I love to kiss and be close!! But is that too much for feeling to be involved …
Or is it just part of swinging ?? "
We dont meet others who don't kiss. We think to us it's part of the foreplay to get turned on. As for feelings involved that won't happen as I am with the love of my life.
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"Without kissing, its like washing your hands with your gloves on. So so sad. Everything starts with and ends with kisses."
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Without kissing, its like washing your hands with your gloves on. So so sad. Everything starts with and ends with kisses.
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Without kissing, its like washing your hands with your gloves on. So so sad. Everything starts with and ends with kisses.
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By *andZ30Couple 40 weeks ago
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Hey T here and just my opinion and totally get everyone has there own thing and choices but to me and again my opinion I don’t see the point without kissing I don’t see it as to intimate or personal when in the same breath people can’t put other peoples bits inside them or have people put things inside them and say that’s not to intimate and personal but again it’s everyone’s own choice and I will respect that but I wouldn’t meet anyone who would not kiss but do everything else |
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Years ago we used to save kissing as something for just us two as a couple (apart from girl on girl)
After a couple of years we changed our minds and haven’t looked back
Looking back it always did feel a bit awkward and like something was missing without kissing and we both enjoy kissing others now and don’t regret abandoning this rule for one second
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By *illxxMan 40 weeks ago
motherwell |
Only been to one meet where kissing wasn’t allowed it felt strange but I respect others rules |
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I do enjoy kissing lots, and it can really get the party started. I do however understand those that don't want to and respect that it is a personal thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Kissing is important to us very nice watching Mrs sky in a passionate kiss with another woman |
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By *unchalMan 40 weeks ago
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"Only been to one meet where kissing wasn’t allowed it felt strange but I respect others rules "
I feel bad for the men on here and the way they have to twist and turn to meet the expectations of the women.  |
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"Only been to one meet where kissing wasn’t allowed it felt strange but I respect others rules
I feel bad for the men on here and the way they have to twist and turn to meet the expectations of the women. "
They don't have to. If they willingly meet the requirements of others that's up to them but nobody has to do anything. |
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We don’t kiss men in our dynamic |
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Kissing is essential for me and sensual |
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Kissing is essential for me.
Recent meet asked if she could film me and her for husband and he commented that the kissing was the most passionate he had seen between any of the guys she has played with and made the video more enjoyable for him |
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For us... kissing is our preferred way to play... far more horny if all parties are happy to kiss etc |
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It’s essential. As Hot Chocolate once sang - It started with a kiss. |
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We did the no kissing thing for 3 years(1 was covid). We couldnt imagine connecting with ac ouple now without a little snog. |
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"How important is kissing ?
I love to kiss and be close!! But is that too much for feeling to be involved …
Or is it just part of swinging ?? "
I'd not really want a situation when you couldn't kiss. Seems odd to me. But if that's what other's boundaries are then that's up to them |
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By *OYFBWoman 39 weeks ago
Jersey (sometimes Notts) |
Shit kissing is a huge turn off.
Great kissing gets me instantly wet |
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