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By *izzy.Woman 46 weeks ago
Stoke area |
It is rather negative with lots of dislikes and rules.
Although the text is detailed, it's far too long. I doubt anyone will read it all.
Your photos are quite repetitive. I'd choose your favourite one from each category eg blow job, facial, boobs etc....and I've no idea what the male half looks like other than his penis and lower abdomen.
Put the rest of your photos in friends section, then people can see them all if you accept them as friends.
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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I know I'm not your cup of tea but I'll just add as someone that has kosmemophobia and im not the only one in the world, close up pics could be made private as it would be a block |
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I agree in relation to negativity. Some couple profiles can come across fairly demanding and while it's important to have boundaries you can assert them on an individual basis rather than trying to cover all your pet hates in your profile.
I also think your photos could be a bit more 'less is more'. Think about lighting, staging and composition. Have fun taking pics while you play but choose the best one from a session and upload it rather than all of them. There are a lot!
As a couple we are always frustrated when there are no pictures of the man. I also don't like up close pussy shots/dribbling cum but that's just personal preference. I don't think I'm alone in that though. |
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Lots of great advice, thank you.
I know that my profile is clumsy and needs a cement mixer worth of work, so reading all of these threads is a great help and pointer. I’m sure it’s been said before, but thank you ladies  |
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It puzzles me that you have been swinging nearly two years, have 47 verifications but still say you are fairly new to this.
I find your profile far too long and too many repetative pics but you are obviously already doing well on here |
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By *ickD80Man 46 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
You have stated so many things that you don’t like and the majority of them are things that are completely pointless saying….like how you say that you hate it when someone stops messaging you for no reason and ask people to let you know if they don’t want to chat with you anymore….well everyone hates it when that happens and everyone knows other people hate it but if someone decides they don’t want to talk to you anymore then they’re just going to stop talking to you, they won’t care how much you hate it. All the things you don’t like are things that no one likes and the people who do those things know that people don’t like them but they still do if, like you tell picture collectors not to contact you, no one wants picture collectors to contact them and picture collectors know that no one wants to be contacted by them but they still do it so telling them not to isn’t going to stop them. You come across as being hard work and a bit self absorbed, it seems like you expect people to behave exactly as you want them to and you can’t accept that not everything goes the way you want it to. You don’t seem like someone who I’d enjoy spending time with. |
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The profile is much better. It’s great to see someone taking advice. I would still argue that the “first things first” and everything after the likes and dislikes is redundant and unnecessarily negative. I would remove them.
Just close your filters and messages to men. The time wasters don’t read or mostly don’t intend to do it. Nerves get the most of people.
The photos are the area, for me, that would benefit from improving as others have said. The closeups, spunk and lack of male half is a no from us. We’re a full swap couple and I want to see the man. Women often need a spark/context and without it, you may well be limiting your options.
Just my opinion. Xx |
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Thank you everyone for the advice, we do really appreciate it and have made some changes hopefully this helps.
We do love going to clubs and that's where most of veris have come from.
Thank you all once again   |
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