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"I just mean in general, sexualy and what they are usually wanting from the extra male. "
There are so many options:
- somebody to fuck the lady with the man just watching
- somebody to fuck the lady and humiliate the man watching
- somebody to join in equally and take turns fucking, being sucked, maybe spit roasted, maybe DVP or DP
- somebody to play with the male half as well with all kinds of options
- somebody with knowledge of a certain kink (eg shibari or impact play) to give the lady or both of them a new experience
- etc. etc.
Everybody is different what they want and expect. You won't find a simple anwer. |
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By *rpeggioCouple 43 weeks ago
Baughurst |
"Someone respectful who dosent think they are there to takeover but to be a part of something "
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As a general question, this summarises it. The clue is in the word: threesome. Whatever the dynamic and degree of involvement of each of the 3 parts, the wants of everyone must be known in advance and fulfilled as best as possible. |
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"Someone respectful who dosent think they are there to takeover but to be a part of something "
Absolutely this.
As a guy joining a couple you have to respect their wishes and be thankful that you have been invited to join them.
There is no one answer fits all because each couples desires and motivations will be completely different, so ultimately communication is key so you can understand what they want.
You have to accept that they are the ones calling the shots. If you can’t, you’re not what they’re looking for |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Got to be easy on the eye with a fit body
Dress well with good footwear ( don’t ask)
Not a fucktard
Smell good
Respectful yet take it upon yourself to release the inner caveman
Decent sized cock 7”
Intelligence doesn’t really come into it, he’s there to serve a purpose
Stamina… don’t need an early release
He buys the first couple of rounds 
Doesn’t fall in love and get clingy |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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Really varies wildly from couple to couple I'd say.
We want a guy who will give and receive oral from us both then to spitroast my wife with me and cum on her back.
Another couple we know wants a guy to be in the middle on the pair.
Then another couple we know want each guy to take turns with giving the wife a creampie.
Theres so many possibilities its impossible to give a single concise answer. |
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Your there to add to there experience and remember that you are not the center of attention. I usually ask the couple before hand and try to read the room. Remember they are letting you into there personal space do be fully respectful |
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There's quite a lot of different answers, i suppose being respectful and having a chat with the Couple first is usually best to find out what they are looking for, do you tjink its usually the male of the Couple or the Female that wants ot most, just a question, there's no right or wrongs so long long as they both enjoy tje experience. |
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"There's quite a lot of different answers, i suppose being respectful and having a chat with the Couple first is usually best to find out what they are looking for, do you tjink its usually the male of the Couple or the Female that wants ot most, just a question, there's no right or wrongs so long long as they both enjoy tje experience. "
Just had a thought - you're not from Sydney University conducting a research project are you? |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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The thrill if adding another body into the mix.
Watching her enjoying another guy
Frottaging
Spit roasting
DVP
DP
We can't do most of these with just the two of us.
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"The thrill if adding another body into the mix.
Watching her enjoying another guy
Frottaging
Spit roasting
DVP
DP
I dont know what to say
I agree with you both totally and might i add amazing ink work unfortunately when trying to reply private i was unable to
We can't do most of these with just the two of us.
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First and foremost someone we both get a good vibe from. Even as a straight male couple it's important that the guys get on well together as well as ticking Mrs' boxes. It is all about team work and mutual enjoyment after all.
Someone who doesn't take themselves to seriously and is easy to have a laugh with. We like it when the interaction is just effortless and natural.
Someone who both comes across as reliable and is also actually reliable. We get life happens (it happens to us all) but we don't want to me messed around as we don't want to mess others around.
Obviously (and should go without saying) someone who is clean and fresh.
We dont have a specific list of requirements, body types, must haves. Basically man, woman, couple or group what we look for is basically the same. Natural free flowing chemistry and hot mutually enjoyable times.
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When I had a threesome I arranged a guy to come over and had my mrs come in blindfolded to a warm room of nice candle lights and soft relaxation music playing as we both slowly rubbed our hands all over her then slowly sat her on the edge of the bed to start slowly wanking and sucking us both off then gently laid her back into the bed as he went down on her pussy as she then carried on sucking my cock then slowly worked our way up to swapping over as I lick her pussy she sucked him off then we both took turns on fucking her then she rode us both in turn whilst wanking and sucking the other and then when all had a real good time we sped it all up and then got her to sit on bed again as we both finished each other off and we came all over her whilst she was rubbing her pussy was seriously hot and the most important thing is that we all agree on what happens and that everyone feels comfortable with one another xx |
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By *j555Couple 42 weeks ago
Huntingdon |
"I just mean in general, sexualy and what they are usually wanting from the extra male.
There are so many options:
- somebody to fuck the lady with the man just watching
- somebody to fuck the lady and humiliate the man watching
- somebody to join in equally and take turns fucking, being sucked, maybe spit roasted, maybe DVP or DP
- somebody to play with the male half as well with all kinds of options
- somebody with knowledge of a certain kink (eg shibari or impact play) to give the lady or both of them a new experience
- etc. etc.
Everybody is different what they want and expect. You won't find a simple anwer. "
We'd be your third point |
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Stamina of two guys
Two mouths on me
Four hands on me
A hand holding a toy in my clit while his dicks inside and my boobs kissed
A dick inside and a dick inside
Someone to hold the camera and my hair |
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"When I had a threesome I arranged a guy to come over and had my mrs come in blindfolded to a warm room of nice candle lights and soft relaxation music playing as we both slowly rubbed our hands all over her then slowly sat her on the edge of the bed to start slowly wanking and sucking us both off then gently laid her back into the bed as he went down on her pussy as she then carried on sucking my cock then slowly worked our way up to swapping over as I lick her pussy she sucked him off then we both took turns on fucking her then she rode us both in turn whilst wanking and sucking the other and then when all had a real good time we sped it all up and then got her to sit on bed again as we both finished each other off and we came all over her whilst she was rubbing her pussy was seriously hot and the most important thing is that we all agree on what happens and that everyone feels comfortable with one another xx"
Bliss!!! Lucky her |
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"I thought it was supposed to be a bit of extra fun for the female, she's supposed to be the centre of the attention. "
Most here don't care about that.. closet bi guys will use mmf for their get iff |
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By *linky1Couple 31 weeks ago
Sittingbourne |
Depends on the guy.
Everyone brings something different to the party.
The fun is all about finding what that is.
Being comfortable and knowing that a 3sum is about making space for all involved. |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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All couples are different and are looking for different things - chat to them see what each is looking for, but I have found when meeting things can change. |
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Each couple varies. Most importantly respect their wishes - it’s a privilege to be asked to join. Limits must be adhered to - paramount is their enjoyment. Fulfilment of their fantasy is most important - whatever that may entail. |
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What about enhancers, is it common, do many take them to keep up with the pace. I will soon have the pleasure of a threesome, I can easily go the distance one on one :D
I'm just preoccupied in such an erotic setting I might not last as long  |
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"What are Couples looking for when they are looking for a extra male joining them for some fun. "
Oooh complicated... To summarise - Orally bi, Mrs must fancy you, super discrete, non-pushy and respectful, trustworthy, polite, super clean and smelling nice, same interests, not a tiny or thin cock !, shaved balls, no genital piercings, good sex drive, great kisser, no quick meets, not playing away, can accomodate in a clean and tidy place and so on ! (no wonder we have so much trouble finding one  ) |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"Respect of us both like we would with them and maybe role play or even just a laugh before hand not just meet 10 or 15min and leave lol "
10 or 15 mins definitely some disappointed people out there.
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By *bi HaiveMan 30 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Every couple will be different.
And always remember - it's a 'threesome', not a couple plus a guy.
The guy is as important in the equation as the couple. His preferences, tastes, comfort and consent are as important as theirs.
He's not a sex toy just there to please and service the couple. |
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For us many years ago it began fantasising about her having both of her tits sucked together at the same time, one by me and the other by another guy, and then we had the opportunity to do this, and then it moved on and we decided that this was something we both enjoyed |
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"What are Couples looking for when they are looking for a extra male joining them for some fun.
Oooh complicated... To summarise - Orally bi, Mrs must fancy you, super discrete, non-pushy and respectful, trustworthy, polite, super clean and smelling nice, same interests, not a tiny or thin cock !, shaved balls, no genital piercings, good sex drive, great kisser, no quick meets, not playing away, can accomodate in a clean and tidy place and so on ! (no wonder we have so much trouble finding one )"
Definitely this !!!!! |
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I love a meeting with a couple. I tend to go with the flow with what the couple enjoys and the more you meet the better the fun gets. I think it helps if you are prepared to accommodate as well as travel. In short I don't think anyone is looking for anyone thing every one is different and enjoys different aspects of the lifestyle. Happy fabbing everyone |
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