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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it." 100% this | |||
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"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt. Am I correct?" How about you just show a bit of respect for people and thier preferences. | |||
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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it." Yep this exactly.  | |||
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"I have had good luck with couples and single women even though I have bi-curious on my profile. I changed from straight to bi-curious about 5 years ago to reflect my honest sexuality. If ppl don't want to meet because of that, I am fine. Everyone has boundaries.. Live and let live everyone. This place is about enjoyment.." This. | |||
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"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt. Am I correct?" You’re correct some don’t want to meet due to out of date opinions. But what would you want to meet someone with that opinion in the first place! Also, if they hold that opinion and you don’t tell them you’re bi, then you’re lying to get sex. Which is morally repugnant! | |||
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"Plenty of profiles from females and couples that say no bi guys " Also said plenty that actively look for it too. | |||
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"Plenty of profiles from females and couples that say no bi guys " I think I've come across one profile where I've read that so far...and I'm not saying that means there is only, I'm sure there are more. But that isn't 'being rejected for having bi on your profile' either is it? That's someone stating their preferences on their profile, so why would anyone who is bi even contemplate messaging them? For example, I'm a biiiig girl. If I read a profile that says 'we like athletic body shapes' I don't go and delete all my my pictures, change my profile to athletic and then message them in the hopes they won't notice - people are allowed their preferences and I wouldn't want to waste my time by meeting up with someone knowing I'm not part of their preference. | |||
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"Plenty of profiles from females and couples that say no bi guys I think I've come across one profile where I've read that so far...and I'm not saying that means there is only, I'm sure there are more. But that isn't 'being rejected for having bi on your profile' either is it? That's someone stating their preferences on their profile, so why would anyone who is bi even contemplate messaging them? For example, I'm a biiiig girl. If I read a profile that says 'we like athletic body shapes' I don't go and delete all my my pictures, change my profile to athletic and then message them in the hopes they won't notice - people are allowed their preferences and I wouldn't want to waste my time by meeting up with someone knowing I'm not part of their preference." biggest thing about you is your smile... That shines through... | |||
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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it." exactly this | |||
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"Plenty of profiles from females and couples that say no bi guys I think I've come across one profile where I've read that so far...and I'm not saying that means there is only, I'm sure there are more. But that isn't 'being rejected for having bi on your profile' either is it? That's someone stating their preferences on their profile, so why would anyone who is bi even contemplate messaging them? For example, I'm a biiiig girl. If I read a profile that says 'we like athletic body shapes' I don't go and delete all my my pictures, change my profile to athletic and then message them in the hopes they won't notice - people are allowed their preferences and I wouldn't want to waste my time by meeting up with someone knowing I'm not part of their preference.biggest thing about you is your smile... That shines through... " Nice sentiment but a little creepy as you won't have ever seen my smile and also not true - my ass is much bigger and I'm not ashamed of that! | |||
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"Plenty of profiles from females and couples that say no bi guys Also said plenty that actively look for it too. " There are plenty of females and couples that are curious to try some light bi fun I am finding out too.  | |||
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"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck. "But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck | |||
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"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.
But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck
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"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.
But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck
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"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.
But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck
Do they? Why would you need to? "Age,body shape,experience all things that people lie about | |||
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"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.
But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck
Do they? Why would you need to?
Age,body shape,experience all things that people lie about
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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it." Absolutely this | |||
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"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.
But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck
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"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt. Am I correct?" totally correct,,, i get a lot of straight guys asking for oral and anal sex at my place each week and had 3 today,,, they all state they are bi but if they are on here as bi no females or couple will talk or meet them  | |||
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"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.
But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck
Do they? Why would you need to?
Age,body shape,experience all things that people lie about
"And those people usually get caught out and to be honest I would have zero respect for anyone who lies just to get a shag. | |||
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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it." Yep exactly this! It seems weird to be dishonest just to get meets. Though tbh I do have sympathy with those who do it. It’s just not something I’d do. | |||
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" For example, I'm a biiiig girl. If I read a profile that says 'we like athletic body shapes' I don't go and delete all my my pictures, change my profile to athletic and then message them in the hopes they won't notice - people are allowed their preferences and I wouldn't want to waste my time by meeting up with someone knowing I'm not part of their preference." That cracked me right up. You've hit the nail on the head there. Live and let live. | |||
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"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.
But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck
We don’t and have never met anyone who does."Ok | |||
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"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.
But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck
We don’t and have never met anyone who does.
Ok "Why the doubt? Everyone we have met looked just like their pics, was as enthusiastically bi as they said they were if indeed they did, so didn’t lie about their sexuality, they were the age they stated and enjoyed the things they said they did and didn’t push for anything not agreed. We are exactly as described on our profile. Why is it so difficult to believe people can be honest here? | |||
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"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt. Am I correct?" Think a lot depends on whether your a bi single or part of a couple. Personally, if people are so specific about not wanting to meet bi guys, then they’re a big no-no for us. | |||
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"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross. Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic "Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue. | |||
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"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt. Am I correct?" Best to be honest... Reverse is i get so many messages from straight guys.,.its fucked up as best to be honest imho x | |||
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"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt. Am I correct? Best to be honest... Reverse is i get so many messages from straight guys.,.its fucked up as best to be honest imho x" If your not bi...no Hi x | |||
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"You could be right or you haven't connected with the ones you need to. Maybe rewrite what you're looking for?" ...said the person that hid profiles.... Gotta love the advice x | |||
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"If for whatever reason it ends up being in court you'd have a lot more explaining to do as cases go on So just be honest with yourself and others for safety reasons " Ok..cheers xx | |||
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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it." This | |||
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"You could be right or you haven't connected with the ones you need to. Maybe rewrite what you're looking for? ...said the person that hid profiles.... Gotta love the advice x" Yes but they haven’t started a thread asking for advice. | |||
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"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross. Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic
Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue."The boy band? | |||
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"You could be right or you haven't connected with the ones you need to. Maybe rewrite what you're looking for?" im always looking for something special | |||
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"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross. Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic
Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue."Pretty sure that's incorrect. Given that not telling someone about your Hiv status doesn't remove consent, I doubt very much the CPS would have any interest in someone who lied about their sexuality. https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal-guidance/rape-and-sexual-offences-chapter-6-consent#:~:text=Ostensible%20consent%20can%20be%20vitiated,the%20broad%20circumstances%20surrounding%20it | |||
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"Plenty of profiles from females and couples that say no bi guys I think I've come across one profile where I've read that so far...and I'm not saying that means there is only, I'm sure there are more. But that isn't 'being rejected for having bi on your profile' either is it? That's someone stating their preferences on their profile, so why would anyone who is bi even contemplate messaging them? For example, I'm a biiiig girl. If I read a profile that says 'we like athletic body shapes' I don't go and delete all my my pictures, change my profile to athletic and then message them in the hopes they won't notice - people are allowed their preferences and I wouldn't want to waste my time by meeting up with someone knowing I'm not part of their preference.biggest thing about you is your smile... That shines through... Nice sentiment but a little creepy as you won't have ever seen my smile and also not true - my ass is much bigger and I'm not ashamed of that! " Smile is on your pics... ??But yep with hindsight does seem a weird thing to say  | |||
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"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt. Am I correct?" Wow really  | |||
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"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross. Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic
Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue."I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with. I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past. To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past. What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside? | |||
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"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross. Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic
Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.
I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.
I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.
To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.
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"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross. Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic
Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.
I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.
I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.
To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.
What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside?"Print a spreadsheet of who you fucked to give to potential meets. Then drop the soap. | |||
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"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt. Am I correct?" Nope you're wrong 100%. Never read so much shite in my life. Lying about who you are to get a shag...red flag. Why bother with straight couples when you're bi and have way more play options than us straights. Mrs M  | |||
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"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross. Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic
Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.
I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.
I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.
To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.
What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside?
Print a spreadsheet of who you fucked to give to potential meets.
Then drop the soap. "I kissed a man 20yrs ago. Now I'm not sure if I should change my bio or not. | |||
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"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross. Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic
Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not someone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue."Whilst I support the sentiment of being honest....this is factually utter nonsense. It is not a criminal offence to be dishonest about your sexuality. The misinformation spread on these forums never fails to amaze me. | |||
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 exible and we are perfect plus ones for DP / DVP type MMF interactions - we won’t flinch if our cocks touch or our balls start slapping together.
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"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt. Am I correct?" You just put a big red flag on your profile and any new straight male profiles in your area
Honesty is the ONLY policy here.
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"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross. Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic
Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.
I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.
I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.
To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.
What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside?"I think it's a fine line. Not telling someone who hasn't stated a preference, or them not asking is somewhat different to lying to someone who has made it clear that they won't sleep with someone who is bi. I'm not exactly sure where the law stands on this, but would you really want to risk finding out? | |||
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"I’m bi-curious and won’t be changing that for anyone or any reason. I do get rejected but that’s up to them, there loss. I’d be better having another profile as a younger guy, age discrimination is worse than sexual orientation. Lol xx" Yet the young guys are always starting threads about not being able to get meets because of their age! Mr DD | |||
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"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt. Am I correct?" | |||
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"We have LOADS of straight guys who message us, declaring that they are really bi. We don't meet with them. We definitely wouldn't meet with an individual who had two profiles. " It's an insta-nope from us too, being bi isn't something to be ashamed of and the few people that don't play with bi couples we are OK with. | |||
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Just be honest with yourselves and others. Some people are bigots and wont meet you for it. We lost some good friends on here after Rob accepted his sexuality. There was never any mention of bi guy play with the male half and we were only ever soft play with them as a couple. | |||
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"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross. Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic
Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.
I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.
I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.
To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.
What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside?
I think it's a fine line. Not telling someone who hasn't stated a preference, or them not asking is somewhat different to lying to someone who has made it clear that they won't sleep with someone who is bi.
I'm not exactly sure where the law stands on this, but would you really want to risk finding out?"100% not an issue legally. Even lying about your Hiv status isn't illegal unless you reckless expose someone to hiv. Ie using a condom and telling them you're hiv negative even if you're positive is perfectly legal. (see link in my previous posts) | |||
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"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross. Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic
Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.
I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.
I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.
To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.
What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside?
I think it's a fine line. Not telling someone who hasn't stated a preference, or them not asking is somewhat different to lying to someone who has made it clear that they won't sleep with someone who is bi.
I'm not exactly sure where the law stands on this, but would you really want to risk finding out?"I'm 100% sure where the law stands on this. It's not remotely illegal. | |||
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"Nice self-cockblock, dude. I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt. Am I correct?" This | |||
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"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross. Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic
Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.
I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.
I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.
To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.
What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside?
Print a spreadsheet of who you fucked to give to potential meets.
Then drop the soap.
I kissed a man 20yrs ago. Now I'm not sure if I should change my bio or not."Wow now you’ve overstepped the mark, you donknownitsnonly gay if you kiss  | |||
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"Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue." Absolute nonsense. The police are already too busy dealing with real crimes, let alone someone being peeved about the sexual history of someone they've just had sex with. | |||
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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it." i am a bottom bi guy and do know a lot of straight guys on here are also bi,,, i can get 4-7 guys a week asking to meet for fun,,,  i normally say no thanks i dont meet straight guys,,, | |||
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"Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue. Absolute nonsense. The police are already too busy dealing with real crimes, let alone someone being peeved about the sexual history of someone they've just had sex with. " you'd be surprised tbh | |||
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"Absolute nonsense. The police are already too busy dealing with real crimes, let alone someone being peeved about the sexual history of someone they've just had sex with. you'd be surprised tbh " Yeah, very. | |||
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" Bi / Gay guys are generally far more aware and open to taking prep and pep. " The ones that are open about it are, but sadly not those sneaking around thinking their partners are completely unaware or just don’t give their partners health a second thought  | |||
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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it." Can only echo this. Much the same as we wouldn't want or expect people to change their preference to bi just to play with us either. | |||
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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it." Spot on! I couldn’t have said it better myself. | |||
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"I'd do it. I think it's hilarious that the same "straight" guy that one couple thinks meets their "no bi men" standards is in our inbox begging to suck my bfs cock "Well he does have a nice cock  | |||
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"I'd do it. I think it's hilarious that the same "straight" guy that one couple thinks meets their "no bi men" standards is in our inbox begging to suck my bfs cock "It really is funny, if you’re verified by one single ‘straight’ guy on here there’s a 50/50 chance you’ve met a bi guy, whatever his profile says. | |||
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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it." I agree, the second account I had was 2 years as a couple. I closed it when we broke up. I'm bi, if I am rejected that's fine. Tony | |||
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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it. I agree, the second account I had was 2 years as a couple. I closed it when we broke up. I'm bi, if I am rejected that's fine. Tony" ...and I've been hit on by guys who say they are straight | |||
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"Just be honest. I agree putting bi on profile has had me rejected a lot but that's ok. Even got blocked a lot too" Best be honest | |||
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"if your a woman single or couple that look for guys to play with and you actually do play then its 100% certain that you have been with a bi guy 100% dont matter how good you are at spotting one will slip in ... at one of our local clubs there are two guys who only play str8 their profiles are 100% straight yet these 2 guys you can see at local dogging spot sucking cock even seen one being fucked so yet very str8... as a bi couple it does not bother us but the lying does theres no need for it they only do it out of greed cause they want all there options open its wrong and those who are bi who attack str8 couples and women for not meeting then well we block them because if they cant understand that people can have a preference without spitting the dummy out then they dont belong on this scene... but saying that i say carry on spitting the dummy out as it gives str8 and bi gay the chance to block " Seen same at swinging festivals  | |||
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"if your a woman single or couple that look for guys to play with and you actually do play then its 100% certain that you have been with a bi guy 100% dont matter how good you are at spotting one will slip in ... at one of our local clubs there are two guys who only play str8 their profiles are 100% straight yet these 2 guys you can see at local dogging spot sucking cock even seen one being fucked so yet very str8... as a bi couple it does not bother us but the lying does theres no need for it they only do it out of greed cause they want all there options open its wrong and those who are bi who attack str8 couples and women for not meeting then well we block them because if they cant understand that people can have a preference without spitting the dummy out then they dont belong on this scene... but saying that i say carry on spitting the dummy out as it gives str8 and bi gay the chance to block Seen same at swinging festivals "...forgot about clubs n glory holes as a starter for 6... | |||
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"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt. Am I correct?" Just goto a club and no one asks your preference. So you can play straight. More people meet away from fab than on fab tbh | |||
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"If you’re bi and you set up a straight profile, then not only are you lying to potential meets, but more importantly you’re lying to yourself! You can’t possibly enjoy yourself with a straight male if you want but can’t, touch! " You do know bi men don’t want to fuck every man ffs that’s up there with backs to the wall lads, the gays are here …
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"If you’re bi and you set up a straight profile, then not only are you lying to potential meets, but more importantly you’re lying to yourself! You can’t possibly enjoy yourself with a straight male if you want but can’t, touch! " I think you'll be safe, dude. He won't be into you | |||
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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it. 100% this" Best way i think...agreed | |||
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"I’m a bi guy. I test and play safe. I don’t want to meet with bi-phobic women or couples. I’m not going to create a Straight account to improve my chances with people I would loathe being around, bleurgh…" This | |||
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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it." absolutely
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"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why?" They have a bad rep because straight men are so emotionally fragile and sexually repressed. | |||
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"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why? They have a bad rep because straight men are so emotionally fragile and sexually repressed." Unlike bi men who lie to get a fuck. | |||
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"If you’re bi and you set up a straight profile, then not only are you lying to potential meets, but more importantly you’re lying to yourself! You can’t possibly enjoy yourself with a straight male if you want but can’t, touch! You do know bi men don’t want to fuck every man ffs that’s up there with backs to the wall lads, the gays are here …
"Exactly this, I'm bi-curious but there are many guys I wouldn't play with. I have only played with guys that are part of a couple and only when it all feels right at the time. In fact I've never played one on one with a guy, only with T Girls. | |||
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"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why? They have a bad rep because straight men are so emotionally fragile and sexually repressed. Unlike bi men who lie to get a fuck. " Men lie to get fucked. You think straight guys won't say anything to get sex? Literally anything? What you're seeing is a guy thing, it's just that it's affecting other guys and that's why you think it's so awful. What bi men do to men, all men do to women. | |||
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"If you’re bi and you set up a straight profile, then not only are you lying to potential meets, but more importantly you’re lying to yourself! You can’t possibly enjoy yourself with a straight male if you want but can’t, touch! You do know bi men don’t want to fuck every man ffs that’s up there with backs to the wall lads, the gays are here …
Exactly this, I'm bi-curious but there are many guys I wouldn't play with.
I have only played with guys that are part of a couple and only when it all feels right at the time. In fact I've never played one on one with a guy, only with T Girls."But like you could have am MMF with a straight guy who didn't want to have sexual contact with you, right? Your bisexuality doesn't mean you can't respect basic boundaries. | |||
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"I posted on my status last week on this..i had 10 + 'straight' guys wanting to suck, ride, play with my dick so made a point of messinging each back to ask if they were straight why were they interested ?..all responded that they lie cus women/couples might not like meeting with bi men ! ...as loads of others have already said, just be honest, its not ok to decieve others from making an informed choice x " I'd never unload my sexual history past recent STD results so a couple can decide if they're into what sex I've had with other people. Get a backbone. | |||
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"Op if your worried people reject I because your bi then surely they're not worth meeting by changing to straight" Easy to say but it's hard enough to get meets! Not being openly bi isn't a scam either - none of their business who else i sleep with really! Just what happens on our meet | |||
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"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why? They have a bad rep because straight men are so emotionally fragile and sexually repressed. Unlike bi men who lie to get a fuck. Men lie to get fucked. You think straight guys won't say anything to get sex? Literally anything? What you're seeing is a guy thing, it's just that it's affecting other guys and that's why you think it's so awful. What bi men do to men, all men do to women." All men lie to get sex. Amazing.  | |||
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"One of the most unattractive things imaginable is desperation, and pretending to be something you aren’t just to get laid is peak desperation." And yet....... | |||
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"If you’re bi and you set up a straight profile, then not only are you lying to potential meets, but more importantly you’re lying to yourself! You can’t possibly enjoy yourself with a straight male if you want but can’t, touch! You do know bi men don’t want to fuck every man ffs that’s up there with backs to the wall lads, the gays are here …
Exactly this, I'm bi-curious but there are many guys I wouldn't play with.
I have only played with guys that are part of a couple and only when it all feels right at the time. In fact I've never played one on one with a guy, only with T Girls.
But like you could have am MMF with a straight guy who didn't want to have sexual contact with you, right? Your bisexuality doesn't mean you can't respect basic boundaries. "Yes absolutely and have done. It's all about the dynamic at the time. At the end of the day it's all about having fun and you can still have fun whilst respecting other people's boundaries. | |||
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"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why? They have a bad rep because straight men are so emotionally fragile and sexually repressed. Unlike bi men who lie to get a fuck. Men lie to get fucked. You think straight guys won't say anything to get sex? Literally anything? What you're seeing is a guy thing, it's just that it's affecting other guys and that's why you think it's so awful. What bi men do to men, all men do to women. All men lie to get sex. Amazing. "It's certainly not a bi or gay thing by any means. Ask any woman. | |||
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"If you’re bi and you set up a straight profile, then not only are you lying to potential meets, but more importantly you’re lying to yourself! You can’t possibly enjoy yourself with a straight male if you want but can’t, touch! You do know bi men don’t want to fuck every man ffs that’s up there with backs to the wall lads, the gays are here …
Exactly this, I'm bi-curious but there are many guys I wouldn't play with.
I have only played with guys that are part of a couple and only when it all feels right at the time. In fact I've never played one on one with a guy, only with T Girls.
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"No, you aren't correct - you're openly discussing trying to deceive people to get a fuck." Why does it your attraction to other people matter? Do I have to say whether I like marmite? Or cavier? | |||
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"Can't we all just be what we are ? If you are Bi or Bi curious say that you are and stop hiding behind a straight label. It does slightly rankle when people send you a message and it says straight on their profile and say they are happy to do Bi stuff. What on earth is that all about ? " Yes this ...genuinely get fu@@ed off with straight SGs saying "I'm bi...then you mention anal play they go "no I'm not gay" wtf?? | |||
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"Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue. Absolute nonsense. The police are already too busy dealing with real crimes, let alone someone being peeved about the sexual history of someone they've just had sex with. " Exactly this...didn't know we had "Bi patrols" | |||
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"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why?" Wow that's a very sweeping statement there!!
I'm bi (Mr R) I don't deceive to get laid, straight or bi, I don't need to push any agenda to have sex
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"I've often wondered why/what it is that the folk that put that preference is about. Is it the fear of Aids or something else. Curious as to the possible answers." ... and some people put they only want to meet white English male on their profile!?!??
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"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why?" Think you will find if you read the full thread the majority of openly bi guys disagree with the lies and deceit of the OP. Why are you so averse to bi guys, do they threaten your fragile masculinity. Or is it too much competition for the fanny | |||
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"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why? Think you will find if you read the full thread the majority of openly bi guys disagree with the lies and deceit of the OP. Why are you so averse to bi guys, do they threaten your fragile masculinity. Or is it too much competition for the fanny "For the reason I stated. Too much lies from so many of them. I did say it's not all bi guys, but a good number. Why I avoid them. As for too much competition, I'm 100% gay so no interest in that lol nice try though. But like most gay guys get a tad fed up with all the "straight" guys winking, messaging, fabbing. If they are straight why contact a gay man - it's ludicrous. And if they lie about that - what other things are they hiding. And as for threatining my masculinity - not a chance, masculinity is what I'm attracted to - nothing masculine about wearing womens nicks, which looking at this site and fabguys the vast majority who feminise themselves up are overwhelmingly bi guys. | |||
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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it." SPOT ON. I get more messages from " straight men " than bi. If you aren't true to yourself, then you not going to be telling me the truth. Honesty is a long forgotten standard | |||
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"Yeah, see that sounds really quite predatory. It also doesn't sound like you hold much respect for single males at all; putting tests in place..." Well if straight men didn’t lie to get laid I don’t imagine they would have to put tests in place. | |||
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"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why? Think you will find if you read the full thread the majority of openly bi guys disagree with the lies and deceit of the OP. Why are you so averse to bi guys, do they threaten your fragile masculinity. Or is it too much competition for the fanny
For the reason I stated. Too much lies from so many of them. I did say it's not all bi guys, but a good number. Why I avoid them. As for too much competition, I'm 100% gay so no interest in that lol nice try though. But like most gay guys get a tad fed up with all the "straight" guys winking, messaging, fabbing. If they are straight why contact a gay man - it's ludicrous. And if they lie about that - what other things are they hiding. And as for threatining my masculinity - not a chance, masculinity is what I'm attracted to - nothing masculine about wearing womens nicks, which looking at this site and fabguys the vast majority who feminise themselves up are overwhelmingly bi guys. "Must learn to check profile before being cheeky My apologies | |||
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"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it." And thank you!! I'm not interested in a bi guy and to be tricked because he's trying to increase his reach pool is exactly why I'm not interested. | |||
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