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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all. Still relatively new here and only have a handful of pics, apart from one without a top I seem to be much more overdressed than the majority of profile photos you see and I haven't got one of my cock either. Don't get many likes or whatever. Should I up the ante with my photos. |
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By *illanelleWoman
over a year ago
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Tbh, I'd say get rid of the first 2 (on the train and in front of the coats).
If you feel the need to add some more where you're less clothed make them friends' only if that's more comfortable for you.
We all know what a cock looks like and it's refreshing to see a male profile that isn't just dick pics.
Maybe concentrate more on your written profile, which is a bit sparse and is where you really get to 'sell' yourself.
And remember, single men outnumber women and couples massively; don't take it personally if it takes a while  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d take a look at other guys profiles to get an idea for pics. You can view in stealth mode if that’s easier. 
Also check out the current hot pics, they’re a good indicator of what’s popular.
You’re correct about not showing dick pics. You can always keep them for friends only.
As others have mentioned maybe write a bit more on your profile.
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d ditch the pic on the train.
It isn’t great quality.
We like to see a recent upper torso shot of reasonable quality just to judge body type, ie hairy, fat, thin, toned etc.
yeah leave the dick pictures till requested.
Our opinion.
Good luck. |
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"Tbh, I'd say get rid of the first 2 (on the train and in front of the coats).
If you feel the need to add some more where you're less clothed make them friends' only if that's more comfortable for you.
We all know what a cock looks like and it's refreshing to see a male profile that isn't just dick pics.
Maybe concentrate more on your written profile, which is a bit sparse and is where you really get to 'sell' yourself.
And remember, single men outnumber women and couples massively; don't take it personally if it takes a while "
This 
Try to be unique on a site full of men. The photos are Ok, you’re showing your face a lot of other guys don’t. That’s already trying to stand out from the rest.
Now improve the profile text as suggested. |
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Having decided what your objectives are with your pics, you can then ensure that you meet them, by including appropriate pics. And experiment with chopping and changing things, to see if some have better results than others.
Cock pics aren't seen as essential.
I view a profile to get as accurate as possible an understanding of how a man looks. I can then decide if I think he's attractive. If photos leave me cold, because I really get no clue at all, I move on.
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Having decided what your objectives are with your pics, you can then ensure that you meet them, by including appropriate pics. And experiment with chopping and changing things, to see if some have better results than others.
Cock pics aren't seen as essential.
I view a profile to get as accurate as possible an understanding of how a man looks. I can then decide if I think he's attractive. If photos leave me cold, because I really get no clue at all, I move on.
Good luck! "
Well I hope you didn't feel cold looking at mine lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tbh, I'd say get rid of the first 2 (on the train and in front of the coats).
If you feel the need to add some more where you're less clothed make them friends' only if that's more comfortable for you.
We all know what a cock looks like and it's refreshing to see a male profile that isn't just dick pics.
Maybe concentrate more on your written profile, which is a bit sparse and is where you really get to 'sell' yourself.
And remember, single men outnumber women and couples massively; don't take it personally if it takes a while
This
Try to be unique on a site full of men. The photos are Ok, you’re showing your face a lot of other guys don’t. That’s already trying to stand out from the rest.
Now improve the profile text as suggested. "
Ha thank you. I will get it updated asap. |
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"Hi all. .., I haven't got one of my cock either. ... "
There should be one cock pic.
Looking through profiles and messages with a friend-female, you (plural) want
* sense of the person in what they write
* overall body pic - their overall build and appearance
* cock pic - this is swinging site - what's the reality here
A lady and / or couple get a lot of approaches so those without "the full set" are passed-by (ignored). |
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For a guys profile I think the pics are pretty good, give me clothed over close up cock anyday.
As for ideas, maybe teasing shots, suit, towel that kind of thing, you dont have to get naked, a bit if mystery can be good.
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