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What do women who do pegging get out of it?
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By *ilhay OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
Genuine question.
What do women who do pegging get out of it?
Is it the power thing of assuming a dominant roll over a man? or is there genuine physical pleasure there? enough to cum? are there bumps on the inside of the strap on that rub the clit for this?
Just wondering what it is that women would like about this situation.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it’s a number of reasons.
Initially I wanted to experience giving instead of taking.
I’m fairly dominant in sexual situations and I enjoy fucking someone regardless of gender.
I suppose you’d describe me as versatile.
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"Genuine question.
What do women who do pegging get out of it?
Is it the power thing of assuming a dominant roll over a man? or is there genuine physical pleasure there? enough to cum? are there bumps on the inside of the strap on that rub the clit for this?
Just wondering what it is that women would like about this situation.
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There are double ended pegs/strap-ons with one end going inside the lady. Some of these are so called strapless strap-ons and others that work with a belt. But physically aside it is the mental side of things that I think a lot like. Why do we all do anything that doesn't give us direct physical sexual pleasure? For example a man using a dildo or wand on a lady. Same reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Genuine question.
What do women who do pegging get out of it?
There are double ended pegs/strap-ons with one end going inside the lady. Some of these are so called strapless strap-ons and others that work with a belt. But physically aside it is the mental side of things that I think a lot like. Why do we all do anything that doesn't give us direct physical sexual pleasure? For example a man using a dildo or wand on a lady. Same reasons. "
Yes, this. However now that I’m actually giving it some thought I’ve realised that in the moment I’m concentrating more on their pleasure than my own.
Which of course means pleasure for me too if they are clearly enjoying it.
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What's in it for the man to go down on a woman?
Is that the same thing?
I get the sentiment though. I suppose for some women, it's the dominance thing?
We've got a strapless 'strap-on' that Lisa inserts.
It's not as robust as a normal strap on and can need holding, she can't go hard, but there's at least a feeling for her.
I think normally, you'd have to use a vibrator or something inside the strap on to get mutual pleasure going.
But then some women can't/don't climax from penetration only, so again, isn't penetration for those couples one sided?
Lots of thoughts there eh?
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Well, I bought a strap-on which has a small internal dildo for the wearer, and hubby attached a vibrating cock-ring to the base, so I get some really powerful orgasms from both that and knowing he's enjoying the action as much as I am.
It's one of the few times I am in charge of things, so that's also a big factor. |
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By *ilhay OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
as someone who loves going down on ladies and giving pleasure , just for them, i do understand the desire and pleasure gained from giving pleasure ... so perhaps my question was a bit silly when looked at that way.
but im also hearing that theres a lot of wanting to be in control/dominant coming through too.
I know its personal to the individual but, which is the bigger factor do you think?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know its personal to the individual but, which is the bigger factor do you think?
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If I had to pick the main reason it would be playing the dominant role.
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
There is no bigger turn on than turning someone you fancy the arse off, on, with something they enjoy.. I am not dominant, I prefer thongs on a more even keel... Unless I know someone extremely well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Satisfaction for myself, knowing I'm in control of his orgasm. It turns me on  "
This, and also the feeling of empowerment it gives me along with the actual physical feeling of it pushing against me too xxx |
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I love pegging Darren, when we know I'm going to be pegging him there's a lot of playing beforehand to get him ready which is so sexy when I'm actually pegging him I love how he enjoys it which definitely gives me a kick but I always cum too as the position of the strap on is over my clit so it's a win all round |
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I get my pleasure from giving pleasure and i'm sure some women feel the same, i was as straight as the day is long but the feeling of having your arse teased and played with gave me the most intense orgasms of my life, as Oliver said, more please ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex is massively a creature of both the mind and body. Pegging allows women to explore the mental side of being the one to penertrate/be in charge, control, pleasure another, even dominate...
Sex is complex and wonderful. That's one of the best things about this site is that there are people here who want to explore and not just judge based on what society accepts as normal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be about having control over there enjoyment & hopefully making them groan & moan from the pleasure & them asking me to give them more & harder  |
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The few girl's I've done it with have primarily wanted to try it for the power exchange role play aspect
I know some guys can cum from it, the prostrate massage but that's not happened for me
However, if any girl wanted to try it I'd say yeah because I get off on my partner getting off, you know
Not cumming doesn't mean something didn't work |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
For us it's the role reversal, but mostly and seems often unspoken about is the trust, surrender and vulnerability he gives to me in the act!! That's the real thrill.
I sometimes 'try' to give it as hard as he does and both of us being switch with slightly sadistic streaks on occasion, pushing him to use our safe words is very hot too (although we get a little bored of the prominent "fem domme" portrayal sometimes)  |
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By *ltguy1Man
over a year ago
REDDITCH |
Having been pegged with large toys and regularly fisted it's the whole experience, the excitement. The trust too and being pleasured in new ways without needing to touch my cock.
Plus just seeing a woman wearing a strapon gives me butterflies |
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"Genuine question.
What do women who do pegging get out of it?
Is it the power thing of assuming a dominant roll over a man? or is there genuine physical pleasure there? enough to cum? are there bumps on the inside of the strap on that rub the clit for this?
Just wondering what it is that women would like about this situation.
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They get washing out and dry...oh not that sort of pegging |
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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago
Welwyn garden city |
It's a mixture of the control and the pleasure he receives from it. I have had many orgasms from pegging my hubby. I have used a strap on with others. But it isn't the same. Enjoyable, but not orgasmic |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
"It's a mixture of the control and the pleasure he receives from it. I have had many orgasms from pegging my hubby. I have used a strap on with others. But it isn't the same. Enjoyable, but not orgasmic "
And that! |
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By *ilhay OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
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But I don't peg with a strap on its bullets only I don't want a role reversal I like the roles as is."
Woah, I would like some more information about this hot sounding situation!!!   |
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"You could ask the same about a blow job, no?
Not. Really the same because some of us can cum from giving a blow job with no other stimulation required other than the love of doing it."
Speaking as a guy who rarely cums from a bj, this would be something to experience  |
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