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By *lasgow sth OP Man over a year ago

glasgow

What are peoples worst meeting experiences on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being sexually assaulted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Turning up to a ladies flat and it was disgusting.

Layers and layers of takeaway dishes stacked up down the side of the sofa, house was very smelly, she looked like the girls in the profile photos mother (very old photos)

Was very disappointing

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By *uriojohnMan over a year ago

Nr St Andrews

Was at a well known swingers club in Scotland and got chatting to an insanely hot and down to earth couple. We really clicked and after a while we disappeared into a room together.

After a bit they asked if I was ok with leaving the door open for others to watch.

Obviously it was fine (being a swingers club and all that)

Soon there was a small crowd which had three guys who didn’t speak English.

Things progressed and as soon as I came the three guys started clapping and cheering !!

NEVER felt so embarrassed in my life, it was awful.

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"Turning up to a ladies flat and it was disgusting.

Layers and layers of takeaway dishes stacked up down the side of the sofa, house was very smelly, she looked like the girls in the profile photos mother (very old photos)

Was very disappointing "
Did you still go there with her or leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Did you still go there with her or leave"

Which do you think?

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By *ering SeaMan over a year ago

Penicuik

Never had a bad one, just some better than others. Feel like I’m missing out

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

Had a few in my early days but learnt from my mistakes and now i am much wiser

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By *ilveryFoxMan over a year ago

Midlothian

"Was at a well known swingers club in Scotland and got chatting to an insanely hot and down to earth couple. We really clicked and after a while we disappeared into a room together.

After a bit they asked if I was ok with leaving the door open for others to watch.

Obviously it was fine (being a swingers club and all that)

Soon there was a small crowd which had three guys who didn’t speak English.

Things progressed and as soon as I came the three guys started clapping and cheering !!

NEVER felt so embarrassed in my life, it was awful.

Sorry fella, this made me laugh

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By *elsbells2011Couple over a year ago

fife

Met a guy who couldn’t get hard. Little awkward but these things happen. As he was apologising and explaining that he’s had a lot on his plate recently as his dog had just died then started cry. Here’s me all dressed up sexy with a guy bawling his eyes out telling me details of how his dug met its demise. Didn’t know whether to cuddle him or throw him out

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By *eep.Man over a year ago

Just a background character

Never had one - t1nder now that's another story!

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Met a guy who couldn’t get hard. Little awkward but these things happen. As he was apologising and explaining that he’s had a lot on his plate recently as his dog had just died then started cry. Here’s me all dressed up sexy with a guy bawling his eyes out telling me details of how his dug met its demise. Didn’t know whether to cuddle him or throw him out "

Think i would have cried with him.

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By *eriouslyMischievousWoman over a year ago

Dundee

Had a guy cum in my hand with the first touch

And a threesome with a couple where the woman had been forced to be there by her other half

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Had a guy cum in my hand with the first touch

And a threesome with a couple where the woman had been forced to be there by her other half

The threesome must have been ackward

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By *eriouslyMischievousWoman over a year ago

Dundee

"Had a guy cum in my hand with the first touch

And a threesome with a couple where the woman had been forced to be there by her other half

The threesome must have been ackward"

I spotted it straight away and refused the man to proceed any further. Felt heart sorry on the poor lass

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The girl showed up absolutely shit-faced.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Had a guy cum in my hand with the first touch

And a threesome with a couple where the woman had been forced to be there by her other half

The threesome must have been ackward

I spotted it straight away and refused the man to proceed any further. Felt heart sorry on the poor lass"
...

Good for you

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By *eriouslyMischievousWoman over a year ago

Dundee

"The girl showed up absolutely shit-faced."

Sure it wasn't chocolate mousse?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The girl showed up absolutely shit-faced.

Sure it wasn't chocolate mousse?"

You think I didn't check that before I sent her packing....?

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

"The girl showed up absolutely shit-faced.

Sure it wasn't chocolate mousse?

You think I didn't check that before I sent her packing....?"

Maybe she had been rimming the man before you.

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By *eriouslyMischievousWoman over a year ago

Dundee

"The girl showed up absolutely shit-faced.

Sure it wasn't chocolate mousse?

You think I didn't check that before I sent her packing....?

Maybe she had been rimming the man before you."

Christ!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The girl showed up absolutely shit-faced.

Sure it wasn't chocolate mousse?

You think I didn't check that before I sent her packing....?

Maybe she had been rimming the man before you."

It's possible. Might go some way in explaining her inebriated state.

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By *uietbloke67Man over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

She lied about her age. She only wanted bareback and her boyfriend sent a text every 3 minutes to see what was happened....this happened....you bolt hen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t normally meet spontaneously. One night I was in ‘fuck it’ mode. After chatting to this hot guy for a length of time leading to my ‘fuck it’ moment. I went to meet him. I’m stood outside on the phone to him.. ‘yoohoo I’m here, where’s you?’. ‘I’m here’ he says, I’m looking about, see a couple of other guys but not him. He says ‘i see you’, me... ‘eh I don’t see you’, as I’m turning in circles. A voice behind says ‘hey’. Well... wtf! Clearly he had been on fab a longggg time. Shorter, lots heavier, and lots older.

Chatted, made my apologies and left. Next day my friend on here messages to ask if I knew he had put a meet up looking for another couple, mentioning me. A polite message to tell him my thoughts and.. blocked!

No more ‘fuck it’ moments

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After chatting to a guy for a while we arranged a social and it went very well, great kisser, couldn't wait to play with him, we discussed many things we wanted to do and when we met up he came within seconds and I mean seconds, possibly 3 but actually it was more like 2 of me putting my lips around his cock, he was obviously very excited but he went soft and an hour later he was still soft and I was very frustrated, he just couldn't get hard again

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By *ightimefun2Couple over a year ago

stirling

We arranged to meet a couple in Glasgow once. came through from Stirling. Meet them in bar 38. Place is heaving. Saturday night. After 15 mins or so we realize they've invited lots of other couples we ended up upstairs with about 5 couples none of which knew all these others were invited. We had to listen to the male sitting holding Court telling boring stories that only his Mrs found hilarious. People made excuses one by one and left. Between travel babysitting drinks etc the night cost us a fortune to listen to some windbag for a couple of hours. Oh and one of the couples they knew and invited brought their teenage son along with them. Yes really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Turned up at a lady’s house it was a tip .. she was absolutely hammered and first thing she asked me was had I brought vodka .. I didn’t go any further than the hall replied politely no I’ll go and get some for you .. left immediately and obviously never went back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pulling off the woman’s trousers to discover a full hairy smelly fanny.. gave me the ??

Hygiene and grooming is a must ladies!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being sexually assaulted"

That’s shocking! Hope you’re ok now?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pulling off the woman’s trousers to discover a full hairy smelly fanny.. gave me the ??

Hygiene and grooming is a must ladies!

I shampoo the fanny fuzz, but I don't blow dry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pulling off the woman’s trousers to discover a full hairy smelly fanny.. gave me the ??

Hygiene and grooming is a must ladies!

I shampoo the fanny fuzz, but I don't blow dry "

Don’t get me wrong I don’t mind the bush but ladyscaping is appreciated

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By *unseekers87Couple over a year ago

Glasgow ish

That must have been ruff

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being sexually assaulted

That’s shocking! Hope you’re ok now? "

Sure was. I ignored my gut instinct. Took a bit to get over it but I'm strong as steel.

I just wished I'd gone to the police.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being sexually assaulted

That’s shocking! Hope you’re ok now?

Sure was. I ignored my gut instinct. Took a bit to get over it but I'm strong as steel.

I just wished I'd gone to the police. "

Hopefully karma gets the fucker....or a number 62 bus

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Had a couple where the guy couldnt get hard ,so we just played ourselves ,but one told us he had a room we went it was a tiny room with a single bed ,nearly left then wish we had ,but we started to play he couldnt get hard ,hubby said to give me oral might help he licked like a cat slurping milk for 10 seconds then got up ,i was frustrated so hubby satisfied me on his own not what we are here for ,AND he asked to meet again ffss

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By *1ck1Man over a year ago

dundee

Had been chatting to a gal for a while, decided to meet up for drinks at the local, she asked me back to hers which i accepted, proceeded to do the deed and the door opens to the bedroom in walks another gal naked, only to find out its her mum and she wants to join in, well the shock of it i flopped n couldn't get hard again so made my excuse and left

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Weird ish experience of when I had a "fuck it" moment and was too horny and never met before. Took up a late night bioty call invite - 49 min journey in the car there. Braw clean house. He did have any condoms! He wasn't keen that I brought them. Much younger chap than me and all. I could think of was that be "pounced" (seriously!) around like a wild cat I had to stop myself from laughing. Still, we both got the result we needed. Never again though.

#2 was after pronged intelligent conversation except I hadn't seen a photo of him. He accommodated. And never will I do that again! Got to his abode, all I can say it smelt strongly of a thrift shop, decor and furniture stuck firmly with melamine wardrobes etc of the 1970s or earlier. He smelt too. OMG. I had to stop myself from being physically sick on lea ibg premises!

Fella came all the way through from Glasgow if only to see me for 10 mins. I did try to discourage him (I had already had a social). Anyhoo, some car fun but OMG, if he asked me once "am I inside you?" he asked 4 times. NOT a 5th. I had to dismount him

and tell him he's well and truly killed the moment. Unfortunately for him, he was only around 3" erect and needless to say when he offered booking a hotel, I politely declined.

Yup I could write a comic stage set!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Apols for apparent typos.. Trying to type quick on sensitive key pad while rushing out the door isn't great timing to use spellchecker!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone I had been chatting to came round for fun but rubbed me so hard he bruised me had to tell him to leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Had been chatting to a gal for a while, decided to meet up for drinks at the local, she asked me back to hers which i accepted, proceeded to do the deed and the door opens to the bedroom in walks another gal naked, only to find out its her mum and she wants to join in, well the shock of it i flopped n couldn't get hard again so made my excuse and left "

Did it really end with you waking up with your penis in your hand and realising it was all a wet dream?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"#1

and tell him he's well and truly killed the moment. Unfortunately for him, he was only around 3" erect and needless to say when he offered booking a hotel, I politely declined.

Yup I could write a comic stage set!

Ha ha... last one. Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

had a knife pulled on me....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We arranged to meet a couple in Glasgow once. came through from Stirling. Meet them in bar 38. Place is heaving. Saturday night. After 15 mins or so we realize they've invited lots of other couples we ended up upstairs with about 5 couples none of which knew all these others were invited. We had to listen to the male sitting holding Court telling boring stories that only his Mrs found hilarious. People made excuses one by one and left. Between travel babysitting drinks etc the night cost us a fortune to listen to some windbag for a couple of hours. Oh and one of the couples they knew and invited brought their teenage son along with them. Yes really"

What the actual fuck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The experience of that is fab and not getting any experience

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By *irth VaderMan over a year ago

glasgow

Met a lady in Carlisle for a social with the possibility of some fun sites to follow. She was easily 15 years older than she said, was half cut, smelled like an ashtray but only smoked occasionally. I bought her a few drinks and rolled her into a taxi, I gave the driver a tenner and left.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was at a well known swingers club in Scotland and got chatting to an insanely hot and down to earth couple. We really clicked and after a while we disappeared into a room together.

After a bit they asked if I was ok with leaving the door open for others to watch.

Obviously it was fine (being a swingers club and all that)

Soon there was a small crowd which had three guys who didn’t speak English.

Things progressed and as soon as I came the three guys started clapping and cheering !!

NEVER felt so embarrassed in my life, it was awful.

Mine was similar, didn't realise it was a public room that we were in

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By *ighland gentlemanMan over a year ago

Ardgay

Lets just say it was the sort of house you wiped your feet on the way out!

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By *argaidMan over a year ago

glasgow

Not through here, but...

Met in the Solid Rock for a date with a girl is been seeing for a couple of weeks. She proceeded to get absolutely smashed. Threw up in the cab on the way back to mine. Gave her a bottle of mouthwash to rinse out before brushing and she proceeded to drink that. Put her to bed and went to sleep. Woke up in the morning with her sanitary towel stuck bloody side down to my thigh (don't ask me how as her knickers were still on).

We didn't last much longer after that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess I’ve been lucky on here.

No horror stories, only happy memories

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not through here, but...

We didn't last much longer after that."

Ha ha ha.......sanitary towel bit had me in stitches....that's just a kick in the stones to round off a perfect evening!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not everyone would admit it but I was the let down. A really nice looking couple arrived we chatted and had a drink. We started to get naked and she went down on my cock. I came straight away. I was so embarrassed I couldn't help it. They both laughed it off and I ended up watching them get down and dirty.

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By *ill67Man over a year ago

alloa

meeting an absolute nutter,physco

threats threatening others on here that I had meets with stealing pictures and God knows what else she did to others and me before anyone says it reported numerous times she leaves rejoins

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By *tew008Man over a year ago

edinburgh

"Pulling off the woman’s trousers to discover a full hairy smelly fanny.. gave me the ??

Hygiene and grooming is a must ladies!

I shampoo the fanny fuzz, but I don't blow dry

Don’t get me wrong I don’t mind the bush but ladyscaping is appreciated

Long as there isn’t dreadlocks down there

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By *ot as FATnFAB nowWoman over a year ago

Irvine Toon

Being physically assaulted for not sleeping with a guy! Scared the fuck out of me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being physically assaulted for not sleeping with a guy! Scared the fuck out of me

Jeezuz fook - that's absolutely appalling - sorry to hear you or anyone experienced a similar situation.

Did you manage to report it/get away safely? I do hope the (insert nasty expletive) was caught

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No matter where you meet someone, if you are physically or sexually asssulted report it. Imo I think people think you’ll be too scared/ashamed etc go say it was through online site. The police don’t care as it’s such a common medium for people to connect now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"meeting an absolute nutter,physco

threats threatening others on here that I had meets with stealing pictures and God knows what else she did to others and me before anyone says it reported numerous times she leaves rejoins "

There's a few of these

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"meeting an absolute nutter,physco

threats threatening others on here that I had meets with stealing pictures and God knows what else she did to others and me before anyone says it reported numerous times she leaves rejoins "
sadly heard this all to often about a certain individual on here

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By *ufflinkslaceMan over a year ago

glasgow

After a long while chatting to a couple on here, swapping a few photos, arranged to meet for drink before heading to their hotel room.

Turned up to find only the M there. He made excuses that his F will be late. He proceeded to get d*unk, story for his F being late kept changing and contradicting. He then suggested we just go back to mine rather than the hotel and get 'warmed up'.

Called him out for having a fake couples profile and walked.

Was him and his wife in the pics but always wondered if she even knew about the hubby's Fab account, and that she was on it. (P.s. git blocked me before I could report)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"had a knife pulled on me...."

Horrendous. I'm sorry.

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By *othardandfreeMan over a year ago

Send her and her mum this way then

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By *tew1985Man over a year ago

Near You

"Being sexually assaulted

That’s shocking! Hope you’re ok now?

Sure was. I ignored my gut instinct. Took a bit to get over it but I'm strong as steel.

I just wished I'd gone to the police.

Hopefully karma gets the fucker....or a number 62 bus

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By *homeursMan over a year ago

boston

I’d been chatting with this woman for a good while, pics were sent back and forward and then we finally decided to meet in a lay-by on the A1. I turned up as planned and she pulled up behind me. Dressed in a long coat she got out her car to find me ready and waiting in the back seat.. she entered my car, removed her coat to reveal only stockings and suspenders.. we got straight down to the action. After about 10 mins, with passions running high and steamed up windows I hear a knock on the car window!! Bugger I thought I’ve been rumbled. Trying to cover our modesty the door opens and there’s this kid standing there.. “ mum, will you be long we’re bored” only turned up with 3 kids as her babysitter let her down!! That at that point was the passion killer for me..

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By *iscolandMan over a year ago

Glasgow

Aww shit, in tears with that one

brilliant

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By *kbull2000Man over a year ago

Carluke

"I’d been chatting with this woman for a good while, pics were sent back and forward and then we finally decided to meet in a lay-by on the A1. I turned up as planned and she pulled up behind me. Dressed in a long coat she got out her car to find me ready and waiting in the back seat.. she entered my car, removed her coat to reveal only stockings and suspenders.. we got straight down to the action. After about 10 mins, with passions running high and steamed up windows I hear a knock on the car window!! Bugger I thought I’ve been rumbled. Trying to cover our modesty the door opens and there’s this kid standing there.. “ mum, will you be long we’re bored” only turned up with 3 kids as her babysitter let her down!! That at that point was the passion killer for me.."

Fuck, I actually spat out my cola!

Anyway, I met up with a couple after weeks of chatting with both. He was desperate to see her with another guy and she was only too happy to accommodate him. She and I get down to it , only to be disturbed by him sobbing and begging us to stop. Total passion killer !

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By *ch WellMan over a year ago

Scotland

Had a few ranging from the filthy house to being sent fake addresses. Also had a couple which were down to me not being able to perform.

One of them being I turned up for an MMF but I just couldn't manage. I dunno if the woman was just that shy but she was coming across as if she wasn't right, almost like learning difficulties tho was apparently a nurse. I just couldn't get out of my head she wasn't right. Major turn off so I left.

Also had another to my eternal shame I just couldn't get it up. Cracking looking girl she was but for some reason that day my cock decided just not to work.

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS over a year ago

Edinburgh

I know it doesn't really fit the criteria, as I'd not say I've had a bad meet from here, given that I've had so few.

But on a dating site, I spent ages chatting to a girl, we spoke on the phone for hours and then after weeks of arranging thins, we finally met up.

It was a great night, we chatted, had a laugh, and fun a few times. It also led to one of my funniest sex stories ever, which I THINK I've told on here before.

In the morning things seemed fine, we kissed when we said Cheerio, then she patched me.

She had logged into my PC whilst here and on the MSN page she left logged in I found out her and her friends had been doing a game, where they got points for folks they slept with.

I was literally a notch on her bedpost

It really hurt. Probably cause I was younger at the time and also actually felt something for her.

Nowadays I don't get invested like that, only my girlfriend is worthy of that level of affection.

Mandy

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By *hav02Man over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Haven't really had.. although, few years back had a woman stop halfway. She ran to the bathroom and said I'd broken her and she needed a break

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anytime the babysitter let us down lol

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

"Had a couple where the guy couldnt get hard ,so we just played ourselves ,but one told us he had a room we went it was a tiny room with a single bed ,nearly left then wish we had ,but we started to play he couldnt get hard ,hubby said to give me oral might help he licked like a cat slurping milk for 10 seconds then got up ,i was frustrated so hubby satisfied me on his own not what we are here for ,AND he asked to meet again ffss

So funny - he licked like a cat slurping milk - I know exactly what you mean.

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

"Was at a well known swingers club in Scotland and got chatting to an insanely hot and down to earth couple. We really clicked and after a while we disappeared into a room together.

After a bit they asked if I was ok with leaving the door open for others to watch.

Obviously it was fine (being a swingers club and all that)

Soon there was a small crowd which had three guys who didn’t speak English.

Things progressed and as soon as I came the three guys started clapping and cheering !!

NEVER felt so embarrassed in my life, it was awful.

You deserve a round of applause.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So many bad experiences, frightening

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met a couple from Perth, we got on well, but back in my house when the fun was to start, the guy started acting strange he went quiet then got up and walked out banging the door. His partner says he does this often, I didn't feel comfortable so nothing happened, it was awhile until he came back. It was a really bad atmosphere, got to know people very very well before taking them back to my place. It was scary

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Worst experience ever on here would be back at the beginning

I was chatting to a lady for some time when I was invited over to her house.

Drove for a good three quarters of an hour looking for this place. When I arrived she had clearly been drinking and was pretty upset about the fact she had caught her hubby cheating with a work colleague and her joining the site was payback.

Sat listening to her for about half an hour when this dude and 3 of his mates arrived and started shouting abuse and slapping her about.

Got up to leave when my exit was blocked and this guy pulled out a Japanese samurai sword and tried to take my head off.

Worst bit of all was I was charged with 3 counts of serious assault for trying to escape. Luckily police and PF saw sense.

Put me off the site for a while, however, a lady on here met for lunch and restored my faith

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Quite a few disturbing incidents

I do remember when I first joined chatting to a guy, not my horror story but his, he was basically held hostage by a cpl and assaulted and escaped the house naked and was picked up. On the road, big police investigation about it and was in the papers, they had used some sort of bear spray on him.

So when I started meeting folk I made sure there was always at least one person who. Always knew my whereabouts and another reason I started going to clubs and socials on my own as it was a safe place to meet new folk

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

I work for an organisation where we regularly visit people in their homes.

We have a guide book on home visits and what to do should you feel intimidated or threatened or just uncomfortable about either the house or the people there.

Since my attack I always have my phone switched on and there are a select few people who can trace my phone 24/7

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By *kbull2000Man over a year ago

Carluke

These stories are starting to freak me out.

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By *erfectly Average CoupleCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh

This thread is mental ours is probably just the old pic/catfish story seems quite lucky in comparison to a lot of these but we were quite offended someone would think us so stupid

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Worst experience ever on here would be back at the beginning

I was chatting to a lady for some time when I was invited over to her house.

Sat listening to her for about half an hour when this dude and 3 of his mates arrived and started shouting abuse and slapping her about.

Got up to leave when my exit was blocked and this guy pulled out a Japanese samurai sword and tried to take my head off.

Worst bit of all was I was charged with 3 counts of serious assault for trying to escape. Luckily police and PF saw sense.

Put me off the site for a while, however, a lady on here met for lunch and restored my faith "

That’s terrifying! My gawd your a lucky guy by all accounts. Thankfully able to look after yourself!

There’s a lad I chat to on here. Never met as he’s too young for me. A couple of months ago, after chatting to a woman for a length of time he met her at a hotel. Few drinks later, 2 guys walked in, Stanley knife, threatened him, took his watch and money he had. He had also tried to defend himself. He sent a picture of his hand... it was awful!

Another male friend met a female late at night, he was working driving from a to b. Met her at a location she chose, he got in her car to chat. He was dragged out the car by a male, baseball bat and took a beating. Didn’t take anything. They simply ‘both’ got in her car and drove off. He never went to the police. He said he believed the nature surrounding the meet would be look upon as his own fault for not being more aware of the potential towards this happening.

I also know of a woman who was stalked to a dangerous level. To the point he gained access to her house. The police didn’t take it seriously and had commented that she was on a ‘sex’ site. wtf, poor woman was terrified. He would phone her work, knowing when she wasn’t on shift, leave messages. He knew her every move. No idea how that panned out as she, after deleting profile after profile eventually came off the site as she felt so paranoid he would figure her profile, even when she had nothing on.

So yes as someone commented... always know who your meeting. Always a social meet daytime... it’s shocking the amount of assaults against men and women that happen and the feeling of stigma because we’re swingers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never had a bad experience and none of them were any better than the next.

I wouldn't judge people on sex that's just disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Quite a few disturbing incidents

My best friend knows when I’m going to meet someone new. Very rarely that happens now tbh. But, my snapchat map is always visible to her and I would message all ok a few times so she knew I was fine. I would also make that person aware... need to let my best friend know I’m ok, she worries...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Quite a few disturbing incidents

Well done x

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By *pecialK88Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

A fab friend arranged a threesome with me and another guy she knew. When I arrived he was drinking as he was so nervous. Never thought anything of it at first.

She sat us down and tied my left leg and wrist to his right leg and wrist and started taking turns sucking us. After a bit of time he says I think I am going to be sick. I start panicking and pulling at the knots and see him trying to hold something back. Luckily the girl stayed in front of us and untied the knots just in time. Needless to say that was the end of my first threesome.

Discovered afterwards he downed a bottle of vodka in about an hour. Now I have a strict alcohol limit rule on meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of you don't half manage to find yourselves in a bit of a pickle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some of you don't half manage to find yourselves in a bit of a pickle "
You've never been in a pickle?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some of you don't half manage to find yourselves in a bit of a pickle You've never been in a pickle?"

In regards to a fab meet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"had a knife pulled on me...."

Dam, that's scary.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d never discuss it as a matter of discretion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being physically assaulted for not sleeping with a guy! Scared the fuck out of me

That's shocking. I hope to hell you got away safely and reported them to police and site. That terrible.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mine was a few months ago. Arranged to meet with MF couple. When I got there Only M present. Asked if F was here, M claimed she had fallen asleep in bed. I advised he go check, giving me the golden opportunity to bolt! Was looking for to threesome!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No matter where you meet someone, if you are physically or sexually asssulted report it. Imo I think people think you’ll be too scared/ashamed etc go say it was through online site. The police don’t care as it’s such a common medium for people to connect now."

Totally agree. I think these a**holes play on the fact manu would be too embarrassed/scared to report, but agree with you they really should report if possible.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"meeting an absolute nutter,physco

threats threatening others on here that I had meets with stealing pictures and God knows what else she did to others and me before anyone says it reported numerous times she leaves rejoins sadly heard this all to often about a certain individual on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The girl showed up absolutely shit-faced.

Sure it wasn't chocolate mousse?"

This made my chuckle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some of you don't half manage to find yourselves in a bit of a pickle You've never been in a pickle?

In regards to a fab meet?

No"

Good for you

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By *argaidMan over a year ago

glasgow

"Some of you don't half manage to find yourselves in a bit of a pickle "

Only when we get lucky

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Totally agree. I think these a**holes play on the fact manu would be too embarrassed/scared to report, but agree with you they really should report if possible. "

let me make it clear that I've zero shame about my sex life and have always been open about it to all. My issue was with the fact that nothing would have been done, especially as there were zero personal details to go on/folk lie etc. I've worked with R**e Crisis and numerous alt feminist organisations and know the score....It's a common reaction.

It was only in hindsight that I thought it might have helped with DNA/previous, plus potentially stopping it happening to another woman.

On another note, the shittest experiences here have consisted of gaslighting, liars, manipulators, pathetic seduction...all dressed in smiles obviously but I like to observe their inept ways, shit caked asses expected to be rimmed (gtfo), tiny cocks, the d*unk that couldn't get hard, the sleazeball who wanted to pimp me out, the confessions I hear from men about what they truly think about women on this site, the racism and transphobia etc....deplorable frankly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Turning up to a ladies flat and it was disgusting.

Layers and layers of takeaway dishes stacked up down the side of the sofa, house was very smelly, she looked like the girls in the profile photos mother (very old photos)

Was very disappointing Did you still go there with her or leave"

I actually said have you got condoms, knowing she didn’t. I said I’ve left mine in the car.

As soon as I got to the car I text her and said I’m really sorry but won’t be returning.

She said that’s fine as I wasn’t her type anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Did you still go there with her or leave

Which do you think?

Was a definite No mate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh I forgot the barebackers - those that just plough in without asking, or like to debate "I'm clean" just before sex. Uh huh, how many women have you said that to, etc?

Btw someone's class or job has no reflection on their safe sex practices.

I'm not angry, just frustrated and dismayed by the heteropatriarchy and lack of honest talk on sexuality/power. Of course, the flood of DMs follows, agreeing with my points. It would be nice if you stood up too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow some mental stories on here hope the ones with the nasty stories have recovered and the was with the funnier have made me chuckle quite a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Morgan's & Coke:

I once met a lassie from Parkhead after talking for ages. She had some of the best patter ever and looked good. We had arranged to meet up at hers after I had been out for the works Christmas night out. I made the offsales, got a bottle of Morgan's and a bottle of Coke. Headed up not too d*unk just enough that I was cool and relaxed and looking forward to meeting her.

I got there and soon as I stepped out the taxi I knew shit was going down. There was about 5 lassies in the living room I could see through the window. I chapped the door and went in. She was steaming with like 3 or her cousins and her maw. I went in hardly d*unk by this point and introduced myself how do you know ****? "Erm just through Facebook" they're all grilling me asking questions like I'm her new boyfriend. I'm sitting thinking "What happened to all the filth you were talking last night?" Anyway I'm thinking she'll pap them out soon enough and we can get on with the night we planned but NOPE this is where it all goes wrong.

BOOM!! "get out here ya cow!" Door getting kicked in. Her da is MWI and shouting on the ma. I'll kill you ya cow!! The dad gets in as the ma and cousins are holding the door shut, the ma tries to run upstairs and the dad grabs her by the hair trying to drag her down. The cousins and the lassie are attacking the dad, the dogs jumping about barking. I tried to help and one of the cousins starts screaming "Who even are you!!!"

I grabbed my Morgan's n and fled into the night like a mad demon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Morgan's & Coke:

I grabbed my Morgan's n and fled into the night like a mad demon "

Ohhh my lord

Shouldn't laugh, sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh I forgot the barebackers - those that just plough in without asking, or like to debate "I'm clean" just before sex. Uh huh, how many women have you said that to, etc?

Btw someone's class or job has no reflection on their safe sex practices.

I absolutely agree!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Morgan's & Coke:

I grabbed my Morgan's n and fled into the night like a mad demon "

Oh ya beastie! Im not kidding, if I just stepped oot the taxi and could see and hear shit going down, I'd have gotten back in the Jo baxi!

But I have to say I'm such a shadenfreud that I laughed out loud at all that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Haha well I hope you got a good laugh out it X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh I forgot the barebackers - those that just plough in without asking, or like to debate "I'm clean" just before sex. Uh huh, how many women have you said that to, etc?

Btw someone's class or job has no reflection on their safe sex practices.

You are 100% correct. Bareback culture is a bit terrifying - especially as a bi guy. I’ve had some very pushy guys try and get me to do things I was absolutely not up for, to the point that it stopped me meeting men entirely for a good few years, and I’m much more cautious now. And that, I would imagine, is still only a tiny fraction of the pressure and shit that every woman on here gets.

My attitude is that anyone who doesn’t respect someone’s boundaries doesn’t respect that person, and never will - and that’s a hard no from me, as any relationship, whether a one night stand or a lifetime commitment, should be rooted in mutual respect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh I forgot the barebackers - those that just plough in without asking, or like to debate "I'm clean" just before sex. Uh huh, how many women have you said that to, etc?

Btw someone's class or job has no reflection on their safe sex practices.

Sorry to hear and so understandable. It's unbelievable. Perhaps they should nurse their dying friends like some of us sadly have. Sure there is PrEP now, and you can live longer on drugs, but who the hell wants that? Throw in the shame of being open about sti's in general. Nice.

That's very true about respect, and I hold my suspicion of anyone that tries bb on.

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By *ecret_pleasure4UMan over a year ago

Edinburgh

I wouldn’t say mine was the worst experience ever it was more it made me feel really sad.

It was a long long time ago. I was a fresh faced 26 year old and it was my first proper meet of fab.

She was in her late 40s and I was invited round to her house in Edinburgh.

Went round, things were going well with some great conversation and excellent kissing then she stops suddenly and says she can’t do this as I kiss exactly the same as her ex husband who sadly had passed away a few years earlier. She got very emotional about it and I of course apologised.

We ended up sharing a bottle of wine and just chatting away for a few hours while in our underwear.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh I forgot the barebackers - those that just plough in without asking, or like to debate "I'm clean" just before sex. Uh huh, how many women have you said that to, etc?

Btw someone's class or job has no reflection on their safe sex practices.

100% Agree.

I’d have no problem saying that publicly either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh I forgot the barebackers - those that just plough in without asking, or like to debate "I'm clean" just before sex. Uh huh, how many women have you said that to, etc?

Btw someone's class or job has no reflection on their safe sex practices.

100% Agree.

I’d have no problem saying that publicly either.

I'm glad and it's appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Worst Experience, Is that you have an amazing Connection, You chat for Weeks and they arrange a meet and Zero appearance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes

I work for an organisation where we regularly visit people in their homes.

We have a guide book on home visits and what to do should you feel intimidated or threatened or just uncomfortable about either the house or the people there.

Since my attack I always have my phone switched on and there are a select few people who can trace my phone 24/7 "

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By *ltra72Man over a year ago

edinburgh

You should of held a service for the dug

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thankfully nothing scary has ever happened to me.

However I often wonder if I've been someone's worst because I'm probably a crap shag?

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By *ltra72Man over a year ago

edinburgh

There’s always lip service ??

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By *ering SeaMan over a year ago

Penicuik

"However I often wonder if I've been someone's worst because I'm probably a crap shag?

The only thing your lacking is self confidence.

Definitely not a crap shag.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Worst experience when i lived in essex i met a girl and she mentioned car fun. Wanted to suck me off so we met and she got down to business after she finished she demanded 20£ and said her man was waiting outside incase i didnt pay her. I chucked her out and flew for the guy and decked him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Married. Still on here

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By *exmadcouple42Couple over a year ago

Home

Thankfully we have not had any bad or scarey experiences but maybe due to only doing group social and club meets but some of these stories are horrific.

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By *exmadcouple42Couple over a year ago

Home

"Turning up to a ladies flat and it was disgusting.

Layers and layers of takeaway dishes stacked up down the side of the sofa, house was very smelly, she looked like the girls in the profile photos mother (very old photos)

Was very disappointing "

Imagine how well kept her nanja was, if her house was that bogging

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By *uriojohnMan over a year ago

Nr St Andrews

"Was at a well known swingers club in Scotland and got chatting to an insanely hot and down to earth couple. We really clicked and after a while we disappeared into a room together.

After a bit they asked if I was ok with leaving the door open for others to watch.

Obviously it was fine (being a swingers club and all that)

Soon there was a small crowd which had three guys who didn’t speak English.

Things progressed and as soon as I came the three guys started clapping and cheering !!

NEVER felt so embarrassed in my life, it was awful.

You deserve a round of applause.

Why thank you. I don’t do it for recognition lol

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By *ffice milfWoman over a year ago

livingston

Had seen a guy from here a few times he had kids so we met at a hotel after a few meets i felt comfortable enough to go to his house as he said the kids were at his mums

so am on all fours naked him banging me silly when the living room door opens and his 4 yr old daughter is standing there saying she cant sleep because off the noise

never been so embarresed in my life

turns out his mum had let him down and he didnt want to cancel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Had seen a guy from here a few times he had kids so we met at a hotel after a few meets i felt comfortable enough to go to his house as he said the kids were at his mums

so am on all fours naked him banging me silly when the living room door opens and his 4 yr old daughter is standing there saying she cant sleep because off the noise

never been so embarresed in my life

turns out his mum had let him down and he didnt want to cancel "

OMG... lol ha ha

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By *ittle_missknowitallWoman over a year ago

glasgow

This is my boot polish story

Apologies to those I have bored with it before

Had a social with a good looking confident guy

He came across as fairly dominant which I like so I agree to go visit him at his flat

Told me to call him when I arrived as there wasn’t a door bell to the place

Place turned out to be a grotty bedsit - it looked like he hadn’t been expecting me - dirty laundry everywhere dishes etc but I wasn’t there to critique his place so I stayed

He then fairly roughly pushed me to the couch bent me over and started to try to fuck me

Stopped him and he claimed he thought that is how I wanted it - now again I thought fair enough he knows I’m submissive

He toned it down and it was starting to go well when the Next thing tipped me over the edge

Told me to sit down on a towel on the sofa and close my eyes - I didn’t feel at ease enough so I watched him and became alarmed as he was putting on surgical gloves and squirting something on to them

He said it was water but it sure didn’t look like water to me

I was tense by this point and he started playing with me and I freaked and got him to stop saying I thought he was going to drug me or something and he pulled off his gloves and his hands were black

He did look shocked himself and he said oh it’s the boot polish in my bag as I use it on my shoes

I majorly freaked and ran out the place near enough naked and got dressed at the foot of the close.

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By *ltra72Man over a year ago

edinburgh

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By *ctoboyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

Probably no really described as worst but very strange..

I met a Cpl(Mary & Jim)while over in Ireland that I had been chatting with on site and they came to meet at my hotel. They arrived and looked very nice and I noticed he was carry a newspaper (which I found out was The Times the old large style) but I just took it to be acting kind of casual walking into hotel bar.

We had a couple of drinks bit of a chat and getting on well we decided to take things further upstairs in my room...

Once in there I started to kiss Mary and we were soon getting naked but when I looked to see what Jim was up to he was sitting at table in room reading his newspaper!!!!...Mary and I played for well over an hour and not once did he talk or look past his newspaper...Kind of freaked me a bit and I checked paper to see if he had any holes cut in it....lol But the fun with Mary was excellent and we met for years sometimes with Jim reading his paper others just us...Bizarre

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By *1ck1Man over a year ago

dundee

Did it really end with you waking up with your penis in your hand and realising it was all a wet dream?

I wish lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Timewasters on here, there’s hundreds

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By *anny77Man over a year ago

glasgow

The stalker girl who was quite local to me who worked out exactly where I lived based on part of a _iew that she saw from a photo I sent her once.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Haha. A v young guy that couldn’t get it up that went to the village for lunch and never came back x

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By *rinthiaMan over a year ago

dundee

"Had a guy cum in my hand with the first touch

And a threesome with a couple where the woman had been forced to be there by her other half

i had a very similar experience

where the woman did not want to be there, she was physically shaking and never said a word

i made my excuses and left

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By *imbob85Man over a year ago

inverness

I met some one with a very bad smell like dead animal put me off for a while

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Couple who's man spiked my then partners drink. His wife clearly was not happily involved and he thought that would be a great way to get her back on board!

Didn't play for a long while after that debacle....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being stalked!

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By *attooBBWWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Had a couple of guys cum within minutes of putting their dick in my mouth. A compliment apparently

Funniest dickhead experience was a guy I met whilst travelling with work. We’d chatted for a couple weeks and he seemed really sound. Met him in Spoonies (error right there) and I bought us dinner and drinks whilst we flirted and had that nice build up before you go back to the hotel. We were talking about fab and I told him about a couple of meets I’d had and his face just dropped. He said ‘i can’t do this. You’re like a revolving door’ and walked out on me!!!!! I was raging at the time but find it hilarious now. I’d been on fab about a year and I think I had 7 verifications, 3 of which were from same guy and 2 Social only. He’d been on 6 months and had 21 one off fuck meets.

And then to the scary. I met a guy who was super hot, right up my street and appeared to understand what we both liked. I told him, like I tell every guy I meet that I will not do anal til I’m comfortable with someone after a good few meets. We had one quite intense but great fuck, and we were just sitting chatting and then started kissing before he very deliberately forced himself into my ass and got very rough with me. I left with a burst lip pissing blood where he’d somehow put my tooth through my lip with a brutal face fuck.

It was only a good few months later that I sort of realised how awful that was.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jesus, that second story sounds like assault to me, sorry to hear that

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By *attooBBWWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Jesus, that second story sounds like assault to me, sorry to hear that

Yep. I’ve had to kind of process that.

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By *1ck1Man over a year ago

dundee

"Had a couple of guys cum within minutes of putting their dick in my mouth. A compliment apparently

It was only a good few months later that I sort of realised how awful that was. "

You are very lucky i would have knocked fuck out of him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She lied about her age. She only wanted bareback and her boyfriend sent a text every 3 minutes to see what was happened....this happened....you bolt hen"

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By *HE PROBLEMMan over a year ago

Glasgow

cracker

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By *alkdirty2meCouple over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh

That’s the night we met, still can’t get over how they wasted everyone’s time

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By *ald EagleMan over a year ago

Alloa

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By *ald EagleMan over a year ago

Alloa

"meeting an absolute nutter,physco

threats threatening others on here that I had meets with stealing pictures and God knows what else she did to others and me before anyone says it reported numerous times she leaves rejoins "

What’s their user name so we know to avoid them?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

I look back over the years and think, 'no bad experiences', a few learning ones but all good in the grand scheme of life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once had a meet with a couple and week later I got a msg saying please get a check, I did and it was clear but it played with my mind and ended up doing 3 tests, it opened my eyes alot, I always however practice safe sex but it still niggled me lots

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By *andCforfunCouple over a year ago

Inverness

1. Guy came in my mouth within 15 seconds and then waited an hour for him to get hard again. Then he proceeded to lie on top of me and just wiggle my chest was so sore afterwards.

2. Met a guy for a social and he was a "Dom" proceeded to try get back to my flat wouldnt take no for a answer talked about inviting his mate round he followed me home and then I asked him to leave which thankfully he did then sent me a messege from his car. Really pushy guy.

3. Went to a guys house for a meet he out the telly on had no banter sat in silence then asked me to go to his room I said no and left he then sent me a messege for another meet

4. Met a guy in a pub for a social he then jsut got really creepy I asked if he wanted to go for a walk so I could escape but he tried to drag me back to his hotel room had bruises around my wrist from where he held them basically only stopped becasue I nearly pushed him into traffic! Haven't really had meets alone since then.

There are others but we haven't had meets in a while because people just dont seem to respect boundaries or arent up for chatting first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"1. Guy came in my mouth within 15 seconds and then waited an hour for him to get hard again. Then he proceeded to lie on top of me and just wiggle my chest was so sore afterwards.

3. Went to a guys house for a meet he out the telly on had no banter sat in silence then asked me to go to his room I said no and left he then sent me a messege for another meet

There are others but we haven't had meets in a while because people just dont seem to respect boundaries or arent up for chatting first "

Omg no wonder folk are very cautious of meeting sometimes that's horrible

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tried chatting to a couple, the guy was well up for me and his gf fucking so I thought fuck it, he wanted to show his missus the messages to turn her on, pre meet, but I never got a reply and the profile then was made to look like it was the guy only so ....... clearly a well missed opportunity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not any bad meets as such just some of the behaviour afterwards puts you off.. Lies, ghosting etc. ... Makes you question and judge yourself

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By *andCforfunCouple over a year ago

Inverness

"1. Guy came in my mouth within 15 seconds and then waited an hour for him to get hard again. Then he proceeded to lie on top of me and just wiggle my chest was so sore afterwards.

3. Went to a guys house for a meet he out the telly on had no banter sat in silence then asked me to go to his room I said no and left he then sent me a messege for another meet

There are others but we haven't had meets in a while because people just dont seem to respect boundaries or arent up for chatting first

Omg no wonder folk are very cautious of meeting sometimes that's horrible "

Dont get me wrong I've had more good than bad but the bad ones kinda outweigh the good sometimes. Other half wouldnt let me meet alone after the guy that tried dragging me back to his hotel. I'm ok with that though cause it did freak me out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"1. Guy came in my mouth within 15 seconds and then waited an hour for him to get hard again. Then he proceeded to lie on top of me and just wiggle my chest was so sore afterwards.

3. Went to a guys house for a meet he out the telly on had no banter sat in silence then asked me to go to his room I said no and left he then sent me a messege for another meet

There are others but we haven't had meets in a while because people just dont seem to respect boundaries or arent up for chatting first

Omg no wonder folk are very cautious of meeting sometimes that's horrible

Still that's creepy the poor guy wi the telly though oh dear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tried chatting to a couple, the guy was well up for me and his gf fucking so I thought fuck it, he wanted to show his missus the messages to turn her on, pre meet, but I never got a reply and the profile then was made to look like it was the guy only so ....... clearly a well missed opportunity "

Wow that certainly was a strange situation. I’m sure that’s not happened to many guys on here

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By *andCforfunCouple over a year ago

Inverness

"1. Guy came in my mouth within 15 seconds and then waited an hour for him to get hard again. Then he proceeded to lie on top of me and just wiggle my chest was so sore afterwards.

3. Went to a guys house for a meet he out the telly on had no banter sat in silence then asked me to go to his room I said no and left he then sent me a messege for another meet

There are others but we haven't had meets in a while because people just dont seem to respect boundaries or arent up for chatting first

Omg no wonder folk are very cautious of meeting sometimes that's horrible

Still that's creepy the poor guy wi the telly though oh dear "

He was pretty strange. Watching corrie lol shame because he was great to chat too online. It was meant to be a social meet at a cafe but he lied and took me to his house.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too many to mention.

Unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been very fortunate that all my meets have been ok.

They have all been happy to meet up again but I haven't always taken them up on that offer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not being able to gain a bad experience yet lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Had a guy cum in my hand with the first touch

And a threesome with a couple where the woman had been forced to be there by her other half

I sort of had this too. It was weird as we had a social weeks before and she was very much the boss and she made the decision if it went further. On the night, every time he went near me or me him, she would pull him back to her. GOT to the point where I was left watching them play, and it wasn't exciting so I just left. Was very weird. Put my right of FMF, never had one since x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I’ve been very lucky and I’ve not had a bad experience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

GF and I met a guy after some chatting, went to his house, which turned out to be his parents as they were on holiday. He seemed to be a bit tipsy and had asked if we could bring a drink with us, I said no.

He sat on his couch and asked loads of questions about swinging and our experiences, we realised it was his first time (our second) and we asked if we were going upstairs, when we got there it was a small box room with a single bed, we started to play and he asked if he could spank us both, we told him no but he kept trying to do it anyway, then the phone rang and it was his mum on the answer machine saying she was coming back early and the house better not be in a mess. He couldn’t get hard and at one point cut my girls bum as he’s tried to stick his finger in her ass and cut her. I stopped things and he asked to keep her knickers, or earrings, we said no and as we were getting ready he asked could he just sit and wank while looking at her, We told him no, so, we got up and he had put a vibrator in his ass and was playing with his soft cock making these strange noises, we couldn’t hold back the laughing. He kept asking us not to leave and could he put on some woman’s clothes and try again! As we were leaving we noticed his phone was sitting on the drawers upright like it was filming, I got him to show me it and deleted the video completely.

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By *anny77Man over a year ago

glasgow

"GF and I met a guy after some chatting, went to his house, which turned out to be his parents as they were on holiday. He seemed to be a bit tipsy and had asked if we could bring a drink with us, I said no.

How many times do I have to apologise for this???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How many times do I have to apologise for this???"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Noticed a girl on here that I had met through another site, she was now on this as a couple, dropped them a message to say hi and see if they were interested in chatting and maybe meeting. When I met the girl on the other site we got on well and had a great time with no issues.

Anyway, after exchanging a few messages and a chat on the phone we arranged a meet at their place. To cut a long story short, I turned up to find her black and blue in floods of tears with the guy proceeding to pull a huge knife on me.

Turns out the guy set up the fab page to catch out guys she had previously met on here and other sites.

I got away with being stabbed in the leg and a few nights in hospital. Moral of the story is make sure you know who you are meeting and do it safely.

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By *ugehandsMan over a year ago

Fife/ Newcastle

"The girl showed up absolutely shit-faced.

Sure it wasn't chocolate mousse?

You think I didn't check that before I sent her packing....?

Maybe she had been rimming the man before you."

Your a sick woman Bluebell.. That just wrong sooo wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Noticed a girl on here that I had met through another site, she was now on this as a couple, dropped them a message to say hi and see if they were interested in chatting and maybe meeting. When I met the girl on the other site we got on well and had a great time with no issues.

Turns out the guy set up the fab page to catch out guys she had previously met on here and other sites.

I got away with being stabbed in the leg and a few nights in hospital. Moral of the story is make sure you know who you are meeting and do it safely. "

....and pack full body armour along with your johnnies and lube.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A disgustingly dirty room in Falkirk! Food packages all over and crumbs all over the bed... she knew I was coming over and still left it a mess... boak!

First time I’ve ever refused a blowjob lol!

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By *ighland gentlemanMan over a year ago

Ardgay

Entering her bedroom to see a strange lump under the douvet that transpired to be one of those instant porridge pots with a spoon in it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Turns out the guy set up the fab page to catch out guys she had previously met on here and other sites.

I got away with being stabbed in the leg and a few nights in hospital. Moral of the story is make sure you know who you are meeting and do it safely. "

Jeezuz fook!

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By *rfredzzzMan over a year ago

Glasgow

Ok, I'm still new to Fab (less than a month) but many tales on this thread are absolutely terrifying!!!

I've already had one kinda bad experience. Less than a week after I joined, I was messaged by a couple's profile (the gent). No pictures at all, but 2 published verifications (and many others verifications). He said the woman wanted a rough pounding from a black cock, or several. Asked me if I could get other guys (I couldn't).

I tried to get more details of exactly what he/they wanted from Me, but never got any clear replies. The convo was always sparse on his side.

Then he quickly arranged a late night meet the next day and gave me just an hour's notice. I drove 30 mins to an isolated mansion in the countryside (what a risk!). They seemed nice enough and offered me a drink. Turns out it was to be an MMF, but I would only touch her. We all got naked and that's when I got uneasy because she didn't seem to be into it. It was also then I realised what a huge risk I'd taken...going to meet a couple I hadn't seen before, in a secretive location, very far from home, and no one else knew where I was...all because I was horny and desperate to get verified!!!

I could have been attacked or killed and vanished off the face of the earth.

Thankfully, that didn't happen. We finished, we cleaned up, and I left. I was there for less than 30 mins lol. I didn't even bother asking them for a verification as the whole experience was totally underwhelming.

Well, I've learned my lessons. I'll always have a social meet first. I must see pictures or a live video too. If I'm playing with a couple, I must meet both of them and be sure that all parties are ok with the arrangement.

And I'm no longer desperate to get verified. I'll wait until I meet the right lady or couple who actually like me and who I satisfy.

I've had another social meet with a very nice couple who have ticked my boxes and I look forward to satisfying them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At least it didn't kill your hardon fred

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Arranged to meet a guy after chatting for a few weeks we had coffee all was good we kissed started to have a fondle and that's where it went wrong he rubbed my clit so hard he bruised it and it swelled in the wrong way needless to say he got asked to leave and never met again

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By *rfredzzzMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"At least it didn't kill your hardon fred "

Lol, I must have been just horny enough to overcome the unease and suspicion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At least it didn't kill your hardon fred

Lol, I must have been just horny enough to overcome the unease and suspicion. "

And the fact that she didn't seem to be into it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jesus that's insane. You poor guy. Thankfully the police saw sense.

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