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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You see a relationship blossoming on the site, which is nice to see. The guy from the relationship, who says he is straight contacts me, a bi guy, looking for a meet and being very blatant about what he wants to do to you. He then tells you that his new woman does not know.
So what do I do, do I tell her, or let her coninue here realationship with this deceptive man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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personally i would tell her, i know alot of ppl will say stay out its none of your business etc BUT if i put myself in the place of the woman i would want to know. its better to be honest now than someone to get taken for a ride again and again and again.
good luck in what u decide x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In this case I would generally stay out of it but if I was in contact with the girl in question I would tell her. Because she has met him through the site it is obvious she is open minded so although she may not want to enter relationship with a bi male she deserves the right to know what she is getting into. It seems strange to keep this secret like I said if they met through a swinging site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not being funny but does he have protected sex with her if they are in a proper relationship, and how many others does he see without her knowledge? sorry but that was the first though that ran through my mind. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I would stay out of it, this is a swinging site not a dating one, if they are at the start of a relationship he needs to be honest with her and she with him. I don't believe it is for you to tell her, it is him.
tell him to be honest with her and block. |
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By *oonboyMan
over a year ago
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to be honest this post made my blood boil. what right do people have to go telling folks' other halves what they are up to . we are all grown up and if he wants to be deceptive that is his problem not yours. as a previous poster said this is a swinging site ... not church !!! i am lucky me and the mrs are totally open with each other as most of the people who know us will testify to. live and let live is what i say... apologies... rant over ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah it is and i agree,,, but,,, lol
he did say that the woman was a close friend now,,,swinging site or not ,,,you dont want your friends took for a mug 
just mines xx auds xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah it is and i agree,,, but,,, lol
he did say that the woman was a close friend now,,,swinging site or not ,,,you dont want your friends took for a mug
just mines xx auds xx "
agreed auds would be different if it were some randoms....bit its a friend... |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"woopsy ....
stand corrected _iew,,,it dosnt lol
aww to hell with it then lol "
 honestly.. I had my contacts in, put my reading glasses on and thought feck I am going daft xx
x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as a fem that gets loads of messages and many from males that are part of a couple with secret single profiles id cause a stink i just say no thanx not interested and keep well out of it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Run for the hills and block. Me and himself nearly split up because of something that he tried to help out with, but should never have got involved in. Best to keep out of ppls business... you dont want to get caught in the crossfire! |
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