Just had some bad news for MrA he has been diagnosed with cancer,not lift threatening.We are just waiting for the specialists to see where we go from here,It's a shock to the system ..so I wanted to know has anyone from fab had this happen to them and did you leave and come back ???  |
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"Just had some bad news for MrA he has been diagnosed with cancer,not lift threatening.We are just waiting for the specialists to see where we go from here,It's a shock to the system ..so I wanted to know has anyone from fab had this happen to them and did you leave and come back ??? "
Yes i have almost two years ago now and no i didnt leave i found it a great way to escape the shit that was going on and the support i got from my many friends on here was amazing they all kept my spirits up.
I wasnt meeting but just chatting on here and so glad i stuck around xxx |
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over a year ago
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My prayers tonite will be for you & ur hubby,
Think you's should stay on as I defo agree it would keep ur minds of wots going on or atleast keep uz entertained
Xxx |
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over a year ago
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Sounds like it's treatable from what you said which is a great start.
I would stay here just make it clear you're not meeting and enjoy the banter on the days you can be bothered with it or need a distraction
Wishing you all the best with your treatment xx |
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over a year ago
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Just like to add also, I know that you don't know me but if indeed things do get stressful for you both and you need someone just to listen to then please don't hesitate. I really honestly do hope and pray it all goes well for you both. xx |
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As others have said....stick around, the distraction may be helpful.....but truly only the two of you can decide. I wish you BOTH all the best for the coming weeks and months. Positive thoughts.....  |
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call McMillian nurses or maggies house has a drop in centre just for a coffee.these guys will give you huge support ,just by way of chatting and some days surprise surprise the word or thought of cancer is never mentioned ,,just support , care and company,,,and to anyone not just your hubby ..I offer this advice and my own opinion if you or a loved one has cancer and you feel as low as low you can be visit a childrens hospice and see how strong and with such courage all the kids cope and live and I promise you will leave the building inspired yet humbled and go on to face your cancer with an inner strength you never knew you had ..good luck |
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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago
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Best of luck to you both. Stay strong and support each other.
Other half had thyroid cancer 14yrs ago. Had an op, now completly clear.
I won't lie, there will be problems, troubles along the way. But sometimes, the ability to unload your troubles to others outside the problem is a god send.
All the best for the future.
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"Just had some bad news for MrA he has been diagnosed with cancer,not lift threatening.We are just waiting for the specialists to see where we go from here,It's a shock to the system ..so I wanted to know has anyone from fab had this happen to them and did you leave and come back ??? "
Prayers and love to MrA...
I have personally experienced both the initial stages and terminal stages of this illness with friends family and strangers. This was due to my intimate ability as an ear to listen, and voice to council.
Sometime talking to a stranger who has lived through this life changing event, albeit not actually experiencing the disease itself, is useful.
Although MrA does not know me please understand there is an experienced ear to always listen to the concerns this life changing event will bring.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Good luck with it, I think trying to continue as normal may well be the best thing. Never a smoker but I had a lung cancer scare a few years ago. It transpired to just be scarring on the lung from when I punctured it years before. It was scary but just confirms, never take life for granted...
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm a cancer survivor, was diagnosed 11 years ago and treated. pre fab days, but made me realise every day was precious and for living... stay on , hide as you think fit, but keep in touch. good luck.. keep positive, it does help. |
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will i better update this post i did 34 weeks ago i posted that i had cancer , i have been through my chemo and radiotherapy and my op witch has left me with a bag for the rest of my life ... but i still have a life ... and 3 weeks ago i got the all clear, i beat the fucker i'm still here and thanks for your support and messages ,,,x |
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"will i better update this post i did 34 weeks ago i posted that i had cancer , i have been through my chemo and radiotherapy and my op witch has left me with a bag for the rest of my life ... but i still have a life ... and 3 weeks ago i got the all clear, i beat the fucker i'm still here and thanks for your support and messages ,,,x"
good on you and well done,glad to see you havent left the site and im sure many will echo this thought  |
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"will i better update this post i did 34 weeks ago i posted that i had cancer , i have been through my chemo and radiotherapy and my op witch has left me with a bag for the rest of my life ... but i still have a life ... and 3 weeks ago i got the all clear, i beat the fucker i'm still here and thanks for your support and messages ,,,x"
Fucking A!
So glad you got through it!
Keep up the good fight!
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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago
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"will i better update this post i did 34 weeks ago i posted that i had cancer , i have been through my chemo and radiotherapy and my op witch has left me with a bag for the rest of my life ... but i still have a life ... and 3 weeks ago i got the all clear, i beat the fucker i'm still here and thanks for your support and messages ,,,x"
Congratulations!
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've lost the two most important people in my life to cancer. My outlook in life changed from a nervous worrying wreck to, life for living go and live it before it ends.
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Absolutely brilliant news and I am so pleased for you both on what must have been a traumatic time.
You are both an inspiration to people to show us all that when the horrible C word is said to you that it is not the end of the world if you have the will to fight and live.
Enjoy life to the full folks |
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"will i better update this post i did 34 weeks ago i posted that i had cancer , i have been through my chemo and radiotherapy and my op witch has left me with a bag for the rest of my life ... but i still have a life ... and 3 weeks ago i got the all clear, i beat the fucker i'm still here and thanks for your support and messages ,,,x"
Brilliant news, all the best  xx |
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Cancer survivor here also, three operations down and on drugs for life but hey, still here and still kicking cancers arse.
My very best wishes to you both and I hope you continue to kick arse together.
Much love and positive thoughts coming your way. xxx |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
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"will i better update this post i did 34 weeks ago i posted that i had cancer , i have been through my chemo and radiotherapy and my op witch has left me with a bag for the rest of my life ... but i still have a life ... and 3 weeks ago i got the all clear, i beat the fucker i'm still here and thanks for your support and messages ,,,x"
glad to hear you beat the fooker xx
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"Cancer survivor here also, three operations down and on drugs for life but hey, still here and still kicking cancers arse.
My very best wishes to you both and I hope you continue to kick arse together.
Much love and positive thoughts coming your way. xxx"
amazing knowing survivors
Actually going for scans soon myself as they are unsure fully what's wrong with me but suspect something serious is up I've been putting the scans off for too long now in fear of the worst and it's prob the worst thing to do
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"Cancer survivor here also, three operations down and on drugs for life but hey, still here and still kicking cancers arse.
My very best wishes to you both and I hope you continue to kick arse together.
Much love and positive thoughts coming your way. xxx
amazing knowing survivors
Actually going for scans soon myself as they are unsure fully what's wrong with me but suspect something serious is up I've been putting the scans off for too long now in fear of the worst and it's prob the worst thing to do
Geek "
Fear itself is the the most difficult hurdle you have to get over, the rest is downhill after that. PMA! Positive Mental Attitude, gets me through every time.
I'm sure if you face it head on you will feel better. xxx |
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This is the best thread I've read on here for such a long time.
First and foremost to Mr&Mrs A for their inner strength and belief in defeating this illness well done to you both
Secondly to the spirit of camaraderie that goes on within the Fab community with posts of well wishing and sharing of your own battles
Humbled by all
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"Cancer survivor here also, three operations down and on drugs for life but hey, still here and still kicking cancers arse.
My very best wishes to you both and I hope you continue to kick arse together.
Much love and positive thoughts coming your way. xxx
amazing knowing survivors
Actually going for scans soon myself as they are unsure fully what's wrong with me but suspect something serious is up I've been putting the scans off for too long now in fear of the worst and it's prob the worst thing to do
Geek
Fear itself is the the most difficult hurdle you have to get over, the rest is downhill after that. PMA! Positive Mental Attitude, gets me through every time.
I'm sure if you face it head on you will feel better. xxx"
I agree with this 100% PMA all the way!!! |
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Just make sure Mrs A gives you plenty of TLC 