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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do ppl put a certain age requirement, we've met some fit middle aged ppl that would put young folk to shame i don't see the point in it what your thoughts |
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"Why do ppl put a certain age requirement, we've met some fit middle aged ppl that would put young folk to shame i don't see the point in it what your thoughts "
Everyone has preferances for their own reasons.
Also if you dont see the point why do you have the age preferances you have set on your own profile ? Why not 18-99? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do ppl put a certain age requirement, we've met some fit middle aged ppl that would put young folk to shame i don't see the point in it what your thoughts Everyone has preferances for their own reasons.
Also if you dont see the point why do you have the age preferances you have set on your own profile ? Why not 18-99?"
oops need to change that, we set it the first time we started to swing as we were not sure what to expect, cheers for having a look inspector dynamite. |
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"Why do ppl put a certain age requirement, we've met some fit middle aged ppl that would put young folk to shame i don't see the point in it what your thoughts Everyone has preferances for their own reasons.
Also if you dont see the point why do you have the age preferances you have set on your own profile ? Why not 18-99?oops need to change that, we set it the first time we started to swing as we were not sure what to expect, cheers for having a look inspector dynamite."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's annoying seeing a gorgeous woman and her age rate is only a year older than what you are lol  Im sure most would come n go a couple of years either side for the right people  "
Could be a possibility if you could message them! Haha I often get put on the list of typical men just cause I'm a terrible conversation starter! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's annoying seeing a gorgeous woman and her age rate is only a year older than what you are lol Im sure most would come n go a couple of years either side for the right people "
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"It's annoying seeing a gorgeous woman and her age rate is only a year older than what you are lol Im sure most would come n go a couple of years either side for the right people "
I agree...but...if you can't contact them to make them aware of you..then its just bad luck. But that's why they set their preferences isn't it? |
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"I'm sure you can still wink at the can't you? And isn't it a person s choice to have a age range?"
I totally agree about setting preferences...and its a great facility to have...or I doubt girls Inboxes would ever get read ? Not sure about the Winking if outside the criteria ? Actually not sure about Winking at all...as most girls on here don't seem to like them ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not that we don't like it from personal preference winks are a load of shit it's that bad I don't know how many I have got a it's ether log in, inbox or browse and of course forums are the only tabs I look at lol |
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"It's not that we don't like it from personal preference winks are a load of shit it's that bad I don't know how many I have got a it's ether log in, inbox or browse and of course forums are the only tabs I look at lol"
Haha Fi...you just proved my point..TY. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not that we don't like it from personal preference winks are a load of shit it's that bad I don't know how many I have got a it's ether log in, inbox or browse and of course forums are the only tabs I look at lol"
Actually I didn't prove anything I said from MY personal preference
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"It's not that we don't like it from personal preference winks are a load of shit it's that bad I don't know how many I have got a it's ether log in, inbox or browse and of course forums are the only tabs I look at lol
Haha Fi...you just proved my point..TY."
Just for future reference...I just tried to message you and Wink at you and I wasn't allowed...as I am outside your age range Now we know. |
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"Im sure you can wink ppl outwith your age preferance but cant mail them 
I tried to Wink at Fi...but wasn't allowed as I am outwith her age range...and of course couldn't mail either."
ah ok i thought u could so now i know too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Confused
I regularly message people and get replies from people where I am out with their age parameters.
I have my own browse filters set to look for people where I fit their requirements so as to be lead directly to the right people.
A message appears warning you are out with parameters or you've messaged and not received a reply from in the past. However I've never been stopped from messaging out with or at least I don't think I have.
I have a few friends I here I chat to regularly and I'm out with their age parameters
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"Confused
I regularly message people and get replies from people where I am out with their age parameters.
I have my own browse filters set to look for people where I fit their requirements so as to be lead directly to the right people.
A message appears warning you are out with parameters or you've messaged and not received a reply from in the past. However I've never been stopped from messaging out with or at least I don't think I have.
I have a few friends I here I chat to regularly and I'm out with their age parameters
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Thanks for the Info Rok...these are the Alerts that I get too...but no option for Winking or emailing...so I just give up....lol. |
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Friends dont count. The following can message directly regardless of filters. People you have winked, its only fair they can respond. People you have messaged for the same reason. Peolpe on your friends list cause thats common sense.
Hope that clears it up |
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"Friends dont count. The following can message directly regardless of filters. People you have winked, its only fair they can respond. People you have messaged for the same reason. Peolpe on your friends list cause thats common sense.
Hope that clears it up "
Thanks for clearing that up for me Sky...much appreciated ! I,ll just keep doing what I'm doing...until I get fed up...lol. Cheers though. |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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I dont mind them that much older IF they look good for it....
That doesnt happen very often and I got sick of seeing pics of their naked bodies...so I filter them out
I only meet through CJ's anyway so it doesnt really matter to me...  |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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It would appear that people don't understand the filter system.
I'm 55, I can message a lady who has an upper age limit of say 50. However, if the lady has used a filter to back-up that upper limit of 50, then I can't message her. Simple! |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Why do ppl put a certain age requirement, we've met some fit middle aged ppl that would put young folk to shame i don't see the point in it what your thoughts "
Because they can.
We wouldn't want to meet someone who's 60 and there's probably plenty of 20 year olds who wouldn't want to meet people of our age. That's just the way things are and there's nothing wrong with that at all.
People normally only complain about these things when they find themselves outside other people's preferences |
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"Confused
I regularly message people and get replies from people where I am out with their age parameters.
I have my own browse filters set to look for people where I fit their requirements so as to be lead directly to the right people.
A message appears warning you are out with parameters or you've messaged and not received a reply from in the past. However I've never been stopped from messaging out with or at least I don't think I have.
I have a few friends I here I chat to regularly and I'm out with their age parameters
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If you are outwith their age range but can still initiate first contact.. and get the warning message. It means they have set their preferences.... but not activated age filters. If they had set filters you wouldnt be able to mail at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Confused
I regularly message people and get replies from people where I am out with their age parameters.
I have my own browse filters set to look for people where I fit their requirements so as to be lead directly to the right people.
A message appears warning you are out with parameters or you've messaged and not received a reply from in the past. However I've never been stopped from messaging out with or at least I don't think I have.
I have a few friends I here I chat to regularly and I'm out with their age parameters
If you are outwith their age range but can still initiate first contact.. and get the warning message. It means they have set their preferences.... but not activated age filters. If they had set filters you wouldnt be able to mail at all "
Here's a woman that his hit the nail on the head. Correct |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agist here if that's what ya wanna label it as....why? Well would I wanna shag someone that could be my dad? Err naw that's not a fantasy....."
Why not I think it's kinky
I think of Santa as a kinky fantasy
Mmmmmm him emptying his sack
now that's a man!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The thing being as you get older should the age range not increase to so if one year it's 30-55 it should be going up to 56 the following year .  "
That's getting dangerously close to sums Steph!!!!!!
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"Agist here if that's what ya wanna label it as....why? Well would I wanna shag someone that could be my dad? Err naw that's not a fantasy.....
Why not I think it's kinky
I think of Santa as a kinky fantasy
Mmmmmm him emptying his sack
now that's a man!!!
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But your mental lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agist here if that's what ya wanna label it as....why? Well would I wanna shag someone that could be my dad? Err naw that's not a fantasy.....
Why not I think it's kinky
I think of Santa as a kinky fantasy
Mmmmmm him emptying his sack
now that's a man!!!
But your mental lol"
It's the way he goes ho ho ho
Filthy old man!! Love it when talks dirty to me!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm currently seeing a gorgeous young woman 20 yrs younger than me .. I'm 52 .. I was the one wary of getting into a relationship cos of age difference but she says she's never been happier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with it, people don't like the idea of going with someone 20 years older/younger than them. That said, a lot of the girls around my age group seem to have their head screwed on as opposed to a lot of older women who appear, well, immature. Same will go for a lot of guys too. Immaturity is a huge turn off for me, regardless of actual age. |
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"I'm currently seeing a gorgeous young woman 20 yrs younger than me .. I'm 52 .. I was the one wary of getting into a relationship cos of age difference but she says she's never been happier "
your profile says your single |
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"I am single ....bad choice of words in original post .. We see each other but it's not exclusive "
lol nice backtrack you said it was a relationship ..anyway not what this post is about good for you glad shes happy |
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"Why do ppl put a certain age requirement, we've met some fit middle aged ppl that would put young folk to shame i don't see the point in it what your thoughts "
Totally agree here... I am a yoga practicing 42 year old man who is not too unpleasant to the eye and has retained his reasonably athletic shape although I do like cake!
Its a shame that some folk miss out on genuine contact that are outside their age range. But at the end of the day would you really want someone like that contacting you? |
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