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Recently started speaking meeting someone with a matched sex drive and turn ons and fantasies. She's got ones that could probably arrange on here but not sure how best to approach it and say could arrange. I don't think she'd think it's strange on here etc but it's Just getting that initial one done |
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"After reading that 3x I am still not sure what you are asking. Are you saying you have met someone who is not on fab but would like her to join?."
She's not on fab but is interested in doing certain things and fantasies. I know cause I've been on here that it could be arranged or I could arrange it on here but not sure how to bring it up to her and tell her about this site. |
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By *ert999400Man 2 weeks ago
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"After reading that 3x I am still not sure what you are asking. Are you saying you have met someone who is not on fab but would like her to join?.
She's not on fab but is interested in doing certain things and fantasies. I know cause I've been on here that it could be arranged or I could arrange it on here but not sure how to bring it up to her and tell her about this site."
Well she seems opened minded. So tell her that you know an adultsite where the kink or fantasy is possible. Maybe she knows about this site. So why walk on broken eggshells, just go for it.
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You say you're straight but verified by two young TV,s 
I'd suggest having a few drinks with your new partner to loosen up a bit and maybe bring the conversation round to some of her fantasies then start browsing this site as a visitor, then go on to suggest making a profile 
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By *ert999400Man 2 weeks ago
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"You say you're straight but verified by two young TV,s
I'd suggest having a few drinks with your new partner to loosen up a bit and maybe bring the conversation round to some of her fantasies then start browsing this site as a visitor, then go on to suggest making a profile
Good luck "
So what if he is straight and had fun with two tvs. One of which is very nice looking  |
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"You say you're straight but verified by two young TV,s
I'd suggest having a few drinks with your new partner to loosen up a bit and maybe bring the conversation round to some of her fantasies then start browsing this site as a visitor, then go on to suggest making a profile
Good luck
So what if he is straight and had fun with two tvs. One of which is very nice looking "
I have no issue with it, he just ain't straight when he says he is  |
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"Recently started speaking meeting someone with a matched sex drive and turn ons and fantasies. She's got ones that could probably arrange on here but not sure how best to approach it and say could arrange. I don't think she'd think it's strange on here etc but it's Just getting that initial one done "
If you’re seeing someone and you’re on here, if she doesn’t know mate give your head a shake.
I don’t really agree on you being judged on your sexuality instead of the fact that you’re most probably messing someone about. Fab has such an odd moral compass |
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"Recently started speaking meeting someone with a matched sex drive and turn ons and fantasies. She's got ones that could probably arrange on here but not sure how best to approach it and say could arrange. I don't think she'd think it's strange on here etc but it's Just getting that initial one done
If you’re seeing someone and you’re on here, if she doesn’t know mate give your head a shake.
I don’t really agree on you being judged on your sexuality instead of the fact that you’re most probably messing someone about. Fab has such an odd moral compass "
We're not seeing eachother? It's not a relationship or anything official. It's just two people who talk and hook up but thanks for input |
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"You say you're straight but verified by two young TV,s
I'd suggest having a few drinks with your new partner to loosen up a bit and maybe bring the conversation round to some of her fantasies then start browsing this site as a visitor, then go on to suggest making a profile
Good luck
So what if he is straight and had fun with two tvs. One of which is very nice looking "
He not straight then |
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"I would say more curious/experimental. I'm not attracted to males. I have changed details to one that suits closest "
Apologies you only viewed as verification is cam only so curious is fine just go for it and have fun i say |
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By *ert999400Man 1 week ago
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All of this seems like a muppet show
It's time play the music
It's time to face the shit
Just go out and ask her,, on this , muppet show tonight.
I'd rather stick red hot pokers in my eyes than ask for advice from here. |
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"All of this seems like a muppet show
It's time play the music
It's time to face the shit
Just go out and ask her,, on this , muppet show tonight.
I'd rather stick red hot pokers in my eyes than ask for advice from here."
Or rather stick red hot pokers in your eyes than admit that liking "drag queen's" would be bi. No? |
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"All of this seems like a muppet show
It's time play the music
It's time to face the shit
Just go out and ask her,, on this , muppet show tonight.
I'd rather stick red hot pokers in my eyes than ask for advice from here.
Or rather stick red hot pokers in your eyes than admit that liking "drag queen's" would be bi. No?"
Tbh you’re making such a big deal out of someone’s sexuality it makes me wonder about yours. Why do you care so much? Make you feel big and tough? Are you impotent and this is the only way to get you feeling hard?
Literally get a grip and leave the guy be |
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"All of this seems like a muppet show
It's time play the music
It's time to face the shit
Just go out and ask her,, on this , muppet show tonight.
I'd rather stick red hot pokers in my eyes than ask for advice from here.
Or rather stick red hot pokers in your eyes than admit that liking "drag queen's" would be bi. No?
Tbh you’re making such a big deal out of someone’s sexuality it makes me wonder about yours. Why do you care so much? Make you feel big and tough? Are you impotent and this is the only way to get you feeling hard?
Literally get a grip and leave the guy be"
Ironic that you say you don't judge on. Yet make assumptions and pass judgement on me. Lol.
Silly boy. |
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Clearly can’t read either as I said above I didn’t agree with him being judged on, not that I don’t judge.
You’re the narky creep hyperfocusing on others sexuality, give your head a shake, it’s clearly empty but shake it anyway. |
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"Clearly can’t read either as I said above I didn’t agree with him being judged on, not that I don’t judge.
You’re the narky creep hyperfocusing on others sexuality, give your head a shake, it’s clearly empty but shake it anyway. "
OK I do stand corrected you are correct. I misread your post. For that I do apologise.
However narky creep focusing on others sexuality?? Really.
May I ask you a simple question?
Why don't you want to meet single males and or tv/ts?
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Wow guys. Sweet Jeezuz. Back in your corners! And I have to agree with Wonder here. Sexuality is NOT as black and white as Fab options allow. I have had females argue with me that I am not bisexual because I have never had a relationship with one. I know guys who have been sexual with a guy yet are not Bisexual in the slightest. It is all a spectrum that we each see through our own lens. We then make the mistake of applying that same vision onto others. The mistake each of us make as Humans. And I say absolute fucking shame on you people who have mocked someone because they do NOT fit into YOUR perception of what is a certain criteria. Each person can identify as they wish. We are all adults here....I am assuming. Have a bit of bloody decorum!!
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By *enelope2UWoman 1 week ago
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If you remember that women on here are real you'll be ahead of most guys... I'd be rich thin and blonde if I counted how many messages I get asking me to let them fuck a black chic as a tic box and think it's a compliment. |
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I'd bring fab into conversation , ask her how she feels about swinging and ENM relationships . There would be 2 ways it could go, either she embraces it or rejects it ,you'll atleast have your answer . Fortune favours the bold as they say and you can stop second guessing the answer .
It can be daunting putting yourself out there and having real life honest discussions about what you want sexually but the alternative means your stuck in an icky middle space where neither one of you are being honest in what you want and need out of a relationship . Maybe even leave a fab tab open and see what she says either way an honest conversation is needed . Might just be the pay off you need . If not then just how compatable would you be . |
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"know guys who have been sexual with a guy yet are not Bisexual in the slightest. It is all a spectrum that we each see through our own lens."
And those lens show that guys who are sexual with other guys are gay, or bi. |
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