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By *1992 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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I personally don't have any public face pictures on my profile but do in my private and friends for sharing when comfortable.
What are people's opinions about when you share a face pic with someone. Do you expect one back or would you ask ?
If it were the other way. Would you send 1 back even if you didn't find them attractive? |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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As I'm someone who had pictures used and had to start a profile from scratch all over again I like to have a bit of conversation first to see if we're a match personality wise and if they're genuinely wanting to meet.
And if I'm not for them I'd rather a simple not for us thank you rather than than not replying at all then blocking you from messaging |
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For me I have face pictures as it is how I get chats sometimes
On the other hand, if it takes weeks or months for the other person to send a face picture and I don’t fancy you it’s really not my fault |
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By *enelope2UWoman 10 weeks ago
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If I can't get excited about them through their words location or desire to meet in person BEFORE I've seen them I don't see a point in seeing what they look like... I can't dismiss or include someone by looks alone.. they mean ZERO to me if the mug is attached to a cunty asshole... I'm aware that order doesn't exist for most nowadays |
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"If someone asks for a face pic it should always be reciprocated. It’s only common decency. Something that seems to be in short supply."
Sorry but I disagree.
If you send a pic first and I’m not attracted I don’t see the point in returning a pic as i have no intention of meeting you in person.
What’s the point in me posting my face back ?
Just so they can see who turned them down !
I send a polite no thanks not my type message which usually is well received. We can’t be for everyone …. This includes me  |
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"If someone asks for a face pic it should always be reciprocated. Its only common decency. Something that seems to be in short supply."
if someone asks for a face pic then ask for theirs first since they were the one asking.
If they are reluctant then move on .
If however you ask first then it's only right you should send one first whether the person you are sending one to returns one then it's totally upto them but as others have said there would be no need if there isn't an attraction to take things further . |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"If I can't get excited about them through their words location or desire to meet in person BEFORE I've seen them I don't see a point in seeing what they look like... I can't dismiss or include someone by looks alone.. they mean ZERO to me if the mug is attached to a cunty asshole... I'm aware that order doesn't exist for most nowadays "
It’s absolutely about the mind first! I can want to be with, and fancy someone purely through conversation. As you say it’s not for all or the norm these days, but the mind is a powerful tool!  |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"If someone asks for a face pic it should always be reciprocated. It’s only common decency. Something that seems to be in short supply.
Sorry but I disagree.
If you send a pic first and I’m not attracted I don’t see the point in returning a pic as i have no intention of meeting you in person.
What’s the point in me posting my face back ?
Just so they can see who turned them down !
I send a polite no thanks not my type message which usually is well received. We can’t be for everyone …. This includes me "
Proved my point perfectly |
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I never ask for a face pic , if someone chooses to send one to me then that's on them . As harsh as it sounds if there isn't an attraction then games a bogey for me , don't see the point in replying with a face pic to say here's me but I'm not interested . Its a bit like "here's what you could've won " .
Also I'd never meet blind so at some point one would need to be sent before even getting to arranging a meet . |
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By *enelope2UWoman 10 weeks ago
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"I never ask for a face pic , if someone chooses to send one to me then that's on them . As harsh as it sounds if there isn't an attraction then games a bogey for me , don't see the point in replying with a face pic to say here's me but I'm not interested . Its a bit like "here's what you could've won " .
Also I'd never meet blind so at some point one would need to be sent before even getting to arranging a meet . "
Agreed
But I'm not turning someone down strictly due to a picture they might just be shit at taking a picture..if they are ALSO SHIT AT typing AND talking it's not about their picture but the whole package was a dismissal.. |
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"I think not sending a face picture keeps the intrigue going for longer... Am I chatting to the neighbour or that person in Asda. The freisonce is better."
I dont have the time to be chatting to anyone before seeing a facepic, if down the line i see a pic and im not physically attracted to them then no matter how great we get on im never going to meet them, its just wasted time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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we generally send out face pics quite early in conversations but only if theres a bit of back and forth, if conversation continues at that point and there is no sign of pics being returned we take that as a sign to move on, |
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"I personally don't have any public face pictures on my profile but do in my private and friends for sharing when comfortable.
What are people's opinions about when you share a face pic with someone. Do you expect one back or would you ask ?
If it were the other way. Would you send 1 back even if you didn't find them attractive?"
I never meet blindly, so many guys just want a wank or a chat. I’m no James Dean but I ain’t Shrek either, so I always ask politely for a photo before meet. I always reciprocate if someone sends one photo and always say if or not my type. The mojority of times the guys I get written by are too slim for me, and the larger men feel insecure and hide under fake profiles that say Muscle or Average. We need to stop shaming larger people and normalise beauty |
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"I personally don't have any public face pictures on my profile but do in my private and friends for sharing when comfortable.
What are people's opinions about when you share a face pic with someone. Do you expect one back or would you ask ?
If it were the other way. Would you send 1 back even if you didn't find them attractive?
I never meet blindly, so many guys just want a wank or a chat. I’m no James Dean but I ain’t Shrek either, so I always ask politely for a photo before meet. I always reciprocate if someone sends one photo and always say if or not my type. The mojority of times the guys I get written by are too slim for me, and the larger men feel insecure and hide under fake profiles that say Muscle or Average. We need to stop shaming larger people and normalise beauty "
Your point is very valid, as a number of comments made here, there is no absolute right or wrong here, but just have some common decency and treat all equally, no there is no right to receive a pic if you send, just as there is no right to receive a reply if you initiate, many assumptions and ego’s come into play on this site. Ultimately I’m more a mind over physical all day long, but I physical attraction factors somewhere for everyone. Be kind, be respectful and maybe take a chance once in a while….i have have been pleasantly surprised on more than one occasion |
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I have one of the worst faces on fab. It’s made people curl in disgust in the past.
Im ugly but that’s not why the face pics are private, they are not public because being outed would be a pure nightmare.
I hate seeing couples and women who have their faces on their public photos |
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"I personally don't have any public face pictures on my profile but do in my private and friends for sharing when comfortable.
What are people's opinions about when you share a face pic with someone. Do you expect one back or would you ask ?
If it were the other way. Would you send 1 back even if you didn't find them attractive?
I never meet blindly, so many guys just want a wank or a chat. I’m no James Dean but I ain’t Shrek either, so I always ask politely for a photo before meet. I always reciprocate if someone sends one photo and always say if or not my type. The mojority of times the guys I get written by are too slim for me, and the larger men feel insecure and hide under fake profiles that say Muscle or Average. We need to stop shaming larger people and normalise beauty
Your point is very valid, as a number of comments made here, there is no absolute right or wrong here, but just have some common decency and treat all equally, no there is no right to receive a pic if you send, just as there is no right to receive a reply if you initiate, many assumptions and ego’s come into play on this site. Ultimately I’m more a mind over physical all day long, but I physical attraction factors somewhere for everyone. Be kind, be respectful and maybe take a chance once in a while….i have have been pleasantly surprised on more than one occasion "
Being polite and treating others with kindness is free; there's nothing attractive or manly about being a bully or acting tough. What surprises me most is when people approach you with phrases like "Wot u up to" or other grammatically incorrect and impersonal expressions. When confronted about their poor language skills, they suddenly switch to perfect written English and become quite polite. Why do some feel the need to sound functionally illiterate? What’s appealing about that? Being polite is the most charming and sexy way to get someone’s attention. That unless you’re fetish is Neds.
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"I have one of the worst faces on fab. It’s made people curl in disgust in the past.
Im ugly but that’s not why the face pics are private, they are not public because being outed would be a pure nightmare.
I hate seeing couples and women who have their faces on their public photos "
There’s nothing wrong with your face, unless you look like Farage, you’re totally fine. |
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