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By *1992 OP Man 5 days ago
Cumnock |
I personally don't have any public face pictures on my profile but do in my private and friends for sharing when comfortable.
What are people's opinions about when you share a face pic with someone. Do you expect one back or would you ask ?
If it were the other way. Would you send 1 back even if you didn't find them attractive? |
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As I'm someone who had pictures used and had to start a profile from scratch all over again I like to have a bit of conversation first to see if we're a match personality wise and if they're genuinely wanting to meet.
And if I'm not for them I'd rather a simple not for us thank you rather than than not replying at all then blocking you from messaging |
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For me I have face pictures as it is how I get chats sometimes
On the other hand, if it takes weeks or months for the other person to send a face picture and I don’t fancy you it’s really not my fault |
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If I can't get excited about them through their words location or desire to meet in person BEFORE I've seen them I don't see a point in seeing what they look like... I can't dismiss or include someone by looks alone.. they mean ZERO to me if the mug is attached to a cunty asshole... I'm aware that order doesn't exist for most nowadays |
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"If someone asks for a face pic it should always be reciprocated. It’s only common decency. Something that seems to be in short supply."
Sorry but I disagree.
If you send a pic first and I’m not attracted I don’t see the point in returning a pic as i have no intention of meeting you in person.
What’s the point in me posting my face back ?
Just so they can see who turned them down !
I send a polite no thanks not my type message which usually is well received. We can’t be for everyone …. This includes me  |
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"If someone asks for a face pic it should always be reciprocated. Its only common decency. Something that seems to be in short supply."
if someone asks for a face pic then ask for theirs first since they were the one asking.
If they are reluctant then move on .
If however you ask first then it's only right you should send one first whether the person you are sending one to returns one then it's totally upto them but as others have said there would be no need if there isn't an attraction to take things further . |
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"If I can't get excited about them through their words location or desire to meet in person BEFORE I've seen them I don't see a point in seeing what they look like... I can't dismiss or include someone by looks alone.. they mean ZERO to me if the mug is attached to a cunty asshole... I'm aware that order doesn't exist for most nowadays "
It’s absolutely about the mind first! I can want to be with, and fancy someone purely through conversation. As you say it’s not for all or the norm these days, but the mind is a powerful tool!  |
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"If someone asks for a face pic it should always be reciprocated. It’s only common decency. Something that seems to be in short supply.
Sorry but I disagree.
If you send a pic first and I’m not attracted I don’t see the point in returning a pic as i have no intention of meeting you in person.
What’s the point in me posting my face back ?
Just so they can see who turned them down !
I send a polite no thanks not my type message which usually is well received. We can’t be for everyone …. This includes me "
Proved my point perfectly |
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I never ask for a face pic , if someone chooses to send one to me then that's on them . As harsh as it sounds if there isn't an attraction then games a bogey for me , don't see the point in replying with a face pic to say here's me but I'm not interested . Its a bit like "here's what you could've won " .
Also I'd never meet blind so at some point one would need to be sent before even getting to arranging a meet . |
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"I never ask for a face pic , if someone chooses to send one to me then that's on them . As harsh as it sounds if there isn't an attraction then games a bogey for me , don't see the point in replying with a face pic to say here's me but I'm not interested . Its a bit like "here's what you could've won " .
Also I'd never meet blind so at some point one would need to be sent before even getting to arranging a meet . "
Agreed
But I'm not turning someone down strictly due to a picture they might just be shit at taking a picture..if they are ALSO SHIT AT typing AND talking it's not about their picture but the whole package was a dismissal.. |
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