I’m wondering if any women message first on here? .
I know women don’t need to go looking on here but curious if any look for what ticks their boxes and make the first approach.
Or is it a dent in confidence if they get rejected |
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I do if he's got a genuine profile and has substance in both his visible library his profile and verifications match the profile..
that's rare to have full truths and those consistency ticks, so my messaging first is just as rare. |
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I've received messages from ladies making the first contact.
It's very flattering, and guys the go about it in a completely different way!
No "FAF" or genitals pic in first message...
There might be something in this ya know!  |
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90% of my meets, dates, dalliances and encounters over the last four years have been on the back of women sending the first message. So yes, women do message first.
Perhaps more women should do it, for the sake of variety. |
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I've never sent the first message. Absolutely no need when hundreds of messages can come through, just from me being online.
I limit my activity on Friday and Saturday nights cos of all the meet now messages |
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I message first very ocassionally but only if I have time to search because the inbox is usually so full it takes forever to go through those guys. Not scared of rejection because I’m not going to be everyone’s cup of tea |
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"I've received messages from ladies making the first contact.
It's very flattering, and guys the go about it in a completely different way!
No "FAF" or genitals pic in first message...
There might be something in this ya know! "
Yeah, cos that would put guys off. 🤣 |
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