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How did you make it work?

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By *oxic_Temptress OP   Woman 19 hours ago

Dundee

Hey! I wanted to ask about the swinging lifestyle. How did you get into it and how did it happen with your first swinging partner?

I met someone who we got on the best I’ve ever got on with someone, and it wasn’t discussed, but they slept with someone else and it hurt that they didn’t speak to me first about having that kind of relationship. We both met here.

By all means, they can do as they please because they are their own person, but I really did see a future swinging relationship with them. I would have been open to talking about these things and going baby steps but it didn’t happen that way.

So, how do you discuss being in a ENM relationship and how do you navigate the process??

What hurdles did you overcome and how?

Genuine answers only please

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By *ensualtongue2023Man 18 hours ago

furnace

A neighbours wife introduced me many many years ago

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By *ellinever70Woman 16 hours ago

Ayrshire

I think you either like the idea of your partner being intimate with someone else, or you don't.

If you don't, I don’t see the point in 'trying ' to get to that point

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By *ic0007Woman 8 hours ago

Alloa

Were you in a relationship? If not and you didn't discuss boundaries then they didn't really owe you anything unfortunately

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By *azzle99Woman 8 hours ago

Edinburgh

You’ve met someone on a swinging site who has chosen to swing. Unless it was discussed that you were exclusive then the person is enjoying this site/lifestyle as intended.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman 8 hours ago

Edinburgh

Although me and my partner didn't meet via swinging we went into having an open relationship.

I thought we were ENM until a guy told me there is romance involved with other people I just thought it was sex

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