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Hi. No judgement please. But would any ladies and gents like a group. WhatsApp prob. For married fun seekers. Numbers kept as level as possible ie. Male to female ratio. Some woman on here are happy to meet married guys or are married but many more are not. Just a thought happy to set group up. |
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"Hi. No judgement please. But would any ladies and gents like a group. WhatsApp prob. For married fun seekers. Numbers kept as level as possible ie. Male to female ratio. Some woman on here are happy to meet married guys or are married but many more are not. Just a thought happy to set group up. "
But that wouldn't be a group of swingers, would it?? |
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"I think you guys are needing a cheating website, rather than a swinging website. Might have more luck there  "
Absolutely true
Cheating isn't swinging.
It's dishonest. Our swinger friends, and our lifestyle choices are very honest. |
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Don't think anyone is judging per se. Merely directing attached folk who are looking something where existing partner has no knowledge to an appropriate site. There are many out there. Maybe you will all get a better response on them🤷♀️ |
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By *ags73Man 5 weeks ago
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"Don't think anyone is judging per se. Merely directing attached folk who are looking something where existing partner has no knowledge to an appropriate site. There are many out there. Maybe you will all get a better response on them🤷♀️"
Hmm dunno. I was married and didn’t cheat. I’m not now can do what I do with clear conscience, it’s being mindful of possible effect on someone that doesn’t know.
Not my problem and good luck to the OP in finding what they want.
We all travel our own paths and hey go, that’s modern life. |
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"Don't think anyone is judging per se. Merely directing attached folk who are looking something where existing partner has no knowledge to an appropriate site. There are many out there. Maybe you will all get a better response on them🤷♀️
Hmm dunno. I was married and didn’t cheat. I’m not now can do what I do with clear conscience, it’s being mindful of possible effect on someone that doesn’t know.
Not my problem and good luck to the OP in finding what they want.
We all travel our own paths and hey go, that’s modern life."
Modern life has not become a dishonest life, or did I miss something along the way??
Cheating is dishonest and disrespectful. An abuse of trust.
That isn't being judgemental, before all the cheats get on their high horse, it is merely stating how it is. |
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Cheating is cheating !!!!
It seems such and easy thing to say and cast all married guys as selfless.we are cheaters,however we never know guys reasons for looking somewhere else I'm not making excuses just explaining the situations.
Personally I would rather not be here and back to the times when my wife and I had a good sex life and it was something we thought would always be that way however just over 10 years ago my wife that I have been with for over 30 yrs took ill with what the doctor thought was due to s reaction to a possible insect bite and ended up in hospital with vascular issues the upshot of this is she started to suffer joint and muscular pain which has progressively got worse to a point sex is not an option due to the pain as its painful she has had no interest for almost 10 years tried various medication to help the pain with no real effect,now on anti depressants due is effect on her mental health.
This is the person I've loved almost from the day we met she's my best friend and soul mate and I thought things would improve in time and it never has,she use to get so upset that she couldn't enjoy sex due to the constant pain and got very down knowing that it was something I was missing see her like this was awful and I said it's not an issue and not to worry about it and joked I'm all shagged out from the past with you and not as much intrest now!
Which isn't true I still miss sex with her so much and know I can't go through the rest of my life without sex but wouldn't tell my wife that as there's nothing she can do to fulfill my need for sex and I wouldn't hurt her by bringing the topic up and I do know that I can be a bit short with here sometimes due to my sexual frustration which I hate.
In every other way our marriage is perfect and I would never leave and ultimately that's why I'm here to fulfill my own needs and I know it makes me selfish and a cheater, people can call me what they like but please don't judge everyone without knowing the reasons or what their situation is.
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By *ags73Man 5 weeks ago
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"Don't think anyone is judging per se. Merely directing attached folk who are looking something where existing partner has no knowledge to an appropriate site. There are many out there. Maybe you will all get a better response on them🤷♀️
Hmm dunno. I was married and didn’t cheat. I’m not now can do what I do with clear conscience, it’s being mindful of possible effect on someone that doesn’t know.
Not my problem and good luck to the OP in finding what they want.
We all travel our own paths and hey go, that’s modern life.
Modern life has not become a dishonest life, or did I miss something along the way??
Cheating is dishonest and disrespectful. An abuse of trust.
That isn't being judgemental, before all the cheats get on their high horse, it is merely stating how it is."
As I said that’s modern life. If people can handle it, that’s for them |
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"Don't think anyone is judging per se. Merely directing attached folk who are looking something where existing partner has no knowledge to an appropriate site. There are many out there. Maybe you will all get a better response on them🤷♀️
Hmm dunno. I was married and didn’t cheat. I’m not now can do what I do with clear conscience, it’s being mindful of possible effect on someone that doesn’t know.
Not my problem and good luck to the OP in finding what they want.
We all travel our own paths and hey go, that’s modern life.
Modern life has not become a dishonest life, or did I miss something along the way??
Cheating is dishonest and disrespectful. An abuse of trust.
That isn't being judgemental, before all the cheats get on their high horse, it is merely stating how it is.
As I said that’s modern life. If people can handle it, that’s for them "
Agree totally sadly.
Modern life brings along cheating, abusing trust, abusing respect.
However not everyone has to behave so badly.
Simply put, why cheat? Why not ask wives if they will accept an open relationship? After all, even in business partners agree on their actions.
The REAL reason is because most guys, not all, want to keep their happy home life with their unsuspecting wives, but at the same time abuse that relationship by cheating.
Saying this is modern life is no reason to behave in a bad way towards the one person that you are supposed to be closest to in the world, or is it??
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"Cheating is cheating !!!!
It seems such and easy thing to say and cast all married guys as selfless.we are cheaters,however we never know guys reasons for looking somewhere else I'm not making excuses just explaining the situations.
Personally I would rather not be here and back to the times when my wife and I had a good sex life and it was something we thought would always be that way however just over 10 years ago my wife that I have been with for over 30 yrs took ill with what the doctor thought was due to s reaction to a possible insect bite and ended up in hospital with vascular issues the upshot of this is she started to suffer joint and muscular pain which has progressively got worse to a point sex is not an option due to the pain as its painful she has had no interest for almost 10 years tried various medication to help the pain with no real effect,now on anti depressants due is effect on her mental health.
This is the person I've loved almost from the day we met she's my best friend and soul mate and I thought things would improve in time and it never has,she use to get so upset that she couldn't enjoy sex due to the constant pain and got very down knowing that it was something I was missing see her like this was awful and I said it's not an issue and not to worry about it and joked I'm all shagged out from the past with you and not as much intrest now!
Which isn't true I still miss sex with her so much and know I can't go through the rest of my life without sex but wouldn't tell my wife that as there's nothing she can do to fulfill my need for sex and I wouldn't hurt her by bringing the topic up and I do know that I can be a bit short with here sometimes due to my sexual frustration which I hate.
In every other way our marriage is perfect and I would never leave and ultimately that's why I'm here to fulfill my own needs and I know it makes me selfish and a cheater, people can call me what they like but please don't judge everyone without knowing the reasons or what their situation is.
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Well said, my well hung friend x |
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I was a member of something similar that was set up during lockdown. Got to say, the selection process was poor. Of the women who were in the group chat, only myself and one other actively participated in the chat. The rest of the women were either watching silently, or they had bigger cocks than the men in the group.
Oh, and of the men in the group, I think all bar one were gay, all wanking over one another.
Can I see the guest list before I confirm??? Hahaha. |
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"Cheating is cheating !!!!
It seems such and easy thing to say and cast all married guys as selfless.we are cheaters,however we never know guys reasons for looking somewhere else I'm not making excuses just explaining the situations.
Personally I would rather not be here and back to the times when my wife and I had a good sex life and it was something we thought would always be that way however just over 10 years ago my wife that I have been with for over 30 yrs took ill with what the doctor thought was due to s reaction to a possible insect bite and ended up in hospital with vascular issues the upshot of this is she started to suffer joint and muscular pain which has progressively got worse to a point sex is not an option due to the pain as its painful she has had no interest for almost 10 years tried various medication to help the pain with no real effect,now on anti depressants due is effect on her mental health.
This is the person I've loved almost from the day we met she's my best friend and soul mate and I thought things would improve in time and it never has,she use to get so upset that she couldn't enjoy sex due to the constant pain and got very down knowing that it was something I was missing see her like this was awful and I said it's not an issue and not to worry about it and joked I'm all shagged out from the past with you and not as much intrest now!
Which isn't true I still miss sex with her so much and know I can't go through the rest of my life without sex but wouldn't tell my wife that as there's nothing she can do to fulfill my need for sex and I wouldn't hurt her by bringing the topic up and I do know that I can be a bit short with here sometimes due to my sexual frustration which I hate.
In every other way our marriage is perfect and I would never leave and ultimately that's why I'm here to fulfill my own needs and I know it makes me selfish and a cheater, people can call me what they like but please don't judge everyone without knowing the reasons or what their situation is.
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Everyone can explain their situation. As everyone has a reason.
It's still cheating if your partner doesn't know🤷♀️ |
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"Cheating is cheating !!!!
It seems such and easy thing to say and cast all married guys as selfless.we are cheaters,however we never know guys reasons for looking somewhere else I'm not making excuses just explaining the situations.
Personally I would rather not be here and back to the times when my wife and I had a good sex life and it was something we thought would always be that way however just over 10 years ago my wife that I have been with for over 30 yrs took ill with what the doctor thought was due to s reaction to a possible insect bite and ended up in hospital with vascular issues the upshot of this is she started to suffer joint and muscular pain which has progressively got worse to a point sex is not an option due to the pain as its painful she has had no interest for almost 10 years tried various medication to help the pain with no real effect,now on anti depressants due is effect on her mental health.
This is the person I've loved almost from the day we met she's my best friend and soul mate and I thought things would improve in time and it never has,she use to get so upset that she couldn't enjoy sex due to the constant pain and got very down knowing that it was something I was missing see her like this was awful and I said it's not an issue and not to worry about it and joked I'm all shagged out from the past with you and not as much intrest now!
Which isn't true I still miss sex with her so much and know I can't go through the rest of my life without sex but wouldn't tell my wife that as there's nothing she can do to fulfill my need for sex and I wouldn't hurt her by bringing the topic up and I do know that I can be a bit short with here sometimes due to my sexual frustration which I hate.
In every other way our marriage is perfect and I would never leave and ultimately that's why I'm here to fulfill my own needs and I know it makes me selfish and a cheater, people can call me what they like but please don't judge everyone without knowing the reasons or what their situation is.
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Yes it does make you selfish and a cheater.
An honest question. Do you not care enough about your wife to be honest with her?? |
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[Cheating is cheating !!!!
It seems such and easy thing to say and cast all married guys as selfless.we are cheaters,however we never know guys reasons for looking somewhere else I'm not making excuses just explaining the situations.
Personally I would rather not be here and back to the times when my wife and I had a good sex life and it was something we thought would always be that way however just over 10 years ago my wife that I have been with for over 30 yrs took ill with what the doctor thought was due to s reaction to a possible insect bite and ended up in hospital with vascular issues the upshot of this is she started to suffer joint and muscular pain which has progressively got worse to a point sex is not an option due to the pain as its painful she has had no interest for almost 10 years tried various medication to help the pain with no real effect,now on anti depressants due is effect on her mental health.
This is the person I've loved almost from the day we met she's my best friend and soul mate and I thought things would improve in time and it never has,she use to get so upset that she couldn't enjoy sex due to the constant pain and got very down knowing that it was something I was missing see her like this was awful and I said it's not an issue and not to worry about it and joked I'm all shagged out from the past with you and not as much intrest now!
Which isn't true I still miss sex with her so much and know I can't go through the rest of my life without sex but wouldn't tell my wife that as there's nothing she can do to fulfill my need for sex and I wouldn't hurt her by bringing the topic up and I do know that I can be a bit short with here sometimes due to my sexual frustration which I hate.
In every other way our marriage is perfect and I would never leave and ultimately that's why I'm here to fulfill my own needs and I know it makes me selfish and a cheater, people can call me what they like but please don't judge everyone without knowing the reasons or what their situation is.
Yes it does make you selfish and a cheater.
An honest question. Do you not care enough about your wife to be honest with her
[No for the reasons stated above,] |
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"I was a member of something similar that was set up during lockdown. Got to say, the selection process was poor. Of the women who were in the group chat, only myself and one other actively participated in the chat. The rest of the women were either watching silently, or they had bigger cocks than the men in the group.
Oh, and of the men in the group, I think all bar one were gay, all wanking over one another.
Can I see the guest list before I confirm??? Hahaha. "
Look! If you're no interested, just say so and we'll get Lily Philips to take yer place! |
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"I think you guys are needing a cheating website, rather than a swinging website. Might have more luck there
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This is absolutely spot on.
Wrong site guys"
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No, it's the right site. This site is open to all. |
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"If a married man or woman is playing and the other half has no idea then it's cheating...end of..."
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What has that remark got to do with this thread? It's has no bearing whatsoever on what the OP is asking/proposing. |
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"If a married man or woman is playing and the other half has no idea then it's cheating...end of...
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What has that remark got to do with this thread? It's has no bearing whatsoever on what the OP is asking/proposing."
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"Seems to be a lot of "single" guys, wanting to join a WhatsApp group for married?
I wonder how many are also "fab straight"?
A little bit of honesty goes a long way .
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That'll be the 'straight guys" wank club. |
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"Women won't need to. More guys will meet married women that the opposite.
Hence why you never see a married woman complaining about lack of attention on the forums... "
Married men usually only want one thing.. married women want two..
Former sexless married woman who left because BOTH things were lacking. |
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"Seems to be a lot of "single" guys, wanting to join a WhatsApp group for married?
I wonder how many are also "fab straight"?
A little bit of honesty goes a long way .
🤣🤣 well spotted🤔🤣🤪"
Oh you know what I'm like! |
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"Hi. No judgement please. But would any ladies and gents like a group. WhatsApp prob. For married fun seekers. Numbers kept as level as possible ie. Male to female ratio. Some woman on here are happy to meet married guys or are married but many more are not. Just a thought happy to set group up. "
Send me message when you set group up please  |
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