Is this a regular thing for others?
We are meet and photo verified but it seems guys with fragile egos can't grasp that we are looking for very specific things and love to resort to calling us fake if we they don't get their way. Not sure if they think we will suddenly change our mind and meet them to prove them wrong or some crap. Does this happen to other folks? |
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"Is this a regular thing for others?
We are meet and photo verified but it seems guys with fragile egos can't grasp that we are looking for very specific things and love to resort to calling us fake if we they don't get their way. Not sure if they think we will suddenly change our mind and meet them to prove them wrong or some crap. Does this happen to other folks?"
yes many times because I don't show verifications & won't met at the drop of a hat. |
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Happens often..I'm not interested in hotel or coffee meets or long distance types only looking for a hole...but they think since they'll travel then I'm the one fake because I won't fuck them on demand....
Welcome to it being told it's a sex site..so we're supposed to expect the trash and below trash standards |
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Happened a few times, including recently when I told a couple I wouldn't be meeting anyone until well after the New Year, so that meant I was "probably a fake profile". I've only had 2 meets on here and prefer not to display them, but I'm happy to verify if it comes to arranging something. I get it, I have my doubts sometimes too, but wouldn't accuse anyone, even if I knew for sure, just block or ignore |
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I mean, it doesn't bother us. We have the skin of a rhino, some sad act calling us fake isn't going to offend us. We were more curious than anything as to whether this was a normal thing. Having your profile listed in status update as fake can potentially make things more difficult to arrange when already looking for very specific things. We appreciate the replies though. |
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Like you say usually just guys with fragile egos, that and insults seem to be their go to. Based on women and couples statuses, it's amazing how many grown men seem to have this type of response when faced with rejection. |
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We were accused of being fake and attention seeking by another couple because we "always had an excuse".... No, just whenever they wanted to meet, we weren't available. We both work and we have a family and we won't meet separately  |
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As others have stated, the accusation of being fake is often thrown at people who are far from it. It's water of a ducks back for us and is usually thrown out at the same time that they throw their toys out of the pram because we won't spend our time talking to someone hundreds of miles away where there is no real possibility of a meet. We don't let it ruin our day, and neither should anyone else  |
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"Having your profile listed in status update as fake can potentially make things more difficult to arrange when already looking for very specific things."
If that happens then I would recommend reporting the profile for naming and shaming; let them face the wrath of Admin  |
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