Is it just me that gets put off by people who have videos and pictures of them not wearing protecting?
You do you, I'm not gonna police it, and I just hope people are being safe and getting tested regularly and using other methods of contraception. But it's a right turn off.
I know having sex with anyone even with protection, there's still a risk of catching something (and really we should be using oral protection too), but I dunno it makes me uncomfortable people posting that. I guess for me it helps to decide not to get involved with that person, especially if your advertising so publicly that you have sex without protection. But damn it's scary to see more people not using protection than people who do! |
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Nothing worse than seeing kids running about from people harping about protection.
Or demanding a condom but sucking every dick and eating any pussy. You ate the disease but that's cool....
Get tested stay tested and know and trust who you're fucking. Stay abstinent if you want safe sex otherwise there's always a risk.
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Personally I play safe always. But tend to only have one play partner at a time ( last one 3 years) so we’re tested and monogamous. And that’s who you see in my vids and pics.
I think it’s best to keep yourself safe and stick to your boundaries . |
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"Nah it bugs the shit out of me they normally come.up with some kind of excuse like it's an ex I kept the pics...yeah but did you ask her permission to post them?
Doubt it "
In my case it is my ex, I did ask him and he’s more than happy for me to post them! |
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"Nah it bugs the shit out of me they normally come.up with some kind of excuse like it's an ex I kept the pics...yeah but did you ask her permission to post them?
Doubt it
In my case it is my ex, I did ask him and he’s more than happy for me to post them! "
More likely a lady would ask, I don't think many guys would I could be wrong though |
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I Always wear protection it’s for all our safety but I agree some peoples pics and videos are with long term partners who know each other well and know that they are both safe in each others company |
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"Nah it bugs the shit out of me they normally come.up with some kind of excuse like it's an ex I kept the pics...yeah but did you ask her permission to post them?
Doubt it
In my case it is my ex, I did ask him and he’s more than happy for me to post them! "
Exactly mine is my current and he knows and we use only my phone for our pictures or videos..some people simply misspell jealousy wrong |
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"Nothing worse than seeing kids running about from people harping about protection.
Or demanding a condom but sucking every dick and eating any pussy. You ate the disease but that's cool....
Get tested stay tested and know and trust who you're fucking. Stay abstinent if you want safe sex otherwise there's always a risk.
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I mean, gathering from what you've wrote I think we both agree that oral protection is important too especially if you're playing with multiple people, as you can still get sti's/std's from oral.
And agree, we should all be getting tested regularly and having open conversations about it.
I just see more profiles than not (I'll empathise it's it's only single men profiles I choose to engage with atm) with videos and pictures without protection, it's just a personal turn off. It's just that fact that I'm seeing most profiles without condoms on or I'm having men message me and there's that stuff on their profile more than ever before. But if you're fine with that, crack on haha. As long as y'all are consenting and happy, right?
As long as they are telling you that they have play partners they are having unprotected sex with, then each person can make a decision on wither they'd want to I suppose. I guess I was more so trying to see if anyone felt the same |
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"Nah it bugs the shit out of me they normally come.up with some kind of excuse like it's an ex I kept the pics...yeah but did you ask her permission to post them?
Doubt it
In my case it is my ex, I did ask him and he’s more than happy for me to post them! "
Tbh this is not something I thought about, was that it could be videos with previous partners, that's something I'll need to keep in mind |
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If it doesn't effect me who am I to judge!?
We are all responsible for our own sexual health after all.
However these profiles are the ones you see but il bet the figures are a lot higher with the ones who don't openly advertise the fact on their profiles .
Live & let live and just look after yourself I'd say
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"If it doesn't effect me who am I to judge!?
We are all responsible for our own sexual health after all.
However these profiles are the ones you see but il bet the figures are a lot higher with the ones who don't openly advertise the fact on their profiles .
Live & let live and just look after yourself I'd say
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with you on that, but when you look at profiles that don't advertise it, take a look at the pictures and sometimes they tell more than the text |
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"If it doesn't effect me who am I to judge!?
We are all responsible for our own sexual health after all.
However these profiles are the ones you see but il bet the figures are a lot higher with the ones who don't openly advertise the fact on their profiles .
Live & let live and just look after yourself I'd say
with you on that, but when you look at profiles that don't advertise it, take a look at the pictures and sometimes they tell more than the text"
That's what I mean these are the ones who clearly are but il bet there are more profiles that you would never know. |
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"If it doesn't effect me who am I to judge!?
We are all responsible for our own sexual health after all.
However these profiles are the ones you see but il bet the figures are a lot higher with the ones who don't openly advertise the fact on their profiles .
Live & let live and just look after yourself I'd say
with you on that, but when you look at profiles that don't advertise it, take a look at the pictures and sometimes they tell more than the textThat's what I mean these are the ones who clearly are but il bet there are more profiles that you would never know."
exactly, by the way, nice to see your still here, I remember you from when I was on here 8byears ago |
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"If it doesn't effect me who am I to judge!?
We are all responsible for our own sexual health after all.
However these profiles are the ones you see but il bet the figures are a lot higher with the ones who don't openly advertise the fact on their profiles .
Live & let live and just look after yourself I'd say
with you on that, but when you look at profiles that don't advertise it, take a look at the pictures and sometimes they tell more than the textThat's what I mean these are the ones who clearly are but il bet there are more profiles that you would never know.exactly, by the way, nice to see your still here, I remember you from when I was on here 8byears ago"
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"If it doesn't effect me who am I to judge!?
We are all responsible for our own sexual health after all.
However these profiles are the ones you see but il bet the figures are a lot higher with the ones who don't openly advertise the fact on their profiles .
Live & let live and just look after yourself I'd say
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Agreed. It's also a good filter. Or you can just block and move on as that profile is not compatible with you |
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"Nothing worse than seeing kids running about from people harping about protection.
Or demanding a condom but sucking every dick and eating any pussy. You ate the disease but that's cool....
Get tested stay tested and know and trust who you're fucking. Stay abstinent if you want safe sex otherwise there's always a risk.
I mean, gathering from what you've wrote I think we both agree that oral protection is important too especially if you're playing with multiple people, as you can still get sti's/std's from oral.
And agree, we should all be getting tested regularly and having open conversations about it.
I just see more profiles than not (I'll empathise it's it's only single men profiles I choose to engage with atm) with videos and pictures without protection, it's just a personal turn off. It's just that fact that I'm seeing most profiles without condoms on or I'm having men message me and there's that stuff on their profile more than ever before. But if you're fine with that, crack on haha. As long as y'all are consenting and happy, right?
As long as they are telling you that they have play partners they are having unprotected sex with, then each person can make a decision on wither they'd want to I suppose. I guess I was more so trying to see if anyone felt the same"
Agreed... I just think those thinking just because they use a condom they are immune or better than those who don't.. especially not knowing the circumstances. You can have a condom on and be fucking someone with 8+STDs oral herpes and anal fungus and wont get tested has never been tested..... or be with someone with no condom who's never and doesn't have any disease and who faithfully gets tested and practices good medical health. |
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"Nothing worse than seeing kids running about from people harping about protection.
Or demanding a condom but sucking every dick and eating any pussy. You ate the disease but that's cool....
Get tested stay tested and know and trust who you're fucking. Stay abstinent if you want safe sex otherwise there's always a risk.
I mean, gathering from what you've wrote I think we both agree that oral protection is important too especially if you're playing with multiple people, as you can still get sti's/std's from oral.
And agree, we should all be getting tested regularly and having open conversations about it.
I just see more profiles than not (I'll empathise it's it's only single men profiles I choose to engage with atm) with videos and pictures without protection, it's just a personal turn off. It's just that fact that I'm seeing most profiles without condoms on or I'm having men message me and there's that stuff on their profile more than ever before. But if you're fine with that, crack on haha. As long as y'all are consenting and happy, right?
As long as they are telling you that they have play partners they are having unprotected sex with, then each person can make a decision on wither they'd want to I suppose. I guess I was more so trying to see if anyone felt the same
Agreed... I just think those thinking just because they use a condom they are immune or better than those who don't.. especially not knowing the circumstances. You can have a condom on and be fucking someone with 8+STDs oral herpes and anal fungus and wont get tested has never been tested..... or be with someone with no condom who's never and doesn't have any disease and who faithfully gets tested and practices good medical health. "
^^^^ spot on |
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Was having a look through the new photos and videos, and there was a video of someone having sex, they then whipped off the condom and proceeded to cum all over the girls pussy.
Now, assuming it wasn't the males partner, what was the point in the condom?  |
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Doesn't put me off because I don't know the situation or what they do afterwards to keep themselves safe, I mean I hate using condoms but I would always use one on a first time meet ,but if it was regular and we both were checked early after meeting I'd be comfortable not using any protection |
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By *hyme2020Woman 1 week ago
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I’m with you OP. I don’t like to see single male profiles with unprotected sex pics or videos. Couples profiles entirely different. Each of us has our own things and just because I don’t have unprotected sex unless I’m in a serious relationship, I know lots of others don’t feel the same. Each to their own. I don’t tend to just stick to one sexual partner at a time and these men don’t either, so before you know it could technically be linked to many many people and potential infections. Since we are on the topic lol, where does everyone find best to get sexual health screening done please? |
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"I’m with you OP. I don’t like to see single male profiles with unprotected sex pics or videos. Couples profiles entirely different. Each of us has our own things and just because I don’t have unprotected sex unless I’m in a serious relationship, I know lots of others don’t feel the same. Each to their own. I don’t tend to just stick to one sexual partner at a time and these men don’t either, so before you know it could technically be linked to many many people and potential infections. Since we are on the topic lol, where does everyone find best to get sexual health screening done please? "
Definitely I get you. And as you said each to their own. As long as everyone is informed and being honest.
Hopefully me posting this link will be okay but if you go to www.nhsinform(dot)scot/scotlands-service-directory/sexual-health-clinics you will be able to search which ones are local to you. I personally always get a full screening which includes bloods. I read elsewhere you can get your mouth swapped too as these appointments which I didn't know was a thing so I'll be getting that done as well from now on. I get tested every three months, that's how it's worked out like. And I've not had any questions as to why I get checked so often!
Call up and you'll be able to book an appointment 😁 |
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"I’m with you OP. I don’t like to see single male profiles with unprotected sex pics or videos. Couples profiles entirely different. Each of us has our own things and just because I don’t have unprotected sex unless I’m in a serious relationship, I know lots of others don’t feel the same. Each to their own. I don’t tend to just stick to one sexual partner at a time and these men don’t either, so before you know it could technically be linked to many many people and potential infections. Since we are on the topic lol, where does everyone find best to get sexual health screening done please?
Definitely I get you. And as you said each to their own. As long as everyone is informed and being honest.
Hopefully me posting this link will be okay but if you go to www.nhsinform(dot)scot/scotlands-service-directory/sexual-health-clinics you will be able to search which ones are local to you. I personally always get a full screening which includes bloods. I read elsewhere you can get your mouth swapped too as these appointments which I didn't know was a thing so I'll be getting that done as well from now on. I get tested every three months, that's how it's worked out like. And I've not had any questions as to why I get checked so often!
Call up and you'll be able to book an appointment 😁"
Swabs does mouth and ass.. separate swabs of course lol plus blood.
The test kits can be posted or you can go in directly. |
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