"We are just dipping our toes in this lifestyle. We've been a few times to a club and was good but I feel social part is short. Seeking advice on which is best route to having amazing experiences?"
there are few people who organise socials, so if you can dm them they would help you with the upcoming dates and social events |
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By *ock1Man 11 weeks ago
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I have been in the lifestyle for a long time, and attended all the different events over this time, socials are a good way to start, club are fantastic, everyone is always friendly and welcoming, and you don't have to do anything you don't want to,
You can just sit and chat and have a good night out  |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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I think it’s a pretty even balance between clubs and socials. Contrary to some beliefs (from those who perhaps haven’t been), clubs also have a strong social atmosphere without any pressure to go further.
There’s a lovely group that often meet for social drinks before CJs, you have the city specific social events ran by good folk listed here in the forums and ofcourse the clubs themselves  |
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"We would like to meet more folk on socials too. With no necessary expectation something is going to happen. "
That's the same for me (L) I'm still fairly new to this and not very confident, I'd like to do more social stuff where if it naturally progresses to play, so be it, but not "ok, here's a drink so get naked now" |
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"Whats the best way to find out when/where socials are happening? Apologies if its a daft question but I’ve never seen any pop up.
Not daft, I'd also like to know this "
They usually are in the specific forum and mention meeting for drinks before party events.. there's also the Kik groups but for me I don't need that secrecy factor to be on kik and find it's more for those wanting a bed notch or excuse. I've yet to see a true social it's usually just drinks coffee before a club event |
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"Whats the best way to find out when/where socials are happening? Apologies if its a daft question but I’ve never seen any pop up.
Not daft, I'd also like to know this
They usually are in the specific forum and mention meeting for drinks before party events.. there's also the Kik groups but for me I don't need that secrecy factor to be on kik and find it's more for those wanting a bed notch or excuse. I've yet to see a true social it's usually just drinks coffee before a club event "
I’ve been to multiple socials that are actual social events rather than a drink before a club, they’re always advertised on the Scotland forum |
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"Whats the best way to find out when/where socials are happening? Apologies if its a daft question but I’ve never seen any pop up.
Not daft, I'd also like to know this
They usually are in the specific forum and mention meeting for drinks before party events.. there's also the Kik groups but for me I don't need that secrecy factor to be on kik and find it's more for those wanting a bed notch or excuse. I've yet to see a true social it's usually just drinks coffee before a club event "
Yeah I'm not a fan of using kik etc, at least on here both my husband and I can see messages |
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"Whats the best way to find out when/where socials are happening? Apologies if its a daft question but I’ve never seen any pop up.
Not daft, I'd also like to know this
They usually are in the specific forum and mention meeting for drinks before party events.. there's also the Kik groups but for me I don't need that secrecy factor to be on kik and find it's more for those wanting a bed notch or excuse. I've yet to see a true social it's usually just drinks coffee before a club event
I’ve been to multiple socials that are actual social events rather than a drink before a club, they’re always advertised on the Scotland forum "
Yup plenty non play social events. We've done bowling and mini golf. Silent discos and karaoke...no at the same time🤣. That would be brutal🎵
There is a really good social scene in Glasgow and edinburgh |
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"We would like to meet more folk on socials too. With no necessary expectation something is going to happen. "
Sounds ideal tbh
But the usual problem is getting to the first hurdle of getting any replies and chat .. |
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