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By *igdirtyG OP   Man 2 weeks ago

East Kilbride

Why is it full of profiles saying nsa or fun now etc and no woman reply’s is it full of fake profiles a don’t get it? Anyone else agree

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman 2 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Not all women on this site are looking for meaningless one off, crappy sex. Most look for a connection.

I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut.

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By *igdirtyG OP   Man 2 weeks ago

East Kilbride

I dm you there

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By *assy LassieWoman 2 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"Why is it full of profiles saying nsa or fun now etc and no woman reply’s is it full of fake profiles a don’t get it? Anyone else agree"

Maybe they are having nsa and fun with other guys.

Doesn't make them fake just because they don't meet you

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By *ightaswelltryMan 2 weeks ago

Coatbridge

How many messages a day do you reckon Women/Couples on here get per day?

Chances are you’ll probably have to stimulate them intellectually or make them laugh for you to stand out from the 100’s of dick pics and proclamations from guys calling themselves hung bulls.

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By *amierebelMan 2 weeks ago

nae danger.


"How many messages a day do you reckon Women/Couples on here get per day?

Chances are you’ll probably have to stimulate them intellectually or make them laugh for you to stand out from the 100’s of dick pics and proclamations from guys calling themselves hung bulls."

Never mind per day imagine per hour even faceless profiles don’t last long on here if the gender is female either they’re fake profiles or can’t deal with the desperation in the inbox

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By *hiskeymuffinCouple 2 weeks ago

Tayside


"How many messages a day do you reckon Women/Couples on here get per day?

Chances are you’ll probably have to stimulate them intellectually or make them laugh for you to stand out from the 100’s of dick pics and proclamations from guys calling themselves hung bulls."

We have about 500 unread on here at the moment, we do try to reply to most but the box always grows

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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago


"I dm you there "

Fs, how come she gets a dm and yet I go without being given attention? This is a cruel cruel place

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By *ougar-and-ClitmasterCouple 2 weeks ago

1 Hr North of Aberdeen

No Matter how many times I put on my profile I only see "very well endowed studs" and we don't meet Bi or Bi curious men and I need to see proof of the weapon due to fake or photoshopped time wasters, I still get 100's of Emails a day from little plonkers or no pictures on there profile, would help if you read the profile looked in the mirror before you message no wonder ladies don't reply

Be genuine, respectful, and if she's out of your league move on xxx

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By *ore_Please81Woman 2 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Not all women on this site are looking for meaningless one off, crappy sex. Most look for a connection.

I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut. "

This 100%

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By *hagira ShagiraWoman 2 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I honestly dont get the mentality of jumping to the conclusion that if a woman doesnt reply to you they must be a fake and a timewaster .

Theres such a thing as preference and sorry but if you dont meet that then your mails essentially deadwood ,

As harsh as that sounds it the truth . when getting a mail first thing i do is click on the profile and make a decision from there if that doesn't appeal then i wont be replying , as probably 9 times outta 10 when i say no thanks not for me i get met with abuse or just as bad desperation on why i should take that chance, sometimes replying to a mail that's no wanted just opens up the channel for subsequent unwanted mails .

Also having a whinge on the forums about how unfair it is for you is hardly gonna have hoards of women wae there breeks round their ankles batterin down your inbox !

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By *eautynGeekCouple 2 weeks ago

Dalry


"Not all women on this site are looking for meaningless one off, crappy sex. Most look for a connection.

I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut. "

And the occasional ham sandwich

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By *weetRollMan 2 weeks ago

Angus/Dundee/Perth


"How many messages a day do you reckon Women/Couples on here get per day?

Chances are you’ll probably have to stimulate them intellectually or make them laugh for you to stand out from the 100’s of dick pics and proclamations from guys calling themselves hung bulls.

We have about 500 unread on here at the moment, we do try to reply to most but the box always grows "

As one of those guys still awaiting, I do appreciate that you try.

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By *weetRollMan 2 weeks ago

Angus/Dundee/Perth


"Why is it full of profiles saying nsa or fun now etc and no woman reply’s is it full of fake profiles a don’t get it? Anyone else agree"

For single men, its a slow burn. Like a zen master you got to be at peace with it. Flow with it. It seems counterintuitive but going into each interaction without even expecting to be responded to can help. Put the effort in, but accept that even your very best can be met with silence or go unread altogether.

There is nothing you can do to guarantee responses. And even an initially responsive user can suddenly become unresponsive for a variety of reasons. You have not necessarily done anything wrong.

Its a frustration that you can adapt to and the less you care, the easier it becomes. However, you must at the same time not allow a learned indifference to tank the quality of your messages. Its truly an emotional as well as intellectual challenge. But It can be done.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman 2 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"Not all women on this site are looking for meaningless one off, crappy sex. Most look for a connection.

I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut.

And the occasional ham sandwich "

No, no, no….you were supposed to stop all talk of ham sandwiches 🤢

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By *assy LassieWoman 2 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"I honestly dont get the mentality of jumping to the conclusion that if a woman doesnt reply to you they must be a fake and a timewaster .

Theres such a thing as preference and sorry but if you dont meet that then your mails essentially deadwood ,

As harsh as that sounds it the truth . when getting a mail first thing i do is click on the profile and make a decision from there if that doesn't appeal then i wont be replying , as probably 9 times outta 10 when i say no thanks not for me i get met with abuse or just as bad desperation on why i should take that chance, sometimes replying to a mail that's no wanted just opens up the channel for subsequent unwanted mails .

Also having a whinge on the forums about how unfair it is for you is hardly gonna have hoards of women wae there breeks round their ankles batterin down your inbox !

"

⬆️ what she says!!!

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By *assy LassieWoman 2 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"How many messages a day do you reckon Women/Couples on here get per day?

Chances are you’ll probably have to stimulate them intellectually or make them laugh for you to stand out from the 100’s of dick pics and proclamations from guys calling themselves hung bulls.

We have about 500 unread on here at the moment, we do try to reply to most but the box always grows "

Message filters help if you are overwhelmed by your inbox

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By *ischiefandmayhem69Couple 2 weeks ago

stanley

We have the same problem fake profiles. Makes posing as females ir mf couples then when wife ask to speak to the female we then get blocked.

Same as males who spout how good they are and don't have the balls to even turn up.

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By *allerthanaverage79Man 2 weeks ago

Ayrshire

The answer to.why is usually "because I could"

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By *issBehave69Man 2 weeks ago

Kilmarnock


"

I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut. "

Oh I dunno, it would work for me

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By *assy LassieWoman 2 weeks ago

Lanarkshire


"

I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut.

Oh I dunno, it would work for me "

You've a male profile so your point doesn't stand🤷‍♀️🙄

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By *issBehave69Man 1 week ago

Kilmarnock


"

I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut.

Oh I dunno, it would work for me

You've a male profile so your point doesn't stand🤷‍♀️🙄"

You’re correct, I do however have a sense of humour.

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By *assy LassieWoman 1 week ago

Lanarkshire


"

I’d also like to point out, when messaging a woman, you’d maybe get a response if you didn’t ask her to be your slut.

Oh I dunno, it would work for me

You've a male profile so your point doesn't stand🤷‍♀️🙄

You’re correct, I do however have a sense of humour. "

Good for you! My point stands tho

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By *enelope2UWoman 1 week ago

Fife

Because some of us have standards... I'm single I don't need to hide or get that desperate where I'd allow myself to be disrespected and treated like a doorknob where everyone got a turn...

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