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Bareback yes or no?
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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Always a no for me. You just never know what a partners sexual activity is like on here.
Best thing anyone can do is look after their own sexual health, and then that has the added bonus of protecting your partners. |
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I've only ever been sodomised a few times, four men in total, two, I let do it to me bareback, but they were both 19 at the time, me in my fifties, and they had done it to very few people before me, so I thought it was a calculated risk. The other two were 25 and 30 respectively, so I got them to wear condoms. |
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"A regular has the benefit of no restrictions
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Yeah as long as not got alot off one offs they are fucking bareback then I agree that's why I have a few regulars that o ly do it with their other half or me thankfully x |
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By *hyme2020Woman 20 weeks ago
Glasgow Scotland |
Never go bareback and never would unless in a serious relationship and both tested. All these people who say they only go bare with regulars, what about if your regular is regular with other people and these people aren’t so fussy? If I see people posting bareback pics and they aren’t in a couples profile, I block. Just my preference |
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"Never go bareback and never would unless in a serious relationship and both tested. All these people who say they only go bare with regulars, what about if your regular is regular with other people and these people aren’t so fussy? If I see people posting bareback pics and they aren’t in a couples profile, I block. Just my preference "
I understand where your coming from I am fortunate enough to have trust and know they won't bullshit me as I won't bullshit them with me it's take me as I am forward blunt and to the point no crap no shit talking just truth that's all I ask for in return means trust is alot stronger that way for me aswell x |
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By *hyme2020Woman 20 weeks ago
Glasgow Scotland |
"Never go bareback and never would unless in a serious relationship and both tested. All these people who say they only go bare with regulars, what about if your regular is regular with other people and these people aren’t so fussy? If I see people posting bareback pics and they aren’t in a couples profile, I block. Just my preference
I understand where your coming from I am fortunate enough to have trust and know they won't bullshit me as I won't bullshit them with me it's take me as I am forward blunt and to the point no crap no shit talking just truth that's all I ask for in return means trust is alot stronger that way for me aswell x"
You just need to look at how many people are on here behind their partners back. Where is the trust there? They could be going back to their unsuspecting partner and having a normal relationship but playing bare with multiple other people who they “trust” 
You do what suits you. We’re all different and I will stick to playing safe. |
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Everybody lies, trust no one and play safe.
This is a swingers site where people have multiple partners and they have multiple partners and they have multiple partners…..you never just sleep with one person more like hundreds! Get on prep if bi and going bare
I only play bare with someone once we’ve both been tested and are in a monogamous relationship or play together safely! |
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By *j2015Couple 20 weeks ago
Glasgow |
"Everybody lies, trust no one and play safe.
This is a swingers site where people have multiple partners and they have multiple partners and they have multiple partners…..you never just sleep with one person more like hundreds! Get on prep if bi and going bare
I only play bare with someone once we’ve both been tested and are in a monogamous relationship or play together safely! "
Completely agree except for the inclusion of your Bi comment.
Any penetrative sex without a condom carries a risk of HIV or Hep A regardless of preference or sex.
Also testing is not a defence unless you are abstained for 6+weeks before your next play.
Infact its well documented that in the first 6 weeks of contracting HIV the virus is at its most transmissible while being likely undetectable.
We live is a better time. PEP and PrEP are available for free. If your are bare backing outside of monogamy and not using these you are either lazy or stupid. Unless risk is your kink and your partner is on board! Just make sure nobody else is involved untill that 7week result 🤷♂️
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I much prefer bareback sex,it is so much more natural than condoms,no fiddling about with slippery wrappers while you lose your horn,just push yourself inside me,as long as you fill me with cum I'm happy. |
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By *enelope2UWoman 20 weeks ago
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"A regular has the benefit of no restrictions
Yeah as long as not got alot off one offs they are fucking bareback then I agree that's why I have a few regulars that o ly do it with their other half or me thankfully x"
Trust is required..so many I know who turn their noses up to my choice have condom kids, STDs, STIs, multiple fathers to multiple children and are sneaking off to fulfill their bi and or cheating habits.. meanwhile laying next to a partner who's oblivious but yeah them... |
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"Never go bareback and never would unless in a serious relationship and both tested. All these people who say they only go bare with regulars, what about if your regular is regular with other people and these people aren’t so fussy? If I see people posting bareback pics and they aren’t in a couples profile, I block. Just my preference "
Fully agree 👍 |
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"Trying to work out something I understand having bareback sex with regulars and only if able to count on one hand or not not sure. Imput from others please what's your view's xx"
I agree no restrictions with trusted confidential friends which is what she wants anyway as she has a thing for sitting on my face and having me clean her out after sex.
It works for us both as she gets off on it and cums hard. |
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By *enelope2UWoman 3 weeks ago
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"Never go bareback and never would unless in a serious relationship and both tested. All these people who say they only go bare with regulars, what about if your regular is regular with other people and these people aren’t so fussy? If I see people posting bareback pics and they aren’t in a couples profile, I block. Just my preference
Fully agree 👍"
And couples with cheating partners ... ..like most on here |
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By *djojoTV/TS 2 weeks ago
Dumbarton |
Bareback and Condom, and im on event based prep and tested every 3 months.
I make a choice based on the kind of chat and the person im with, See in here, the majority of people lie and that's just the way it is, and so i take my time to work people out.
Profiles that say straight and yet they contact me, ring alarm bells. Guys that are married and playing away and yet knock me for using prep and getting tested wow wow wow.
Normally prefer to only bareback with guys and gals whom are also on prep and sti checked. |
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I was in a relationship with someone for 9 years, bareback obviously proper couple, once we separated I discovered they'd been having an affairfir the last 6 months of the relationship, I immediately got tested found out I had Chlamydia antibiotics prescribed and cleared up, this was 15years ago but I still remember that experience.
Yes I love the feel of bareback who doesn't but yeah trust me it's not worth it people. |
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In a solid, stable relationship yeah its swap fluids all day long.
But on here with randoms why would you? Some folk have more veris than chins in a chinese phone book, the odds are stacked against you as one could be barebacking with a dozen who in turn do the same.
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By *hyme2020Woman 2 weeks ago
Glasgow Scotland |
It actually shocks me how many people are saying yes if both want it. My god I would want it every time I have sex, but will I do it, absolutely not because I know men I am having sex with are having sex with others too and that’s just the way it is. Bare contact with one “trusted” person could end up being contact with hundreds of we all have one or two “trusted” people. If someone doesn’t want to wear a condom with me, there will just be no sex and that’s fine by me |
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Just curious, those who insist on condoms for sex do you insist on condoms for giving oral (BJ) too then?
As it's just as risky to give oral without a condom as it is to have bareback sex.
I've come across a lot of females who will give oral without a condom but insist on a condom for sex. That kind of defeats the purpose. |
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By *enelope2UWoman 2 weeks ago
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"Just curious, those who insist on condoms for sex do you insist on condoms for giving oral (BJ) too then?
As it's just as risky to give oral without a condom as it is to have bareback sex.
I've come across a lot of females who will give oral without a condom but insist on a condom for sex. That kind of defeats the purpose. "
When you start having kids from a BJ then I'll buy defeats the purpose. There's a purpose for everything. |
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"Just curious, those who insist on condoms for sex do you insist on condoms for giving oral (BJ) too then?
As it's just as risky to give oral without a condom as it is to have bareback sex.
I've come across a lot of females who will give oral without a condom but insist on a condom for sex. That kind of defeats the purpose. "
The risk is still there but isn't nearly as high. It's significantly reduced, though not for all STDs so you're right on that. |
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"I'm wrapping it ,
Play safe always ..
This is not just about possible pregnancy ( not in my case ✂️), but a health decision ,why take chances ? .
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Much like yourself stray cat I can't get people pregnant either I'm an official medically certified member of territorial army hahaha but yeah don't want a disease that's for damn sure I'd like him to stay healthy and active for a long time |
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We would never do bareback with anyone trusted or not no matter how long weve known them for . We value our health and others we have fun with .
Anyone who does bareback gets instantly blocked along with anyone they have met and been verified by .
Thanks to this thread we have added quite a few profiles to our block list .
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My paranoia tells me to always "wear a jacket" as a female friend calls it.
My last/late girlfriend and I had been together for nearly 2 years, and she'd moved in before I stopped using condoms.
With my new partner, we're not at that stage yet, but if/when we do, the "jacket" will be on each time.
Mandy |
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By *j2015Couple 2 weeks ago
Glasgow |
Hate that this is even a discussion.
Swinging and safety must be hand in hand.
The only 2 STDs that can genuinely kill you have a 6+ week incubation period before testable where the are most infectious..
We understand that risk is a kink in some circumstances but this isnt the 80s. And all you 100% straight people can get aids too. If you wanna fk bare take PReP an advertise you are doing it to educate others.
Seen 10 posts on barebacking and Never once a post on PReP 🤷♂️ |
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By *j2015Couple 2 weeks ago
Glasgow |
"Just curious, those who insist on condoms for sex do you insist on condoms for giving oral (BJ) too then?
As it's just as risky to give oral without a condom as it is to have bareback sex.
I've come across a lot of females who will give oral without a condom but insist on a condom for sex. That kind of defeats the purpose. "
Its statements like these that are genuinely uneducated and worrying. There is absolutely a risk of infection via oral sex but it is definitely not comparable.Sex will always carry an accepted risk. Penetration (of anykind) carries a significantly higher exposure to infections and additionally opens you to exposure of AIDs and HEP A. These are blood transferring diseases that will impact every day for the rest of your life and so easily prevented by being a responsible adult and wearing a condom. Dont like the free ones? Us too, so open your wallet and buy some expensive condoms youre worth it! |
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"I prefer bare , find girls do too but needs to be trust and honesty between partners , obviously in heat a moment it can just happen so always best discussed and agree beforehand"
I agree and bare does feel better |
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