So, my partner has fantasies involving BDSM. I am hoping to surprise her with a visit to a professional. Does anyone have recommendations for service providers, preferably Glasgow but willing to travel? |
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You'll need to narrow down more specifically what kind of services you're looking for.
Worth noting that a professional is unlikely to do a booking with you to 'surprise' your partner as they'll probably want to ensure an appropriate level of consent and negotiation beforehand. |
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By *ane DTV/TS 5 weeks ago
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You might be better off taking her to a kink munch than a professional as a "surprise".
As has been said, there are consent issues around "surprise" visits that professional providers will be very loath to touch. |
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Thanks for the replies. She has discussed an interest in bondage side of things. Restraints, bondage etc.
I have worded my initial post poorly with the surprise part. I understand she would have to sign consent etc on the day. I was more meaning I want to contact professionals and arrange as much as possible without her knowing as a gift idea. I didn't expect to have her tied up and some professional just come walking in lol. My bad for the confusion. |
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Probably hiring a venue would be your best bet. There are a couple of dungeons in Glasgow that can be hired by the hour. Quick tour and then you both are left to your own devices.
Would give you a chance to try/play with the equipment in a no pressure atmosphere. Definitely something you’d have to both agree to do though 
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"Probably hiring a venue would be your best bet. There are a couple of dungeons in Glasgow that can be hired by the hour. Quick tour and then you both are left to your own devices.
Would give you a chance to try/play with the equipment in a no pressure atmosphere. Definitely something you’d have to both agree to do though
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This could be a potential, that area doesn't hold much interest for me tbh which was why I had hoped to book with a professional for her. But if I can't find any professional willing/suitable then hiring of a dungeon may be a great fall back. Is this an area you have much knowledge in ie could you recommend any places to look into? |
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"Probably hiring a venue would be your best bet. There are a couple of dungeons in Glasgow that can be hired by the hour. Quick tour and then you both are left to your own devices.
Would give you a chance to try/play with the equipment in a no pressure atmosphere. Definitely something you’d have to both agree to do though
This could be a potential, that area doesn't hold much interest for me tbh which was why I had hoped to book with a professional for her. But if I can't find any professional willing/suitable then hiring of a dungeon may be a great fall back. Is this an area you have much knowledge in ie could you recommend any places to look into?"
Have look at Ecclesia_Glasgow on here.
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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Yes, as above - or Abstrakt Studios.
Can’t recommend venue hire enough, even if it isn’t your cup of tea it would certainly be a dip into the world of Pro BDSM for your partner.
Hiring a dungeon is always a fun date night activity  |
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Depends on what you are actually looking for and what she's into. Seems you really are looking for someone to teach you both how to utilise BDSM tactics unless it's just something you're not confident in doing to her yourself.
Not a professional but I'm professional , 😜
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I guess you could say I want her to have the best experience possible and not me clumsily making shit up as I go. My thinking is that if it is done through a professional service she will experience it properly and can judge for sure what is for her and what isn't. From there we can begin to build it into our personal bedroom antics. |
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"I guess you could say I want her to have the best experience possible and not me clumsily making shit up as I go. My thinking is that if it is done through a professional service she will experience it properly and can judge for sure what is for her and what isn't. From there we can begin to build it into our personal bedroom antics."
Id say your thinking is distorted. Speaking only from personal experience I prefer a dominant sexual partner because I have to do everything in life by myself as it is. Try just being assertive. When she comes home or from the next room today sternly tell her to go shower and come stand by you. Don't laugh just be direct. When she gets out of the shower go to the bedroom. Tell her to lay on her back and forth starters since I'm assuming you probably don't have bondage gear I'm sure you have a belt or scarf. Tie her hands nothing tight. Just kiss her everywhere and gauge that. BDSM isn't always extreme torture disrespect or vile antics it's simply being submitted and under the protection direction of someone with your pleasure and interests at their control and disposal.. of course TV or movies and people living in their heads can distort anything to be worse or more. |
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You could attend a BDSM event or go along to After Dark or CJs and watch people in the dungeon and talk to them (at an appropriate time not during a scene).
There’s usually lots of people to speak to and you’ll get a feel for what you both want. |
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