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Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self?
Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……. |
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I’d love to date a like minded guy but also have the comanionship and regular fun/push new boundaries. I’ve put on dating apps that I’m not into vanilla type relationship but I think it’s scares guys off or attracts the creeps lol! Always end up on here again!  |
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I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites |
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I gave up on dating sites within about 3 months. Every guy I spoke to on dating sites were wanting to settle down... aye right! Just be upfront.
Don't think I could ever go back to a traditional relationship. I like my telly remote too much😜🤣 |
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I've been lucky and met my partner and girlfriend from here.
Fab dating is definitely a thing that can work. Being polyamorous I find it is better than dating apps; excluding Feeld, can be easier to find open minded people.
Always open to new relationship opportunities, tend to find the better you know each other the better the sex/play is  |
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge
Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self?
Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads ……."
Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here  |
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"Fab dating should definitely be a site of it's own  "
Yes I think so too - I would love to do more dating but I got rid of tinder etc just as I found it so boring and rarely got any decent conversations. Sadly I’m up in Aberdeen so I’m slightly limited location wise but still keen to date up here |
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"Fab dating should definitely be a site of it's own
Yes I think so too - I would love to do more dating but I got rid of tinder etc just as I found it so boring and rarely got any decent conversations. Sadly I’m up in Aberdeen so I’m slightly limited location wise but still keen to date up here "
Yeah but unfortunately I think it would fill up with guys looking to get laid rather than date.
Feeld is a bit more of an open dating tool, find more polyamorous people there.
Also you should all want to date Bootyful she is an amazing person |
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge
Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self?
Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads …….
Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here "
I’m sure Falcon organised one years ago, heard it was a great night but don’t think there hs been one since |
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"Fab dating should definitely be a site of it's own
Yes I think so too - I would love to do more dating but I got rid of tinder etc just as I found it so boring and rarely got any decent conversations. Sadly I’m up in Aberdeen so I’m slightly limited location wise but still keen to date up here
Yeah but unfortunately I think it would fill up with guys looking to get laid rather than date.
Feeld is a bit more of an open dating tool, find more polyamorous people there.
Also you should all want to date Bootyful she is an amazing person "
Yeah I guess that’s true!
Aw shush you wee cutie  |
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge
Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self?
Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads …….
Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here "
Watch this space😜 |
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge
Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self?
Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads …….
Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
I’m sure Falcon organised one years ago, heard it was a great night but don’t think there hs been one since "
That was an amazing night
I'm still laughing about the lady who said as soon as I sat down, "I don't really know why I came, I know if I want to sleep with someone as soon as I see them."
"I see. How am I doing so far, then?" 
[Swigs wine] "...eh." |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge
Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self?
Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads …….
Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
I’m sure Falcon organised one years ago, heard it was a great night but don’t think there hs been one since
That was an amazing night
I'm still laughing about the lady who said as soon as I sat down, "I don't really know why I came, I know if I want to sleep with someone as soon as I see them."
"I see. How am I doing so far, then?"
[Swigs wine] "...eh.""
Pmsllll, if she had lifted her hand up and shouted Cheque, then you were in
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I have tried tinder etc, but find it the same old boring chat from people “hey how’s you” type stuff all the time, it just gets boring,
A fab dating site or night would be amazing, better chat more open about what you want and interest and not shy away from what both are actually looking for, sounds great. |
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"I have tried tinder etc, but find it the same old boring chat from people “hey how’s you” type stuff all the time, it just gets boring,
A fab dating site or night would be amazing, better chat more open about what you want and interest and not shy away from what both are actually looking for, sounds great. "
This. No feeling the need to hide this part of yourself either. |
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge
Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self?
Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads …….
Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
Watch this space😜"
Oooh pleeease. Sign me up. |
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"I have tried tinder etc, but find it the same old boring chat from people “hey how’s you” type stuff all the time, it just gets boring,
A fab dating site or night would be amazing, better chat more open about what you want and interest and not shy away from what both are actually looking for, sounds great.
This. No feeling the need to hide this part of yourself either."
Absolutely agree, it’s good to chat to like minded people who are just open and honest. Just don’t tend to find that on normal dating sites |
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge
Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self?
Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads …….
Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
Watch this space😜
Oooh pleeease. Sign me up. "
Plans for a speed dating night are underway. Keep an eye on the forum.😜 |
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge
Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self?
Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads …….
Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
Watch this space😜
Oooh pleeease. Sign me up.
Plans for a speed dating night are underway. Keep an eye on the forum.😜"
Ohhh well that would be a lot of fun 😜 haha |
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge
Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self?
Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads …….
Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
Watch this space😜
Oooh pleeease. Sign me up.
Plans for a speed dating night are underway. Keep an eye on the forum.😜"
I would definitely be up for this!!! Count me in x |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"Definitely should be a thing and up for dating.
Normal apps are tricky for me as I’m very specific to what I’m looking for and don’t play well with “normal” men x "
Trying not to laugh here, but I'm definitely not normal. I have been in a mental institution, in the lock up ward but hey, I was visiting a family member |
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"Definitely should be a thing and up for dating.
Normal apps are tricky for me as I’m very specific to what I’m looking for and don’t play well with “normal” men x
Trying not to laugh here, but I'm definitely not normal. I have been in a mental institution, in the lock up ward but hey, I was visiting a family member "
Just my type then |
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge
Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self?
Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads …….
Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
Watch this space😜
Oooh pleeease. Sign me up.
Plans for a speed dating night are underway. Keep an eye on the forum.😜"
Definitely interested x |
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"I have shamelessly taken this from the Lounge
Are dating apps too vanilla? Want to be able to show the whole of your true self?
Post in here that you are looking to date and those who are interested can message with the subject ‘fab dating’ and see where it Leads …….
Has there ever been a Fab speed dating night? Sure that would gain a lot of interest on here
Watch this space😜
Oooh pleeease. Sign me up.
Plans for a speed dating night are underway. Keep an eye on the forum.😜
Definitely interested x"
A forum post will go up nearer the time. Numbers will be very limited and only genuinely single and meet verified people will be permitted. |
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I think they are and the kink focused ones are absolutely horrible |
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By *oobsorbumMan 5 weeks ago
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I've tried quite a few dating apps which can be helpful meeting new people but yeah wouldn't it just be great to date someone with the same sexual interests without being paranoid if they'd be into it or not too |
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I totally typoed that last post - D'Oh!
I said,
Maybe Fabs should add Dating as an interest on the list on here? That way it would be easy for others to see if you're interested in dating via this place.
Mandy |
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By *armannMan 5 weeks ago
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites "
. I am one of them. I would reckon I get 5 times as many meets as I do on here. Most of these meets are for sex. It may be a one-off or a FWB situation occurs.
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Absolutely sick of dating apps - all full of scammers, timewasters or bots. single guys are just seen as cash cows to be milked at every opportunity by dating apps.
So yes, if there was such a thing as fab dating I'd be interested. Whether anyone would be interested in me is a completely different question!!! |
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By *hyme2020Woman 5 weeks ago
Glasgow Scotland |
"Oooh I read the speed dating but and that sounds fun
Keep an eye out for a post for a speed dating social in the new year! Plans are well underway"
Will do thanks. Just need to pull my big girl brave pants on lol |
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Hi, I'm looking to date/hook up with someone ideally for a coffee and chat and see if we click.
I always love the amazing feelings of first meet, first snog and the touching and exploring of each other's bodies.
My breath is always mint fresh and a deodorant smell of Yves Saint Laurent Y.
Happy to meet up Perthshire/Fife/Tayside or further , happy for a car meet too if we click.
Let's meet up and if we don't have that spark then at least we tried but if the spark is there then let's ignite |
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites . I am one of them. I would reckon I get 5 times as many meets as I do on here. Most of these meets are for sex. It may be a one-off or a FWB situation occurs. "
Same here. Many times more meets and dates from the usual dating sites and the ladies are all attractive and chatty, with plenty kink going on !!. Just not enough women on here to make it a _ealistically successful thing unfortunately, otherwise be a great idea. Profiles of the same person vary between sites as is normal and to be expected. |
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This is a really interesting one and been a good read through the posts.
We all know the dating scene is a cesspit, I ended up with two stalkers (not joking btw), and it isn’t going to improve. People must be choosing to be single now rather than risk the negative experiences of the dating scene.
I think fab dating would work for fb situations but it’s rare to have singles meet over here and have successful relationships. We all see the drama and hurt feelings that those interactions lead to.
Perhaps dating socials/ singles only socials would be a more effective idea. |
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"This is a really interesting one and been a good read through the posts.
We all know the dating scene is a cesspit, I ended up with two stalkers (not joking btw), and it isn’t going to improve. People must be choosing to be single now rather than risk the negative experiences of the dating scene.
I think fab dating would work for fb situations but it’s rare to have singles meet over here and have successful relationships. We all see the drama and hurt feelings that those interactions lead to.
Perhaps dating socials/ singles only socials would be a more effective idea."
Totally agree with this  |
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"I like the idea of dating but dating apps give me the fear!. Maybe this would be the way to go"
Dating sites are the pits in general!!
But I've actually made some good friends off them, so they aren't Ll bad! |
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I think 90% of the meets I've had I've always been forward enough to say that it's not just for a one off I'm looking for and if someone wants to explore ENM or can put up with my cooking than it's deffo what I'm looking for, but FFS it's quite sparse in the Highlands!!  |
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"I gave up on dating sites within about 3 months. Every guy I spoke to on dating sites were wanting to settle down... aye right! Just be upfront.
Don't think I could ever go back to a traditional relationship. I like my telly remote too much😜🤣"
I prefer not to be cheated in so I'd never date again... It's only open relationships and friends with benefits.. I can't stomach the dating sexual double standards |
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Love the idea of this thread 🙂 I'm definitely over being single and would love to date someone into some of the things I am but on the more traditional dating apps it tends to all go a bit wrong as soon as you confess to an interest in swinging 😅 |
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites "
What other sites are they other than fab? |
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites
What other sites are they other than fab?"
Google dating sites. It's not hard |
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites
What other sites are they other than fab?
Google dating sites. It's not hard"
Yeah done that but 90 present of them are all full of pay screens |
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites
What other sites are they other than fab?
Google dating sites. It's not hard
Yeah done that but 90 present of them are all full of pay screens "
That's your answer then. It's a lucrative business! |
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites
What other sites are they other than fab?
Google dating sites. It's not hard
Yeah done that but 90 present of them are all full of pay screens
That's your answer then. It's a lucrative business!"
Ooh look at you with the fancy words be normal an just say profitable 😂 not pay for something that say a have 20 odd messages and ask you to pay to see an just been registered with the place so what’s you answer for that one |
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"I think most people, singles anyway, have a profile on the different sites. They’re not necessarily looking for the same thing on each of their different profiles though. I’ve spoken to people who have had more meets from dating sites
What other sites are they other than fab?
Google dating sites. It's not hard
Yeah done that but 90 present of them are all full of pay screens
That's your answer then. It's a lucrative business!
Ooh look at you with the fancy words be normal an just say profitable 😂 not pay for something that say a have 20 odd messages and ask you to pay to see an just been registered with the place so what’s you answer for that one "
You asked if there were any sites like this. You've now researched and found most are behind a pay wall. Therefore there are not many sites like this. You have find the answer.
Oh and I will use whatever words I like. As can you😜🤣 |
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