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So Tell Me, How Is Life Treating You On Fab ?
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"Lets get down to the nitty gritty!
How is fab treating you?, whether you've joined a few weeks ago or been here for years. In general how's it been for you with the highs and lows?  "
It can be shit, a pain, daunting, depends on your outlook. Moi, I enjoy it, have a laugh, even just chatting to a brick wall, I meet, socially, fun, even though I'm outside the age range of approx 90% of the profiles, i get on with most, love a good gab and giggle and admittedly I'm a good windup up and been known to tease now and then in a few ways.
You hear the old saying, it is what you put into it and its so true. I'm probably too honest on here, I know shocker but it just works and its up to each and everyone of us to make it change |
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"Lets get down to the nitty gritty!
How is fab treating you?, whether you've joined a few weeks ago or been here for years. In general how's it been for you with the highs and lows? "
will say ots a bit like some highest highs yiu get but will be mixed with some childhood school play ground bs , like everything in life need walk thorough some shit to know if your made of stronger material, but sassy is right this place is what yiu make of it don't let it change yiu or make yiu think something it's only a small part of the scene  |
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Meh is what it is. Mostly keep it for the forums and hot videos section.
It’s much more useful on a couples profile than a single dudes one, but you need a another for that haha
I’ve found it a better experience since updating my bio and adding some face pics.
I find feeld is easier to actually interact with folk than here.
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"Meh is what it is. Mostly keep it for the forums and hot videos section.
It’s much more useful on a couples profile than a single dudes one, but you need a another for that haha
I’ve found it a better experience since updating my bio and adding some face pics.
I find feeld is easier to actually interact with folk than here.
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you get responses on ther lucky you qe don't so really must be horses for courses |
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By *tew008Man 5 weeks ago
edinburgh |
"Meh is what it is. Mostly keep it for the forums and hot videos section.
It’s much more useful on a couples profile than a single dudes one, but you need a another for that haha
I’ve found it a better experience since updating my bio and adding some face pics.
I find feeld is easier to actually interact with folk than here.
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Same fab is just wee nose on the forums and some nice videos. Nowt else. |
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It's not good usually just browse here now.
I'm upfront about being married and happy to explain why on here but the judgment I get from many is ridiculous.
We all have our reasons it is a swinging site with most of us looking for NSA fun to escape the daily grind and unfilled sexual lives.
I do laugh when being judged and call a disgusting cheating scum bag by someone who doesn't know the reasons for me turning to fab for my sexual fulfillment and you look at their pictures and they have a butter nut squash rammed up them !!!!!!! |
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"Never thought it would be this hard to find like minded kinky people who want to play and push each others boundaries, we must be doing something wrong "
Wouldn't say something wrong would just say Rome isn't built in a day |
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I think it's different for women than men. Can't Imagine many men get 100+ messages a day. And if your invited or I solved in the socials 👏 then it could be different. But for the most. It's shit. |
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"It's shit
I second this. Full of time wasters and lonely people just wanting to chat.
I've only started in the forums so I've not wasted another subscription. "
Go to socials etc or clubs and then bring that fab life to clubs and yiur club life to fab its social media not magic |
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By * and BCouple 5 weeks ago
Durham |
To many let downs. You have to be very thick skinned to be on this site. Can give peoples mental health a kicking with all the fab crazies on here giving abuse to folk. It serves it's purpose for us, keeping in touch with people we meet in clubs. On another positive, however very rare, respectfull people sometimes raise their heads even though we are all on the back foot |
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"It's shit
I second this. Full of time wasters and lonely people just wanting to chat.
I've only started in the forums so I've not wasted another subscription. "
Agreed.. a lot of keyboard dreamers |
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"To many let downs. You have to be very thick skinned to be on this site. Can give peoples mental health a kicking with all the fab crazies on here giving abuse to folk. It serves it's purpose for us, keeping in touch with people we meet in clubs. On another positive, however very rare, respectfull people sometimes raise their heads even though we are all on the back foot "
100% can give you a complex. I imagine it's worse for women, as men are more likely to throw the toys out the pram when they get rejected. I find it tiring as most women are up with the abuse and are less likely to chat to someone new because of this. |
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"It's shit
I second this. Full of time wasters and lonely people just wanting to chat.
I've only started in the forums so I've not wasted another subscription.
Go to socials etc or clubs and then bring that fab life to clubs and yiur club life to fab its social media not magic"
Yeah I get that, but not sure how to get an invite to them? I don't imagine you can just turn up? Or it would more than likely be just guys?. Not sure though. Always wanted to go to CJs or after dark but would need a partner in crime as single guys are limited?? |
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"It's shit
I second this. Full of time wasters and lonely people just wanting to chat.
I've only started in the forums so I've not wasted another subscription.
Go to socials etc or clubs and then bring that fab life to clubs and yiur club life to fab its social media not magic
Yeah I get that, but not sure how to get an invite to them? I don't imagine you can just turn up? Or it would more than likely be just guys?. Not sure though. Always wanted to go to CJs or after dark but would need a partner in crime as single guys are limited?? "
It needs planning preparation if you’re not going to commit and just wait for something to happen its most probably not going to go your way . |
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"CJs and AD, you just need to plan ahead to book your space. Nice if you have a friend to go with, but not essential.
I've had some great times at CJs."
Agree with your comments about going to clubs, they are worthwhile for many socially and fun but for me its different. You can easily have an amazing time without going to those clubs. I don't intend to go to a club again, well I don't intend to again.
I have had an amazing time at socials, house parties, meeting 1 on 1 socially and even fun. I'm mature, fit, OK looking and outside 90% of profiles age range but I'm confident in myself, always treat with respect, even at that, my levels of fun are varied and I'm actually interested in my company, what they enjoy, what they like etc...
If I'm not for anyone in particular I'm totally fine with it. I do love a right good giggle and laugh and always go with the flow and see how we all get on. I've had that attitude and always will even if I never meet anyone ever again on fab.  |
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"CJs and AD, you just need to plan ahead to book your space. Nice if you have a friend to go with, but not essential.
I've had some great times at CJs."
Can you book as a single guy? Cam I ask how you booked? |
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"Absolutely. I've had plenty of good times outside clubs (more than inside them). Half of it is timing, the other half is being their type. Be nice and you never know."
Cheers mate, I'll message their profile on here and see what they say.😬 |
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"CJs and AD, you just need to plan ahead to book your space. Nice if you have a friend to go with, but not essential.
I've had some great times at CJs.
Can you book as a single guy? Cam I ask how you booked?"
See their website via the clubs review page . After 8 I’m sure you’ll get via google . |
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"CJs and AD, you just need to plan ahead to book your space. Nice if you have a friend to go with, but not essential.
I've had some great times at CJs.
Can you book as a single guy? Cam I ask how you booked?
See their website via the clubs review page . After 8 I’m sure you’ll get via google . "
Thank you very, I'll have a look. |
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"CJs and AD, you just need to plan ahead to book your space. Nice if you have a friend to go with, but not essential.
I've had some great times at CJs.
Can you book as a single guy? Cam I ask how you booked?"
The CJs website is very informative and they have a profile on fab and are very welcoming to newbies |
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"Lets get down to the nitty gritty!
How is fab treating you?, whether you've joined a few weeks ago or been here for years. In general how's it been for you with the highs and lows? "
Well iv had a few messages of audacity from men that im not into extreme degrading sex, like why am i even on fab if im not here for the pleasure of men i should be waiting open mouthed and open legged  |
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"It's shit
I second this. Full of time wasters and lonely people just wanting to chat.
I've only started in the forums so I've not wasted another subscription.
Go to socials etc or clubs and then bring that fab life to clubs and yiur club life to fab its social media not magic
Yeah I get that, but not sure how to get an invite to them? I don't imagine you can just turn up? Or it would more than likely be just guys?. Not sure though. Always wanted to go to CJs or after dark but would need a partner in crime as single guys are limited?? "
Only thing I can say is do you wanna take a leap of faith or be an old man filled with regrets (Jonathan and Christopher nolan)
The clubs and socials are open to all just go on the social meets and ask the event organiser on how to get a ticket or such as for cjs just call them up after 2pm or email them via the contact info given on the website also remember no pressure everyone was in your shoes at one time or another no pressure Rome isn't built in a day and most of when yiu go to clubs the staff or owner will give yii guided tour and if yiu ever have any questions just ask the staff they are more than helpful to us I'm sure they would be for you too |
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By *hyme2020Woman 5 weeks ago
Glasgow Scotland |
I have had a mixture of experiences on fab. I have met some lovely guys and some not so lovely guys. Made some really nice friends. Haven’t ventured to clubs or socials yet, but that will come eventually I’m sure |
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"I think it's different for women than men. Can't Imagine many men get 100+ messages a day. And if your invited or I solved in the socials 👏 then it could be different. But for the most. It's shit. "
Attend a couple of socials then. See if it makes a difference |
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I've been on and off over the years but now I'm here to stay.
I've enjoyed my times here, I've met quite a few woman and stayed in touch with some of them.
I've never been to a club or an organized social but that will come.
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I think I have sent out about 20 or 30 messages in last couple of months. Most of these have been read. Number of replies received: zero.
That sums up FAB for me as a solo guy.
We have a couples profile which gets more messages and receives replies to those we send out, but yeah, as a solo guy, FAB is a frustrating business! |
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"I think I have sent out about 20 or 30 messages in last couple of months. Most of these have been read. Number of replies received: zero.
That sums up FAB for me as a solo guy.
We have a couples profile which gets more messages and receives replies to those we send out, but yeah, as a solo guy, FAB is a frustrating business!"
It's a bit of a strange one for me. Most ladies I connect with want someone meet verified....but I can't get anyone to verify me.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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It’s. what you make of it, sometimes you have to put a lot of effort in for little return .
Having said that , when it does work out boy does it work out
Don’t take it or anyone too seriously , it’s meant to be a bit of fun 👍 |
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I’m not massively active on Fab just now, but have been a member for many years.
Its had its downs, but the ups far exceed them.
I’ve been lucky enough to have met people who have crossed over into real life, and have become hugely important people in my life. A couple of them particularly I’d be lost without. We speak multiple times a day, the voice messages are more like podcasts, and I trust their judgement on pretty much everything. One lives at the other side of the country so we don’t get to meet much but we still manage 
The other lives very locally so we see each other a lot.
I joined Fab for sex, and I’ve had lots of extremely good (and some not so good!) sex with some awesome men, women and couples, but I never expected to make best pals!  |
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Life in General is treating me shitily, currently waiting for admission to a ward for overnight monitoring of Arrhythmia. My battery is on 30%, and Idon't have a charger. And I have to take what's on offer for dinner, as I missed the menu rounds. FML. |
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Been blocked few times this week.
Once because I had an online meeting and was busy from a man who messages one a week.
Because I asked for a face photo ( after chatting for months)
Because I don’t like men in women lingerie |
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