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How Regular Do You See Your FWB ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 17 weeks ago
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Interesting one|:
Singles on here that are looking to meet, male and female who have, what they consider to be a FWB, how regular do you meet your FWB?
Once a day, once or twice a week, once of twice a month ?
Love to get your input
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I (Helen) meet my fab on average twice a week. Once midweek then one overnight. Depending upon what we are working sometimes more and sometimes less. On occasion I have stayed a full weekend or multiple nights midweek when hubby was away with work. Been away a few naughty weekends to various hotels and out for drinks. Been just over a year so far and seems to be working well for all 3 involved |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 17 weeks ago
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"I (Helen) meet my fab on average twice a week. Once midweek then one overnight. Depending upon what we are working sometimes more and sometimes less. On occasion I have stayed a full weekend or multiple nights midweek when hubby was away with work. Been away a few naughty weekends to various hotels and out for drinks. Been just over a year so far and seems to be working well for all 3 involved "
Thank you for that superb reply
It's good to know how many times anyone meets their FWB and or even the time they meet, is that enough during the week or month etc...
The hardest thing I suppose is that we all have our private life's so sometimes I suppose it would be hard to fit them in for some, others a lot easier to find the time for their fwb  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 17 weeks ago
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"Interesting one|:
Singles on here that are looking to meet, male and female who have, what they consider to be a FWB, how regular do you meet your FWB?
Once a day, once or twice a week, once of twice a month ?
Love to get your input
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Oh an by the way, for clarity
I dont have a FWB   |
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"Interesting one|:
Singles on here that are looking to meet, male and female who have, what they consider to be a FWB, how regular do you meet your FWB?
Once a day, once or twice a week, once of twice a month ?
Love to get your input
Oh an by the way, for clarity
I dont have a FWB "
But how often would you like/want to meet if you did |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 17 weeks ago
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"Interesting one|:
Singles on here that are looking to meet, male and female who have, what they consider to be a FWB, how regular do you meet your FWB?
Once a day, once or twice a week, once of twice a month ?
Love to get your input
Oh an by the way, for clarity
I dont have a FWB
But how often would you like/want to meet if you did"
Do you remember me, quite an active guy on a night out
Every hour on the hour 
being honest, at least once or twice a week, thats me not being pushy  |
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"Interesting one|:
Singles on here that are looking to meet, male and female who have, what they consider to be a FWB, how regular do you meet your FWB?
Once a day, once or twice a week, once of twice a month ?
Love to get your input
Oh an by the way, for clarity
I dont have a FWB
But how often would you like/want to meet if you did
Do you remember me, quite an active guy on a night out
Every hour on the hour
being honest, at least once or twice a week, thats me not being pushy "
Haha I recall your expert ball skills. Couldn't get enough of them
Seriously tho. Once or twice a week seems reasonable any more than that it's running into relationship territory for me. |
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"Due to busy work schedules, we are every month or so, sometimes more/less but depends on how busy we are  "
I think it's different for couples though. Meets will be in addition to your own sex life |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 17 weeks ago
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"Interesting one|:
Singles on here that are looking to meet, male and female who have, what they consider to be a FWB, how regular do you meet your FWB?
Once a day, once or twice a week, once of twice a month ?
Love to get your input
Oh an by the way, for clarity
I dont have a FWB
But how often would you like/want to meet if you did
Do you remember me, quite an active guy on a night out
Every hour on the hour
being honest, at least once or twice a week, thats me not being pushy
Haha I recall your expert ball skills. Couldn't get enough of them
Seriously tho. Once or twice a week seems reasonable any more than that it's running into relationship territory for me. "
Think it doesn't need to be a standard meets at certain days or times. Sometimes just receiving a message at anytime, "you free, I want that huge cock now". I added huge as I didn't wanna sound big headed |
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By *hyme2020Woman 17 weeks ago
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Not often enough. I ideally would like to have a fwb I can meet every second weekend when my kids are away. I don’t get mid week opportunities to very often. Work schedules/child schedules etc seem to always ruin it for me. I can never find someone I get on with well enough that can meet as often as I would like. Even if I have 2 regular fwb it’s still not regular enough for me |
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"Not often enough. I ideally would like to have a fwb I can meet every second weekend when my kids are away. I don’t get mid week opportunities to very often. Work schedules/child schedules etc seem to always ruin it for me. I can never find someone I get on with well enough that can meet as often as I would like. Even if I have 2 regular fwb it’s still not regular enough for me "
I'm quite lucky my kids are adults now. Although the fun hoovers are never out the house at the same time. Or if they are it's last minute |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 17 weeks ago
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"Not often enough. I ideally would like to have a fwb I can meet every second weekend when my kids are away. I don’t get mid week opportunities to very often. Work schedules/child schedules etc seem to always ruin it for me. I can never find someone I get on with well enough that can meet as often as I would like. Even if I have 2 regular fwb it’s still not regular enough for me
I'm quite lucky my kids are adults now. Although the fun hoovers are never out the house at the same time. Or if they are it's last minute"
Yeah remember the fwb is what we want as he or she or cpl are your release from the norm, the fun, the sex, do what you want to together to fill that need and desire. You don't want it to lead to anything other that lust and desire and a want and as said, mix it up but you have to find what you want, that regular, you prefer to meet at theirs or at yours or hotel etc.. all these things can be arranged once you know who is that one you want for your fwb |
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Not long after I joined fab I met a guy who I got on well with so we met exclusively for a while but only fortnightly as that’s when we were both childfree so I would stay at his whatever night I wasn’t out with friends.
This suited us both but as our kids got older his kids stayed more often leaving him with less availability and obviously his kids come first so that fizzled out.
It was great to meet the one person as it was more relaxed and we confidently explored things with each other  |
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I haven’t got one unfortunately but I’d say ideally at least once a fortnight. I know life, work, family etc takes up a lot of time and if you make other plans to meet people. But I think even just once a fortnight would be nice. |
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"I haven’t got one unfortunately but I’d say ideally at least once a fortnight. I know life, work, family etc takes up a lot of time and if you make other plans to meet people. But I think even just once a fortnight would be nice."
Same here,once a fortnight would be ideal..
It’s always a challenge to find someone who’s free at the same times,but defo keeps it more exciting and something to look forward to ..
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"Once a month would suit me
However fully aware that things crop up in life that would maybe no allow as frequent xx "
That seems more realistic and sustainable long term ..
Anticipation levels would be through the roof haha |
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"Once a month would suit me
However fully aware that things crop up in life that would maybe no allow as frequent xx
That seems more realistic and sustainable long term ..
Anticipation levels would be through the roof haha "
I agree always leaving each other craving until the next time |
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"The Mrs has wanted a fwb for ages but most guys are Barry Bullshitters and worried about getting caught."
We have had 2 long term fwb for Helen in our 13 years swinging and neither of them have come from fab. Fab is only good for quick hook ups nowadays as it takes too long to sort through the lies and fakes just in it for the chat |
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"Every second day would be ideal but I’d settle for twice a week.
Taking applications for the role. "
Being married puts me out of the running, unfortunately, but I wish eligible applicants luck! :D |
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"Once a month would suit me
However fully aware that things crop up in life that would maybe no allow as frequent xx
That seems more realistic and sustainable long term ..
Anticipation levels would be through the roof haha I agree always leaving each other craving until the next time "
That’s the magic of a great fwb situation..
Your clearly very good at this kinda thing haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 16 weeks ago
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"The Mrs has wanted a fwb for ages but most guys are Barry Bullshitters and worried about getting caught.
We have had 2 long term fwb for Helen in our 13 years swinging and neither of them have come from fab. Fab is only good for quick hook ups nowadays as it takes too long to sort through the lies and fakes just in it for the chat"
I get that, finding fwb outside of fab.
Personally if looking for a fwb, the last one I want is someone who is married, (obviously unless I've met the husband and he is happy with this) as I'm just not here for hassle or pressure of any kind.
People all have their views of what they want in a fwb and how they want it to go. Some on here have a few FWbs and still meet one off on here. Some have one fwb and only meet that one person.
Anyone wanting a fwb, we have to remember its at least two of us wanting the same from each other so you come and go in that time together and yeah a big deal comes in our private life that you try and have your fwb work around or you work around your fwb, meaning available at other times. All theses things are a factor in when you want to meet or are able to meet
I think if I had a fwb, ideally would be meeting at least once a week preferably twice a week. Even with this, I know what I'm like, inventive, creative, experimental I'm sure the excitement to meet would be there even weekly and continue to do so. (see the things I can make with lego ) |
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"Once a month would suit me
However fully aware that things crop up in life that would maybe no allow as frequent xx
That seems more realistic and sustainable long term ..
Anticipation levels would be through the roof haha I agree always leaving each other craving until the next time
That’s the magic of a great fwb situation..
Your clearly very good at this kinda thing haha "
oh I don't know about that lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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Any time I’ve had a F W B in the past, it’s normally been once a week or occasionally twice a week if we stayed a bit closer to each other and we were both free.
Not often enough that it’s entering relationship territory, but infrequent enough that our first thoughts are to undress each other as soon as we walk in the door |
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"Once a month would suit me
However fully aware that things crop up in life that would maybe no allow as frequent xx
That seems more realistic and sustainable long term ..
Anticipation levels would be through the roof haha I agree always leaving each other craving until the next time
That’s the magic of a great fwb situation..
Your clearly very good at this kinda thing haha oh I don't know about that lol "
Save that chat for the monthly meeting lol |
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"Once a month would suit me
However fully aware that things crop up in life that would maybe no allow as frequent xx
That seems more realistic and sustainable long term ..
Anticipation levels would be through the roof haha I agree always leaving each other craving until the next time
That’s the magic of a great fwb situation..
Your clearly very good at this kinda thing haha oh I don't know about that lol
Save that chat for the monthly meeting lol "
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By *hyme2020Woman 16 weeks ago
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Nothing more frustrating than finding someone you get on really well with and are attracted to and their only available slot is like 9-11am on a sat morning. That’s not what I’m wanting and I have missed out on a lot because of that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 16 weeks ago
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"Nothing more frustrating than finding someone you get on really well with and are attracted to and their only available slot is like 9-11am on a sat morning. That’s not what I’m wanting and I have missed out on a lot because of that "
I've met woman that I get along with and want to see again but they are only available during the day and not all the time. So I take it they are available when their kids are at school except on holidays.
For me, weekends and evenings during the week are best for me as i work weekdays during the day so for my availability may cancel some interested females and then its my looks, my patter, my stimulating company all have to interest the potential fwb so in reality there are a lot of obstacles but if you don't look you don't get a ticket for the 'find a needle in the Hay' |
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"Once a month would suit me
However fully aware that things crop up in life that would maybe no allow as frequent xx
That seems more realistic and sustainable long term ..
Anticipation levels would be through the roof haha I agree always leaving each other craving until the next time
That’s the magic of a great fwb situation..
Your clearly very good at this kinda thing haha oh I don't know about that lol
Save that chat for the monthly meeting lol
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I was right regarding the anticipation levels |
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"Nothing more frustrating than finding someone you get on really well with and are attracted to and their only available slot is like 9-11am on a sat morning. That’s not what I’m wanting and I have missed out on a lot because of that "
It's funny that you say this, because I'm available pretty much whenever due to being self-employed and setting my own schedule, and I got some feedback the other day that this apparently implies I'm willing to meet cheaters! I edited my profile a bit after that to make it clear I very much am not. XD |
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Have been FWB since 2019 with one special person and have freedom to experiment but yet to find anyone else who really lights my kinky fire to the same extent. Opportunities to meet current FWB are frustratingly infrequent, due to distance and work commitments for both, but so worth the wait when planets align and always deeply pleasurable, fun and mutually satisfying. Other than that, I hammer the vibes with great enthusiasm so I'd count them as my regular FWBs too....
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"Once a month would suit me
However fully aware that things crop up in life that would maybe no allow as frequent xx
That seems more realistic and sustainable long term ..
Anticipation levels would be through the roof haha I agree always leaving each other craving until the next time
That’s the magic of a great fwb situation..
Your clearly very good at this kinda thing haha oh I don't know about that lol
Save that chat for the monthly meeting lol
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I was right regarding the anticipation levels "
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By *wiftieeMan 16 weeks ago
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The first one, once a week plus the occasional long weekend, for about 2 years.
The second one, once a week too, plus about 10 nights away every couple of months, for about 4/5 years.
Any offers for a repeat? lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"Had regular nsa works well it is just us both a message as and when weekly fortnightly etc for the deed basically then no contact until next time and both single
I really think i would prefer a fwb have more quality time too with banter fun drinks night in or away etc etc
seems most just want to do the deed and go and be nsa regular though rather than a fwb , might be some people don’t know the difference or meaning of nsa fwb etc etc maybe I don’t either lol    "
Yeah I get that
I enjoy a long sessions and I'm not just meaning sex and fun but intimate, laughs and chilled times together and hot, naughty, filthy fun as we have that connection and respect.
We don't need pressure or agendas just enough to enjoy being in each others company |
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By *lue-raspWoman 10 weeks ago
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Years ago i had one i saw once a month, but he was futher away amd it only worked wirh travel and work commitments.
Most recent one (4 years ago) for about a year or so, we saw each other 2 or 3 times a week. |
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