"Let’s have a wee debate lol! If a “straight” guy lets another guy suck his cock does that make him gay ? "
‘fab straight’ who knows?
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It makes him not straight.
Personally I don’t really care what people like to get up to but don’t label yourself then use the label incorrectly.
If a guy wants to get sucked off by another guy then crack on but don’t say you’re straight. If you have a problem with being labelled just don’t say you are anything  |
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"I mean it's not just guys tho is it? I've played with women and will likely do so again in the future but I consider myself straight. "
If you play with women you aren’t straight so why label yourself as straight? Are you ashamed of having another label or worried about what other think if you said you were bi? No hate btw just curious. |
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By *nox.Woman 45 weeks ago
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I don't label myself gay as I don't consider myself gay I don't pursue women and it's only in certain circumstances that I do play with women. Personally for me it's a D/s thing that is driving that desire in the moment and that stems from the male dominant type.
No shame about being gay I feel labeling myself as gay would invite attention I don't want or expectations I can't meet so why put that label on it?
I don't really think it matters unless I'm in women's inbox propositioning them but that's just me I'm sure there's a thousand reasons people do what they do and we could all drive ourselves crazy trying to figure it out. |
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"I don't label myself gay as I don't consider myself gay I don't pursue women and it's only in certain circumstances that I do play with women. Personally for me it's a D/s thing that is driving that desire in the moment and that stems from the male dominant type.
No shame about being gay I feel labeling myself as gay would invite attention I don't want or expectations I can't meet so why put that label on it?
I don't really think it matters unless I'm in women's inbox propositioning them but that's just me I'm sure there's a thousand reasons people do what they do and we could all drive ourselves crazy trying to figure it out."
I don’t think peoples sexual preferences are any of my business and I don’t care too much about them until they tell me what they are. so if someone tells me they are straight then says they like the same sex then I would question it. |
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By *nox.Woman 45 weeks ago
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"I don't label myself gay as I don't consider myself gay I don't pursue women and it's only in certain circumstances that I do play with women. Personally for me it's a D/s thing that is driving that desire in the moment and that stems from the male dominant type.
No shame about being gay I feel labeling myself as gay would invite attention I don't want or expectations I can't meet so why put that label on it?
I don't really think it matters unless I'm in women's inbox propositioning them but that's just me I'm sure there's a thousand reasons people do what they do and we could all drive ourselves crazy trying to figure it out.
I don’t think peoples sexual preferences are any of my business and I don’t care too much about them until they tell me what they are. so if someone tells me they are straight then says they like the same sex then I would question it. "
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"Does it really matter? "
Exactly x I did consider myself straight until a girl asked me to suck her man. I did and loved it. So guess I’m bi. Strange though…I suck guys cocks but won’t kiss them!
Does gay, straight, bi matter?? |
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"I don't label myself gay as I don't consider myself gay I don't pursue women and it's only in certain circumstances that I do play with women. Personally for me it's a D/s thing that is driving that desire in the moment and that stems from the male dominant type.
No shame about being gay I feel labeling myself as gay would invite attention I don't want or expectations I can't meet so why put that label on it?
I don't really think it matters unless I'm in women's inbox propositioning them but that's just me I'm sure there's a thousand reasons people do what they do and we could all drive ourselves crazy trying to figure it out.
I don’t think peoples sexual preferences are any of my business and I don’t care too much about them until they tell me what they are. so if someone tells me they are straight then says they like the same sex then I would question it.
Personally I think unless your specially involved with the person it's really not your place to question it "
Completely this. |
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"Let’s have a wee debate lol! If a “straight” guy lets another guy suck his cock does that make him gay ? "
Sexual attraction to only the opposite sex makes one gay. Being attracted to both makes one bi.
Men sucking another's cock when not attracted is a submissive act.
Says the straight sub who has never even touched another man's boaby. |
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"I don't label myself gay as I don't consider myself gay I don't pursue women and it's only in certain circumstances that I do play with women. Personally for me it's a D/s thing that is driving that desire in the moment and that stems from the male dominant type.
No shame about being gay I feel labeling myself as gay would invite attention I don't want or expectations I can't meet so why put that label on it?
I don't really think it matters unless I'm in women's inbox propositioning them but that's just me I'm sure there's a thousand reasons people do what they do and we could all drive ourselves crazy trying to figure it out.
I don’t think peoples sexual preferences are any of my business and I don’t care too much about them until they tell me what they are. so if someone tells me they are straight then says they like the same sex then I would question it.
Personally I think unless your specially involved with the person it's really not your place to question it "
So if someone tells you something that it factually incorrect then you can’t question it. If it isn’t my place to question it why tell me it in the first place? |
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A straight work colleague who is about half my age and looked younger still was propositioned by a gay guy who offered him £200 if the gay guy could suck his cock. £100 up front. £100 "upon completion"
The deed was done and apparently it was the best BJ he had received.
The problem, he found it hard to cum from a BJ from his missus for quite a long time after. Think the bar was set high.
Only one person knows if he had any bi in him or he just fancied getting £200 in his pocket and cumming from oral. |
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This topic comes up so often and is exactly the same each time, yet gets even more dull on the next outing.
Just a chance for many, and surprisingly women, to be bi/homophobic.
Who cares what label they choose to label themselves? Why even need a label?
People forget they are on a sex site and think it's a place of high moral high ground. |
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Could it be a simple case of it feels good, it's exciting and it's between two consenting individuals. Who simply enjoy that act. Why the need to label. As if it makes you part of a club or a group. |
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"This topic comes up so often and is exactly the same each time, yet gets even more dull on the next outing.
Just a chance for many, and surprisingly women, to be bi/homophobic.
Who cares what label they choose to label themselves? Why even need a label?
People forget they are on a sex site and think it's a place of high moral high ground."
And lots of people would argue it’s not a sex site it’s a swinging site (wee shrugs emoji).
On the OP’s topic. There’s fifty shades of sexuality and as someone already said the topic can be debated till the coo’s come home. As long as you are honest about your sexuality with the person you’re having sex with then describe it however you like.
I also agree with the person who said she could play with a female in certain situations but is not actively seeking that. We humans are complex wee creatures  |
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"This topic comes up so often and is exactly the same each time, yet gets even more dull on the next outing.
Just a chance for many, and surprisingly women, to be bi/homophobic.
Who cares what label they choose to label themselves? Why even need a label?
People forget they are on a sex site and think it's a place of high moral high ground."
I don’t think anyone is being homophobic or taking a moral high ground. People are allowed different opinions it doesn’t mean they are judgmental or value that person any less. |
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By *nox.Woman 45 weeks ago
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So if someone tells you something that it factually incorrect then you can’t question it. If it isn’t my place to question it why tell me it in the first place?"
You could just say that you never asked and their sex life isn't your business? |
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This isn’t a debate. There’s plenty of labels to suit all so stop beating about the bush. If you’re a guy getting your cocked sucked or sucking another guys’ then you’re gay or bi, certainly not straight. People may well be fluid…. The labels are not.
The problem could be that there’s guys on here, clearly bi at least, that probably lead a straight life outwith Fab and don’t want to get caught on here as being bi… there’s your grey area.
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Re the message about women taking the moral high ground - I personally just appreciate honesty! There are so many pretenders/dishonest people on here which make navigating the site trickier than it should be. |
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By *I TwoCouple 45 weeks ago
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"Let’s have a wee debate lol! If a “straight” guy lets another guy suck his cock does that make him gay ? "
If someone is straight or bicurious, tries and and doesn't like it what is he/she then ? |
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The definition of 'Gay' means sexually or romantically attracted to a member of the sane sex so I'd say if you fancy the person you're Gay. If you just like the look of and enjoy sucking a cock then you just like sucking cock and not necessarily gay |
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"The definition of 'Gay' means sexually or romantically attracted to a member of the sane sex so I'd say if you fancy the person you're Gay. If you just like the look of and enjoy sucking a cock then you just like sucking cock and not necessarily gay"
Can you detach the body part from the person though?
I don’t know answer myself to be honest, as if you’re doing sex with someone you have to interact with them in the majority of circumstances
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So if someone tells you something that it factually incorrect then you can’t question it. If it isn’t my place to question it why tell me it in the first place?
You could just say that you never asked and their sex life isn't your business? "
That might prove difficult on a swinging site |
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I don't understand why this is a debate... we all know if you like the opposite sex then you are straight, if you like only same sex then you are gay, if your into both regardless of what scenario or circumstances your in then you are bi. If you curious then go give it a try and find out for sure so you know what you are.
People also say "what does it even matter?" "why put a label on it?"... which it doesn't really matter but you gotta put a label on it because it represents what and who you are. |
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"I don't understand why this is a debate... we all know if you like the opposite sex then you are straight, if you like only same sex then you are gay, if your into both regardless of what scenario or circumstances your in then you are bi. If you curious then go give it a try and find out for sure so you know what you are.
People also say "what does it even matter?" "why put a label on it?"... which it doesn't really matter but you gotta put a label on it because it represents what and who you are."
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"I don't understand why this is a debate... we all know if you like the opposite sex then you are straight, if you like only same sex then you are gay, if your into both regardless of what scenario or circumstances your in then you are bi. If you curious then go give it a try and find out for sure so you know what you are.
People also say "what does it even matter?" "why put a label on it?"... which it doesn't really matter but you gotta put a label on it because it represents what and who you are."
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"I don't understand why this is a debate... we all know if you like the opposite sex then you are straight, if you like only same sex then you are gay, if your into both regardless of what scenario or circumstances your in then you are bi. If you curious then go give it a try and find out for sure so you know what you are.
People also say "what does it even matter?" "why put a label on it?"... which it doesn't really matter but you gotta put a label on it because it represents what and who you are.
Explained perfectly "
Exactly!
If somebody took all the labels off the food in my cupboard, I'd be ragin if I ended up with a tin of pineapple to put on my toast. I like pineapple, but I wanted fucking beans! |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Let’s have a wee debate lol! If a “straight” guy lets another guy suck his cock does that make him gay ? "
What if he was curious, did it and didn’t like it?
Enough with the labels though, just let people be people |
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"Let’s have a wee debate lol! If a “straight” guy lets another guy suck his cock does that make him gay ?
What if he was curious, did it and didn’t like it?
Enough with the labels though, just let people be people "
Serious question, how are people supposed to identify like minded individuals on here and people who match what they're looking for if people aren't supposed to call themselves gay, bi or straight?
Labels help us find what we are looking for in every area of life. I see no reason why it should be different when looking for a sexual partner.
I also find it incredibly ironic that many of the very same people who call themselves LGBTQIA+ allies (...those are labels and identifiers, right?) will also have a go and say "let people be people...".."don't use labels...".
There is absolutely nothing wrong with a guy liking a bit of cock. More power to him if he is honest enough to admit it. The real problem is that we can't say that this most likely makes him bi or gay. To me, that screams of homophobia. Which is a bigger issue than a label.
BTW BOW, this isn't directed specifically at you. Your post just brought this to mind and I felt like a rant
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"Let’s have a wee debate lol! If a “straight” guy lets another guy suck his cock does that make him gay ?
What if he was curious, did it and didn’t like it?
Enough with the labels though, just let people be people "
If he didn't try again I'd say boy was straight and just tried experimenting due to fantasys or whatever if he's going back for seconds then the guys obviously bi to me anyways its that obvious however appears that's not the case so God knows |
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By *omcupCouple 44 weeks ago
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"I love watching people suck my hubby's cock and definitely do not think it makes him gay, often it's a power thing
You wouldn't even consider him bi?"
Nope, it's a control and power and humiliation thing for us |
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"I love watching people suck my hubby's cock and definitely do not think it makes him gay, often it's a power thing
You wouldn't even consider him bi?
Nope, it's a control and power and humiliation thing for us"
And a bloody sexy horny thing! |
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"Let’s have a wee debate lol! If a “straight” guy lets another guy suck his cock does that make him gay ?
What if he was curious, did it and didn’t like it?
Enough with the labels though, just let people be people
If he didn't try again I'd say boy was straight and just tried experimenting due to fantasys or whatever if he's going back for seconds then the guys obviously bi to me anyways its that obvious however appears that's not the case so God knows "
What if second time round it did nothing for him? Would he then become straight, fluid, or would he have to have dessert to be sure? |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Let’s have a wee debate lol! If a “straight” guy lets another guy suck his cock does that make him gay ? "
No, if someone has one ride on a horse does that make them a horse rider? |
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By *ltra72Man 44 weeks ago
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"Let’s have a wee debate lol! If a “straight” guy lets another guy suck his cock does that make him gay ?
No, if someone has one ride on a horse does that make them a horse rider? "
He could be a sausage jockey |
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