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What's the weirdest time you've been blocked by a user on here?
Just sharing stories, not expecting to name names.
I'll go 1st:
Today a guy contracted me and we were going back and forth until we were just about to send location details to meet, his idea and him pushing to meet, and I couldn't because in the space of 5 minutes I was blocked haha. Changing your mind is fine but what a rapid turnaround of events.
Another time a guy I've hooked up with various times from here and given eye roll back super load oral orgasms too blocked me randomly. Like we were not in convo or arranging a meet. Just one day I went to message him and I couldn't reply to his last "thanks" because I was blocked.
People must have experienced weirder unexpected ones though?
As there is always someone wanting to start beef on here, just to add this is not a woe is me situation and everyone has the right to end a convo connection. Just wondering if others have had similar experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a lovely block recently, from a couple we hadn't met, but had exchanged several messages with the male half. They were new to Fab, and we had taken some time to gently embolden them. And then we got a long message, explaining that the female half had changed her mind, the site wasn't for them - fine. But the deep psychological insight into their thought process and relationship was really unnecessary  We briefly wished them well, but the message wouldn't send....been blocked! All very unnecessary lol.
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"We had a lovely block recently, from a couple we hadn't met, but had exchanged several messages with the male half. They were new to Fab, and we had taken some time to gently embolden them. And then we got a long message, explaining that the female half had changed her mind, the site wasn't for them - fine. But the deep psychological insight into their thought process and relationship was really unnecessary We briefly wished them well, but the message wouldn't send....been blocked! All very unnecessary lol.
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That's lovely that you were giving them advice but a shame it lead nowhere. An explanation is an unusual choice but at least gives you some answers..maybe they should have a comment box so if someone blocks you they can write why so you know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy sent me a rant how I deleted his message and this broke the chain of communication. Even though I had replied. Early stages of messaging though. So basically he did me a favour.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How does one know if they have been blocked 
I only know if I go to message back and it tells you your blocked. "
Does it actually say blocked tho Hopey |
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My weirdest one was a guy who messaged me and started a conversation. He made all the running and was going well and asked to meet and I agreed. Set a time later that evening then proceeded to block me. I'm used to being blocked because I don't meet atthe drop of a hat but this was a new level of strange! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How does one know if they have been blocked
I only know if I go to message back and it tells you your blocked. Does it actually say blocked tho Hopey "
I actually can't remember the exact wording but words to that affect. Can't say I've come across it often. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How does one know if they have been blocked
I only know if I go to message back and it tells you your blocked. Does it actually say blocked tho Hopey
I actually can't remember the exact wording but words to that affect. Can't say I've come across it often."
If course,who would want to block you  |
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After a few messages to a married female who was fairly local, we decided to chat on phone, not phone sex, just normal chat. I gave her my number so she could withhold hers and call, all good so far. Half way through call and the call ends mid sentence. I thought maybe her hubby or kids had come in so I go to message and say chat another time, but no, I’m blocked.
I’d rather folks just said they weren’t interested and end it at that. I can understand block if someone is rude or bombards someone with messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Similar had been messaging, great banter arranged to meet time date an hour before it a random message saying I was a fruit loop wanting to meet random strangers off the internet went to reply and blocked   |
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over a year ago
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Had a bizarre one a few weeks back when a couples profile messaged me from Glasgow…turns out it was actually a female and liked my profile and wanted to get to know me better as they dont just meet and hump anyone and need a connection.
Im all for that, we chat i find out shes actually not in glasgow either but from fife lol…
More chat and laughs.. then cam with each other to see each other and have more of a laugh for over an hour.
She wants to arrange a social and names a place and a date and i agree after cancelling plans.
Driving on the way to the place i get a message saying she is canceling saying to me “this isnt a dating site”
Boom blocked.
Very bizarre lol
Pretty shitty i thought.. and strange considering they approached me etc and they suggested a meet.
Pride myself on being a good guy and treating folks how i want to be treated but that was an arse lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been blocked by the fem I feel is the one I found most attractive and I don’t know why. But she is well within her right to do so and i accept that fully.
I don’t really overthink it all, people will have their reasons and that’s literally just the way it is |
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"Had a bizarre one a few weeks back when a couples profile messaged me from Glasgow…turns out it was actually a female and liked my profile and wanted to get to know me better as they dont just meet and hump anyone and need a connection.
Im all for that, we chat i find out shes actually not in glasgow either but from fife lol…
More chat and laughs.. then cam with each other to see each other and have more of a laugh for over an hour.
She wants to arrange a social and names a place and a date and i agree after cancelling plans.
Driving on the way to the place i get a message saying she is canceling saying to me “this isnt a dating site”
Boom blocked.
Very bizarre lol
Pretty shitty i thought.. and strange considering they approached me etc and they suggested a meet.
Pride myself on being a good guy and treating folks how i want to be treated but that was an arse lol "
Omg getting blocked while traveling to a meet is cut throat! Feels so cruel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This happened on a dating site but I had a young woman who would message me constantly saying "Are you Rich?"
in countless messages, it was that bad I had to block her.
But she would create a new profile and do the same then I block her again; I think after the 5th time she did this she got the hint I wasn't interested. |
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Had 2 incidences.
First was for asking if I’d seen them standing at a certain bus stop as I drove past going home. Blocked.
Second one was after meeting locally and chatting over a weekend then got blocked suddenly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We just had a message last night from a new member who said he had seen that we said we were not interested in meeting someone else on another post. (nothing to do with him)
He said it was because mrs is old and is a swinger who cannot find anyone.
He then blocked us so we could not reply (not that we would bother)
What is wrong with people on here!!! |
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A couple messaged me and said they were interested and asked me how I was so I said hello and I'm good thanks, how are you
Then, they sent me a message saying,
Sorry, you're not our type, we're not interested
And then they blocked me, it was quite odd |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have quite a number of men Blocked mainly because they have been been a pest OR I’ve had dealings with them in the past and don’t want to meet them again.
Some men are very nice to play with and become regular playmates and some can be…..well…….lol |
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"A couple messaged me and said they were interested and asked me how I was so I said hello and I'm good thanks, how are you
Then, they sent me a message saying,
Sorry, you're not our type, we're not interested
And then they blocked me, it was quite odd "
Where they in the Scotland forum? |
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I was sexting the wife of a hot young couple from this site on WhatsApp, it was very good vibes and everything, very sexy and naughty. Whilst we're chatting I go on their profile to have another look at her pics and I see they've blocked me, I didn't think much of it. Meanwhile she's sending me naughty filthy messages and sent me a pic.
The next day, I see I'm still blocked and she's still messaging me and I'm keeping the vibe going. I ask her how comes I'm blocked on fab, she replies being confused, I send her a screenshot and she tells me that "oh it's because we've hidden our profile", which was bullshit because fab tells you when a profile is hidden and when you've been blocked.
So I asked her if I said anything wrong and she says "noo I've been loving this, I wanna keep going and then meet up" (we planned to meet up the following week). Her boyfriend was acting confused aswell by the block, so I asked them if they could please unblock me and they said they've not blocked me. I again showed them a a screenshot and very politely told them that I'm confused and I feel like I'm being messed with.
The girl sent me a nude and said she promises they've not been messing me around. Asked them to unblock me again to prove I'm not being messed around, and haven't heard back since.
Like I don't care if someone blocks me, but to mess me around like that is a dick move. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was talking to someone for a week or so. Everything going great, she was good craic and we shared the same kinks.
Day we were meant to meet I messaged "We still good for tonight?....
Blocked haha |
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I think a block happens in general when things are heading to the point where a meet is on the cards. These people probably get off on the “thrill of the chase” and never had anny intention of following through. Better a block before a no show though, they have to be the worst time wasters. |
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I’ve had a couple of weird ones,
A couple I was chatting with (mostly the female) was all going well, added on snap, we exchanged some pics and voice notes she was saying i was hot and she loved my voice and laugh, ended the convo well that day then next day I goes to message on snap and blocked so checked on here and also blocked. Very bizarre. |
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"I’ve had a couple of weird ones,
A couple I was chatting with (mostly the female) was all going well, added on snap, we exchanged some pics and voice notes she was saying i was hot and she loved my voice and laugh, ended the convo well that day then next day I goes to message on snap and blocked so checked on here and also blocked. Very bizarre."
It's the mid convo ones that confuse me. I get if there's an explanation but if all looks good then sudden full stop it's bizarre. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got a message from a random stranger from down south, never had any previous contact... apologising and stating they had to block me
Never did find out why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had one today.
Messaged me.
When I said I didn't do gootjobs he replied, in caps obvs, that I should have read his profile before messaging.
Loser."
I love a sloppy gootjob I do |
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By *usu99Man
over a year ago
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"Had one today.
Messaged me.
When I said I didn't do gootjobs he replied, in caps obvs, that I should have read his profile before messaging.
Loser.
I love a sloppy gootjob I do "
Haha... Typing whilst eating chips and tired is never going to end well. |
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I got a horrible message once. I'm used to random insults being sent over, but this was new level for me.
It came from a couples profile, but I don't believe it was a couple. I think It was a fake profile set up especially to send that message.
It was along the lines of "taste of your own medicine, calling people judgemental and ugly and I should look in the mirror to see what a nasty piece of work I really am. I will end up lonely, no man would want me because I'm jumping from man to man and they only want to use my hole. I'm ugly on the inside and that makes me ugly on the outside"
There was more, but I can't remember exactly. I actually felt sick when I read it. There was some proper effort put into that message as well.
I thought it might have been a case of mistaken identity, because I'd never call anyone ugly and if I have to give someone a polite no thanks, I'm always nice about it.
When I was going to reply, no surprise really, I was blocked. |
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"I got a horrible message once. I'm used to random insults being sent over, but this was new level for me.
It came from a couples profile, but I don't believe it was a couple. I think It was a fake profile set up especially to send that message.
It was along the lines of "taste of your own medicine, calling people judgemental and ugly and I should look in the mirror to see what a nasty piece of work I really am. I will end up lonely, no man would want me because I'm jumping from man to man and they only want to use my hole. I'm ugly on the inside and that makes me ugly on the outside"
There was more, but I can't remember exactly. I actually felt sick when I read it. There was some proper effort put into that message as well.
I thought it might have been a case of mistaken identity, because I'd never call anyone ugly and if I have to give someone a polite no thanks, I'm always nice about it.
When I was going to reply, no surprise really, I was blocked. "
That's horrible.  ..
Best not to even engage with that anyway. Some folk aren't busy enough in real life to have the time to write stuff like that.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was talking to someone for a week or so. Everything going great, she was good craic and we shared the same kinks.
Day we were meant to meet I messaged "We still good for tonight?....
Blocked haha "
Happened to me a good few times, and absolutely not because I've given them a reason to block me. In fact I fully expect it as the default outcome on here these days, hence I don't really bother much now on here, sadly. I sometimes leave a private note just to remind me.
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A woman from a couple profile messaged about my video's which she liked and even told me her name but when I tried to respond to her message I was blocked for no reason. Going forward I only want single women messaging me no couples |
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Anyone else find they get blocked by people on here they've never interacted with?
I just assume it's a Gay male forum thing from straight men because I've been finding I will read something interesting, or not, on here, have a peek at their profile as being nosey, and find I'm blocked.
What a strange use of time. I've never blocked someone from no interaction. |
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I had seen a girl had posted face pictures up by mistake in profile as her profile had stated only send them when chatting etc.
So I messaged asking if she had meant to post them and she said she didn't mean to post them so they thanked me said it was just as well i noticed.
She then asked me to send a face picture which I then sent and she blocked me lol I wasn't even making a move in first place. |
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By *allBBWWoman 48 weeks ago
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I've just been blocked by someone as I declined his offer of 'balls deep hard doggy sorting me out' in his first message to me on the basis of it being a little too forward for me (my reply was polite). His reply was 'fuck my life it IS a sex site!!!' and then blocked.
I mean, no loss, but my my. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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When I go check my message's to find at least 5 or 6 from one new guy the first 1 or 2 seem normal hi how's u what u up to then just becomes aggressive to aw u just dingy guys pure full of yourself ***** then I go to reply n already blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I've just been blocked by someone as I declined his offer of 'balls deep hard doggy sorting me out' in his first message to me on the basis of it being a little too forward for me (my reply was polite). His reply was 'fuck my life it IS a sex site!!!' and then blocked.
I mean, no loss, but my my. "
It's a swingers site see the amount of guys think a sit wi me legs open willing n waiting for a dick bahahaha naw son!! |
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"I've just been blocked by someone as I declined his offer of 'balls deep hard doggy sorting me out' in his first message to me on the basis of it being a little too forward for me (my reply was polite). His reply was 'fuck my life it IS a sex site!!!' and then blocked.
I mean, no loss, but my my. "
how did you not fall at his feet |
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By *allBBWWoman 48 weeks ago
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"I've just been blocked by someone as I declined his offer of 'balls deep hard doggy sorting me out' in his first message to me on the basis of it being a little too forward for me (my reply was polite). His reply was 'fuck my life it IS a sex site!!!' and then blocked.
I mean, no loss, but my my.
how did you not fall at his feet "
Because I'm used to a much nicer standard of messages, like yours |
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A woman up beside me post happy New car day picking up new car today
( This was Wednesday)
I have read her bio on page just the normal from women in Scotland can be so touche ie( No single male no married men no cock picture And only have sex with men when thier wife is present)
Being a car guy picking a new car never gets old love that feeling and excitement
Think nice to be nice have a nice day happy for you
Happy New car day nothing better feeling never gets old wonder feel
All excited for you hope you enjoy your day
10 later minute blocked
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A woman up beside me post happy New car day picking up new car today
( This was Wednesday)
I have read her bio on page just the normal from women in Scotland can be so touche ie( No single male no married men no cock picture And only have sex with men when thier wife is present)
Being a car guy picking a new car never gets old love that feeling and excitement
Think nice to be nice have a nice day happy for you
Happy New car day nothing better feeling never gets old wonderful feeling
All excited for you hope you enjoy your day
10 later minute blocked
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Don’t ever worry about being blocked, unless you deserve it then you can reflect on what was done wrong.
If someone sees fit to block, no biggie, it’s a stranger over the interweb. It happens. Just accept and move on. Personally I’d rather be blocked because they felt I wasn’t right for them than to speak for a while and find out we don’t get on |
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"I've just been blocked by someone as I declined his offer of 'balls deep hard doggy sorting me out' in his first message to me on the basis of it being a little too forward for me (my reply was polite). His reply was 'fuck my life it IS a sex site!!!' and then blocked.
I mean, no loss, but my my.
how did you not fall at his feet
Because I'm used to a much nicer standard of messages, like yours "
good to hear, more of you wanted hehe |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"A woman up beside me post happy New car day picking up new car today
( This was Wednesday)
I have read her bio on page just the normal from women in Scotland can be so touche ie( No single male no married men no cock picture And only have sex with men when thier wife is present)
Being a car guy picking a new car never gets old love that feeling and excitement
Think nice to be nice have a nice day happy for you
Happy New car day nothing better feeling never gets old wonderful feeling
All excited for you hope you enjoy your day
10 later minute blocked
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I try not to respond to these type of posts I have responded to a few and deleted messages or blocked. Wonder how many more people are into cars I’m right into my car stuff. Need to have some sort of normal life away from Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"I just get blocked straight up, I send only nice messages, I read bios and try and start a conversation based on things in the bio
Literal straight up blocks "
They might not like Goths as your profile name suggests just ignore it buddy move on. |
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"I just get blocked straight up, I send only nice messages, I read bios and try and start a conversation based on things in the bio
Literal straight up blocks "
The irony of this post is funny to me right now. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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I got blocked yesterday by a lady on here. One minute she's saying I could be her future husband.
Next minute a day later after some jokey banter blocked. That was after she mentioned what fun she had the previous night being out in her town.
Mind boggles.
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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Been blocked for just saying hello before lol.
Weird ones are when you meet someone now granted not every meet will hit it off but blocked straight after social was like eh ok.
Other times have chatted for a while agree to meet they give postcode I travel as agreed then blocked total time wasters |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Because of a team I support!  "
That’s not really that weird considering there’s a full forum post dedicated to people not wanting to meet others based on the political party they vote for |
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Had a guy who fucked me in his campervan on Blackpool prom. After I left I realised I had left my lube in the van, so thought I would send him a polite message to point that out. He went off his but that I had messaged him and that his partner has seen the message. He then blocked me. What a dick head |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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Been blocked a few times with no real reason, I always try to be polite and respectful, I just assume the person has their reason for doing so and there’s not much point in getting too upset about it,
Yes if unexpected and someone you like it can be a bit disappointing, But not worth getting overly upset about if you haven’t met or anything. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Blocked when she asked "would you play 'scat' games" and I answered "nope, sorry, its not for me"..I laughed so hard at that blocking..lol..it even now makes me laugh.. |
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By *4nditMan 44 weeks ago
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So I got blocked by a fab friend for going to Blackpool and then proceeded to have them stalk everything I was doing through a mutual friend who was there, not sure if it was weird or just major red flag |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Yet another thread about rude ignorant people on here... Really is terrible that people behave this way. I've never ever blocked anybody I've chatted to. If things drift away from what I'm looking for it's very easy and polite to just make a simple explanation and bide them farewell all the best.
To be blocked straight away is a cowards way out it really is. It's so prevalent on here .. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Yet another thread about rude ignorant people on here... Really is terrible that people behave this way. I've never ever blocked anybody I've chatted to. If things drift away from what I'm looking for it's very easy and polite to just make a simple explanation and bide them farewell all the best.
To be blocked straight away is a cowards way out it really is. It's so prevalent on here .. "
I block people all the time and I’m sure I get blocked as well. If their chat is shit, if I don’t like their pics, if I don’t like their status updates, if I don’t like their forum posts etc etc
It means I don’t need to waste whatever time I spend on fab looking at profiles that no longer interest me. There’s nothing rude or cowardly about it. It’s not that deep |
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Because we arranged a meet and they didn't reply to a message and I wished them a good time at cjs on the day we were supposed to meet. But they had done similar previously. So not really surprised. |
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By *B84Man 20 weeks ago
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"A couple messaged me and said they were interested and asked me how I was so I said hello and I'm good thanks, how are you
Then, they sent me a message saying,
Sorry, you're not our type, we're not interested
And then they blocked me, it was quite odd "
This exact thing happened to me, same message.
I wonder if it was the same couple…. |
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By *yr48Man 20 weeks ago
ayrshire |
Chatting to a guy about stuff for a few days sent pictures of wife’s etc he chatted to my wife all good then he showed his wife pictures of me she said I had a bigger cock than him next thing I know he blocked us . Shame because we was thinking of traveling down to see them |
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