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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
Make sure they know your limits/rules
If drinking, don't get d*unk
Plenty condoms and lube
Have someone take photos/vids for you to look back on
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with
Enjoy....and tell us all about it lol x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Make sure they know your limits/rules
If drinking, don't get d*unk
Plenty condoms and lube
Have someone take photos/vids for you to look back on
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with
Enjoy....and tell us all about it lol x
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All of this, and have a guy there that you trust to control the situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Make sure they know your limits/rules
If drinking, don't get d*unk
Plenty condoms and lube
Have someone take photos/vids for you to look back on
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with
Enjoy....and tell us all about it lol x
All of this, and have a guy there that you trust to control the situation"
Definitely can’t go wrong with the above it’s your meet just ensure you stay in control x
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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Make sure they know your limits/rules
If drinking, don't get d*unk
Plenty condoms and lube
Have someone take photos/vids for you to look back on
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with
Enjoy....and tell us all about it lol x
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And wet wipes and a towel   |
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"Yep, it didn't go well... Not one person turned up... 20 guys in my private chat, and not 1 cud be arsed to turn up, after weeks of planning. "
That's unbelievable, did you get any notice they weren't going to show?
I would have been there in an instant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep, it didn't go well... Not one person turned up... 20 guys in my private chat, and not 1 cud be arsed to turn up, after weeks of planning. "
Sorry to hear that, we have met at AD, she is very pretty and friendly, your loss little boys, just goes to show the time wasters and cowards that are scared to actually meet a woman in person, but Big with the talk, and that makes it harder for the genuine fork on here to get a meet, hope you're next one goes better my friend |
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"Yep, it didn't go well... Not one person turned up... 20 guys in my private chat, and not 1 cud be arsed to turn up, after weeks of planning. "
What???
I've heard others say 50-70% as non attendees, but 100% is just pathetic.
Why commit to something then just back out?
I know it might be a little offputting, but we've chatted in the chat room and I know you're nice, and that you like these sorta events.
If you try to plan one again, it may be best to arrange it well in advance, and only invite/allow folk to attend tht you've met in real life before hand.
I know you were expecting more from it, but have a virtual hug from me. {{{Sl@vey}}} (Forum rules won't let me use you username)
Mandy xxx |
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"Yep, it didn't go well... Not one person turned up... 20 guys in my private chat, and not 1 cud be arsed to turn up, after weeks of planning. "
Not surprised at all, most guys on here are fantasists, Shame.
I had arranged one, 6 invited, 5 turned up and it was a bit of a shit show |
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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago
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I'm so sorry this happened to you, as it's already been said, it's 100% their loss!
It's something I've always wanted to arrange but this is exactly why I won't bother. Far too many that are all talk and live in a fantasy world.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep, it didn't go well... Not one person turned up... 20 guys in my private chat, and not 1 cud be arsed to turn up, after weeks of planning. "
Really sorry to hear that. I saw your post and was interested to see how it went. Sadly it seems to have gone the way most do. |
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"Yep, it didn't go well... Not one person turned up... 20 guys in my private chat, and not 1 cud be arsed to turn up, after weeks of planning. "
Sorry to hear that, I've organised a few for some couples, I've always been the guy looking out for the lady and keeping everyone within boundaries, that's important
Generally if you want 4 guys invite 8, as others have said there are a zillion fantasists on here who fancy the idea but when it comes to the crunch haven't got the cohonas to do it, you should be allowed to name and shame these clowns  |
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"Yep, it didn't go well... Not one person turned up... 20 guys in my private chat, and not 1 cud be arsed to turn up, after weeks of planning. "
That's somewhat amiss. Fantasy meets reality. Hope you get a better group next time. Just goes to prove that fab can be shite, even with good veris and connections |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep, it didn't go well... Not one person turned up... 20 guys in my private chat, and not 1 cud be arsed to turn up, after weeks of planning.
That's unbelievable, did you get any notice they weren't going to show?
I would have been there in an instant "
I had 2 that sed they were on their way, but then had to cancel... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep, it didn't go well... Not one person turned up... 20 guys in my private chat, and not 1 cud be arsed to turn up, after weeks of planning.
Sorry to hear that, I've organised a few for some couples, I've always been the guy looking out for the lady and keeping everyone within boundaries, that's important
Generally if you want 4 guys invite 8, as others have said there are a zillion fantasists on here who fancy the idea but when it comes to the crunch haven't got the cohonas to do it, you should be allowed to name and shame these clowns "
I had 20 guys, plus more that weren't in the group chat... I want 10, was expecting 5 or 6, but for none to turn up... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep, it didn't go well... Not one person turned up... 20 guys in my private chat, and not 1 cud be arsed to turn up, after weeks of planning. "
I am so sorry to hear this. I'm thinking of plans for such an event and this is making me think I'm only going to involve people I know well!
I've dealt with my fair share of timewasters on fab before but 20:0 just takes the whole bakery!
Thanks for sharing your story xx |
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Location doesn't help either. I organised a few in Glasgow, which were brilliant. Everyone turned up, or we just had 1 or 2 cancellations / no shows.
Had 2 gatherings in Edinburgh where some people turned up, but most didn't.
Twice I tried in the Borders. Total waste of time and they never actually happened.
Not sure why Glasgow seems to be the place to go for these events, but it totally is!
For all of them to leave you hanging is really not on though. Time wasting arseholes. |
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"Yep, it didn't go well... Not one person turned up... 20 guys in my private chat, and not 1 cud be arsed to turn up, after weeks of planning.
Sorry to hear that, I've organised a few for some couples, I've always been the guy looking out for the lady and keeping everyone within boundaries, that's important
Generally if you want 4 guys invite 8, as others have said there are a zillion fantasists on here who fancy the idea but when it comes to the crunch haven't got the cohonas to do it, you should be allowed to name and shame these clowns
I had 20 guys, plus more that weren't in the group chat... I want 10, was expecting 5 or 6, but for none to turn up... "
What was your vetting process? |
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Wow that's shocking i would have definitely been there you look amazing. I've read so many status's on here from all you lovely ladies and I'm shocked at the amount of abuse you all get aswell as the amount of time wasters it's people like that that gives us genuine decent people a bad name or makes us need to work harder. Don't get me wrong i know my biggest downfall is the first message I'm hopeless with it hence why I'm looking forward to the summer social to meet some of you.
But in all honesty it really is theyr loss if you organise another 1 I'll happily put my name down keep your chin up and keep smiling x |
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By *assNGuyCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Just caught up on your dismal experience, truly sorry to hear no one showed.
These events are the worst to organise. We delayed trying to do ours for months til finally bit bullet and done it recently.
I am shocked with you that no one showed as the drop outs are horrendous but 100% |
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"Yep, it didn't go well... Not one person turned up... 20 guys in my private chat, and not 1 cud be arsed to turn up, after weeks of planning. "
That's shocking!! Why do people have no bloomin manners.
I've met you at AD before your a lovely gal. Easier said than done but try not let it hit your confidence.
K xxx |
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No shows for GB's are pretty typical on here - particularly by "single" guys who aren't really single and probably the main reason they don't show. We went through this process for our GB's we now have a regular group of guys who we know, trust and most importantly, turn up! But it's taken a while to get there. |
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Tries to arrange a GB for someone years ago. 5 said they'd come, none showed. all I see here these days is folk saying there's no shows or woman and couples who can't find anyone. Makes it all the more frustrating for the guys out there like me who can't find a meet for.love nor money now |
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By *ktartenMan
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
Hi I have had similar problems with tryind to arrange group meets.
The fantasists on here are all over.
These people have no idea how much effort goes into arranging one.
The answering of countless inane questions. My _iew is if they are not paying the modest sub they are guaranteed KBW's [ keyboard wankers]
You look delightful and I will happily be your wingman at the next one. X
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"Hi I have had similar problems with tryind to arrange group meets.
The fantasists on here are all over.
These people have no idea how much effort goes into arranging one.
The answering of countless inane questions. My _iew is if they are not paying the modest sub they are guaranteed KBW's [ keyboard wankers]
You look delightful and I will happily be your wingman at the next one. X
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If you don't pay a sub you're a KBW?? What utter utter garbage. |
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"Hi I have had similar problems with tryind to arrange group meets.
The fantasists on here are all over.
These people have no idea how much effort goes into arranging one.
The answering of countless inane questions. My _iew is if they are not paying the modest sub they are guaranteed KBW's [ keyboard wankers]
You look delightful and I will happily be your wingman at the next one. X
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I kind of agree with your point about the sub. I find that most (not all) people who are serious about the lifestyle will happily pay the sub, whereas a lot of single males who seem to think this is instashag won't pay it. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Back in the day, I organised a good few and always no shows. I was lucky that I knew lots of guys from club meets, my verifications, the chatroom etc. I usually stuck with guys I knew as I couldn’t be arsed with the hundred questions, but that being said, the questions were a great indicator of who would be timewasters. Anyone asking what will she be wearing, what will we do, who goes first, last blah blah blah… they are wanking
Good luck if you arrange again, or a greedy girl event |
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"Back in the day, I organised a good few and always no shows. I was lucky that I knew lots of guys from club meets, my verifications, the chatroom etc. I usually stuck with guys I knew as I couldn’t be arsed with the hundred questions, but that being said, the questions were a great indicator of who would be timewasters. Anyone asking what will she be wearing, what will we do, who goes first, last blah blah blah… they are wanking
Good luck if you arrange again, or a greedy girl event "
Correct, if they are asking a million questions then they probably have their dick in their hand and the Mrs downstairs watching telly, serious players want to know the time and date |
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"Make sure they know your limits/rules
If drinking, don't get d*unk
Plenty condoms and lube
Have someone take photos/vids for you to look back on
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with
Enjoy....and tell us all about it lol x
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"Yep, it didn't go well... Not one person turned up... 20 guys in my private chat, and not 1 cud be arsed to turn up, after weeks of planning. "
You are joking….not turning up for such a fab looking woman; regardless of that it’s rude, ignorant and ruins the whole purpose of this site. Not every guy is like them … |
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Seriously, good luck and have fun
