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By *o72 OP Man
over a year ago
glasgow & London |
Ok, two are one thing and one is another, as general consensus on Fab , single guys outnumber all others, in my quest to find a regular partner, and not just for the sex, the socials, parties, out for dinner, holidays etc, a regular partner who enjoys the lifestyle, it hasn’t even got out the stalls yet lol, so I have been on dates from the other two, and mixed the idea of others being involved into the conversation with them, ( not on the first date) and again it was like a damp squib, so are there any success stories from either of the 3 sites, and more importantly, any suitors interested in filling the position,?
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Agree..... you would need to have been with them a fair old time before you could bring that up without them freaking out..... maybe just hope they talk about it as a fantasy? Then probe gently as to how serious they are about it.... |
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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow Scotland |
Hey don’t tar us all with the same brush lol.
Maybe some of us are on these sites patiently waiting for someone who actually wants to go out on dates and have that kind of secret naughty lifestyle, but thinking there is more chance of seeing a three legged golden pig flying across the Clyde!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, two are one thing and one is another, as general consensus on Fab , single guys outnumber all others, in my quest to find a regular partner, and not just for the sex, the socials, parties, out for dinner, holidays etc, a regular partner who enjoys the lifestyle, it hasn’t even got out the stalls yet lol, so I have been on dates from the other two, and mixed the idea of others being involved into the conversation with them, ( not on the first date) and again it was like a damp squib, so are there any success stories from either of the 3 sites, and more importantly, any suitors interested in filling the position,?
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I found a partner on pof. We ended up on fab together. I dated someone from here and we ended up having a normal relationship. Both are possible |
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There are polyamorous dating sites but I haven’t found them especially successful either. Even “just” trying to meet another woman to date was hard as a woman myself. It’s just hard generally to meet someone you’re compatible with who doesn’t drive you nuts! Or you drive them nuts  |
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Feeld is a more kink based dating app with a lot of ENM people on it. Smaller selection of people and some have very clear kinks (rope plau being a very common one). Didnt see much mention of swinging om there though.... |
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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago
the pub or in the nude in Paisley |
"Ok, two are one thing and one is another, as general consensus on Fab , single guys outnumber all others, in my quest to find a regular partner, and not just for the sex, the socials, parties, out for dinner, holidays etc, a regular partner who enjoys the lifestyle, it hasn’t even got out the stalls yet lol, so I have been on dates from the other two, and mixed the idea of others being involved into the conversation with them, ( not on the first date) and again it was like a damp squib, so are there any success stories from either of the 3 sites, and more importantly, any suitors interested in filling the position,?
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We met via FAB. My man invited me to a regular pub quiz social we’ve been together almost a year now  |
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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow Scotland |
"Ok, two are one thing and one is another, as general consensus on Fab , single guys outnumber all others, in my quest to find a regular partner, and not just for the sex, the socials, parties, out for dinner, holidays etc, a regular partner who enjoys the lifestyle, it hasn’t even got out the stalls yet lol, so I have been on dates from the other two, and mixed the idea of others being involved into the conversation with them, ( not on the first date) and again it was like a damp squib, so are there any success stories from either of the 3 sites, and more importantly, any suitors interested in filling the position,?
We met via FAB. My man invited me to a regular pub quiz social we’ve been together almost a year now "
Awwww I like that story
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"I find that when sex/fab enters the chat with someone on a dating site then that becomes their main focus and any hope of a relationship developing disappears are gone  "
Yup this  and I’m very open and honest about fab and they think it’s the golden ticket and then they’re hot with an almighty bang when they realise even when I’m fabbing I’m still pretty vanilla and old fashioned a bout the who the when and the what I get up to |
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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago
the pub or in the nude in Paisley |
"Ok, two are one thing and one is another, as general consensus on Fab , single guys outnumber all others, in my quest to find a regular partner, and not just for the sex, the socials, parties, out for dinner, holidays etc, a regular partner who enjoys the lifestyle, it hasn’t even got out the stalls yet lol, so I have been on dates from the other two, and mixed the idea of others being involved into the conversation with them, ( not on the first date) and again it was like a damp squib, so are there any success stories from either of the 3 sites, and more importantly, any suitors interested in filling the position,?
We met via FAB. My man invited me to a regular pub quiz social we’ve been together almost a year now
Awwww I like that story
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Aw thank you we quite like it too |
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"I find that when sex/fab enters the chat with someone on a dating site then that becomes their main focus and any hope of a relationship developing disappears are gone
Yup this and I’m very open and honest about fab and they think it’s the golden ticket and then they’re hot with an almighty bang when they realise even when I’m fabbing I’m still pretty vanilla and old fashioned a bout the who the when and the what I get up to "
Remember when we met years ago xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey don’t tar us all with the same brush lol.
Maybe some of us are on these sites patiently waiting for someone who actually wants to go out on dates and have that kind of secret naughty lifestyle, but thinking there is more chance of seeing a three legged golden pig flying across the Clyde!! "
I love this. I would love to stumble across a fabber on tinder. Best of both worlds |
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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow Scotland |
"Hey don’t tar us all with the same brush lol.
Maybe some of us are on these sites patiently waiting for someone who actually wants to go out on dates and have that kind of secret naughty lifestyle, but thinking there is more chance of seeing a three legged golden pig flying across the Clyde!!
I love this. I would love to stumble across a fabber on tinder. Best of both worlds "
I have seen lots of men that are on fab on these other sites too and the majority of the time they won’t even realise it’s me as I don’t show my face all the time. Even had a conversation with one on both at the exact same time and he was too daft to put two and two together haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey don’t tar us all with the same brush lol.
Maybe some of us are on these sites patiently waiting for someone who actually wants to go out on dates and have that kind of secret naughty lifestyle, but thinking there is more chance of seeing a three legged golden pig flying across the Clyde!!
I hope it wasn’t me!!!!
I love this. I would love to stumble across a fabber on tinder. Best of both worlds
I have seen lots of men that are on fab on these other sites too and the majority of the time they won’t even realise it’s me as I don’t show my face all the time. Even had a conversation with one on both at the exact same time and he was too daft to put two and two together haha "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey don’t tar us all with the same brush lol.
Maybe some of us are on these sites patiently waiting for someone who actually wants to go out on dates and have that kind of secret naughty lifestyle, but thinking there is more chance of seeing a three legged golden pig flying across the Clyde!!
I hope it wasn’t me. I can be daft, but I think I would have sussed that
I hope it wasn’t me!!!!
I love this. I would love to stumble across a fabber on tinder. Best of both worlds
I have seen lots of men that are on fab on these other sites too and the majority of the time they won’t even realise it’s me as I don’t show my face all the time. Even had a conversation with one on both at the exact same time and he was too daft to put two and two together haha "
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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow Scotland |
"Hey don’t tar us all with the same brush lol.
Maybe some of us are on these sites patiently waiting for someone who actually wants to go out on dates and have that kind of secret naughty lifestyle, but thinking there is more chance of seeing a three legged golden pig flying across the Clyde!!
I hope it wasn’t me!!!!
No it wasn’t you lol
I love this. I would love to stumble across a fabber on tinder. Best of both worlds
I have seen lots of men that are on fab on these other sites too and the majority of the time they won’t even realise it’s me as I don’t show my face all the time. Even had a conversation with one on both at the exact same time and he was too daft to put two and two together haha "
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"Ok, two are one thing and one is another, as general consensus on Fab , single guys outnumber all others, in my quest to find a regular partner, and not just for the sex, the socials, parties, out for dinner, holidays etc, a regular partner who enjoys the lifestyle, it hasn’t even got out the stalls yet lol, so I have been on dates from the other two, and mixed the idea of others being involved into the conversation with them, ( not on the first date) and again it was like a damp squib, so are there any success stories from either of the 3 sites, and more importantly, any suitors interested in filling the position,?
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Op i am on other dating site looking at subs
For a bdsm relationship and i was honest in the bio what i was after and its work great i ve had one long term sub now for 18 months and before that 2/3 that just want to try bdsm….
It takes alot of timewaters and folk that just swipe but you ll find that one if your honest in the bio and opening messages what your after rather rhan wasting there time thinking your.
In the past i had 3 long term relationships and it took a few year on the first 2 before we swong… still swing on occasion with the first and the 3rd i met at a club so we both like the same thing….
Try this an see were it goes |
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"I find that when sex/fab enters the chat with someone on a dating site then that becomes their main focus and any hope of a relationship developing disappears are gone
Yup this and I’m very open and honest about fab and they think it’s the golden ticket and then they’re hot with an almighty bang when they realise even when I’m fabbing I’m still pretty vanilla and old fashioned a bout the who the when and the what I get up to
Remember when we met years ago xx"
I know lol and still never got a shag at ye lol |
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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Hey don’t tar us all with the same brush lol.
Maybe some of us are on these sites patiently waiting for someone who actually wants to go out on dates and have that kind of secret naughty lifestyle, but thinking there is more chance of seeing a three legged golden pig flying across the Clyde!!
I love this. I would love to stumble across a fabber on tinder. Best of both worlds
I have seen lots of men that are on fab on these other sites too and the majority of the time they won’t even realise it’s me as I don’t show my face all the time. Even had a conversation with one on both at the exact same time and he was too daft to put two and two together haha "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, two are one thing and one is another, as general consensus on Fab , single guys outnumber all others, in my quest to find a regular partner, and not just for the sex, the socials, parties, out for dinner, holidays etc, a regular partner who enjoys the lifestyle, it hasn’t even got out the stalls yet lol, so I have been on dates from the other two, and mixed the idea of others being involved into the conversation with them, ( not on the first date) and again it was like a damp squib, so are there any success stories from either of the 3 sites, and more importantly, any suitors interested in filling the position,?
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So I've never done any online dating before, and have never been on Fab on my own. Mr has experience of dating apps and Fab on his own. We randomly got chatting since we know some of the same people...neither of us was actually looking for anything at the time. And then we decided we quite liked each other and as things progressed the topic of swinging came up in conversation one evening...and the rest, I suppose is history. My point is that we found each other when we least expected it so maybe just go with the flow and see what happens without trying too hard, if that makes sense lol
Mrs
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