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over a year ago
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side  "
Maybe not "just" looking for that but in the main, yes that's what I've been doing this year. Getting out, meeting new people, making friends I can go to events with and honestly it's been the best year on here I've had! And still had plenty of fun  |
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By *evils Pudding OP Couple
over a year ago
the pub or in the nude in Paisley |
"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side
Maybe not "just" looking for that but in the main, yes that's what I've been doing this year. Getting out, meeting new people, making friends I can go to events with and honestly it's been the best year on here I've had! And still had plenty of fun "
Sorry I should have said for the moment! Only met my other half on here this year we’re not ready to share yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side
Maybe not "just" looking for that but in the main, yes that's what I've been doing this year. Getting out, meeting new people, making friends I can go to events with and honestly it's been the best year on here I've had! And still had plenty of fun
Sorry I should have said for the moment! Only met my other half on here this year we’re not ready to share yet "
Yep definitely looking for just friends too. |
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By *BCxCouple
over a year ago
North Lanarkshire |
"Totally agree and yes friends with the same mindset is always good
It always seems to be a social with an expectation of sex after not just a chat and drink with fellow fabbers"
I think this will happen naturally as we go to the clubs and socials more often and get to know people. You aren't going to be sexually attracted to everyone and there will be some people who you just click with in a friendship way.
I know we're are open to socials to meet like-minded people and also socials with the hope we click and can have some fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met someone from here JUST for a coffee at the Fort and it was really nice. Was good to get out the house and chat away to someone I've never met before.
Something I'd like to do more of if the opportunity came up. We didn't even talk about sex, it was just an hour and a half long blether lol! |
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By *evils Pudding OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I met someone from here JUST for a coffee at the Fort and it was really nice. Was good to get out the house and chat away to someone I've never met before.
Something I'd like to do more of if the opportunity came up. We didn't even talk about sex, it was just an hour and a half long blether lol!"
Aye that’s ideal! Wee hot chocolate for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met someone from here JUST for a coffee at the Fort and it was really nice. Was good to get out the house and chat away to someone I've never met before.
Something I'd like to do more of if the opportunity came up. We didn't even talk about sex, it was just an hour and a half long blether lol!
Aye that’s ideal! Wee hot chocolate for me "
I'll get the hot chocolate, you buy the cake  |
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side "
Aye and I think I got lucky with some of the fab friends I’ve made over the years yourselves included xx |
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"I met someone from here JUST for a coffee at the Fort and it was really nice. Was good to get out the house and chat away to someone I've never met before.
Something I'd like to do more of if the opportunity came up. We didn't even talk about sex, it was just an hour and a half long blether lol!"
That’s cause you met oor flangie xx wee fab superstar and one of my good friends now and not just a fab friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side "
Definitely a good idea. I don’t know anyone else from here so an ideal way to get to know people  |
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side
Maybe not "just" looking for that but in the main, yes that's what I've been doing this year. Getting out, meeting new people, making friends I can go to events with and honestly it's been the best year on here I've had! And still had plenty of fun "
What iv been doing this year aswell and its been the best time |
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By *assNGuyCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Guess I’ll be finding more and more friends then from the socials at least! "
Just don't forget us from your social meets
Though, yeah we should meet more than do, not seen you guys in months and we always up for socials. |
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By *evils Pudding OP Couple
over a year ago
the pub or in the nude in Paisley |
"I met someone from here JUST for a coffee at the Fort and it was really nice. Was good to get out the house and chat away to someone I've never met before.
Something I'd like to do more of if the opportunity came up. We didn't even talk about sex, it was just an hour and a half long blether lol!
Aye that’s ideal! Wee hot chocolate for me
I'll get the hot chocolate, you buy the cake "
Love a bitta cake |
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By *evils Pudding OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side
Aye and I think I got lucky with some of the fab friends I’ve made over the years yourselves included xx "
You and the quizzers are already my fab friends |
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By *evils Pudding OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side
Definitely a good idea. I don’t know anyone else from here so an ideal way to get to know people "
Absolutely! Keep an eye out for group socials they’re good too! |
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By *evils Pudding OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Guess I’ll be finding more and more friends then from the socials at least!
Just don't forget us from your social meets
Though, yeah we should meet more than do, not seen you guys in months and we always up for socials."
You’re already my fab friends! |
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side "
I know someone that goes fishing but doesn't like fish. |
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By *evils Pudding OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side
Maybe not "just" looking for that but in the main, yes that's what I've been doing this year. Getting out, meeting new people, making friends I can go to events with and honestly it's been the best year on here I've had! And still had plenty of fun
What iv been doing this year aswell and its been the best time"
I know we met lovely  |
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By *evils Pudding OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side
Maybe not "just" looking for that but in the main, yes that's what I've been doing this year. Getting out, meeting new people, making friends I can go to events with and honestly it's been the best year on here I've had! And still had plenty of fun
Sorry I should have said for the moment! Only met my other half on here this year we’re not ready to share yet
Yep definitely looking for just friends too. "
I’m sure we’re in the same group chat so friends in no time! |
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side
Maybe not "just" looking for that but in the main, yes that's what I've been doing this year. Getting out, meeting new people, making friends I can go to events with and honestly it's been the best year on here I've had! And still had plenty of fun
What iv been doing this year aswell and its been the best time
I know we met lovely "
We did |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love the social side of fab. Getting to chat without worry about what the others are thinking
The social aspect of fab is just as good as the sex, sometimes the socials are better than the sex too and it can still be a good friendship without the fuckery |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side
Maybe not "just" looking for that but in the main, yes that's what I've been doing this year. Getting out, meeting new people, making friends I can go to events with and honestly it's been the best year on here I've had! And still had plenty of fun
What iv been doing this year aswell and its been the best time"
I agree! Had a great year tbh and its mainly down to the new friends I've made! |
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side "
I absolutely love the social side of fab, finally got my weekends back and have been to the last two Aberdeen socials. Such an awesome group of gorgeous people, really friendly and welcoming. I have had an absolute blast on those nights out.
I even view going to the clubs as social nights, I mean its great if I click with some people and have some fun but I never go expecting more than a good social.
Have also been to some great socials down in Edinburgh when I was based there including a camping trip; which turned into a night a big country house due to weather.
It's always my first piece of advice for newbies, go to socials and the clubs. |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
"Totally agree and yes friends with the same mindset is always good
It always seems to be a social with an expectation of sex after not just a chat and drink with fellow fabbers"
A social is a social, end of. In my book anyway. |
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side "
no it’s not always just about the sex !
I’ve got a few friends on here .
One in particular where we can get together and have a laugh & we’ve also had a few lovely holidays together and are going away next year again .
Others I’m more than happy to meet for coffee / lunch or whatever in-between meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side "
Yes this is of interest to me. I've found the ones I've met haven't had an interest in the friends side, two or three meets only. I think having like minded friends from here would be lovely.  |
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By *evils Pudding OP Couple
over a year ago
the pub or in the nude in Paisley |
Thanks for all the replies everyone!
Glad to see there are a good few of us on the same page, friends first and anything else may or may not follow either way it’s all good
Hopefully meet some of you at a social soon |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I’ve been to many organised socials, a few one on one socials, have often treated going to a club as purely social and a few road trips also. As a result I’ve met loads of fabulous people which are amazing. You all know who you are. Sending love x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thankfully i have reconnected with several old friensmds and had several coffees and catch ups with most. Always good catching uonwoth sinilar minded folk and having a laugh with no agenda. Lol x
Always looking for more friends x |
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By *at me drink meWoman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
Id love to meet friends for the social side aswel as the fun side. Being a single mum and working crap hours .would be nice to have like mind friends who u could mix friendship and fun with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id love to meet friends for the social side aswel as the fun side. Being a single mum and working crap hours .would be nice to have like mind friends who u could mix friendship and fun with"
I know that feeling. Balancing unsocial work hours and kids is nothing short of challenging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I should also add, as per the original post, fab friends is totally where it’s at in some ways. It’s not always about the sex. Sometimes just having an adult conversation with people who share the same lifestyle/views is all you need.
But just sometimes |
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I’ve definitely made friends here by attending organised socials and 1-1 socials, makes fab life more enjoyable when there are people you can just chat to without any expectancies
Even during lockdowns we touched base with each other making sure everyone was ok and reaching out when we thought anyone needed a chat
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
When I first joined Fab 11 years ago, I had a few messages who ridiculed me for wanting more of a social side rather than just meet up and play. I’m now pleased that I ignored them and went on to organise regular socials and as a result I’ve made some lovely friends that I’ve known for years as well as new friends.
I have been on short breaks with one of my Fab friends and we’ve been to numerous shows and events together.
I know the social side isn’t for everyone but it has helped a lot of us through difficult times. |
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"Anyone just looking for fab friends and the social side?
I know it’s a swinging site but like minded friends to socialise with sounds good too?
Not always about the sex side "
We are open to trying different things together as a couple
However we would also like to meet a couple similar to ourselves
To meet socially with extras ,go to clubs with etc
It seems like it's impossible
We had met a couple
Had a great night and was totally different to quick meet with a single person
Why so hard |
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All our friends are all down south and meet up in Blackpool. Have one or couples up here that we can go for a drink with but that is few and far between. Yeah we would be interested in widening our social circle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to have a fab friend some most times when we were both on but only had that fab connection we spoke for years and then one day she just got up and left and never come back and I miss her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yep
i met one of my best friends here online.. been chatting for years..
its like confession!
What do you mean it’s like confession lol you tell each other all your fab antics "
pretty much. no names. |
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"Yep. Pub quiz on a Tuesday night. (I still haven’t been yet.)
I’m only teasing. I know we’ve been loads, it’s how we met! "
Was really looking forward to going last night but ko as soon as o got home |
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By *evils Pudding OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Yep. Pub quiz on a Tuesday night. (I still haven’t been yet.)
I’m only teasing. I know we’ve been loads, it’s how we met!
Was really looking forward to going last night but ko as soon as o got home "
We never made it last night either had some much needed alone time |
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By *ANDA!Man
over a year ago
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Doesn’t need to be a dedicated club for socials! Organise one "
Many forum searches over the years show that it's been tried and failed. Mebbe when the proposed "exotic dance" club opens whenever it may be, things will be different |
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