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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
How many people like regular meets.chilling out exploring teasing . .am i wasting my time trying to find a few couples,single males,single females for friendship and reg fun .drinks chat flirt hours of foreplay and fucking.i dnt get much free time single mum full time working would be nice to have a few fab friends to let my hair down with. |
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
Its hard to try keep on top of mail and so many people mail fae miles away that ad never meet . Would be great to just have a few reg friends to actually have fun with instead of scrolling mail for hours trying to find a meet |
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"How many people like regular meets.chilling out exploring teasing . .am i wasting my time trying to find a few couples,single males,single females for friendship and reg fun .drinks chat flirt hours of foreplay and fucking.i dnt get much free time single mum full time working would be nice to have a few fab friends to let my hair down with. "
We are sadly yet to meet people that we have regular meets with so feel your pain...  |
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
That sounds good in theory. But when at least 100 mail a day is guys fae miles away then 90% of the rest just sending wana fuck or id love to use u or no photo it gets repetitive.then i give up for the nite and get the dildo out lol. Thats why few reg friends would be perfect |
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Totally feeling you on that one. It’s hard to get the time where it matches up with others to get a reg thing going. Nothing is ever easy"
I work crap hours and have my kid 90% of the week .but love to have a wee gin every fri sat after work . Fab friends much needed |
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What do yous find hardest about trying to get a regular? But in my head, if a women decides she wants it say tonight she’s a certainty to get it? Where as If a man wants it tonight there’s still the graft to put in lol |
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
Has to be an attraction for me i wont just meet for the sake of meeting .i work til 1130pm every friday nite and 5pm or 1130pd every sat .alot of people are already out by then or d*unk or already arranged a meet .then im free mon tues 10ad til 3pm .most people work then |
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
I do have a reg non fab friend i meet .hes only had sex 1s before me .we have hours of fun tease kiss fuck banter spoon .he doesnt eat pussy tho and is moving back home in 2weeks |
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
Id have to kill u if i told u .lol .i work 48hour a week plus single mum .so when i have free time i want to spend it having fun with people i get on with .iv never been on a social (nevous shy to start and social anxiety)but i want to start |
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over a year ago
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"How many people like regular meets.chilling out exploring teasing . .am i wasting my time trying to find a few couples,single males,single females for friendship and reg fun .drinks chat flirt hours of foreplay and fucking.i dnt get much free time single mum full time working would be nice to have a few fab friends to let my hair down with. "
Yeah would be nice to get folk you can have regular meets with that you feel comfortable with and your can chill and have mutual fun  |
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
Few drinks wee flirt chill out teasing horny kisses hands wandering banter netflix connection experiment .few reg couples few reg males few reg females friends with benefits social and adult fun |
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Hello everyone just been reading this thread there and I’m new to this and haven’t had the enjoyment of any meets as yet due to me working all day Tuesday to Friday and have me kid from the Friday night to monday and have him Wednesdays too so I’m pretty fucked there huh lol also I don’t drive neither so that’s another issue but working on the driving situation, still I like to read and chat too x  |
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"Hello everyone just been reading this thread there and I’m new to this and haven’t had the enjoyment of any meets as yet due to me working all day Tuesday to Friday and have me kid from the Friday night to monday and have him Wednesdays too so I’m pretty fucked there huh lol also I don’t drive neither so that’s another issue but working on the driving situation, still I like to read and chat too x "
Pretty fucked lol |
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
For me regular meets are about relaxing a connection not rushing pleasuring each other having fun chilling out finding out what gets each other going being passionate but pushing the filth trust to try new things excitement |
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Ah really that sucks baws eh but must be said I wouldn’t mind some of them mails  nah in all fairness I’m a happy go lucky chappy if it comes it comes if not then cool I’ll happily chat if chats are available lol x |
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"It’s extremely hard to find anyone that wants to meet regular. Seems folk only want fuck and go. 
Fed up of guys mailing me like im an escort "
I think the fact you're only free after 11.30 at night is only going to appeal to a particular kind of guy |
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"How many people like regular meets.chilling out exploring teasing . .am i wasting my time trying to find a few couples,single males,single females for friendship and reg fun .drinks chat flirt hours of foreplay and fucking.i dnt get much free time single mum full time working would be nice to have a few fab friends to let my hair down with. "
Well if you’re happy with purely socialising with the odd bit of dodgy chat there’s plenty women socialise on here and arrange to go out for coffee, shopping, meals, cinema, walks you name it as for the fwb like a needle
In a haystack tbh |
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
"It’s extremely hard to find anyone that wants to meet regular. Seems folk only want fuck and go.
Fed up of guys mailing me like im an escort
I think the fact you're only free after 11.30 at night is only going to appeal to a particular kind of guy"
That will never change.its my job. Been doing it 12 years |
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It’s extremely hard to find anyone that wants to meet regular. Seems folk only want fuck and go.
Fed up of guys mailing me like im an escort
I think the fact you're only free after 11.30 at night is only going to appeal to a particular kind of guy
That will never change.its my job. Been doing it 12 years"
Free day time mon tues 10am til 3pm aswel |
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
"How many people like regular meets.chilling out exploring teasing . .am i wasting my time trying to find a few couples,single males,single females for friendship and reg fun .drinks chat flirt hours of foreplay and fucking.i dnt get much free time single mum full time working would be nice to have a few fab friends to let my hair down with.
Well if you’re happy with purely socialising with the odd bit of dodgy chat there’s plenty women socialise on here and arrange to go out for coffee, shopping, meals, cinema, walks you name it as for the fwb like a needle
In a haystack tbh "
Just reg meets meals cinema shopping wouldnt interest me .just want to meet a few couples single men women to come round chill out and have fun .its a hard task to find tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many people like regular meets.chilling out exploring teasing . .am i wasting my time trying to find a few couples,single males,single females for friendship and reg fun .drinks chat flirt hours of foreplay and fucking.i dnt get much free time single mum full time working would be nice to have a few fab friends to let my hair down with.
Well if you’re happy with purely socialising with the odd bit of dodgy chat there’s plenty women socialise on here and arrange to go out for coffee, shopping, meals, cinema, walks you name it as for the fwb like a needle
In a haystack tbh
Just reg meets meals cinema shopping wouldnt interest me .just want to meet a few couples single men women to come round chill out and have fun .its a hard task to find tho"
It's definitely what I'm looking for, so it's not impossible |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thats why id like a few reg friends males couples and females. It gets a bit overwhelming with mail."
I'm sure it does! There are some golden nuggets out there in the endless sea of dick pics and "wanna fuck/suck?" Messages. I guess you just need a P.A. to sift through your pile of applicants. If you're looking for a volunteer...  |
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By *ugehandsMan
over a year ago
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Maybe you need to look and message the profiles that you find interesting using the filter to narrow the results. I can imagine woman will get hundreds of messages every day on here.
I think there alot of guys on here who would prefer a regular meet but it can be difficult with work and kids etc.
Good luck on your search. |
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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Most messages you get are a waste of time or abusive / creepy. It's a lot of time / effort to clear them constantly and find the very rare gems.
If you want to make genuine swinging friends and get regular meets going, you're best to get yourself along to events. It's much easier to see if you quickly have a connection with someone or a group and then take it from there. Plus you meet loads of people in one night, while having a couple of drinks or a dance so there's nothing to lose. Far more time efficient than needing a babysitter or have to constantly find time to meet each potential person or couple, with all the build up and possible let downs etc.
Happy swinging!
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"How many people like regular meets.chilling out exploring teasing . .am i wasting my time trying to find a few couples,single males,single females for friendship and reg fun .drinks chat flirt hours of foreplay and fucking.i dnt get much free time single mum full time working would be nice to have a few fab friends to let my hair down with. "
This is exactly the sort of thing we want out of Fab. Don’t get me wrong, we aren’t against the occasional random meet up, but having ‘Fab Friends’ on the same wavelength would be great. Getting to know genuine people on here seems to be a bit of a challenge though lol
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It’s not impossible to find but it is rare, either on here or elsewhere.
Agree it’s about being discerning on here, employing certain methods to sort the men from the boys as it were.
Socials and clubs are also an option and are the poster said a way of meeting several people in one night/meet and making connections, a bit of networking never hurts. |
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"Has to be an attraction for me i wont just meet for the sake of meeting .i work til 1130pm every friday nite and 5pm or 1130pd every sat .alot of people are already out by then or d*unk or already arranged a meet .then im free mon tues 10ad til 3pm .most people work then"
Those are some rubbish hours. I am free both Monday and Tuesday most weeks during the day if you ever want a good massage and a load of oral! |
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"How many people like regular meets.chilling out exploring teasing . .am i wasting my time trying to find a few couples,single males,single females for friendship and reg fun .drinks chat flirt hours of foreplay and fucking.i dnt get much free time single mum full
time working would be nice to have a few fab friends to let my hair down with. "
Easy going bi guy here average build non smoker also looking for regular meets, would be nice to meet even if its a coffee and chat be nice to socialise and see how we get on chance to chill out
If you are interested and want to meet do get in touch and let's arrange something soon and we can go from there |
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"How many people like regular meets.chilling out exploring teasing . .am i wasting my time trying to find a few couples,single males,single females for friendship and reg fun .drinks chat flirt hours of foreplay and fucking.i dnt get much free time single mum full time working would be nice to have a few fab friends to let my hair down with.
This is exactly the sort of thing we want out of Fab. Don’t get me wrong, we aren’t against the occasional random meet up, but having ‘Fab Friends’ on the same wavelength would be great. Getting to know genuine people on here seems to be a bit of a challenge though lol
F (Mrs)"
We still chat with couples that we’ve met and are always up for another meet with them.
Did have a long term kind of relationship but after a while we were all looking to take things in different directions so we kind of parted ways.
It doesn’t take long for things to go “stale” and one person is wanting to push things. |
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For everyone saying there isn't much uptake, there are guys out there who'd like this.
I had a FWB for over 2 years; she's recently started seeing a guy who doesn't like to share, so we are now only friends with coffee occasionally.
As much as a one night stand is exciting and all, having regular fun with someone let's you develop and understand how her body works (all women aren't made the same way, my friend was very blessed when it came to having orgasms a certain way I found out after a few naughty encouters).
Plus it's hot as hell to share your dirty stories of other adventures (pics and vids too if you've taken them) and get the horny juices flowing! |
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"For everyone saying there isn't much uptake, there are guys out there who'd like this.
I had a FWB for over 2 years; she's recently started seeing a guy who doesn't like to share, so we are now only friends with coffee occasionally.
As much as a one night stand is exciting and all, having regular fun with someone let's you develop and understand how her body works (all women aren't made the same way, my friend was very blessed when it came to having orgasms a certain way I found out after a few naughty encouters).
Plus it's hot as hell to share your dirty stories of other adventures (pics and vids too if you've taken them) and get the horny juices flowing! "
You sound sweet. I hope she messages you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You sound sweet. I hope she messages you "
Why thankyou! Just not sweet enough to get much of a reply when I send more than "wanna fuck/suck?" in an message it seems!
What's the saying, nice guys finish last?!
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You sound sweet. I hope she messages you
Why thankyou! Just not sweet enough to get much of a reply when I send more than "wanna fuck/suck?" in an message it seems!
What's the saying, nice guys finish last?!
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They do. Behind the confident, funny and interesting ones and rightly so |
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I think it does happen most of the times, nice message and nothing or deleted right away.
But then ladies probably get 100s of messages, some probably nice, some rude or out of order. They probably dont have time to read them all or filter it.
Cant blame them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's funny how many women complain about undesirable language and crude messages, yet you send messages carefully thought out funny quirky relevant to their profile, polite, fairly medium short couple paragraphs, self deprecating, and yet get no replies or deleted .. and yet when out in the pub you get a much nicer convivial response from a short hello at the bar ....  |
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Unfortunatly given the nature of the site, I think you're more likely to get one-off offers,or folk tht say they want more, but will ghost you after they've got what they want from a meet.
I was recently told by someone that this isn't a dating site, and they look for proper dates elsewhere, and the kinky stuff here. In their ideal world they'll find someone that can also accept (or join in) their fun from here.
Like others have said, your working hours may limit your meets a little, but you never know, you may end up finding someone with similar shifts to yourself. It's all about sorting through the rest, and as you've mentioned 100+ messages a day I know how tough that is going to be.
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
Think with my shit working hours its harder to find .most guys i have met have been "reg" meets to an extent .like we meet for reg sex .was meeting a fab guy 1s a week for 3 year just for sex. Would like mare of a friend that i have fun with .couples single males females that i chill with for a good few hour of banter laughs and adult fun.nowt serious just let my hair down |
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"How many people like regular meets.chilling out exploring teasing . .am i wasting my time trying to find a few couples,single males,single females for friendship and reg fun .drinks chat flirt hours of foreplay and fucking.i dnt get much free time single mum full time working would be nice to have a few fab friends to let my hair down with.
This is exactly the sort of thing we want out of Fab. Don’t get me wrong, we aren’t against the occasional random meet up, but having ‘Fab Friends’ on the same wavelength would be great. Getting to know genuine people on here seems to be a bit of a challenge though lol
F (Mrs)"
Have no issues making new friends on here have lots of nights out organised got a group I’ve been riding with for over three years now as well girls I’ve been on holidays with so there’s plenty folk out there doing it |
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I think with a regular partner you can grow and experiment a lot of things you wouldn’t try with a random .
Regularity brings familiarity I think it’s a case of better the devil you know lol
It just feel so much more relaxed with a regular playmate . |
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Iv been fortunate enough to have had a few regular playmates, funnily enough mainly with couples as single men have proved very unreliable.
People have lives outwith this and getting the same free time is the tricky part but I guess if you really want to see people again you will try make the effort to do so |
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By *cotfinnCouple
over a year ago
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I am free every day from 11 - 6 because of my job. Also would love to meet a couple of ladies to have regular fun with myself & a could or 2 to meet when my fiance is here... seems like a lot to ask despite the number of folk on here! |
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"Yip reg fun relax experiment connection have a laugh .nothing to serious .just to take the edge of real life"
I think this is what a lot of us are looking for on here. Then when we find it we feel like we’ve won the lottery |
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
"I would like to meet a regular fwb, I think the problem is most women don’t even open guys messages as they get bombarded so it’s a hard process to even try catch someone’s attention. "
I get so much mail fae people over 100miles away .even tho it states .im looking for localish .iv asked fab to put a message filter in to stop that .. i go thru mail straight away and delete any that aint in scotland ..i try to keep up with mail ..it gets repetitive tho ."wana fuck" "i want to use u" "how much" just dick photos saying hey. I think most women state no cock photos .for me has to be an attraction to a face |
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"I would like to meet a regular fwb, I think the problem is most women don’t even open guys messages as they get bombarded so it’s a hard process to even try catch someone’s attention.
I get so much mail fae people over 100miles away .even tho it states .im looking for localish .iv asked fab to put a message filter in to stop that .. i go thru mail straight away and delete any that aint in scotland ..i try to keep up with mail ..it gets repetitive tho ."wana fuck" "i want to use u" "how much" just dick photos saying hey. I think most women state no cock photos .for me has to be an attraction to a face"
I’d bloody meet you regular if you’d unblock me |
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
"I would like to meet a regular fwb, I think the problem is most women don’t even open guys messages as they get bombarded so it’s a hard process to even try catch someone’s attention.
I get so much mail fae people over 100miles away .even tho it states .im looking for localish .iv asked fab to put a message filter in to stop that .. i go thru mail straight away and delete any that aint in scotland ..i try to keep up with mail ..it gets repetitive tho ."wana fuck" "i want to use u" "how much" just dick photos saying hey. I think most women state no cock photos .for me has to be an attraction to a face
I’d bloody meet you regular if you’d unblock me "
Blocked for a reason meaning we wouldnt meet even if unblocked |
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"I would like to meet a regular fwb, I think the problem is most women don’t even open guys messages as they get bombarded so it’s a hard process to even try catch someone’s attention.
I get so much mail fae people over 100miles away .even tho it states .im looking for localish .iv asked fab to put a message filter in to stop that .. i go thru mail straight away and delete any that aint in scotland ..i try to keep up with mail ..it gets repetitive tho ."wana fuck" "i want to use u" "how much" just dick photos saying hey. I think most women state no cock photos .for me has to be an attraction to a face
I’d bloody meet you regular if you’d unblock me
Blocked for a reason meaning we wouldnt meet even if unblocked"
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"How many people like regular meets.chilling out exploring teasing . .am i wasting my time trying to find a few couples,single males,single females for friendship and reg fun .drinks chat flirt hours of foreplay and fucking.i dnt get much free time single mum full time working would be nice to have a few fab friends to let my hair down with.
This is exactly the sort of thing we want out of Fab. Don’t get me wrong, we aren’t against the occasional random meet up, but having ‘Fab Friends’ on the same wavelength would be great. Getting to know genuine people on here seems to be a bit of a challenge though lol
F (Mrs)
We still chat with couples that we’ve met and are always up for another meet with them.
Did have a long term kind of relationship but after a while we were all looking to take things in different directions so we kind of parted ways.
It doesn’t take long for things to go “stale” and one person is wanting to push things. "
I can imagine things can go stale quite quickly. One of my real life friends is on here with her partner, we were friends before we both discovered we were into the lifestyle. We haven’t hooked up for anything other than social meets though. And then we’ve got to know another couple quite well, and I’ve become good friends with the female - we both just clicked and are totally on the same wavelength. And then there’s the countless fleeting chats etc with others…all part of the fun I guess lol
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"I would like to meet a regular fwb, I think the problem is most women don’t even open guys messages as they get bombarded so it’s a hard process to even try catch someone’s attention. "
We had to block single guys from contacting us because it was just a bit much, which is a shame because we’d love to get to know folk on a similar wavelength - couples, women AND men - for regular meets, social or otherwise. It’s a case of the minority spoiling it for the majority unfortunately
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I always find that regular meets are always much better but I do feel the pain of single guys trying to meet couples or females regularly can be hard if you can’t get past the messaging phase.
I’m pretty much free most weekends and have found it hard to meet since relocating to Scotland. I suppose a lot of guys are honest either about what they want so do ruin it for genuine guys. |
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"How many people like regular meets.chilling out exploring teasing . .am i wasting my time trying to find a few couples,single males,single females for friendship and reg fun .drinks chat flirt hours of foreplay and fucking.i dnt get much free time single mum full time working would be nice to have a few fab friends to let my hair down with.
This is exactly the sort of thing we want out of Fab. Don’t get me wrong, we aren’t against the occasional random meet up, but having ‘Fab Friends’ on the same wavelength would be great. Getting to know genuine people on here seems to be a bit of a challenge though lol
F (Mrs)
Have no issues making new friends on here have lots of nights out organised got a group I’ve been riding with for over three years now as well girls I’ve been on holidays with so there’s plenty folk out there doing it "
There’s definitely friendships to be made, and it’s lovely that you’ve had these experiences - long may they continue! I have two real life friends on here - one I knew before I discovered we were both into this the other I met through Fab. J & I are still fairly new to this as a couple so I guess it just takes time. And I’ve no patience haha
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"I always find that regular meets are always much better but I do feel the pain of single guys trying to meet couples or females regularly can be hard if you can’t get past the messaging phase.
I’m pretty much free most weekends and have found it hard to meet since relocating to Scotland. I suppose a lot of guys are honest either about what they want so do ruin it for genuine guys."
Been told I'm "too nice" "too forward" "too direct" "too cheeky" ect ect ect. Just the luck of the draw! Lol |
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"I always find that regular meets are always much better but I do feel the pain of single guys trying to meet couples or females regularly can be hard if you can’t get past the messaging phase.
I’m pretty much free most weekends and have found it hard to meet since relocating to Scotland. I suppose a lot of guys are honest either about what they want so do ruin it for genuine guys.
Been told I'm "too nice" "too forward" "too direct" "too cheeky" ect ect ect. Just the luck of the draw! Lol"
Just keep being you - we’ve found it a challenge trying to get to know genuine people. We are relaxed and laid back, and both have a sense of humour…we just want to have fun with people on a similar wavelength. We had to block single guys from contacting us, as I said in another reply, which is a shame because we aren’t against getting to know single guys lol. Just the minority ruin it for the majority
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"I always find that regular meets are always much better but I do feel the pain of single guys trying to meet couples or females regularly can be hard if you can’t get past the messaging phase.
I’m pretty much free most weekends and have found it hard to meet since relocating to Scotland. I suppose a lot of guys are honest either about what they want so do ruin it for genuine guys.
Been told I'm "too nice" "too forward" "too direct" "too cheeky" ect ect ect. Just the luck of the draw! Lol
Just keep being you - we’ve found it a challenge trying to get to know genuine people. We are relaxed and laid back, and both have a sense of humour…we just want to have fun with people on a similar wavelength. We had to block single guys from contacting us, as I said in another reply, which is a shame because we aren’t against getting to know single guys lol. Just the minority ruin it for the majority
F (Mrs)"
That's why it's hard for single men like myself, others ruin it |
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"I always find that regular meets are always much better but I do feel the pain of single guys trying to meet couples or females regularly can be hard if you can’t get past the messaging phase.
I’m pretty much free most weekends and have found it hard to meet since relocating to Scotland. I suppose a lot of guys are honest either about what they want so do ruin it for genuine guys.
Been told I'm "too nice" "too forward" "too direct" "too cheeky" ect ect ect. Just the luck of the draw! Lol
Just keep being you - we’ve found it a challenge trying to get to know genuine people. We are relaxed and laid back, and both have a sense of humour…we just want to have fun with people on a similar wavelength. We had to block single guys from contacting us, as I said in another reply, which is a shame because we aren’t against getting to know single guys lol. Just the minority ruin it for the majority
F (Mrs)
That's why it's hard for single men like myself, others ruin it "
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The hope for me has always been to find a regular FWB or even FB. But finding that click and connection, someone comfortable to cuddle and chat with and not just have sex is hard. So many different opinions on what a FWB is - so much so I had to put my definition on my profile! lol
A lot of time and effort goes into finding a lady to meet with... why waste all that time for a one off? |
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"I always find that regular meets are always much better but I do feel the pain of single guys trying to meet couples or females regularly can be hard if you can’t get past the messaging phase.
I’m pretty much free most weekends and have found it hard to meet since relocating to Scotland. I suppose a lot of guys are honest either about what they want so do ruin it for genuine guys.
Been told I'm "too nice" "too forward" "too direct" "too cheeky" ect ect ect. Just the luck of the draw! Lol
Just keep being you - we’ve found it a challenge trying to get to know genuine people. We are relaxed and laid back, and both have a sense of humour…we just want to have fun with people on a similar wavelength. We had to block single guys from contacting us, as I said in another reply, which is a shame because we aren’t against getting to know single guys lol. Just the minority ruin it for the majority
F (Mrs)
That's why it's hard for single men like myself, others ruin it
If things aren't working for you, that's on you, not others "
I was on about the minority ruining it for the majority, I don't get replied to to ruin it lol |
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"I always find that regular meets are always much better but I do feel the pain of single guys trying to meet couples or females regularly can be hard if you can’t get past the messaging phase.
I’m pretty much free most weekends and have found it hard to meet since relocating to Scotland. I suppose a lot of guys are honest either about what they want so do ruin it for genuine guys.
Been told I'm "too nice" "too forward" "too direct" "too cheeky" ect ect ect. Just the luck of the draw! Lol
Just keep being you - we’ve found it a challenge trying to get to know genuine people. We are relaxed and laid back, and both have a sense of humour…we just want to have fun with people on a similar wavelength. We had to block single guys from contacting us, as I said in another reply, which is a shame because we aren’t against getting to know single guys lol. Just the minority ruin it for the majority
F (Mrs)
That's why it's hard for single men like myself, others ruin it "
Agree. When you get plenty attention in the pubs yet very little replies on here you know it's more to do with other people and their bias on here. |
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"I always find that regular meets are always much better but I do feel the pain of single guys trying to meet couples or females regularly can be hard if you can’t get past the messaging phase.
I’m pretty much free most weekends and have found it hard to meet since relocating to Scotland. I suppose a lot of guys are honest either about what they want so do ruin it for genuine guys.
Been told I'm "too nice" "too forward" "too direct" "too cheeky" ect ect ect. Just the luck of the draw! Lol
Just keep being you - we’ve found it a challenge trying to get to know genuine people. We are relaxed and laid back, and both have a sense of humour…we just want to have fun with people on a similar wavelength. We had to block single guys from contacting us, as I said in another reply, which is a shame because we aren’t against getting to know single guys lol. Just the minority ruin it for the majority
F (Mrs)
That's why it's hard for single men like myself, others ruin it
If things aren't working for you, that's on you, not others "
Well yes and no - there’s not much he can do about contacting profiles that block single males, like ours. Ideally we wouldn’t have single males blocked but there’s so many time wasters it’s easier for us to be on the lookout for guys who catch our eye to get to know.
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