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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl." You. | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl." Definitely her, I've seen it myself on numerous occasions where people who are able bodied flaunt the blue badge holder card in my face , my mother is disabled and in a wheel chair and whenever I take her to hospital appointments cannot get a disabled parking spot because of certain people flaunting the rules, rules that are designed to aid the most in need of being to park as close to the hospital entrance.. Really boils my blood when you see able bodied people get away with this "hidden" disability or not. | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. Definitely her, I've seen it myself on numerous occasions where people who are able bodied flaunt the blue badge holder card in my face , my mother is disabled and in a wheel chair and whenever I take her to hospital appointments cannot get a disabled parking spot because of certain people flaunting the rules, rules that are designed to aid the most in need of being to park as close to the hospital entrance.. Really boils my blood when you see able bodied people get away with this "hidden" disability or not." Me too. If they display a badge I won't usually say anything regardless of how they look but in this case it was clearly a young fit girl abusing the situation where she could easily have parked in the numerous spaces within about 15 metres away. | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. Definitely her, I've seen it myself on numerous occasions where people who are able bodied flaunt the blue badge holder card in my face , my mother is disabled and in a wheel chair and whenever I take her to hospital appointments cannot get a disabled parking spot because of certain people flaunting the rules, rules that are designed to aid the most in need of being to park as close to the hospital entrance.. Really boils my blood when you see able bodied people get away with this "hidden" disability or not. Me too. If they display a badge I won't usually say anything regardless of how they look but in this case it was clearly a young fit girl abusing the situation where she could easily have parked in the numerous spaces within about 15 metres away. " The blue badge holder isn't always the driver of the vehicle , ge or age could be the disabled person's designated driver but again I've seen those types of people abuse the badge as the they are not with the person the badge is for, all so they can get a closer parking place instead of walking 10 mtrs more, I'm my mother's designated driver along with 2 of my brothers so if one of us can't be available to take her to appointments she can call on one of them and still use her blue badge but 9 times out of 10 we end up parking in a normal place because of these inconsiderate assholes abusing the laws.. | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. Definitely her, I've seen it myself on numerous occasions where people who are able bodied flaunt the blue badge holder card in my face , my mother is disabled and in a wheel chair and whenever I take her to hospital appointments cannot get a disabled parking spot because of certain people flaunting the rules, rules that are designed to aid the most in need of being to park as close to the hospital entrance.. Really boils my blood when you see able bodied people get away with this "hidden" disability or not. Me too. If they display a badge I won't usually say anything regardless of how they look but in this case it was clearly a young fit girl abusing the situation where she could easily have parked in the numerous spaces within about 15 metres away. The blue badge holder isn't always the driver of the vehicle , ge or age could be the disabled person's designated driver but again I've seen those types of people abuse the badge as the they are not with the person the badge is for, all so they can get a closer parking place instead of walking 10 mtrs more, I'm my mother's designated driver along with 2 of my brothers so if one of us can't be available to take her to appointments she can call on one of them and still use her blue badge but 9 times out of 10 we end up parking in a normal place because of these inconsiderate assholes abusing the laws.." * He or she *  | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. You." So your opinion is I'm more in the wrong by confronting a clearly young fit girl using a disabled bay parking space than the clearly young fit girl who could have left the disabled space for someone much more in need of that space. No worries , appreciate your honesty. | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. You. So your opinion is I'm more in the wrong by confronting a clearly young fit girl using a disabled bay parking space than the clearly young fit girl who could have left the disabled space for someone much more in need of that space. No worries , appreciate your honesty. "Actually, until you have a stoma you are not in a position to judge someone else who does | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. You. So your opinion is I'm more in the wrong by confronting a clearly young fit girl using a disabled bay parking space than the clearly young fit girl who could have left the disabled space for someone much more in need of that space. No worries , appreciate your honesty.
Actually, until you have a stoma you are not in a position to judge someone else who does "Wearing a colostomy bag didn't stop her from running around a shop like she was a contestant on Supermarket Sweep did it? | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. You. So your opinion is I'm more in the wrong by confronting a clearly young fit girl using a disabled bay parking space than the clearly young fit girl who could have left the disabled space for someone much more in need of that space. No worries , appreciate your honesty.
Actually, until you have a stoma you are not in a position to judge someone else who does
Wearing a colostomy bag didn't stop her from running around a shop like she was a contestant on Supermarket Sweep did it? "How do you know how she felt while running about getting her shopping? Running about as someone is standing there judging her for holding a blue badge, so much for be kind these days yous know nothing about this girl and her disability | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. You. So your opinion is I'm more in the wrong by confronting a clearly young fit girl using a disabled bay parking space than the clearly young fit girl who could have left the disabled space for someone much more in need of that space. No worries , appreciate your honesty.
Actually, until you have a stoma you are not in a position to judge someone else who does "
This.
She could have been running in because she needed to use the toilets.
On the flipside of this though, I was once confronted by a very cheeky pensioner with a walking frame when I used the toilet with my then toddler. He has some issues with going to the loo as a wee yin and it caused all sorts of drama when we were out. As I left the loo with him she was obviously angry at having to wait and gave me a mouthful. She'd obviously failed to notice that the sign on the door said it was a parent/child & disabled toilet.
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. You. So your opinion is I'm more in the wrong by confronting a clearly young fit girl using a disabled bay parking space than the clearly young fit girl who could have left the disabled space for someone much more in need of that space. No worries , appreciate your honesty.
Actually, until you have a stoma you are not in a position to judge someone else who does
This.
She could have been running in because she needed to use the toilets.
On the flipside of this though, I was once confronted by a very cheeky pensioner with a walking frame when I used the toilet with my then toddler. He has some issues with going to the loo as a wee yin and it caused all sorts of drama when we were out. As I left the loo with him she was obviously angry at having to wait and gave me a mouthful. She'd obviously failed to notice that the sign on the door said it was a parent/child & disabled toilet.
Moral of the story, everybody needs to calm the fuck down as you don't know what other folk have going on." This. | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. You. So your opinion is I'm more in the wrong by confronting a clearly young fit girl using a disabled bay parking space than the clearly young fit girl who could have left the disabled space for someone much more in need of that space. No worries , appreciate your honesty.
Actually, until you have a stoma you are not in a position to judge someone else who does
Wearing a colostomy bag didn't stop her from running around a shop like she was a contestant on Supermarket Sweep did it?
How do you know how she felt while running about getting her shopping? Running about as someone is standing there judging her for holding a blue badge, so much for be kind these days yous know nothing about this girl and her disability"I have a female friend who has been wearing a colostomy bag for over 10 years and not once has she applied fir the blue badge as in her words " they are for people who's disabilities stops them from doing everyday tasks such as shopping or getting around unaided, this lady obv doesn't fit onto that bracket imo. | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. You. So your opinion is I'm more in the wrong by confronting a clearly young fit girl using a disabled bay parking space than the clearly young fit girl who could have left the disabled space for someone much more in need of that space. No worries , appreciate your honesty.
Actually, until you have a stoma you are not in a position to judge someone else who does
This.
She could have been running in because she needed to use the toilets.
On the flipside of this though, I was once confronted by a very cheeky pensioner with a walking frame when I used the toilet with my then toddler. He has some issues with going to the loo as a wee yin and it caused all sorts of drama when we were out. As I left the loo with him she was obviously angry at having to wait and gave me a mouthful. She'd obviously failed to notice that the sign on the door said it was a parent/child & disabled toilet.
Moral of the story, everybody needs to calm the fuck down as you don't know what other folk have going on.
This."Agreed. OP probably went home and knocked one out in his traffic warden uniform. | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. You. So your opinion is I'm more in the wrong by confronting a clearly young fit girl using a disabled bay parking space than the clearly young fit girl who could have left the disabled space for someone much more in need of that space. No worries , appreciate your honesty.
Actually, until you have a stoma you are not in a position to judge someone else who does
Wearing a colostomy bag didn't stop her from running around a shop like she was a contestant on Supermarket Sweep did it?
How do you know how she felt while running about getting her shopping? Running about as someone is standing there judging her for holding a blue badge, so much for be kind these days yous know nothing about this girl and her disability
I have a female friend who has been wearing a colostomy bag for over 10 years and not once has she applied fir the blue badge as in her words " they are for people who's disabilities stops them from doing everyday tasks such as shopping or getting around unaided, this lady obv doesn't fit onto that bracket imo."Everyone is different just because your friend doesnt need a badge doesnt mean this girl doesn't | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. You. So your opinion is I'm more in the wrong by confronting a clearly young fit girl using a disabled bay parking space than the clearly young fit girl who could have left the disabled space for someone much more in need of that space. No worries , appreciate your honesty.
Actually, until you have a stoma you are not in a position to judge someone else who does
Wearing a colostomy bag didn't stop her from running around a shop like she was a contestant on Supermarket Sweep did it?
How do you know how she felt while running about getting her shopping? Running about as someone is standing there judging her for holding a blue badge, so much for be kind these days yous know nothing about this girl and her disability
I have a female friend who has been wearing a colostomy bag for over 10 years and not once has she applied fir the blue badge as in her words " they are for people who's disabilities stops them from doing everyday tasks such as shopping or getting around unaided, this lady obv doesn't fit onto that bracket imo.
Everyone is different just because your friend doesnt need a badge doesnt mean this girl doesn't "So what about my mother who can't use the disability parking bays because someone who can walk or run is using it? Should she stay at home then and not go to appointments 6 times a week for dialysis? | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. Definitely her, I've seen it myself on numerous occasions where people who are able bodied flaunt the blue badge holder card in my face , my mother is disabled and in a wheel chair and whenever I take her to hospital appointments cannot get a disabled parking spot because of certain people flaunting the rules, rules that are designed to aid the most in need of being to park as close to the hospital entrance.. Really boils my blood when you see able bodied people get away with this "hidden" disability or not." Get a life people struggle with hidden disabilities every day just the same as your mum in a wheelchair does So don’t judge people  | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl." Eh you !! Perhaps she’s sick of constantly getting questioned on her disabilities and hey guess what when I’m having a good day no one would even know there was anything wrong with me the weeks and months I spend in bed however people don’t see that !! Sorry to say the world is such a judgemental place too quick to judge people and make assumptions | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. You. So your opinion is I'm more in the wrong by confronting a clearly young fit girl using a disabled bay parking space than the clearly young fit girl who could have left the disabled space for someone much more in need of that space. No worries , appreciate your honesty.
Actually, until you have a stoma you are not in a position to judge someone else who does
Wearing a colostomy bag didn't stop her from running around a shop like she was a contestant on Supermarket Sweep did it?
How do you know how she felt while running about getting her shopping? Running about as someone is standing there judging her for holding a blue badge, so much for be kind these days yous know nothing about this girl and her disability
I have a female friend who has been wearing a colostomy bag for over 10 years and not once has she applied fir the blue badge as in her words " they are for people who's disabilities stops them from doing everyday tasks such as shopping or getting around unaided, this lady obv doesn't fit onto that bracket imo.
Everyone is different just because your friend doesnt need a badge doesnt mean this girl doesn't So what about my mother who can't use the disability parking bays because someone who can walk or run is using it? Should she stay at home then and not go to appointments 6 times a week for dialysis? "No, of course she shouldn't. There should be more disabled spaces. There should also be more signage to effectively shame folk not into using them if they shouldn't be. | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. You. So your opinion is I'm more in the wrong by confronting a clearly young fit girl using a disabled bay parking space than the clearly young fit girl who could have left the disabled space for someone much more in need of that space. No worries , appreciate your honesty.
Actually, until you have a stoma you are not in a position to judge someone else who does
Wearing a colostomy bag didn't stop her from running around a shop like she was a contestant on Supermarket Sweep did it?
How do you know how she felt while running about getting her shopping? Running about as someone is standing there judging her for holding a blue badge, so much for be kind these days yous know nothing about this girl and her disability
I have a female friend who has been wearing a colostomy bag for over 10 years and not once has she applied fir the blue badge as in her words " they are for people who's disabilities stops them from doing everyday tasks such as shopping or getting around unaided, this lady obv doesn't fit onto that bracket imo.
Everyone is different just because your friend doesnt need a badge doesnt mean this girl doesn't So what about my mother who can't use the disability parking bays because someone who can walk or run is using it? Should she stay at home then and not go to appointments 6 times a week for dialysis? "They have as much right to park there as you do | |||
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"Long time ago I did some volunteer work and the amount of times you couldnt park the van because some selffish r-sole would park in the disabled spaces was incredible. If she can run she can park 10 yards further away." If the blue badge was hers she has every right it’s not about mobility any more | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. Definitely her, I've seen it myself on numerous occasions where people who are able bodied flaunt the blue badge holder card in my face , my mother is disabled and in a wheel chair and whenever I take her to hospital appointments cannot get a disabled parking spot because of certain people flaunting the rules, rules that are designed to aid the most in need of being to park as close to the hospital entrance.. Really boils my blood when you see able bodied people get away with this "hidden" disability or not. Get a life people struggle with hidden disabilities every day just the same as your mum in a wheelchair does So don’t judge people "I have an amazing life thank you, just don't like people abusing a system that's put in place to help real people who have real disabilities, according to the OPs thread she used that privalage to do some last min shopping, she could have easily gave that place to someone more in need of it, I'm not judging her am just saying it would have been just as quick for her to park in a close by parking spot like the rest of us. | |||
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"IF. Is your hidden disability that you cannae write a coherent sentence? "Anno an am no even Dyslexic.....am just fookin thick tae
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. Definitely her, I've seen it myself on numerous occasions where people who are able bodied flaunt the blue badge holder card in my face , my mother is disabled and in a wheel chair and whenever I take her to hospital appointments cannot get a disabled parking spot because of certain people flaunting the rules, rules that are designed to aid the most in need of being to park as close to the hospital entrance.. Really boils my blood when you see able bodied people get away with this "hidden" disability or not. Get a life people struggle with hidden disabilities every day just the same as your mum in a wheelchair does So don’t judge people
I have an amazing life thank you, just don't like people abusing a system that's put in place to help real people who have real disabilities, according to the OPs thread she used that privalage to do some last min shopping, she could have easily gave that place to someone more in need of it, I'm not judging her am just saying it would have been just as quick for her to park in a close by parking spot like the rest of us."Maybe driving around trying to find a space might have meant she was taking longer to get her shopping and then longer to get home to empty her now full colostomy bag ?? You never know !! Again don’t judge what you know nothing about | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. Definitely her, I've seen it myself on numerous occasions where people who are able bodied flaunt the blue badge holder card in my face , my mother is disabled and in a wheel chair and whenever I take her to hospital appointments cannot get a disabled parking spot because of certain people flaunting the rules, rules that are designed to aid the most in need of being to park as close to the hospital entrance.. Really boils my blood when you see able bodied people get away with this "hidden" disability or not. Get a life people struggle with hidden disabilities every day just the same as your mum in a wheelchair does So don’t judge people
I have an amazing life thank you, just don't like people abusing a system that's put in place to help real people who have real disabilities, according to the OPs thread she used that privalage to do some last min shopping, she could have easily gave that place to someone more in need of it, I'm not judging her am just saying it would have been just as quick for her to park in a close by parking spot like the rest of us.
Maybe driving around trying to find a space might have meant she was taking longer to get her shopping and then longer to get home to empty her now full colostomy bag ??
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. Definitely her, I've seen it myself on numerous occasions where people who are able bodied flaunt the blue badge holder card in my face , my mother is disabled and in a wheel chair and whenever I take her to hospital appointments cannot get a disabled parking spot because of certain people flaunting the rules, rules that are designed to aid the most in need of being to park as close to the hospital entrance.. Really boils my blood when you see able bodied people get away with this "hidden" disability or not. Get a life people struggle with hidden disabilities every day just the same as your mum in a wheelchair does So don’t judge people
I have an amazing life thank you, just don't like people abusing a system that's put in place to help real people who have real disabilities, according to the OPs thread she used that privalage to do some last min shopping, she could have easily gave that place to someone more in need of it, I'm not judging her am just saying it would have been just as quick for her to park in a close by parking spot like the rest of us.
Maybe driving around trying to find a space might have meant she was taking longer to get her shopping and then longer to get home to empty her now full colostomy bag ??
You never know !! Again don’t judge what you know nothing about
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. Definitely her, I've seen it myself on numerous occasions where people who are able bodied flaunt the blue badge holder card in my face , my mother is disabled and in a wheel chair and whenever I take her to hospital appointments cannot get a disabled parking spot because of certain people flaunting the rules, rules that are designed to aid the most in need of being to park as close to the hospital entrance.. Really boils my blood when you see able bodied people get away with this "hidden" disability or not. Get a life people struggle with hidden disabilities every day just the same as your mum in a wheelchair does So don’t judge people
I have an amazing life thank you, just don't like people abusing a system that's put in place to help real people who have real disabilities, according to the OPs thread she used that privalage to do some last min shopping, she could have easily gave that place to someone more in need of it, I'm not judging her am just saying it would have been just as quick for her to park in a close by parking spot like the rest of us.
Maybe driving around trying to find a space might have meant she was taking longer to get her shopping and then longer to get home to empty her now full colostomy bag ??
You never know !! Again don’t judge what you know nothing about "I'm not judging on things I know nothing about. I watched as she passed loads of spaces 15 meters or so away from the shop , to drive into a disabled space at the door ofthe shop, to jump out her car run around said shop and jump back in her car and think fuck all about anyone but herself. You could be right she could just be having a good day from her ' disability ' but would that not be even more of a reason to not park in that spot as she would know from experience just how important those spaces are to the people that really need them. ? | |||
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"If you have been granted a blue badge then you are entitled to use the disabled spaces. There’s no scale on who is more disabled than the next person. Doesn’t matter if you are an amputee or have a stoma bag that’s the governments rules and it’s not for us to judge. " Correct | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. Definitely her, I've seen it myself on numerous occasions where people who are able bodied flaunt the blue badge holder card in my face , my mother is disabled and in a wheel chair and whenever I take her to hospital appointments cannot get a disabled parking spot because of certain people flaunting the rules, rules that are designed to aid the most in need of being to park as close to the hospital entrance.. Really boils my blood when you see able bodied people get away with this "hidden" disability or not. Get a life people struggle with hidden disabilities every day just the same as your mum in a wheelchair does So don’t judge people
I have an amazing life thank you, just don't like people abusing a system that's put in place to help real people who have real disabilities, according to the OPs thread she used that privalage to do some last min shopping, she could have easily gave that place to someone more in need of it, I'm not judging her am just saying it would have been just as quick for her to park in a close by parking spot like the rest of us.
Maybe driving around trying to find a space might have meant she was taking longer to get her shopping and then longer to get home to empty her now full colostomy bag ??
You never know !! Again don’t judge what you know nothing about
I'm not judging on things I know nothing about. I watched as she passed loads of spaces 15 meters or so away from the shop , to drive into a disabled space at the door ofthe shop, to jump out her car run around said shop and jump back in her car and think fuck all about anyone but herself.
You could be right she could just be having a good day from her ' disability ' but would that not be even more of a reason to not park in that spot as she would know from experience just how important those spaces are to the people that really need them. ? "I'm just curious here, was it the only disabled parking space or was there others that were free or were they all taken apart from the one she took? | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. Definitely her, I've seen it myself on numerous occasions where people who are able bodied flaunt the blue badge holder card in my face , my mother is disabled and in a wheel chair and whenever I take her to hospital appointments cannot get a disabled parking spot because of certain people flaunting the rules, rules that are designed to aid the most in need of being to park as close to the hospital entrance.. Really boils my blood when you see able bodied people get away with this "hidden" disability or not. Get a life people struggle with hidden disabilities every day just the same as your mum in a wheelchair does So don’t judge people
I have an amazing life thank you, just don't like people abusing a system that's put in place to help real people who have real disabilities, according to the OPs thread she used that privalage to do some last min shopping, she could have easily gave that place to someone more in need of it, I'm not judging her am just saying it would have been just as quick for her to park in a close by parking spot like the rest of us.
Maybe driving around trying to find a space might have meant she was taking longer to get her shopping and then longer to get home to empty her now full colostomy bag ??
You never know !! Again don’t judge what you know nothing about
I'm not judging on things I know nothing about. I watched as she passed loads of spaces 15 meters or so away from the shop , to drive into a disabled space at the door ofthe shop, to jump out her car run around said shop and jump back in her car and think fuck all about anyone but herself.
You could be right she could just be having a good day from her ' disability ' but would that not be even more of a reason to not park in that spot as she would know from experience just how important those spaces are to the people that really need them. ?
I'm just curious here, was it the only disabled parking space or was there others that were free or were they all taken apart from the one she took?"IF she didn't need a disabled space, it makes no difference how many were free. They are not for the use of able-bodied drivers. Read the signs at disabled bays. There are no exceptions. | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. You. So your opinion is I'm more in the wrong by confronting a clearly young fit girl using a disabled bay parking space than the clearly young fit girl who could have left the disabled space for someone much more in need of that space. No worries , appreciate your honesty.
Actually, until you have a stoma you are not in a position to judge someone else who does
Wearing a colostomy bag didn't stop her from running around a shop like she was a contestant on Supermarket Sweep did it?
How do you know how she felt while running about getting her shopping? Running about as someone is standing there judging her for holding a blue badge, so much for be kind these days yous know nothing about this girl and her disability
I have a female friend who has been wearing a colostomy bag for over 10 years and not once has she applied fir the blue badge as in her words " they are for people who's disabilities stops them from doing everyday tasks such as shopping or getting around unaided, this lady obv doesn't fit onto that bracket imo.
Everyone is different just because your friend doesnt need a badge doesnt mean this girl doesn't So what about my mother who can't use the disability parking bays because someone who can walk or run is using it? Should she stay at home then and not go to appointments 6 times a week for dialysis?
No, of course she shouldn't.
There should be more disabled spaces.
There should also be more signage to effectively shame folk not into using them if they shouldn't be."Did said person have a blue badge ? If yes and it’s hers then she will have been assessed by local authority to get the blue badge . If she wasn’t displaying it then she’s in the wrong . If it wasn’t her badge she’s in the wrong . Better signage of why disability spaces are there doesn’t help I’m sure most have seen folk in their four wheeled pride and joy park in supermarket disabled bays so they have less distance to walk in and less chance of their precious toy getting a scratch . First thing is if not displaying badge but it’s in glove box a stern warning from a traffic warden . Next no blue badge , one of those really hard to remove stickers stuck to their side windows both sides . If not moved in half an hour vehicle towed with a nice charge per day to release . Folk are to quick to judge to quick to take advantage of short cuts . Me first and deck everyone else . Never a warden when you’d like to see one for such cases . Drive various people with different disabilities to various hospital , doctors or shopping trip there’s always at least one a’hole parked not displaying a valid badge . 
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"If you have been granted a blue badge then you are entitled to use the disabled spaces. There’s no scale on who is more disabled than the next person. Doesn’t matter if you are an amputee or have a stoma bag that’s the governments rules and it’s not for us to judge. Correct Yes quite right. Can yo imagine if you had a daughter with a Colostomy bag and some strange bloke had a go at her about where she was parking. I wonder if OP would have been so bold if it was a big bloke that parked there. " Damn right , called out a few twats for parking in disabled spaces without a blue badge , guys are worse than women . To your other point, if either of my daughters had a colostomy bag and fit enough to run into shops they would have enough respect for others that they wouldn't feel the need to use a disabled space in the first place. | |||
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"If you have been granted a blue badge then you are entitled to use the disabled spaces. There’s no scale on who is more disabled than the next person. Doesn’t matter if you are an amputee or have a stoma bag that’s the governments rules and it’s not for us to judge. Correct Yes quite right. Can yo imagine if you had a daughter with a Colostomy bag and some strange bloke had a go at her about where she was parking. I wonder if OP would have been so bold if it was a big bloke that parked there. Damn right , called out a few twats for parking in disabled spaces without a blue badge , guys are worse than women . To your other point, if either of my daughters had a colostomy bag and fit enough to run into shops they would have enough respect for others that they wouldn't feel the need to use a disabled space in the first place. " I'm not sure. Vulnerable women seem to get your wrath (rightly or wrongly). Your daughters sound like angels, God bless them. | |||
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"If you have been granted a blue badge then you are entitled to use the disabled spaces. There’s no scale on who is more disabled than the next person. Doesn’t matter if you are an amputee or have a stoma bag that’s the governments rules and it’s not for us to judge. Correct Yes quite right. Can yo imagine if you had a daughter with a Colostomy bag and some strange bloke had a go at her about where she was parking. I wonder if OP would have been so bold if it was a big bloke that parked there. Damn right , called out a few twats for parking in disabled spaces without a blue badge , guys are worse than women . To your other point, if either of my daughters had a colostomy bag and fit enough to run into shops they would have enough respect for others that they wouldn't feel the need to use a disabled space in the first place. I'm not sure. Vulnerable women seem to get your wrath (rightly or wrongly). Your daughters sound like angels, God bless them. " Vulnerable women, where did you dig that nonsense up from ? Oh wait your simply trying to manipulate the situation to strengthen your point that you don't agree with my actions. OK. You know people see through bullshit don't you. Are you judging this woman as Vulnerable because she has a disability? Then using sarcasm to try and make a point about my daughters lol. We see through that too. No there not angels but they would know the difference between someone genuinely in need of a disabled space and someone taking the piss out of a very special system. | |||
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"If you have been granted a blue badge then you are entitled to use the disabled spaces. There’s no scale on who is more disabled than the next person. Doesn’t matter if you are an amputee or have a stoma bag that’s the governments rules and it’s not for us to judge. Correct Yes quite right. Can yo imagine if you had a daughter with a Colostomy bag and some strange bloke had a go at her about where she was parking. I wonder if OP would have been so bold if it was a big bloke that parked there. Damn right , called out a few twats for parking in disabled spaces without a blue badge , guys are worse than women . To your other point, if either of my daughters had a colostomy bag and fit enough to run into shops they would have enough respect for others that they wouldn't feel the need to use a disabled space in the first place. I'm not sure. Vulnerable women seem to get your wrath (rightly or wrongly). Your daughters sound like angels, God bless them. Vulnerable women, where did you dig that nonsense up from ? Oh wait your simply trying to manipulate the situation to strengthen your point that you don't agree with my actions. OK. You know people see through bullshit don't you. Are you judging this woman as Vulnerable because she has a disability? Then using sarcasm to try and make a point about my daughters lol. We see through that too. No there not angels but they would know the difference between someone genuinely in need of a disabled space and someone taking the piss out of a very special system. "Of course I judge a disabled woman as vulnerable, doesn't everyone? Same as woman on her own outside a sex club. You seem to have a type you pick on. You seem to use foul language as well when you get a little defensive. Maybe you should find some sort of macho forum to start threads on where there are lots of me that pick on vulnerable girls. | |||
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"If you have been granted a blue badge then you are entitled to use the disabled spaces. There’s no scale on who is more disabled than the next person. Doesn’t matter if you are an amputee or have a stoma bag that’s the governments rules and it’s not for us to judge. Correct Yes quite right. Can yo imagine if you had a daughter with a Colostomy bag and some strange bloke had a go at her about where she was parking. I wonder if OP would have been so bold if it was a big bloke that parked there. Damn right , called out a few twats for parking in disabled spaces without a blue badge , guys are worse than women . To your other point, if either of my daughters had a colostomy bag and fit enough to run into shops they would have enough respect for others that they wouldn't feel the need to use a disabled space in the first place. I'm not sure. Vulnerable women seem to get your wrath (rightly or wrongly). Your daughters sound like angels, God bless them. Vulnerable women, where did you dig that nonsense up from ? Oh wait your simply trying to manipulate the situation to strengthen your point that you don't agree with my actions. OK. You know people see through bullshit don't you. Are you judging this woman as Vulnerable because she has a disability? Then using sarcasm to try and make a point about my daughters lol. We see through that too. No there not angels but they would know the difference between someone genuinely in need of a disabled space and someone taking the piss out of a very special system. "Like I said a blue badge entitles you to the exact same treatment as someone else with a blue badge. It’s not upto you to decide who is more of a priority | |||
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"If you have been granted a blue badge then you are entitled to use the disabled spaces. There’s no scale on who is more disabled than the next person. Doesn’t matter if you are an amputee or have a stoma bag that’s the governments rules and it’s not for us to judge. Correct Yes quite right. Can yo imagine if you had a daughter with a Colostomy bag and some strange bloke had a go at her about where she was parking. I wonder if OP would have been so bold if it was a big bloke that parked there. Damn right , called out a few twats for parking in disabled spaces without a blue badge , guys are worse than women . To your other point, if either of my daughters had a colostomy bag and fit enough to run into shops they would have enough respect for others that they wouldn't feel the need to use a disabled space in the first place. I'm not sure. Vulnerable women seem to get your wrath (rightly or wrongly). Your daughters sound like angels, God bless them. Vulnerable women, where did you dig that nonsense up from ? Oh wait your simply trying to manipulate the situation to strengthen your point that you don't agree with my actions. OK. You know people see through bullshit don't you. Are you judging this woman as Vulnerable because she has a disability? Then using sarcasm to try and make a point about my daughters lol. We see through that too. No there not angels but they would know the difference between someone genuinely in need of a disabled space and someone taking the piss out of a very special system.
Of course I judge a disabled woman as vulnerable, doesn't everyone? Same as woman on her own outside a sex club. You seem to have a type you pick on. You seem to use foul language as well when you get a little defensive. Maybe you should find some sort of macho forum to start threads on where there are lots of me that pick on vulnerable girls. "You mean men like you that call a woman a whore lmfao. Your calling me out on a different thread yet your last post on "tonight" thread your calling a woman a whore. You can't make this stuff up at times on here .lmao Anyone interested it's this chaps last post on the tonight thread. | |||
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"If you have been granted a blue badge then you are entitled to use the disabled spaces. There’s no scale on who is more disabled than the next person. Doesn’t matter if you are an amputee or have a stoma bag that’s the governments rules and it’s not for us to judge. Correct Yes quite right. Can yo imagine if you had a daughter with a Colostomy bag and some strange bloke had a go at her about where she was parking. I wonder if OP would have been so bold if it was a big bloke that parked there. Damn right , called out a few twats for parking in disabled spaces without a blue badge , guys are worse than women . To your other point, if either of my daughters had a colostomy bag and fit enough to run into shops they would have enough respect for others that they wouldn't feel the need to use a disabled space in the first place. I'm not sure. Vulnerable women seem to get your wrath (rightly or wrongly). Your daughters sound like angels, God bless them. Vulnerable women, where did you dig that nonsense up from ? Oh wait your simply trying to manipulate the situation to strengthen your point that you don't agree with my actions. OK. You know people see through bullshit don't you. Are you judging this woman as Vulnerable because she has a disability? Then using sarcasm to try and make a point about my daughters lol. We see through that too. No there not angels but they would know the difference between someone genuinely in need of a disabled space and someone taking the piss out of a very special system.
Of course I judge a disabled woman as vulnerable, doesn't everyone? Same as woman on her own outside a sex club. You seem to have a type you pick on. You seem to use foul language as well when you get a little defensive. Maybe you should find some sort of macho forum to start threads on where there are lots of me that pick on vulnerable girls. You mean men like you that call a woman a whore lmfao.
Your calling me out on a different thread yet your last post on "tonight" thread your calling a woman a whore. You can't make this stuff up at times on here .lmao
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"If you have been granted a blue badge then you are entitled to use the disabled spaces. There’s no scale on who is more disabled than the next person. Doesn’t matter if you are an amputee or have a stoma bag that’s the governments rules and it’s not for us to judge. Correct Yes quite right. Can yo imagine if you had a daughter with a Colostomy bag and some strange bloke had a go at her about where she was parking. I wonder if OP would have been so bold if it was a big bloke that parked there. Damn right , called out a few twats for parking in disabled spaces without a blue badge , guys are worse than women . To your other point, if either of my daughters had a colostomy bag and fit enough to run into shops they would have enough respect for others that they wouldn't feel the need to use a disabled space in the first place. I'm not sure. Vulnerable women seem to get your wrath (rightly or wrongly). Your daughters sound like angels, God bless them. Vulnerable women, where did you dig that nonsense up from ? Oh wait your simply trying to manipulate the situation to strengthen your point that you don't agree with my actions. OK. You know people see through bullshit don't you. Are you judging this woman as Vulnerable because she has a disability? Then using sarcasm to try and make a point about my daughters lol. We see through that too. No there not angels but they would know the difference between someone genuinely in need of a disabled space and someone taking the piss out of a very special system.
Of course I judge a disabled woman as vulnerable, doesn't everyone? Same as woman on her own outside a sex club. You seem to have a type you pick on. You seem to use foul language as well when you get a little defensive. Maybe you should find some sort of macho forum to start threads on where there are lots of me that pick on vulnerable girls. You mean men like you that call a woman a whore lmfao.
Your calling me out on a different thread yet your last post on "tonight" thread your calling a woman a whore. You can't make this stuff up at times on here .lmao
Anyone interested it's this chaps last post on the tonight thread.
I thought he made that comment ironically tbh or maybe I misunderstood the post?"The exclamation marks tell it differently MM 
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"If you have been granted a blue badge then you are entitled to use the disabled spaces. There’s no scale on who is more disabled than the next person. Doesn’t matter if you are an amputee or have a stoma bag that’s the governments rules and it’s not for us to judge. Correct Yes quite right. Can yo imagine if you had a daughter with a Colostomy bag and some strange bloke had a go at her about where she was parking. I wonder if OP would have been so bold if it was a big bloke that parked there. Damn right , called out a few twats for parking in disabled spaces without a blue badge , guys are worse than women . To your other point, if either of my daughters had a colostomy bag and fit enough to run into shops they would have enough respect for others that they wouldn't feel the need to use a disabled space in the first place. I'm not sure. Vulnerable women seem to get your wrath (rightly or wrongly). Your daughters sound like angels, God bless them. Vulnerable women, where did you dig that nonsense up from ? Oh wait your simply trying to manipulate the situation to strengthen your point that you don't agree with my actions. OK. You know people see through bullshit don't you. Are you judging this woman as Vulnerable because she has a disability? Then using sarcasm to try and make a point about my daughters lol. We see through that too. No there not angels but they would know the difference between someone genuinely in need of a disabled space and someone taking the piss out of a very special system.
Of course I judge a disabled woman as vulnerable, doesn't everyone? Same as woman on her own outside a sex club. You seem to have a type you pick on. You seem to use foul language as well when you get a little defensive. Maybe you should find some sort of macho forum to start threads on where there are lots of me that pick on vulnerable girls. You mean men like you that call a woman a whore lmfao.
Your calling me out on a different thread yet your last post on "tonight" thread your calling a woman a whore. You can't make this stuff up at times on here .lmao
Anyone interested it's this chaps last post on the tonight thread.
I thought he made that comment ironically tbh or maybe I misunderstood the post?
The exclamation marks tell it differently MM
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"If you have been granted a blue badge then you are entitled to use the disabled spaces. There’s no scale on who is more disabled than the next person. Doesn’t matter if you are an amputee or have a stoma bag that’s the governments rules and it’s not for us to judge. Correct Yes quite right. Can yo imagine if you had a daughter with a Colostomy bag and some strange bloke had a go at her about where she was parking. I wonder if OP would have been so bold if it was a big bloke that parked there. Damn right , called out a few twats for parking in disabled spaces without a blue badge , guys are worse than women . To your other point, if either of my daughters had a colostomy bag and fit enough to run into shops they would have enough respect for others that they wouldn't feel the need to use a disabled space in the first place. I'm not sure. Vulnerable women seem to get your wrath (rightly or wrongly). Your daughters sound like angels, God bless them. Vulnerable women, where did you dig that nonsense up from ? Oh wait your simply trying to manipulate the situation to strengthen your point that you don't agree with my actions. OK. You know people see through bullshit don't you. Are you judging this woman as Vulnerable because she has a disability? Then using sarcasm to try and make a point about my daughters lol. We see through that too. No there not angels but they would know the difference between someone genuinely in need of a disabled space and someone taking the piss out of a very special system.
Of course I judge a disabled woman as vulnerable, doesn't everyone? Same as woman on her own outside a sex club. You seem to have a type you pick on. You seem to use foul language as well when you get a little defensive. Maybe you should find some sort of macho forum to start threads on where there are lots of me that pick on vulnerable girls. You mean men like you that call a woman a whore lmfao.
Your calling me out on a different thread yet your last post on "tonight" thread your calling a woman a whore. You can't make this stuff up at times on here .lmao
Anyone interested it's this chaps last post on the tonight thread.
I thought he made that comment ironically tbh or maybe I misunderstood the post?
The exclamation marks tell it differently MM
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"Well this has been an interesting read. As someone who had a colostomy bag for 10 years, I can tell you some days were better than others. Now I studied sports coaching and conditioning;apart from the stoma and surgery related issues, was very fit and able. Sadly that wasn't always the case and pain and discomfort could come on without warning. I was always and still am reluctant to classify myself as disabled cause apart from my intestinal surgeries and issues, I am healthy but I would never hold it against anyone else in the exact situation who did. I'm stubborn and power through; go to work in pain when I can't stand up straight and haven't slept cause I know it will pass, trying to play sports with really low red blood count and not being able to stand after 5 minutes ect, hooking up too soon after my last surgery when I was told I shouldn't lift anything heavier tha a kettle and then being in real pain and limited for days afterwards. I understand where the OP is coming from; there are unfortunately alot of people who take advantage and abuse assessable facilities, but confronting someone for not being disabled enough in your eyes puts you in the wrong. What you did wasn't standing up for disabled peoples rights, all you did was make someone elses day harder. " | |||
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"Well this has been an interesting read. As someone who had a colostomy bag for 10 years, I can tell you some days were better than others. Now I studied sports coaching and conditioning;apart from the stoma and surgery related issues, was very fit and able. Sadly that wasn't always the case and pain and discomfort could come on without warning. I was always and still am reluctant to classify myself as disabled cause apart from my intestinal surgeries and issues, I am healthy but I would never hold it against anyone else in the exact situation who did. I'm stubborn and power through; go to work in pain when I can't stand up straight and haven't slept cause I know it will pass, trying to play sports with really low red blood count and not being able to stand after 5 minutes ect, hooking up too soon after my last surgery when I was told I shouldn't lift anything heavier tha a kettle and then being in real pain and limited for days afterwards. I understand where the OP is coming from; there are unfortunately alot of people who take advantage and abuse assessable facilities, but confronting someone for not being disabled enough in your eyes puts you in the wrong. What you did wasn't standing up for disabled peoples rights, all you did was make someone elses day harder. " You start off by saying "I understand where the OP is coming from; there are unfortunately alot of people who take advantage and abuse assessable facilities", but confronting someone for not being disabled enough in your eyes puts you in the wrong. I'm sorry but it doesn't put him in the wrong, you just admitted it yourself by saying people abuse their blue badge privalages, she wasn't struggling to get out of her car or struggling to do her shopping, she was running around like a blue arsed fly. Just because someone can legally use their blue badge doesn't morally mean they have to use it when they are able bodied and fit enough to do so. Disabled Parking bays are designed to be directly outside of store entrances for a reason, she could have easily have parked 10 mtrs away and left the spot for someone who really needs it. | |||
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"Well this has been an interesting read. As someone who had a colostomy bag for 10 years, I can tell you some days were better than others. Now I studied sports coaching and conditioning;apart from the stoma and surgery related issues, was very fit and able. Sadly that wasn't always the case and pain and discomfort could come on without warning. I was always and still am reluctant to classify myself as disabled cause apart from my intestinal surgeries and issues, I am healthy but I would never hold it against anyone else in the exact situation who did. I'm stubborn and power through; go to work in pain when I can't stand up straight and haven't slept cause I know it will pass, trying to play sports with really low red blood count and not being able to stand after 5 minutes ect, hooking up too soon after my last surgery when I was told I shouldn't lift anything heavier tha a kettle and then being in real pain and limited for days afterwards. I understand where the OP is coming from; there are unfortunately alot of people who take advantage and abuse assessable facilities, but confronting someone for not being disabled enough in your eyes puts you in the wrong. What you did wasn't standing up for disabled peoples rights, all you did was make someone elses day harder. You start off by saying "I understand where the OP is coming from; there are unfortunately alot of people who take advantage and abuse assessable facilities", but confronting someone for not being disabled enough in your eyes puts you in the wrong. I'm sorry but it doesn't put him in the wrong, you just admitted it yourself by saying people abuse their blue badge privalages, she wasn't struggling to get out of her car or struggling to do her shopping, she was running around like a blue arsed fly. Just because someone can legally use their blue badge doesn't morally mean they have to use it when they are able bodied and fit enough to do so. Disabled Parking bays are designed to be directly outside of store entrances for a reason, she could have easily have parked 10 mtrs away and left the spot for someone who really needs it. " How do u know though she wasnt struggling? You dont know how people feel, the woman used the space in the manner she is allowed to, get over it | |||
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"Well this has been an interesting read. As someone who had a colostomy bag for 10 years, I can tell you some days were better than others. Now I studied sports coaching and conditioning;apart from the stoma and surgery related issues, was very fit and able. Sadly that wasn't always the case and pain and discomfort could come on without warning. I was always and still am reluctant to classify myself as disabled cause apart from my intestinal surgeries and issues, I am healthy but I would never hold it against anyone else in the exact situation who did. I'm stubborn and power through; go to work in pain when I can't stand up straight and haven't slept cause I know it will pass, trying to play sports with really low red blood count and not being able to stand after 5 minutes ect, hooking up too soon after my last surgery when I was told I shouldn't lift anything heavier tha a kettle and then being in real pain and limited for days afterwards. I understand where the OP is coming from; there are unfortunately alot of people who take advantage and abuse assessable facilities, but confronting someone for not being disabled enough in your eyes puts you in the wrong. What you did wasn't standing up for disabled peoples rights, all you did was make someone elses day harder. You start off by saying "I understand where the OP is coming from; there are unfortunately alot of people who take advantage and abuse assessable facilities", but confronting someone for not being disabled enough in your eyes puts you in the wrong. I'm sorry but it doesn't put him in the wrong, you just admitted it yourself by saying people abuse their blue badge privalages, she wasn't struggling to get out of her car or struggling to do her shopping, she was running around like a blue arsed fly. Just because someone can legally use their blue badge doesn't morally mean they have to use it when they are able bodied and fit enough to do so. Disabled Parking bays are designed to be directly outside of store entrances for a reason, she could have easily have parked 10 mtrs away and left the spot for someone who really needs it. How do u know though she wasnt struggling? You dont know how people feel, the woman used the space in the manner she is allowed to, get over it" Because I read what the OP said, did you? it doesn't sound like she was struggling if she can run around a shop , doesn't sound disabled to me. | |||
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"Well this has been an interesting read. As someone who had a colostomy bag for 10 years, I can tell you some days were better than others. Now I studied sports coaching and conditioning;apart from the stoma and surgery related issues, was very fit and able. Sadly that wasn't always the case and pain and discomfort could come on without warning. I was always and still am reluctant to classify myself as disabled cause apart from my intestinal surgeries and issues, I am healthy but I would never hold it against anyone else in the exact situation who did. I'm stubborn and power through; go to work in pain when I can't stand up straight and haven't slept cause I know it will pass, trying to play sports with really low red blood count and not being able to stand after 5 minutes ect, hooking up too soon after my last surgery when I was told I shouldn't lift anything heavier tha a kettle and then being in real pain and limited for days afterwards. I understand where the OP is coming from; there are unfortunately alot of people who take advantage and abuse assessable facilities, but confronting someone for not being disabled enough in your eyes puts you in the wrong. What you did wasn't standing up for disabled peoples rights, all you did was make someone elses day harder. " Given you are someone who has real life experience of this, I'll take your opinion on this before anyone else's on the thread. | |||
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" Because I read what the OP said, did you? it doesn't sound like she was struggling if she can run around a shop , doesn't sound disabled to me." You do know disability encompasses more than having the use of your legs surely? | |||
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"Well this has been an interesting read. As someone who had a colostomy bag for 10 years, I can tell you some days were better than others. Now I studied sports coaching and conditioning;apart from the stoma and surgery related issues, was very fit and able. Sadly that wasn't always the case and pain and discomfort could come on without warning. I was always and still am reluctant to classify myself as disabled cause apart from my intestinal surgeries and issues, I am healthy but I would never hold it against anyone else in the exact situation who did. I'm stubborn and power through; go to work in pain when I can't stand up straight and haven't slept cause I know it will pass, trying to play sports with really low red blood count and not being able to stand after 5 minutes ect, hooking up too soon after my last surgery when I was told I shouldn't lift anything heavier tha a kettle and then being in real pain and limited for days afterwards. I understand where the OP is coming from; there are unfortunately alot of people who take advantage and abuse assessable facilities, but confronting someone for not being disabled enough in your eyes puts you in the wrong. What you did wasn't standing up for disabled peoples rights, all you did was make someone elses day harder. You start off by saying "I understand where the OP is coming from; there are unfortunately alot of people who take advantage and abuse assessable facilities", but confronting someone for not being disabled enough in your eyes puts you in the wrong. I'm sorry but it doesn't put him in the wrong, you just admitted it yourself by saying people abuse their blue badge privalages, she wasn't struggling to get out of her car or struggling to do her shopping, she was running around like a blue arsed fly. Just because someone can legally use their blue badge doesn't morally mean they have to use it when they are able bodied and fit enough to do so. Disabled Parking bays are designed to be directly outside of store entrances for a reason, she could have easily have parked 10 mtrs away and left the spot for someone who really needs it. How do u know though she wasnt struggling? You dont know how people feel, the woman used the space in the manner she is allowed to, get over it Because I read what the OP said, did you? it doesn't sound like she was struggling if she can run around a shop , doesn't sound disabled to me." I did yes and like him as well how did he know? Shoe couldve been rushing around because she was in pain and needed to get home or the fact a grown man has questioned her disability and was upset so rushed round to get home.. like a said you dont know so quit judging | |||
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"Well this has been an interesting read. As someone who had a colostomy bag for 10 years, I can tell you some days were better than others. Now I studied sports coaching and conditioning;apart from the stoma and surgery related issues, was very fit and able. Sadly that wasn't always the case and pain and discomfort could come on without warning. I was always and still am reluctant to classify myself as disabled cause apart from my intestinal surgeries and issues, I am healthy but I would never hold it against anyone else in the exact situation who did. I'm stubborn and power through; go to work in pain when I can't stand up straight and haven't slept cause I know it will pass, trying to play sports with really low red blood count and not being able to stand after 5 minutes ect, hooking up too soon after my last surgery when I was told I shouldn't lift anything heavier tha a kettle and then being in real pain and limited for days afterwards. I understand where the OP is coming from; there are unfortunately alot of people who take advantage and abuse assessable facilities, but confronting someone for not being disabled enough in your eyes puts you in the wrong. What you did wasn't standing up for disabled peoples rights, all you did was make someone elses day harder. You start off by saying "I understand where the OP is coming from; there are unfortunately alot of people who take advantage and abuse assessable facilities", but confronting someone for not being disabled enough in your eyes puts you in the wrong. I'm sorry but it doesn't put him in the wrong, you just admitted it yourself by saying people abuse their blue badge privalages, she wasn't struggling to get out of her car or struggling to do her shopping, she was running around like a blue arsed fly. Just because someone can legally use their blue badge doesn't morally mean they have to use it when they are able bodied and fit enough to do so. Disabled Parking bays are designed to be directly outside of store entrances for a reason, she could have easily have parked 10 mtrs away and left the spot for someone who really needs it. " I was referring to people who don't have blue badge and aren't limited/disabled using the facilities; should of made that clear | |||
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"Well this has been an interesting read. As someone who had a colostomy bag for 10 years, I can tell you some days were better than others. Now I studied sports coaching and conditioning;apart from the stoma and surgery related issues, was very fit and able. Sadly that wasn't always the case and pain and discomfort could come on without warning. I was always and still am reluctant to classify myself as disabled cause apart from my intestinal surgeries and issues, I am healthy but I would never hold it against anyone else in the exact situation who did. I'm stubborn and power through; go to work in pain when I can't stand up straight and haven't slept cause I know it will pass, trying to play sports with really low red blood count and not being able to stand after 5 minutes ect, hooking up too soon after my last surgery when I was told I shouldn't lift anything heavier tha a kettle and then being in real pain and limited for days afterwards. I understand where the OP is coming from; there are unfortunately alot of people who take advantage and abuse assessable facilities, but confronting someone for not being disabled enough in your eyes puts you in the wrong. What you did wasn't standing up for disabled peoples rights, all you did was make someone elses day harder. " Totally agree and well said. | |||
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"Guys listen, I'm not going to say this to justify my actions, I put the question out there for opinions on what I did. I wasn't sure after saying to her that she didn't need to park there as she was clearly fit enough to walk or run the 15 meters from the normal spaces , again I genuinely and I can say hand on heart I never even looked for a blue badge as this lady was dressed like she was going to or coming from a gym but even if she had a badge id probably have acted the same way if im honest, she moved like she could take on an Olympic athlete and win and had a gob on her like she'd played the poor me card many times before. I can absolutely be sure this person was not in any pain or discomfort in any way at all on this day. I will concede that the general consensus is I'm in the wrong which is why I asked the question in the first place but other than 1 or 2 other posters everyone seems to think it was OK for this young lady to deprive a more needy person to use this space on that day. Even after all the above comments I still think this lady was bang out of order on this occasion. Because someone has the right to do something does not always make it right to do it. There was 2 spaces outside this store , she used half of them. I'm also very sure I never ruined the rest of her day either, she had the fuck you , I'll do what I want attitude about her. " Glad we cleared that up.... What's on the agenda today then? Hanging about the self-service check out incase someone takes 2 bags for life but only scans 1? | |||
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"Well this has been an interesting read. As someone who had a colostomy bag for 10 years, I can tell you some days were better than others. Now I studied sports coaching and conditioning;apart from the stoma and surgery related issues, was very fit and able. Sadly that wasn't always the case and pain and discomfort could come on without warning. I was always and still am reluctant to classify myself as disabled cause apart from my intestinal surgeries and issues, I am healthy but I would never hold it against anyone else in the exact situation who did. I'm stubborn and power through; go to work in pain when I can't stand up straight and haven't slept cause I know it will pass, trying to play sports with really low red blood count and not being able to stand after 5 minutes ect, hooking up too soon after my last surgery when I was told I shouldn't lift anything heavier tha a kettle and then being in real pain and limited for days afterwards. I understand where the OP is coming from; there are unfortunately alot of people who take advantage and abuse assessable facilities, but confronting someone for not being disabled enough in your eyes puts you in the wrong. What you did wasn't standing up for disabled peoples rights, all you did was make someone elses day harder. " Appreciate you taking the time to tell your story bud, and appreciate you telling us your thoughts and struggles. Can I ask you on a day like this girl was clearly having, would you have used a disabled space if you were a permit holder to use that space. ? | |||
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"Guys listen, I'm not going to say this to justify my actions, I put the question out there for opinions on what I did. I wasn't sure after saying to her that she didn't need to park there as she was clearly fit enough to walk or run the 15 meters from the normal spaces , again I genuinely and I can say hand on heart I never even looked for a blue badge as this lady was dressed like she was going to or coming from a gym but even if she had a badge id probably have acted the same way if im honest, she moved like she could take on an Olympic athlete and win and had a gob on her like she'd played the poor me card many times before. I can absolutely be sure this person was not in any pain or discomfort in any way at all on this day. I will concede that the general consensus is I'm in the wrong which is why I asked the question in the first place but other than 1 or 2 other posters everyone seems to think it was OK for this young lady to deprive a more needy person to use this space on that day. Even after all the above comments I still think this lady was bang out of order on this occasion. Because someone has the right to do something does not always make it right to do it. There was 2 spaces outside this store , she used half of them. I'm also very sure I never ruined the rest of her day either, she had the fuck you , I'll do what I want attitude about her. Glad we cleared that up.... What's on the agenda today then? Hanging about the self-service check out incase someone takes 2 bags for life but only scans 1? "Are you telling me that's a thing nowadays? Might have a spare couple of hours later , you got any good hotshots for me to stake out. Only interested if its frequented by disabled easy target only, women and children front and centre. | |||
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" Because I read what the OP said, did you? it doesn't sound like she was struggling if she can run around a shop , doesn't sound disabled to me. You do know disability encompasses more than having the use of your legs surely?" Don't preach to me about what disabilities are, I've been dealing with it all my entire life. | |||
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"The woman may have the Stoma because she has IBD or cancer both of which are very debilitating and could sap her energy at any given time. She may have looked fit and healthy but looks, as we all know, can be deceiving. " Or she could be 100% fit and healthy and uses her mothers/fathers blue badge without their knowledge as a way of being closer to main entrances of shops etc, don't tell me that doesn't happen? | |||
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"Guys listen, I'm not going to say this to justify my actions, I put the question out there for opinions on what I did. I wasn't sure after saying to her that she didn't need to park there as she was clearly fit enough to walk or run the 15 meters from the normal spaces , again I genuinely and I can say hand on heart I never even looked for a blue badge as this lady was dressed like she was going to or coming from a gym but even if she had a badge id probably have acted the same way if im honest, she moved like she could take on an Olympic athlete and win and had a gob on her like she'd played the poor me card many times before. I can absolutely be sure this person was not in any pain or discomfort in any way at all on this day. I will concede that the general consensus is I'm in the wrong which is why I asked the question in the first place but other than 1 or 2 other posters everyone seems to think it was OK for this young lady to deprive a more needy person to use this space on that day. Even after all the above comments I still think this lady was bang out of order on this occasion. Because someone has the right to do something does not always make it right to do it. There was 2 spaces outside this store , she used half of them. I'm also very sure I never ruined the rest of her day either, she had the fuck you , I'll do what I want attitude about her. Glad we cleared that up.... What's on the agenda today then? Hanging about the self-service check out incase someone takes 2 bags for life but only scans 1?
Are you telling me that's a thing nowadays? Might have a spare couple of hours later , you got any good hotshots for me to stake out. Only interested if its frequented by disabled easy target only, women and children front and centre. "Yep. I do it all the time! | |||
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"Guys listen, I'm not going to say this to justify my actions, I put the question out there for opinions on what I did. I wasn't sure after saying to her that she didn't need to park there as she was clearly fit enough to walk or run the 15 meters from the normal spaces , again I genuinely and I can say hand on heart I never even looked for a blue badge as this lady was dressed like she was going to or coming from a gym but even if she had a badge id probably have acted the same way if im honest, she moved like she could take on an Olympic athlete and win and had a gob on her like she'd played the poor me card many times before. I can absolutely be sure this person was not in any pain or discomfort in any way at all on this day. I will concede that the general consensus is I'm in the wrong which is why I asked the question in the first place but other than 1 or 2 other posters everyone seems to think it was OK for this young lady to deprive a more needy person to use this space on that day. Even after all the above comments I still think this lady was bang out of order on this occasion. Because someone has the right to do something does not always make it right to do it. There was 2 spaces outside this store , she used half of them. I'm also very sure I never ruined the rest of her day either, she had the fuck you , I'll do what I want attitude about her. " Just for the record Zest I "stole" your thread and changed a few details and asked the same question in my Facebook account, not 1 person disagrees with your opinion, infact some even go as far in saying you should have reported it to to DWP to find out if she's the rightful owner of the blue badge. Seems the ppl of fab disagree though and that's all that matters eh? | |||
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" Because I read what the OP said, did you? it doesn't sound like she was struggling if she can run around a shop , doesn't sound disabled to me. You do know disability encompasses more than having the use of your legs surely? Don't preach to me about what disabilities are, I've been dealing with it all my entire life." Righto | |||
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"Guys listen, I'm not going to say this to justify my actions, I put the question out there for opinions on what I did. I wasn't sure after saying to her that she didn't need to park there as she was clearly fit enough to walk or run the 15 meters from the normal spaces , again I genuinely and I can say hand on heart I never even looked for a blue badge as this lady was dressed like she was going to or coming from a gym but even if she had a badge id probably have acted the same way if im honest, she moved like she could take on an Olympic athlete and win and had a gob on her like she'd played the poor me card many times before. I can absolutely be sure this person was not in any pain or discomfort in any way at all on this day. I will concede that the general consensus is I'm in the wrong which is why I asked the question in the first place but other than 1 or 2 other posters everyone seems to think it was OK for this young lady to deprive a more needy person to use this space on that day. Even after all the above comments I still think this lady was bang out of order on this occasion. Because someone has the right to do something does not always make it right to do it. There was 2 spaces outside this store , she used half of them. I'm also very sure I never ruined the rest of her day either, she had the fuck you , I'll do what I want attitude about her. Just for the record Zest I "stole" your thread and changed a few details and asked the same question in my Facebook account, not 1 person disagrees with your opinion, infact some even go as far in saying you should have reported it to to DWP to find out if she's the rightful owner of the blue badge. Seems the ppl of fab disagree though and that's all that matters eh? " Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. | |||
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"Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. " My daughter had her ileostomy because during her double heart bypass surgery her bowel nearly perforated it was so damaged . If that happened it would've killed her instantly . Luckily she only had it for 2 years and it got reversed .. Well said | |||
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"I think you were wrong to confront her without first checking if she had a blue badge. As others have said, you don't know her or anything about her and whilst it's not 100% foolproof the blue badges are issued after assessment of need so if a professional says she needs one then she does. I have a blue badge, I might not look disabled. I'd be absolutely mortified if I was using it and someone confronted me about it. You say she was gobby and I think she's lucky. If you'd spoken to me I'd have been upset and you'd have ruined my day over something that's none of your business. " Can I ask a personal question, are you fit enough to literally run into shops, grab a few things and run back out to your car ? if you say yes on a good day then I'd ask you if you'd do it from a disabled parking bay. If not then the chances of you being confronted in the first place are probably zero anyway.  | |||
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"Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. My daughter had her ileostomy because during her double heart bypass surgery her bowel nearly perforated it was so damaged . If that happened it would've killed her instantly . Luckily she only had it for 2 years and it got reversed .. Well said "Glad she recovered OK.
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"As a mother of a daughter who had an ileostomy if it bursts its so acidic it can burn the skin and break it down in a minute and sometimes u need to change it where you can what if theres no toilet close by .." So can we presume that's not the case here then as I'm sure the scenario you describe is more important than running around B & M grabbing some shopping. | |||
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"Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. My daughter had her ileostomy because during her double heart bypass surgery her bowel nearly perforated it was so damaged . If that happened it would've killed her instantly . Luckily she only had it for 2 years and it got reversed .. Well said
Glad she recovered OK.
Can I ask during that period was she able to jump in and out cars and run around. ?"One of my kids had a colostomy bag for a few years. Every day was different, one minute they had energy and next totally exhausted. Their bag leaked on a few occasions when they were out and about, this was extremely embarrassing for them. Maybe her car is a safe place for her if this happened. | |||
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"Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. My daughter had her ileostomy because during her double heart bypass surgery her bowel nearly perforated it was so damaged . If that happened it would've killed her instantly . Luckily she only had it for 2 years and it got reversed .. Well said
Glad she recovered OK.
Can I ask during that period was she able to jump in and out cars and run around. ?"Well hardly she was 3 and a half months old when it happened .. and was buggy bound till way after 2 years old .. but if she rolled over on to her stomach it burst .. and farting burst it as its where the farts go .. if she had a break oot on her skin it would blister .. she was only a baby so not taken into consideration how embarrassing it is for an adult when it bursts and goes over their clothes you can't exactly hide it . It's a genuine disability as any . And as said on a previous post no one know the condition that made her have no option as to have the colostomy .. far too many Karen's in this world . | |||
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"Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. My daughter had her ileostomy because during her double heart bypass surgery her bowel nearly perforated it was so damaged . If that happened it would've killed her instantly . Luckily she only had it for 2 years and it got reversed .. Well said
Glad she recovered OK.
Can I ask during that period was she able to jump in and out cars and run around. ?
One of my kids had a colostomy bag for a few years. Every day was different, one minute they had energy and next totally exhausted.
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"Interesting that you thought to watch her through the shop window but no look for a badge ." I was actually sitting in my car exactly opposite and to the rear of the disabled spaces in the almost empty main car park. I don't do shopping that's the OH's favourite pass time . I'm happy to wait outside. Hooe that clarifies why I never noticed a badge or not. As already said , badge or not this girl clearly did not need that disabled space on that day, so I'm sticking by that assumption, rightly or wrongly in my opinion. | |||
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"Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. My daughter had her ileostomy because during her double heart bypass surgery her bowel nearly perforated it was so damaged . If that happened it would've killed her instantly . Luckily she only had it for 2 years and it got reversed .. Well said
Glad she recovered OK.
Can I ask during that period was she able to jump in and out cars and run around. ?
One of my kids had a colostomy bag for a few years. Every day was different, one minute they had energy and next totally exhausted.
Their bag leaked on a few occasions when they were out and about, this was extremely embarrassing for them. Maybe her car is a safe place for her if this happened. "So why jump out and buy some shopping and then jump back in to her safe place ? | |||
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"I think you were wrong to confront her without first checking if she had a blue badge. As others have said, you don't know her or anything about her and whilst it's not 100% foolproof the blue badges are issued after assessment of need so if a professional says she needs one then she does. I have a blue badge, I might not look disabled. I'd be absolutely mortified if I was using it and someone confronted me about it. You say she was gobby and I think she's lucky. If you'd spoken to me I'd have been upset and you'd have ruined my day over something that's none of your business. Can I ask a personal question, are you fit enough to literally run into shops, grab a few things and run back out to your car ? if you say yes on a good day then I'd ask you if you'd do it from a disabled parking bay. If not then the chances of you being confronted in the first place are probably zero anyway. "I could feel fit and able, feel completely healthy and running around a shop only to be hit with debilitating pain in a split second and that all changes. Had I parked the car based on initial feelings then I'd be unable to make it back to the car. That's why I have a blue badge. That's also why I use it. I'm legally entitled to use it and I'd hope to live in a world without judgement but unfortunately that's not the case. | |||
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"Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. My daughter had her ileostomy because during her double heart bypass surgery her bowel nearly perforated it was so damaged . If that happened it would've killed her instantly . Luckily she only had it for 2 years and it got reversed .. Well said
Glad she recovered OK.
Can I ask during that period was she able to jump in and out cars and run around. ?
Well hardly she was 3 and a half months old when it happened .. and was buggy bound till way after 2 years old .. but if she rolled over on to her stomach it burst .. and farting burst it as its where the farts go .. if she had a break oot on her skin it would blister .. she was only a baby so not taken into consideration how embarrassing it is for an adult when it bursts and goes over their clothes you can't exactly hide it . It's a genuine disability as any . And as said on a previous post no one know the condition that made her have no option as to have the colostomy .. far too many Karen's in this world . "Does any of my description of this lady sound similar to your daughters harrowing circumstances. I'm not debating the condition, I'm debating the missuse of a system put in place for people that genuinely need it. 100% on this day , that girl did not need to use a disabled space. | |||
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"Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. My daughter had her ileostomy because during her double heart bypass surgery her bowel nearly perforated it was so damaged . If that happened it would've killed her instantly . Luckily she only had it for 2 years and it got reversed .. Well said
Glad she recovered OK.
Can I ask during that period was she able to jump in and out cars and run around. ?
One of my kids had a colostomy bag for a few years. Every day was different, one minute they had energy and next totally exhausted.
Their bag leaked on a few occasions when they were out and about, this was extremely embarrassing for them. Maybe her car is a safe place for her if this happened.
So why jump out and buy some shopping and then jump back in to her safe place ?"Maybe her bag was full and she needed to get home quickly to empty it. | |||
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"Guys listen, I'm not going to say this to justify my actions, I put the question out there for opinions on what I did. I wasn't sure after saying to her that she didn't need to park there as she was clearly fit enough to walk or run the 15 meters from the normal spaces , again I genuinely and I can say hand on heart I never even looked for a blue badge as this lady was dressed like she was going to or coming from a gym but even if she had a badge id probably have acted the same way if im honest, she moved like she could take on an Olympic athlete and win and had a gob on her like she'd played the poor me card many times before. I can absolutely be sure this person was not in any pain or discomfort in any way at all on this day. I will concede that the general consensus is I'm in the wrong which is why I asked the question in the first place but other than 1 or 2 other posters everyone seems to think it was OK for this young lady to deprive a more needy person to use this space on that day. Even after all the above comments I still think this lady was bang out of order on this occasion. Because someone has the right to do something does not always make it right to do it. There was 2 spaces outside this store , she used half of them. I'm also very sure I never ruined the rest of her day either, she had the fuck you , I'll do what I want attitude about her. Just for the record Zest I "stole" your thread and changed a few details and asked the same question in my Facebook account, not 1 person disagrees with your opinion, infact some even go as far in saying you should have reported it to to DWP to find out if she's the rightful owner of the blue badge. Seems the ppl of fab disagree though and that's all that matters eh? Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. " if you read up you'll see I did know a female friend of mine who had to wear a colostomy bag as she had bowel cancer, she only recently passed , not once did she want to apply for a blue badge even though she was entitled to do so stating other people more in need need it more than I do. May I also add just because someone says they have a hidden disability doesn't mean it's true. | |||
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"I think you were wrong to confront her without first checking if she had a blue badge. As others have said, you don't know her or anything about her and whilst it's not 100% foolproof the blue badges are issued after assessment of need so if a professional says she needs one then she does. I have a blue badge, I might not look disabled. I'd be absolutely mortified if I was using it and someone confronted me about it. You say she was gobby and I think she's lucky. If you'd spoken to me I'd have been upset and you'd have ruined my day over something that's none of your business. Can I ask a personal question, are you fit enough to literally run into shops, grab a few things and run back out to your car ? if you say yes on a good day then I'd ask you if you'd do it from a disabled parking bay. If not then the chances of you being confronted in the first place are probably zero anyway.
I could feel fit and able, feel completely healthy and running around a shop only to be hit with debilitating pain in a split second and that all changes. Had I parked the car based on initial feelings then I'd be unable to make it back to the car. That's why I have a blue badge. That's also why I use it. I'm legally entitled to use it and I'd hope to live in a world without judgement but unfortunately that's not the case. "Be honest please , knowing what you've just said about your condition, would you put on gym attire , trainers , literally jump out your car , 'run' around the shop and 'run' back to your car knowing that at any minute you might not make it back to your car. ? | |||
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"Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. My daughter had her ileostomy because during her double heart bypass surgery her bowel nearly perforated it was so damaged . If that happened it would've killed her instantly . Luckily she only had it for 2 years and it got reversed .. Well said
Glad she recovered OK.
Can I ask during that period was she able to jump in and out cars and run around. ?
Well hardly she was 3 and a half months old when it happened .. and was buggy bound till way after 2 years old .. but if she rolled over on to her stomach it burst .. and farting burst it as its where the farts go .. if she had a break oot on her skin it would blister .. she was only a baby so not taken into consideration how embarrassing it is for an adult when it bursts and goes over their clothes you can't exactly hide it . It's a genuine disability as any . And as said on a previous post no one know the condition that made her have no option as to have the colostomy .. far too many Karen's in this world .
Does any of my description of this lady sound similar to your daughters harrowing circumstances. I'm not debating the condition, I'm debating the missuse of a system put in place for people that genuinely need it. 100% on this day , that girl did not need to use a disabled space. "My daughter doesn't look disabled but she is .. in your opinion it's a misuse of that lassie . | |||
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"I think you were wrong to confront her without first checking if she had a blue badge. As others have said, you don't know her or anything about her and whilst it's not 100% foolproof the blue badges are issued after assessment of need so if a professional says she needs one then she does. I have a blue badge, I might not look disabled. I'd be absolutely mortified if I was using it and someone confronted me about it. You say she was gobby and I think she's lucky. If you'd spoken to me I'd have been upset and you'd have ruined my day over something that's none of your business. Can I ask a personal question, are you fit enough to literally run into shops, grab a few things and run back out to your car ? if you say yes on a good day then I'd ask you if you'd do it from a disabled parking bay. If not then the chances of you being confronted in the first place are probably zero anyway.
I could feel fit and able, feel completely healthy and running around a shop only to be hit with debilitating pain in a split second and that all changes. Had I parked the car based on initial feelings then I'd be unable to make it back to the car. That's why I have a blue badge. That's also why I use it. I'm legally entitled to use it and I'd hope to live in a world without judgement but unfortunately that's not the case.
Be honest please , knowing what you've just said about your condition, would you put on gym attire , trainers , literally jump out your car , 'run' around the shop and 'run' back to your car knowing that at any minute you might not make it back to your car. ? "Folk wear gym attire because it's comfy . I do and I've been in a gym twice in my life | |||
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"Absolutely boils my blood when folk are judged on being disabled because they look fine to another person .. my daughters body has so many scars on it but their not always visible .. she was berated on a train for sitting in a accessibility seat from some know it all .. her heart condition she'll always have , has one working lung too but because she looks OK the person deemed her to be OK.. she got up and moved because she didn't need the drama of an argument got home in floods of tears and I swear if I could got a hold of that person I'd have gladly punched them in the gub for it . " Exactly this. People are too quick to assume the worst in others and think they're taking advantage. I think the fact that the OP didn't check if she had a blue badge and was entitled to use the space makes this story a million times worse, there's literally a label telling you she's allowed to use the space!! In the case of other places like toilets or designated seating then it's a case of leave well alone and hope they're using them for valid reasons, you are certainly not entitled to challenge anyone by what you deem to be your standards of health. | |||
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"I think you were wrong to confront her without first checking if she had a blue badge. As others have said, you don't know her or anything about her and whilst it's not 100% foolproof the blue badges are issued after assessment of need so if a professional says she needs one then she does. I have a blue badge, I might not look disabled. I'd be absolutely mortified if I was using it and someone confronted me about it. You say she was gobby and I think she's lucky. If you'd spoken to me I'd have been upset and you'd have ruined my day over something that's none of your business. Can I ask a personal question, are you fit enough to literally run into shops, grab a few things and run back out to your car ? if you say yes on a good day then I'd ask you if you'd do it from a disabled parking bay. If not then the chances of you being confronted in the first place are probably zero anyway.
I could feel fit and able, feel completely healthy and running around a shop only to be hit with debilitating pain in a split second and that all changes. Had I parked the car based on initial feelings then I'd be unable to make it back to the car. That's why I have a blue badge. That's also why I use it. I'm legally entitled to use it and I'd hope to live in a world without judgement but unfortunately that's not the case.
Be honest please , knowing what you've just said about your condition, would you put on gym attire , trainers , literally jump out your car , 'run' around the shop and 'run' back to your car knowing that at any minute you might not make it back to your car. ? "Why wouldn't I? I might've come from the gym, I might've been halfway through a marathon and stoped for some shopping. You don't know me, you don't know my condition nor how it effects me, I have a blue badge and I use it for my own reasons. None of those are any of your business. | |||
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"Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. My daughter had her ileostomy because during her double heart bypass surgery her bowel nearly perforated it was so damaged . If that happened it would've killed her instantly . Luckily she only had it for 2 years and it got reversed .. Well said
Glad she recovered OK.
Can I ask during that period was she able to jump in and out cars and run around. ?
One of my kids had a colostomy bag for a few years. Every day was different, one minute they had energy and next totally exhausted.
Their bag leaked on a few occasions when they were out and about, this was extremely embarrassing for them. Maybe her car is a safe place for her if this happened.
So why jump out and buy some shopping and then jump back in to her safe place ?
Maybe her bag was full and she needed to get home quickly to empty it. "Very possible so her bag is full, do you A go home immediately B realise you have last minute 'essential shopping and cautiously go get those items C jump into the nearest retail park , jump out the car with said 'full' bag , go 'running' round a B & M store where said bag could burst any second causing untold embarrassment . Yes she chose option C in your scenario bud. | |||
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"I think you were wrong to confront her without first checking if she had a blue badge. As others have said, you don't know her or anything about her and whilst it's not 100% foolproof the blue badges are issued after assessment of need so if a professional says she needs one then she does. I have a blue badge, I might not look disabled. I'd be absolutely mortified if I was using it and someone confronted me about it. You say she was gobby and I think she's lucky. If you'd spoken to me I'd have been upset and you'd have ruined my day over something that's none of your business. Can I ask a personal question, are you fit enough to literally run into shops, grab a few things and run back out to your car ? if you say yes on a good day then I'd ask you if you'd do it from a disabled parking bay. If not then the chances of you being confronted in the first place are probably zero anyway.
I could feel fit and able, feel completely healthy and running around a shop only to be hit with debilitating pain in a split second and that all changes. Had I parked the car based on initial feelings then I'd be unable to make it back to the car. That's why I have a blue badge. That's also why I use it. I'm legally entitled to use it and I'd hope to live in a world without judgement but unfortunately that's not the case.
Be honest please , knowing what you've just said about your condition, would you put on gym attire , trainers , literally jump out your car , 'run' around the shop and 'run' back to your car knowing that at any minute you might not make it back to your car. ?
Why wouldn't I? I might've come from the gym, I might've been halfway through a marathon and stoped for some shopping. You don't know me, you don't know my condition nor how it effects me, I have a blue badge and I use it for my own reasons. None of those are any of your business. "Your proving my point, if you've just came from the gym or ran a half marathon you could just as easy park the 15 meters away and leave the space for someone more in need. To think otherwise is totally selfish and just as bad if not worse than me confronting the girl in the first place. Or do you not see your scenario as selfish as its your right to run a half marathon then use a disabled space as you have a badge. | |||
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"Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. My daughter had her ileostomy because during her double heart bypass surgery her bowel nearly perforated it was so damaged . If that happened it would've killed her instantly . Luckily she only had it for 2 years and it got reversed .. Well said
Glad she recovered OK.
Can I ask during that period was she able to jump in and out cars and run around. ?
One of my kids had a colostomy bag for a few years. Every day was different, one minute they had energy and next totally exhausted.
Their bag leaked on a few occasions when they were out and about, this was extremely embarrassing for them. Maybe her car is a safe place for her if this happened.
So why jump out and buy some shopping and then jump back in to her safe place ?
Maybe her bag was full and she needed to get home quickly to empty it.
Very possible so her bag is full, do you
A go home immediately
B realise you have last minute 'essential shopping and cautiously go get those items
C jump into the nearest retail park , jump out the car with said 'full' bag , go 'running' round a B & M store where said bag could burst any second causing untold embarrassment .
Yes she chose option C in your scenario bud. "You have zero idea of how it works and this is evident but this post .. this one time I took my daughter out to go shopping .. the bus stop was at the end of my street obviously I emptied and drained her bag .. left the house got to the bus stop and had to turn back because her bag had filled with air because of wind and there was faeces came with the air and was over her clothes by the time I got my key in the door her skin around the ileostomy site had started to break down because of the leakage . See if you don't know the ins and outs of a condition maybe best not to make idiotic comments like this one  | |||
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"Let's see how people react if I.. who am my mother's designated driver and keep her blue badge in my glove box in the event i have to take her to hospital / doctor appointments decided to use it without my mother being in my car for my own advantage of parking right next to the main entrance of every shop would the doubters in here still feel the same way? Pretty sure you'd be raging if I did that. No-one knows if this lady done exactly that." You don't know that she did .. tartan I like you and in many respects respect you but ur no a physic | |||
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"Let's see how people react if I.. who am my mother's designated driver and keep her blue badge in my glove box in the event i have to take her to hospital / doctor appointments decided to use it without my mother being in my car for my own advantage of parking right next to the main entrance of every shop would the doubters in here still feel the same way? Pretty sure you'd be raging if I did that. No-one knows if this lady done exactly that." Exactly, we don't know if she did. So should we now go confronting every single person who uses a badge and make sure it's theirs and the reasons why they have it? People will abuse things, that's the word we live in. But there are also honest people who spend their days fighting debilitating conditions who want to go about their lives with the added stress of being harassed in a car park. | |||
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"Absolutely boils my blood when folk are judged on being disabled because they look fine to another person .. my daughters body has so many scars on it but their not always visible .. she was berated on a train for sitting in a accessibility seat from some know it all .. her heart condition she'll always have , has one working lung too but because she looks OK the person deemed her to be OK.. she got up and moved because she didn't need the drama of an argument got home in floods of tears and I swear if I could got a hold of that person I'd have gladly punched them in the gub for it . " I agree she should have been left alone, had she ran up and down the aisle a couple of times on the bus or train first then sat on that seat then she may well have been challenged to sit elsewhere. Surely you can see the difference here. | |||
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"Let's see how people react if I.. who am my mother's designated driver and keep her blue badge in my glove box in the event i have to take her to hospital / doctor appointments decided to use it without my mother being in my car for my own advantage of parking right next to the main entrance of every shop would the doubters in here still feel the same way? Pretty sure you'd be raging if I did that. No-one knows if this lady done exactly that." The point here is that you don't know as you state. So unless you do know, 100%, you have no right to challenge someone. | |||
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"Let's see how people react if I.. who am my mother's designated driver and keep her blue badge in my glove box in the event i have to take her to hospital / doctor appointments decided to use it without my mother being in my car for my own advantage of parking right next to the main entrance of every shop would the doubters in here still feel the same way? Pretty sure you'd be raging if I did that. No-one knows if this lady done exactly that. You don't know that she did .. tartan I like you and in many respects respect you but ur no a physic " Boo I've witnessed it on many occasions where designated drivers use the badge illegally, she wouldn't be the 1st one to do so , as I said if she didn't wear a colostomy bag and wasnt the badge holder then what Zest is saying is bang on. | |||
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"Let's see how people react if I.. who am my mother's designated driver and keep her blue badge in my glove box in the event i have to take her to hospital / doctor appointments decided to use it without my mother being in my car for my own advantage of parking right next to the main entrance of every shop would the doubters in here still feel the same way? Pretty sure you'd be raging if I did that. No-one knows if this lady done exactly that. You don't know that she did .. tartan I like you and in many respects respect you but ur no a physic Boo I've witnessed it on many occasions where designated drivers use the badge illegally, she wouldn't be the 1st one to do so , as I said if she didn't wear a colostomy bag and wasnt the badge holder then what Zest is saying is bang on." He has no clue about whether she was or not . Going by his judgement . The lassie told him she had a disability when really she had no need to as it was none of his business and the fact of the matter is he was sticking his beak into something that didn't concern him and he knew nothing about . He didnae even check for a badge . | |||
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"Said to a young lady of about 25 parking in a disabled spot she was out of order using the spot , she literally jumped out her car in her sports attire, trainers , tight joggings, loose top and ran into the shop , ran around getting what she needed and ran back out . When I confronted her, her reply was ," whits yer fuckin problem I've got a colostomy bag, im disabled. Some disabilities are hidden." Personally I agree some are hidden but some people also take the piss . Who is more in the wrong me or the gobby 'disabled' girl. You. So your opinion is I'm more in the wrong by confronting a clearly young fit girl using a disabled bay parking space than the clearly young fit girl who could have left the disabled space for someone much more in need of that space. No worries , appreciate your honesty.
Actually, until you have a stoma you are not in a position to judge someone else who does
Wearing a colostomy bag didn't stop her from running around a shop like she was a contestant on Supermarket Sweep did it? "Perhaps not on that day, but perhaps there have been times where she has needed the advantage of the DB parking spot and it’s proximity to the entrance of a building (which houses toilets). The point is you don’t know. If this is a case of AITA …the answer for you, is yes. Concerning yourself in the business of others is not conducive to a happy joyful free existence in my opinion. M | |||
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"Let's see how people react if I.. who am my mother's designated driver and keep her blue badge in my glove box in the event i have to take her to hospital / doctor appointments decided to use it without my mother being in my car for my own advantage of parking right next to the main entrance of every shop would the doubters in here still feel the same way? Pretty sure you'd be raging if I did that. No-one knows if this lady done exactly that. The point here is that you don't know as you state. So unless you do know, 100%, you have no right to challenge someone." well said miss muff x | |||
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"Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. My daughter had her ileostomy because during her double heart bypass surgery her bowel nearly perforated it was so damaged . If that happened it would've killed her instantly . Luckily she only had it for 2 years and it got reversed .. Well said
Glad she recovered OK.
Can I ask during that period was she able to jump in and out cars and run around. ?
One of my kids had a colostomy bag for a few years. Every day was different, one minute they had energy and next totally exhausted.
Their bag leaked on a few occasions when they were out and about, this was extremely embarrassing for them. Maybe her car is a safe place for her if this happened.
So why jump out and buy some shopping and then jump back in to her safe place ?
Maybe her bag was full and she needed to get home quickly to empty it.
Very possible so her bag is full, do you
A go home immediately
B realise you have last minute 'essential shopping and cautiously go get those items
C jump into the nearest retail park , jump out the car with said 'full' bag , go 'running' round a B & M store where said bag could burst any second causing untold embarrassment .
Yes she chose option C in your scenario bud.
You have zero idea of how it works and this is evident but this post .. this one time I took my daughter out to go shopping .. the bus stop was at the end of my street obviously I emptied and drained her bag .. left the house got to the bus stop and had to turn back because her bag had filled with air because of wind and there was faeces came with the air and was over her clothes by the time I got my key in the door her skin around the ileostomy site had started to break down because of the leakage . See if you don't know the ins and outs of a condition maybe best not to make idiotic comments like this one "OK I'm trying to be as clear as possible, your right I don't know all the conditions a colostomy bag comes with, I was presented with a possible scenario and I gave my opinion on what options she may have been faced with. So you knowing more than me please help me out. Does someone jumping out there car , literally running around B & M doing some shopping, running back to thier car showing zero signs of panic or discomfort or stress , finding the time to shout abuse back at me sound like the actions of someone with a full colostomy bag. ? | |||
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"Let's see how people react if I.. who am my mother's designated driver and keep her blue badge in my glove box in the event i have to take her to hospital / doctor appointments decided to use it without my mother being in my car for my own advantage of parking right next to the main entrance of every shop would the doubters in here still feel the same way? Pretty sure you'd be raging if I did that. No-one knows if this lady done exactly that. The point here is that you don't know as you state. So unless you do know, 100%, you have no right to challenge someone." I would have every right to challenge her if I found out she was the legal owner of the blue badge, I'm saying just because she says she wears a bag doesn't mean it's true, I could say the exact same thing and pretend to having a hidden disability if I was ever questioned. | |||
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"Absolutely boils my blood when folk are judged on being disabled because they look fine to another person .. my daughters body has so many scars on it but their not always visible .. she was berated on a train for sitting in a accessibility seat from some know it all .. her heart condition she'll always have , has one working lung too but because she looks OK the person deemed her to be OK.. she got up and moved because she didn't need the drama of an argument got home in floods of tears and I swear if I could got a hold of that person I'd have gladly punched them in the gub for it . I agree she should have been left alone, had she ran up and down the aisle a couple of times on the bus or train first then sat on that seat then she may well have been challenged to sit elsewhere. Surely you can see the difference here. " I see no difference .. if you met my daughter ud have no clue about her disabilities . This lassie is no different | |||
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"Let's see how people react if I.. who am my mother's designated driver and keep her blue badge in my glove box in the event i have to take her to hospital / doctor appointments decided to use it without my mother being in my car for my own advantage of parking right next to the main entrance of every shop would the doubters in here still feel the same way? Pretty sure you'd be raging if I did that. No-one knows if this lady done exactly that. The point here is that you don't know as you state. So unless you do know, 100%, you have no right to challenge someone. I would have every right to challenge her if I found out she was the legal owner of the blue badge, I'm saying just because she says she wears a bag doesn't mean it's true, I could say the exact same thing and pretend to having a hidden disability if I was ever questioned." How would you find out she wasn't the legal badge holder? The front only shows the date, the name and photo aren't visible unless you physically go into the car and pick it up to look at the back? | |||
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"Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. My daughter had her ileostomy because during her double heart bypass surgery her bowel nearly perforated it was so damaged . If that happened it would've killed her instantly . Luckily she only had it for 2 years and it got reversed .. Well said
Glad she recovered OK.
Can I ask during that period was she able to jump in and out cars and run around. ?
One of my kids had a colostomy bag for a few years. Every day was different, one minute they had energy and next totally exhausted.
Their bag leaked on a few occasions when they were out and about, this was extremely embarrassing for them. Maybe her car is a safe place for her if this happened.
So why jump out and buy some shopping and then jump back in to her safe place ?
Maybe her bag was full and she needed to get home quickly to empty it.
Very possible so her bag is full, do you
A go home immediately
B realise you have last minute 'essential shopping and cautiously go get those items
C jump into the nearest retail park , jump out the car with said 'full' bag , go 'running' round a B & M store where said bag could burst any second causing untold embarrassment .
Yes she chose option C in your scenario bud.
You have zero idea of how it works and this is evident but this post .. this one time I took my daughter out to go shopping .. the bus stop was at the end of my street obviously I emptied and drained her bag .. left the house got to the bus stop and had to turn back because her bag had filled with air because of wind and there was faeces came with the air and was over her clothes by the time I got my key in the door her skin around the ileostomy site had started to break down because of the leakage . See if you don't know the ins and outs of a condition maybe best not to make idiotic comments like this one
OK I'm trying to be as clear as possible, your right I don't know all the conditions a colostomy bag comes with, I was presented with a possible scenario and I gave my opinion on what options she may have been faced with. So you knowing more than me please help me out. Does someone jumping out there car , literally running around B & M doing some shopping, running back to thier car showing zero signs of panic or discomfort or stress , finding the time to shout abuse back at me sound like the actions of someone with a full colostomy bag. ?"Running around or maybe just no crawling round .. it doesn't need to be full to burst .. it could be the ticking part didn't stick , could have a crease , cut too big ,.. do you know what size a colostomy bag is so a full colostomy bag is nae exactly a hindrance a burst one is .but if its full there can be a high chance of it leaking or bursting. | |||
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"Let's see how people react if I.. who am my mother's designated driver and keep her blue badge in my glove box in the event i have to take her to hospital / doctor appointments decided to use it without my mother being in my car for my own advantage of parking right next to the main entrance of every shop would the doubters in here still feel the same way? Pretty sure you'd be raging if I did that. No-one knows if this lady done exactly that. You don't know that she did .. tartan I like you and in many respects respect you but ur no a physic Boo I've witnessed it on many occasions where designated drivers use the badge illegally, she wouldn't be the 1st one to do so , as I said if she didn't wear a colostomy bag and wasnt the badge holder then what Zest is saying is bang on. He has no clue about whether she was or not . Going by his judgement . The lassie told him she had a disability when really she had no need to as it was none of his business and the fact of the matter is he was sticking his beak into something that didn't concern him and he knew nothing about . He didnae even check for a badge . " Let's agree to disagree on this one m8 , I'm only giving my opinion as I've seen countless times ppl abusing the privalage a blue badge gives them but if that badge doesn't belong to them then that makes it 10 times worse. | |||
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"Let's see how people react if I.. who am my mother's designated driver and keep her blue badge in my glove box in the event i have to take her to hospital / doctor appointments decided to use it without my mother being in my car for my own advantage of parking right next to the main entrance of every shop would the doubters in here still feel the same way? Pretty sure you'd be raging if I did that. No-one knows if this lady done exactly that. The point here is that you don't know as you state. So unless you do know, 100%, you have no right to challenge someone." But I'm happy to give her the benefit of the doubt and concede she may well have had a blue badge. So I'm favouring the girl was in the right but my actions are the same. I still say she's being selfish using a disabled bay . | |||
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"Let's see how people react if I.. who am my mother's designated driver and keep her blue badge in my glove box in the event i have to take her to hospital / doctor appointments decided to use it without my mother being in my car for my own advantage of parking right next to the main entrance of every shop would the doubters in here still feel the same way? Pretty sure you'd be raging if I did that. No-one knows if this lady done exactly that. The point here is that you don't know as you state. So unless you do know, 100%, you have no right to challenge someone. I would have every right to challenge her if I found out she was the legal owner of the blue badge, I'm saying just because she says she wears a bag doesn't mean it's true, I could say the exact same thing and pretend to having a hidden disability if I was ever questioned. How would you find out she wasn't the legal badge holder? The front only shows the date, the name and photo aren't visible unless you physically go into the car and pick it up to look at the back? " Exactly. But as far as I know zest never checked to see if she had a badge on display, that would change everything if he could have seen her ID. | |||
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"Let's see how people react if I.. who am my mother's designated driver and keep her blue badge in my glove box in the event i have to take her to hospital / doctor appointments decided to use it without my mother being in my car for my own advantage of parking right next to the main entrance of every shop would the doubters in here still feel the same way? Pretty sure you'd be raging if I did that. No-one knows if this lady done exactly that. You don't know that she did .. tartan I like you and in many respects respect you but ur no a physic Boo I've witnessed it on many occasions where designated drivers use the badge illegally, she wouldn't be the 1st one to do so , as I said if she didn't wear a colostomy bag and wasnt the badge holder then what Zest is saying is bang on. He has no clue about whether she was or not . Going by his judgement . The lassie told him she had a disability when really she had no need to as it was none of his business and the fact of the matter is he was sticking his beak into something that didn't concern him and he knew nothing about . He didnae even check for a badge . Let's agree to disagree on this one m8 , I'm only giving my opinion as I've seen countless times ppl abusing the privalage a blue badge gives them but if that badge doesn't belong to them then that makes it 10 times worse." I'm.no saying there isn't an abuse of it .. just that there is no evidence of the lassie in question did . | |||
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"Let's see how people react if I.. who am my mother's designated driver and keep her blue badge in my glove box in the event i have to take her to hospital / doctor appointments decided to use it without my mother being in my car for my own advantage of parking right next to the main entrance of every shop would the doubters in here still feel the same way? Pretty sure you'd be raging if I did that. No-one knows if this lady done exactly that. You don't know that she did .. tartan I like you and in many respects respect you but ur no a physic Boo I've witnessed it on many occasions where designated drivers use the badge illegally, she wouldn't be the 1st one to do so , as I said if she didn't wear a colostomy bag and wasnt the badge holder then what Zest is saying is bang on. He has no clue about whether she was or not . Going by his judgement . The lassie told him she had a disability when really she had no need to as it was none of his business and the fact of the matter is he was sticking his beak into something that didn't concern him and he knew nothing about . He didnae even check for a badge . Let's agree to disagree on this one m8 , I'm only giving my opinion as I've seen countless times ppl abusing the privalage a blue badge gives them but if that badge doesn't belong to them then that makes it 10 times worse. I'm.no saying there isn't an abuse of it .. just that there is no evidence of the lassie in question did . " True. X | |||
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"Absolutely boils my blood when folk are judged on being disabled because they look fine to another person .. my daughters body has so many scars on it but their not always visible .. she was berated on a train for sitting in a accessibility seat from some know it all .. her heart condition she'll always have , has one working lung too but because she looks OK the person deemed her to be OK.. she got up and moved because she didn't need the drama of an argument got home in floods of tears and I swear if I could got a hold of that person I'd have gladly punched them in the gub for it . I agree she should have been left alone, had she ran up and down the aisle a couple of times on the bus or train first then sat on that seat then she may well have been challenged to sit elsewhere. Surely you can see the difference here. I see no difference .. if you met my daughter ud have no clue about her disabilities . This lassie is no different" If I see someone running around a shop I'm safe to assume they've not got a broken leg . I can also deduce they can walk 15 meters | |||
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"Let's see how people react if I.. who am my mother's designated driver and keep her blue badge in my glove box in the event i have to take her to hospital / doctor appointments decided to use it without my mother being in my car for my own advantage of parking right next to the main entrance of every shop would the doubters in here still feel the same way? Pretty sure you'd be raging if I did that. No-one knows if this lady done exactly that. You don't know that she did .. tartan I like you and in many respects respect you but ur no a physic Boo I've witnessed it on many occasions where designated drivers use the badge illegally, she wouldn't be the 1st one to do so , as I said if she didn't wear a colostomy bag and wasnt the badge holder then what Zest is saying is bang on. He has no clue about whether she was or not . Going by his judgement . The lassie told him she had a disability when really she had no need to as it was none of his business and the fact of the matter is he was sticking his beak into something that didn't concern him and he knew nothing about . He didnae even check for a badge . Let's agree to disagree on this one m8 , I'm only giving my opinion as I've seen countless times ppl abusing the privalage a blue badge gives them but if that badge doesn't belong to them then that makes it 10 times worse. I'm.no saying there isn't an abuse of it .. just that there is no evidence of the lassie in question did . True. X" | |||
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"Absolutely boils my blood when folk are judged on being disabled because they look fine to another person .. my daughters body has so many scars on it but their not always visible .. she was berated on a train for sitting in a accessibility seat from some know it all .. her heart condition she'll always have , has one working lung too but because she looks OK the person deemed her to be OK.. she got up and moved because she didn't need the drama of an argument got home in floods of tears and I swear if I could got a hold of that person I'd have gladly punched them in the gub for it . I agree she should have been left alone, had she ran up and down the aisle a couple of times on the bus or train first then sat on that seat then she may well have been challenged to sit elsewhere. Surely you can see the difference here. I see no difference .. if you met my daughter ud have no clue about her disabilities . This lassie is no different If I see someone running around a shop I'm safe to assume they've not got a broken leg . I can also deduce they can walk 15 meters" *At that moment. You don't know how they'd be in 1 minutes time. | |||
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"Absolutely boils my blood when folk are judged on being disabled because they look fine to another person .. my daughters body has so many scars on it but their not always visible .. she was berated on a train for sitting in a accessibility seat from some know it all .. her heart condition she'll always have , has one working lung too but because she looks OK the person deemed her to be OK.. she got up and moved because she didn't need the drama of an argument got home in floods of tears and I swear if I could got a hold of that person I'd have gladly punched them in the gub for it . I agree she should have been left alone, had she ran up and down the aisle a couple of times on the bus or train first then sat on that seat then she may well have been challenged to sit elsewhere. Surely you can see the difference here. I see no difference .. if you met my daughter ud have no clue about her disabilities . This lassie is no different If I see someone running around a shop I'm safe to assume they've not got a broken leg . I can also deduce they can walk 15 meters" So to be disabled you need to have a broken leg .. thank fuck ur no a doctor | |||
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"Let’s just hope you never need a colostomy bag. This poor girl may have had bowel cancer, diverticulitis, colitis, bowel obstruction, twisted bowel or numerous other debilitating conditions. I’ve been marked up for a stoma as it may have been necessary at one point. Spent an hour with the stoma nurse and was all marked up with the positions marked on each side. The day before my operation." I initially came into this thread to see if it was the bags being discussed. But it was quite intense in the long-run. I had the "threat" of a stoma and bag last year as part of my bowel cancer removal pre-screening and had to re-draw a blue circle on my stomach each time it started to wear out. Being honest, it was the thing I feared the most about my operation, but the nurse from the Stoma team did her best to assure me that things would be OK and I'd adapt. However after hearing stories of chemo (which I also had) causing bags to dissolve. I was glad I managed to dodge that. On a positive spin you have to look at Adele Roberts, who recently "came out" as a stoma/bag patient after her bowel cancer removal. She's doing so much to promote body positivity about it, that there's been talk of making her an ambassador for Macmillan cancer support, specifically for stoma patients. Mandy | |||
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"Let’s just hope you never need a colostomy bag. This poor girl may have had bowel cancer, diverticulitis, colitis, bowel obstruction, twisted bowel or numerous other debilitating conditions. I’ve been marked up for a stoma as it may have been necessary at one point. Spent an hour with the stoma nurse and was all marked up with the positions marked on each side. The day before my operation. I initially came into this thread to see if it was the bags being discussed. But it was quite intense in the long-run. I had the "threat" of a stoma and bag last year as part of my bowel cancer removal pre-screening and had to re-draw a blue circle on my stomach each time it started to wear out. Being honest, it was the thing I feared the most about my operation, but the nurse from the Stoma team did her best to assure me that things would be OK and I'd adapt. However after hearing stories of chemo (which I also had) causing bags to dissolve. I was glad I managed to dodge that. On a positive spin you have to look at Adele Roberts, who recently "came out" as a stoma/bag patient after her bowel cancer removal. She's doing so much to promote body positivity about it, that there's been talk of making her an ambassador for Macmillan cancer support, specifically for stoma patients. Mandy" Just as long as they don't give her a blue badge too  | |||
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"Absolutely boils my blood when folk are judged on being disabled because they look fine to another person .. my daughters body has so many scars on it but their not always visible .. she was berated on a train for sitting in a accessibility seat from some know it all .. her heart condition she'll always have , has one working lung too but because she looks OK the person deemed her to be OK.. she got up and moved because she didn't need the drama of an argument got home in floods of tears and I swear if I could got a hold of that person I'd have gladly punched them in the gub for it . I agree she should have been left alone, had she ran up and down the aisle a couple of times on the bus or train first then sat on that seat then she may well have been challenged to sit elsewhere. Surely you can see the difference here. I see no difference .. if you met my daughter ud have no clue about her disabilities . This lassie is no different If I see someone running around a shop I'm safe to assume they've not got a broken leg . I can also deduce they can walk 15 meters So to be disabled you need to have a broken leg .. thank fuck ur no a doctor" Haha , no I was giving an example of what can be classed as common sense. Not a diagnosis. Young lady jumping in and out a car , running into, around and out of a shop = easily able to walk 15 meters. We also best agree to disagree. | |||
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" Because I read what the OP said, did you? it doesn't sound like she was struggling if she can run around a shop , doesn't sound disabled to me." And what gives you or the OP the authority to challenge someone's disability. Blue badge gives whoever entitlement to use the space regardless of your opinion on how disabled they are. You are both grown men. Act like it! | |||
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"Have you ever met anyone with a colostomy? Have you read about the reasons why they have one? They have probably had cancer or a debilitating condition to end up with a colostomy. It’s not like getting your tonsils removed. Maybe you should try living their life and see what it’s like. People do have good days and bad days. My daughter had her ileostomy because during her double heart bypass surgery her bowel nearly perforated it was so damaged . If that happened it would've killed her instantly . Luckily she only had it for 2 years and it got reversed .. Well said
Glad she recovered OK.
Can I ask during that period was she able to jump in and out cars and run around. ?
One of my kids had a colostomy bag for a few years. Every day was different, one minute they had energy and next totally exhausted.
Their bag leaked on a few occasions when they were out and about, this was extremely embarrassing for them. Maybe her car is a safe place for her if this happened.
So why jump out and buy some shopping and then jump back in to her safe place ?
Maybe her bag was full and she needed to get home quickly to empty it.
Very possible so her bag is full, do you
A go home immediately
B realise you have last minute 'essential shopping and cautiously go get those items
C jump into the nearest retail park , jump out the car with said 'full' bag , go 'running' round a B & M store where said bag could burst any second causing untold embarrassment .
Yes she chose option C in your scenario bud.
You have zero idea of how it works and this is evident but this post .. this one time I took my daughter out to go shopping .. the bus stop was at the end of my street obviously I emptied and drained her bag .. left the house got to the bus stop and had to turn back because her bag had filled with air because of wind and there was faeces came with the air and was over her clothes by the time I got my key in the door her skin around the ileostomy site had started to break down because of the leakage . See if you don't know the ins and outs of a condition maybe best not to make idiotic comments like this one
OK I'm trying to be as clear as possible, your right I don't know all the conditions a colostomy bag comes with, I was presented with a possible scenario and I gave my opinion on what options she may have been faced with. So you knowing more than me please help me out. Does someone jumping out there car , literally running around B & M doing some shopping, running back to thier car showing zero signs of panic or discomfort or stress , finding the time to shout abuse back at me sound like the actions of someone with a full colostomy bag. ?"I have absolutely no idea as I don't have a colostomy bag and, AFAIK, neither do you, therefore you cannot categorically say one way, or another, that she was at it or not. | |||
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" Because I read what the OP said, did you? it doesn't sound like she was struggling if she can run around a shop , doesn't sound disabled to me. And what gives you or the OP the authority to challenge someone's disability. Blue badge gives whoever entitlement to use the space regardless of your opinion on how disabled they are. You are both grown men. Act like it!
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" Because I read what the OP said, did you? it doesn't sound like she was struggling if she can run around a shop , doesn't sound disabled to me. And what gives you or the OP the authority to challenge someone's disability. Blue badge gives whoever entitlement to use the space regardless of your opinion on how disabled they are. You are both grown men. Act like it!
Sorry mum won't do it again !
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"Interesting that you thought to watch her through the shop window but no look for a badge . I was actually sitting in my car exactly opposite and to the rear of the disabled spaces in the almost empty main car park. I don't do shopping that's the OH's favourite pass time . I'm happy to wait outside. Hooe that clarifies why I never noticed a badge or not. As already said , badge or not this girl clearly did not need that disabled space on that day, so I'm sticking by that assumption, rightly or wrongly in my opinion. " You post a sorry and backtracking post yet here you are still ranting on about this. Clearly had an effect on the rest of your day. Try letting things go and have some zest in life. Should change your name to dug wi a bone. I know you like to change your name on suggestions.... | |||
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" Because I read what the OP said, did you? it doesn't sound like she was struggling if she can run around a shop , doesn't sound disabled to me. And what gives you or the OP the authority to challenge someone's disability. Blue badge gives whoever entitlement to use the space regardless of your opinion on how disabled they are. You are both grown men. Act like it!
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"Interesting that you thought to watch her through the shop window but no look for a badge . I was actually sitting in my car exactly opposite and to the rear of the disabled spaces in the almost empty main car park. I don't do shopping that's the OH's favourite pass time . I'm happy to wait outside. Hooe that clarifies why I never noticed a badge or not. As already said , badge or not this girl clearly did not need that disabled space on that day, so I'm sticking by that assumption, rightly or wrongly in my opinion. You post a sorry and backtracking post yet here you are still ranting on about this. Clearly had an effect on the rest of your day. Try letting things go and have some zest in life. Should change your name to dug wi a bone. I know you like to change your name on suggestions.... "I only change my name when people think their insulting me sassy.
Hey heres more food for thought.
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Returning the badge
You must return the badge securely to your local council if:
The badge has expired
Your medical condition or mobility improves and you are no longer eligible.
I can guarantee there was nothing wrong with her mobility, so was this day just a good day for her or another example of misusing the blue badge system by not informing the council of her improved mobility. Was she still eligible?
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"Anyways I'm out .. as the saying goes .. Never argue with an idiot they'll bring you down to your level and beat you with experience. Awe you had reduce it to petty insults. Problem with a discussion is you always get someone that sees it as an argument . That says more about you and your lack of accepting someone else is entitled to a different viewpoint. "It's a common saying .. ur view in my opinion is idiotic , when you feel the need to confronted someone over parking in a disabled bay without even taking the time to see if she was permitted to do so is in my opinion idiotic and therefore renders you an idiot in your actions . | |||
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"Interesting that you thought to watch her through the shop window but no look for a badge . I was actually sitting in my car exactly opposite and to the rear of the disabled spaces in the almost empty main car park. I don't do shopping that's the OH's favourite pass time . I'm happy to wait outside. Hooe that clarifies why I never noticed a badge or not. As already said , badge or not this girl clearly did not need that disabled space on that day, so I'm sticking by that assumption, rightly or wrongly in my opinion. You post a sorry and backtracking post yet here you are still ranting on about this. Clearly had an effect on the rest of your day. Try letting things go and have some zest in life. Should change your name to dug wi a bone. I know you like to change your name on suggestions....
I only change my name when people think their insulting me sassy.
Hey heres more food for thought.
Taken from the .gov website.
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You must return the badge securely to your local council if:
The badge has expired
Your medical condition or mobility improves and you are no longer eligible.
I can guarantee there was nothing wrong with her mobility, so was this day just a good day for her or another example of misusing the blue badge system by not informing the council of her improved mobility. Was she still eligible?
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"Anyways I'm out .. as the saying goes .. Never argue with an idiot they'll bring you down to your level and beat you with experience. Awe you had reduce it to petty insults. Problem with a discussion is you always get someone that sees it as an argument . That says more about you and your lack of accepting someone else is entitled to a different viewpoint.
It's a common saying .. ur view in my opinion is idiotic , when you feel the need to confronted someone over parking in a disabled bay without even taking the time to see if she was permitted to do so is in my opinion idiotic and therefore renders you an idiot in your actions . "Thought you were out ? Your clearly an Einstein
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"Actually I've missed a trick on this discussion. While we've been discussing different levels of disability in terms of a colostomy bag, the blue badge is solely about mobility and issued in accordance with mobility and not your disability. Clearly this girl and zero mobility issues so I stand by 100% my decision to challenge her and say she did not need to park there. " You deffo missed a trick .. if that's the case then why are Autistic persons or careers for autistic persons entitled to the blue badge when it doesn't affect their mobility .. its the danger it presents due to disability.. if your gonna spout of facts at least know ur stuff !! | |||
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"Actually I've missed a trick on this discussion. While we've been discussing different levels of disability in terms of a colostomy bag, the blue badge is solely about mobility and issued in accordance with mobility and not your disability. Clearly this girl and zero mobility issues so I stand by 100% my decision to challenge her and say she did not need to park there. You deffo missed a trick .. if that's the case then why are Autistic persons or careers for autistic persons entitled to the blue badge when it doesn't affect their mobility .. its the danger it presents due to disability.. if your gonna spout of facts at least know ur stuff !!" Ahh But she claimed colostomy bag , how's that for a fact. | |||
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"Anyways I'm out .. as the saying goes .. Never argue with an idiot they'll bring you down to your level and beat you with experience. Awe you had reduce it to petty insults. Problem with a discussion is you always get someone that sees it as an argument . That says more about you and your lack of accepting someone else is entitled to a different viewpoint.
It's a common saying .. ur view in my opinion is idiotic , when you feel the need to confronted someone over parking in a disabled bay without even taking the time to see if she was permitted to do so is in my opinion idiotic and therefore renders you an idiot in your actions .
Thought you were out ?
Your clearly an Einstein
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"Actually I've missed a trick on this discussion. While we've been discussing different levels of disability in terms of a colostomy bag, the blue badge is solely about mobility and issued in accordance with mobility and not your disability. Clearly this girl and zero mobility issues so I stand by 100% my decision to challenge her and say she did not need to park there. You deffo missed a trick .. if that's the case then why are Autistic persons or careers for autistic persons entitled to the blue badge when it doesn't affect their mobility .. its the danger it presents due to disability.. if your gonna spout of facts at least know ur stuff !!" Yep... think a lot of folk aren't aware of this.... | |||
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"Actually I've missed a trick on this discussion. While we've been discussing different levels of disability in terms of a colostomy bag, the blue badge is solely about mobility and issued in accordance with mobility and not your disability. Clearly this girl and zero mobility issues so I stand by 100% my decision to challenge her and say she did not need to park there. You deffo missed a trick .. if that's the case then why are Autistic persons or careers for autistic persons entitled to the blue badge when it doesn't affect their mobility .. its the danger it presents due to disability.. if your gonna spout of facts at least know ur stuff !! Ahh But she claimed colostomy bag , how's that for a fact. " You were categorising what a blue badge was for .. that's not subjective to one disability actually .. now your just giving yourself a showing up . | |||
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"Interesting that you thought to watch her through the shop window but no look for a badge . I was actually sitting in my car exactly opposite and to the rear of the disabled spaces in the almost empty main car park. I don't do shopping that's the OH's favourite pass time . I'm happy to wait outside. Hooe that clarifies why I never noticed a badge or not. As already said , badge or not this girl clearly did not need that disabled space on that day, so I'm sticking by that assumption, rightly or wrongly in my opinion. You post a sorry and backtracking post yet here you are still ranting on about this. Clearly had an effect on the rest of your day. Try letting things go and have some zest in life. Should change your name to dug wi a bone. I know you like to change your name on suggestions....
I only change my name when people think their insulting me sassy.
Hey heres more food for thought.
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Returning the badge
You must return the badge securely to your local council if:
The badge has expired
Your medical condition or mobility improves and you are no longer eligible.
I can guarantee there was nothing wrong with her mobility, so was this day just a good day for her or another example of misusing the blue badge system by not informing the council of her improved mobility. Was she still eligible?
Just a thought not saying that's the case. "New name suggestion. "Outraged in Hamilton " | |||
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"Anyways I'm out .. as the saying goes .. Never argue with an idiot they'll bring you down to your level and beat you with experience. Awe you had reduce it to petty insults. Problem with a discussion is you always get someone that sees it as an argument . That says more about you and your lack of accepting someone else is entitled to a different viewpoint.
It's a common saying .. ur view in my opinion is idiotic , when you feel the need to confronted someone over parking in a disabled bay without even taking the time to see if she was permitted to do so is in my opinion idiotic and therefore renders you an idiot in your actions .
Thought you were out ?
Your clearly an Einstein
Saying something then doing the opposite.
Well u did quote me so I was always gonna reply .. and I was out for an hour .. and anyways it really isn't in my nature to ever back down "So are you back to discuss, argue , throw petty insults or concede defeat on colostomy bag blue badge cheater. | |||
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"Interesting that you thought to watch her through the shop window but no look for a badge . I was actually sitting in my car exactly opposite and to the rear of the disabled spaces in the almost empty main car park. I don't do shopping that's the OH's favourite pass time . I'm happy to wait outside. Hooe that clarifies why I never noticed a badge or not. As already said , badge or not this girl clearly did not need that disabled space on that day, so I'm sticking by that assumption, rightly or wrongly in my opinion. You post a sorry and backtracking post yet here you are still ranting on about this. Clearly had an effect on the rest of your day. Try letting things go and have some zest in life. Should change your name to dug wi a bone. I know you like to change your name on suggestions....
I only change my name when people think their insulting me sassy.
Hey heres more food for thought.
Taken from the .gov website.
Returning the badge
You must return the badge securely to your local council if:
The badge has expired
Your medical condition or mobility improves and you are no longer eligible.
I can guarantee there was nothing wrong with her mobility, so was this day just a good day for her or another example of misusing the blue badge system by not informing the council of her improved mobility. Was she still eligible?
Just a thought not saying that's the case.
New name suggestion.
"Outraged in Hamilton ""You don't listen , it's got to be insulting. | |||
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"Anyways I'm out .. as the saying goes .. Never argue with an idiot they'll bring you down to your level and beat you with experience. Awe you had reduce it to petty insults. Problem with a discussion is you always get someone that sees it as an argument . That says more about you and your lack of accepting someone else is entitled to a different viewpoint.
It's a common saying .. ur view in my opinion is idiotic , when you feel the need to confronted someone over parking in a disabled bay without even taking the time to see if she was permitted to do so is in my opinion idiotic and therefore renders you an idiot in your actions .
Thought you were out ?
Your clearly an Einstein
Saying something then doing the opposite.
Well u did quote me so I was always gonna reply .. and I was out for an hour .. and anyways it really isn't in my nature to ever back down
So are you back to discuss, argue , throw petty insults or concede defeat on colostomy bag blue badge cheater. "Just a hunch bet you've been called far worse and it was saying I was referring too .. but aye I stand by it !!! Concede defeat hardly .. there is no such thing as a colostomy bag blue badge holder believe me if there was I've known about it as to my previous statements . And yes my daughter was awarded a blue badge to her plethora of medical conditions colostomy bag included !!! | |||
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"Anyways I'm out .. as the saying goes .. Never argue with an idiot they'll bring you down to your level and beat you with experience. Awe you had reduce it to petty insults. Problem with a discussion is you always get someone that sees it as an argument . That says more about you and your lack of accepting someone else is entitled to a different viewpoint.
It's a common saying .. ur view in my opinion is idiotic , when you feel the need to confronted someone over parking in a disabled bay without even taking the time to see if she was permitted to do so is in my opinion idiotic and therefore renders you an idiot in your actions .
Thought you were out ?
Your clearly an Einstein
Saying something then doing the opposite.
Well u did quote me so I was always gonna reply .. and I was out for an hour .. and anyways it really isn't in my nature to ever back down
So are you back to discuss, argue , throw petty insults or concede defeat on colostomy bag blue badge cheater.
Just a hunch bet you've been called far worse and it was saying I was referring too .. but aye I stand by it !!!
Concede defeat hardly .. there is no such thing as a colostomy bag blue badge holder believe me if there was I've known about it as to my previous statements . And yes my daughter was awarded a blue badge to her plethora of medical conditions colostomy bag included !!!
"And your opinion she was a cheater because ur hoards of medical expertise said she was .. away ye go roaster . | |||
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"Actually I've missed a trick on this discussion. While we've been discussing different levels of disability in terms of a colostomy bag, the blue badge is solely about mobility and issued in accordance with mobility and not your disability. Clearly this girl and zero mobility issues so I stand by 100% my decision to challenge her and say she did not need to park there. You deffo missed a trick .. if that's the case then why are Autistic persons or careers for autistic persons entitled to the blue badge when it doesn't affect their mobility .. its the danger it presents due to disability.. if your gonna spout of facts at least know ur stuff !! Yep... think a lot of folk aren't aware of this...." | |||
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" Just a hunch bet you've been called far worse and it was saying I was referring too .. but aye I stand by it !!! Concede defeat hardly .. there is no such thing as a colostomy bag blue badge holder believe me if there was I've known about it as to my previous statements . And yes my daughter was awarded a blue badge to her plethora of medical conditions colostomy bag included !!! " You are wasting your time trying to educate some folk | |||
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"Anyways I'm out .. as the saying goes .. Never argue with an idiot they'll bring you down to your level and beat you with experience. Awe you had reduce it to petty insults. Problem with a discussion is you always get someone that sees it as an argument . That says more about you and your lack of accepting someone else is entitled to a different viewpoint.
It's a common saying .. ur view in my opinion is idiotic , when you feel the need to confronted someone over parking in a disabled bay without even taking the time to see if she was permitted to do so is in my opinion idiotic and therefore renders you an idiot in your actions .
Thought you were out ?
Your clearly an Einstein
Saying something then doing the opposite.
Well u did quote me so I was always gonna reply .. and I was out for an hour .. and anyways it really isn't in my nature to ever back down
So are you back to discuss, argue , throw petty insults or concede defeat on colostomy bag blue badge cheater.
Just a hunch bet you've been called far worse and it was saying I was referring too .. but aye I stand by it !!!
Concede defeat hardly .. there is no such thing as a colostomy bag blue badge holder believe me if there was I've known about it as to my previous statements . And yes my daughter was awarded a blue badge to her plethora of medical conditions colostomy bag included !!!
And your opinion she was a cheater because ur hoards of medical expertise said she was .. away ye go roaster . "I put a smiley face after calling her a colostomy bag blue badge cheater as I was just winding you up on that post. I clearly said earlier it was a possibility she was misusing the badge by not informing the council of her change of mobility status. I have said right from the outset it's simply and always been about a woman clearly able to run around, misusing a parking space through in my opinion selfishness as she could have parked 15 meters away and coped quite easily with that extra little distance. I don't need medical expertise to know when someone can run around a shop , to and from a car they can handle a 15 meter walk.
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"Anyways I'm out .. as the saying goes .. Never argue with an idiot they'll bring you down to your level and beat you with experience. Awe you had reduce it to petty insults. Problem with a discussion is you always get someone that sees it as an argument . That says more about you and your lack of accepting someone else is entitled to a different viewpoint.
It's a common saying .. ur view in my opinion is idiotic , when you feel the need to confronted someone over parking in a disabled bay without even taking the time to see if she was permitted to do so is in my opinion idiotic and therefore renders you an idiot in your actions .
Thought you were out ?
Your clearly an Einstein
Saying something then doing the opposite.
Well u did quote me so I was always gonna reply .. and I was out for an hour .. and anyways it really isn't in my nature to ever back down
So are you back to discuss, argue , throw petty insults or concede defeat on colostomy bag blue badge cheater.
Just a hunch bet you've been called far worse and it was saying I was referring too .. but aye I stand by it !!!
Concede defeat hardly .. there is no such thing as a colostomy bag blue badge holder believe me if there was I've known about it as to my previous statements . And yes my daughter was awarded a blue badge to her plethora of medical conditions colostomy bag included !!!
And your opinion she was a cheater because ur hoards of medical expertise said she was .. away ye go roaster .
I put a smiley face after calling her a colostomy bag blue badge cheater as I was just winding you up on that post. I clearly said earlier it was a possibility she was misusing the badge by not informing the council of her change of mobility status.
I have said right from the outset it's simply and always been about a woman clearly able to run around, misusing a parking space through in my opinion selfishness as she could have parked 15 meters away and coped quite easily with that extra little distance. I don't need medical expertise to know when someone can run around a shop , to and from a car they can handle a 15 meter walk.
"**shakes head in disbelief** it's not all about mobility .. its based on that persons medical or mobility needs .. case in point .. I know a woman who has severe agoraphobia its developed through severe stress and anxiety she had to attend the children's hospital for consults about her daughters treatment , she couldn't stay with her daughter because of the agrophobia her gran stayed instead , the doctors put her forward for a blue badge to make it somewhat easier for her to attend appointments or to be able to sign surgical consent forms and she was awarded it . I could go on but I think I've made it pretty clear . | |||
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" Just a hunch bet you've been called far worse and it was saying I was referring too .. but aye I stand by it !!! Concede defeat hardly .. there is no such thing as a colostomy bag blue badge holder believe me if there was I've known about it as to my previous statements . And yes my daughter was awarded a blue badge to her plethora of medical conditions colostomy bag included !!! You are wasting your time trying to educate some folk" Yep seems so | |||
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"Anyways I'm out .. as the saying goes .. Never argue with an idiot they'll bring you down to your level and beat you with experience. Awe you had reduce it to petty insults. Problem with a discussion is you always get someone that sees it as an argument . That says more about you and your lack of accepting someone else is entitled to a different viewpoint.
It's a common saying .. ur view in my opinion is idiotic , when you feel the need to confronted someone over parking in a disabled bay without even taking the time to see if she was permitted to do so is in my opinion idiotic and therefore renders you an idiot in your actions .
Thought you were out ?
Your clearly an Einstein
Saying something then doing the opposite.
Well u did quote me so I was always gonna reply .. and I was out for an hour .. and anyways it really isn't in my nature to ever back down
So are you back to discuss, argue , throw petty insults or concede defeat on colostomy bag blue badge cheater.
Just a hunch bet you've been called far worse and it was saying I was referring too .. but aye I stand by it !!!
Concede defeat hardly .. there is no such thing as a colostomy bag blue badge holder believe me if there was I've known about it as to my previous statements . And yes my daughter was awarded a blue badge to her plethora of medical conditions colostomy bag included !!!
And your opinion she was a cheater because ur hoards of medical expertise said she was .. away ye go roaster .
I put a smiley face after calling her a colostomy bag blue badge cheater as I was just winding you up on that post. I clearly said earlier it was a possibility she was misusing the badge by not informing the council of her change of mobility status.
I have said right from the outset it's simply and always been about a woman clearly able to run around, misusing a parking space through in my opinion selfishness as she could have parked 15 meters away and coped quite easily with that extra little distance. I don't need medical expertise to know when someone can run around a shop , to and from a car they can handle a 15 meter walk.
**shakes head in disbelief** it's not all about mobility .. its based on that persons medical or mobility needs .. case in point .. I know a woman who has severe agoraphobia its developed through severe stress and anxiety she had to attend the children's hospital for consults about her daughters treatment , she couldn't stay with her daughter because of the agrophobia her gran stayed instead , the doctors put her forward for a blue badge to make it somewhat easier for her to attend appointments or to be able to sign surgical consent forms and she was awarded it .
I could go on but I think I've made it pretty clear . "Shakes head in disbelief toooo In the topic of THIS thread it is 100% about mobility. You could cite 1000 instances about other issues BUT on this day that I challenged someone, it was pure and simply with someone who had zero mobility issues during that visit to that shop on that day. Someone who clearly could have walked an extra 15 meters on that visit to that shop on that day. Not to leave that disabled space on that visit on that day in my view was a selfish and inconsiderate thing to do on her part. Anyone who thinks otherwise about that situation on that day in my opinion have lost the ability to think for themselves and afraid to speak out when they see something that's just wrong . Simples. | |||
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" I could go on but I think I've made it pretty clear . " I could go on toooooo But I think I've made it pretty clear that on that day , at that sho...... ache you get the picture. | |||
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