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There is of course the usual like no profile pics and dick pick pests etc but any less obvious things that annoy you on here? I have a few to start:
1.Announcing you're leaving the site (no one cares just go)
2. Announcing you're back like some sort of returning conquering hero and were missed "guess who's back?!" 
3. Posting song lyrics
4. The phrase "here for a good time not a long time" |
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Couples that post meets looking for a single guy but click on there profile and single guys are blocked.
People that harp on about reading there profile.
When that have to tell you on there status update that mother natures arrived.
Copycats that feel the need to write...im wet but not in a good way. Or similar |
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Hmmm where do I start
The fb type updates "just had a curry now going for a shit"
The same attention seeking folk that think everythings geared towards them (it's really not htf)
Hundreds of dick and titty/fanny pics daily.. ok we've saw it everyday this year.
Guys that don't understand "I'm not meeting" means I'm not meeting
Ok best stop  |
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By *omcupCouple
over a year ago
Alexandria |
"This.
People who can't read a profile and don't understand what "thanks anyway but we're not interested" means"
Especially when followed by a message asking if you're sure then another a few days later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really an annoyance. Only a flag for us that it’s probably not a match. So, overly negative or demanding profiles. You know the one that only say what they don’t do or all the hoops they expect you to jump through. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The you know who you are type statuses can you no just message them privately.
Aggressive overuse of cap locks on profiles or statuses
Moaning about the site all the time threatening to leave or go and yet stay out and post the same over and over.
Bdsm or Sydney university crap on profiles
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
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The profiles that act the maggot when you say you're busy snd cant meet or don't send face pictures to them immediately.
It seems that some folk think, because you're online on Fab, that you want to fuck right there and then... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples profiles that turn out to be just the bloke and the missus doesn’t know.
One sentence responses and then nothing….
Will fill this in later bios…… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men who send copy and paste messages of what there going to do to you..( YAWN! )
Disrepectful twats in messages, and chat ....(blocked).
Least theres a block button!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really get annoyed by anyone tbh. There's no set way to use the site, do what you want and if it doesn't fit with how I do things then we just won't engage. Simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fab my pics brigade.
The numerous cj posts.
Folk that just don't read profiles and just fire a message anyway.
Folk that throw toys out the pram in the forums if god forbid someone disagrees. |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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I'm amazed by the number of people that insist on a face pic with a message or they won't reply, but low and befuckin hold they say in their extremely long profile that they don't have face pics.
Then the random use of capital letters or starting sentences without them.
And don't get me started on 159 lines of text, all in one parafuckingraph. |
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Stuff on profiles telling Universities not to copy data or something. Never quite understood this. Have loads of people been burned by their profiles appearing in a PhD thesis somewhere? Or outed by vengeful postgrads? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who moan about wanting to be accepted for who and what they identify as, but they won't accept people that think differently from them.
Double standards! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not so much an annoyance but more a "fuck off and gie ma heid peace"...
The ones who message with explicit details of how they're going to plough every hole and leave me a quivering wreck as they know their way around a woman's body.
A quick re_iew of their photos then demonstrates that they struggle to operate a hoover or use a lavvie brush. So I think my clit is safe.... |
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I agree with pretty much all of these. Shame there aren't a few more upgrades on the site to filter messages a bit more and a better chat system. We can live in hope. Hope having a wee vent has been good for folk. Now please fab my pics because I'm thinking of leaving the site it's shite. Going for a bath now. I'll post some song lyrics soon |
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"Not so much an annoyance but more a "fuck off and gie ma heid peace"...
The ones who message with explicit details of how they're going to plough every hole and leave me a quivering wreck as they know their way around a woman's body.
A quick re_iew of their photos then demonstrates that they struggle to operate a hoover or use a lavvie brush. So I think my clit is safe...."
^^^^ This ^^^^^ |
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Don't say "Hello", "How are you?", "What are you up to?".
Granted all a bit samey but they are ice breakers. Used in most day to day conversation whether at work or play to get started. Quite sure if Shakespeare was still around even he would have started a message with something similar but some people seem to think that there fourteen word profile should invite some degree of originality so sublime it should hang in the national gallery......
.....breath....
And how are you?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't say "Hello", "How are you?", "What are you up to?".
Granted all a bit samey but they are ice breakers. Used in most day to day conversation whether at work or play to get started. Quite sure if Shakespeare was still around even he would have started a message with something similar but some people seem to think that there fourteen word profile should invite some degree of originality so sublime it should hang in the national gallery......
.....breath....
And how are you? "
Just read your profile and can't be arsed googling ...what's female orgasm submission? |
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I think I made that phrase up...see I can do originality.
I would describe it as when a women likes to be tied down/restrained but have her sex toys used on her. Lead to more uncontrolled orgasm if you can play and stimulate other areas.
Could be another forum topic. |
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Lying about ages is really annoying.
Not being able to take a polite no.
Arranging to meet and not showing up. One cheeky fucker who no showed to a bukkake meet yesterday is today whinging on his status about time wasters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my biggest peeves with fab is all the dick pics and when the men flood your inbox with them but can't share a face pic or just a regular pic of themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The nastiness with how some people treat others on here it’s meant to be fun we are all human beings treat everyone the way you expect to be treated yourself with respect, kindness and love. |
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"The nastiness with how some people treat others on here it’s meant to be fun we are all human beings treat everyone the way you expect to be treated yourself with respect, kindness and love."
Absolutely!
It's meant to be a fun site for fun. There are some extremely rude folk on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The nastiness with how some people treat others on here it’s meant to be fun we are all human beings treat everyone the way you expect to be treated yourself with respect, kindness and love.
Absolutely!
It's meant to be a fun site for fun. There are some extremely rude folk on here! "
Yeah unfortunately the minority spoil it for the majority |
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The only thing that really still irritates me is seeing a profile that says 'if you haven't read my profile I won't reply', after they just messaged me obviously without having read MY profile. It's so daft.
That and the on-the-rise transphobia on sites like these.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women that don't reply to a polite message, if that's your attitude just state it on your profile your a rude cnut and perhaps won't reply, at least you'd gain some respect for being honest
Women that complain about getting 100s of messages a day but do so simply by not using their filters , you cant have it both ways.
Guys that say , the minority of rude guys spoil it for the rest of us nice guys. What a load of shite. Do you think Women can't distinguish between dickheads and non dickheads.
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"Women that don't reply to a polite message, if that's your attitude just state it on your profile your a rude cnut and perhaps won't reply, at least you'd gain some respect for being honest
Women that complain about getting 100s of messages a day but do so simply by not using their filters , you cant have it both ways.
Guys that say , the minority of rude guys spoil it for the rest of us nice guys. What a load of shite. Do you think Women can't distinguish between dickheads and non dickheads.
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Not responding to a message shows your not interested in them. Sone women receive so many even with filters. They aren’t being rude they are being inundated. Not replying to a message also means they won’t get subsequent messages from the same person. Would you rather they just blocked them?
Best filter is being over 50. |
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"The ' can't send face pics as discretion required for my job' ok so give us a list of jobs where being on a swingers site is something to shout about and where yours is more important "
Tbh any job where other members of staff or service users customers etc finding out could make anyones job difficult
Personally I just point blank don’t share pics through personal choice after being threatened to be exposed to my work the kids school etc !! Had to get police involved even though kids are older now and know about fab !! Thanks to a disgruntled ex  I still choose to meet blind |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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People who don’t use filters and then moan about things that could have been avoided if they had used filters. I am forgiving if it’s their first time here, the 47th fucking time, less so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women that don't reply to a polite message, if that's your attitude just state it on your profile your a rude cnut and perhaps won't reply, at least you'd gain some respect for being honest
Women that complain about getting 100s of messages a day but do so simply by not using their filters , you cant have it both ways.
Guys that say , the minority of rude guys spoil it for the rest of us nice guys. What a load of shite. Do you think Women can't distinguish between dickheads and non dickheads.
Not responding to a message shows your not interested in them. Sone women receive so many even with filters. They aren’t being rude they are being inundated. Not replying to a message also means they won’t get subsequent messages from the same person. Would you rather they just blocked them?
Best filter is being over 50. "
Yeah I agree no reply is Fabs take on not interested, but it doesn't change the fact it's rude. I stress my argument is for polite messages not wanna fuck type messages.
I disagree, not replying just means you will get repeat messages again and again as people forget who they have sent messages to. If your not interested then just say no thx and yes block them as your not interested. I still say women relate a full inbox as a gauge on her sex appeal otherwise why wouldn't they block people they have no interest in ever meeting or engaging with. Only people that shouldn't do that are those like social organisers bit like social butterfly's they who set up specific accounts for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Back to the OP
Putting the Sydney uni warning on their profile. Never seen such copy n paste nonsense ever. We all know your never gonna appoint a lawyer if it did happen , who do you think you are some supermodel that's just had her kebab pics stolen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women that don't reply to a polite message, if that's your attitude just state it on your profile your a rude cnut and perhaps won't reply, at least you'd gain some respect for being honest
Women that complain about getting 100s of messages a day but do so simply by not using their filters , you cant have it both ways.
Guys that say , the minority of rude guys spoil it for the rest of us nice guys. What a load of shite. Do you think Women can't distinguish between dickheads and non dickheads.
Not responding to a message shows your not interested in them. Sone women receive so many even with filters. They aren’t being rude they are being inundated. Not replying to a message also means they won’t get subsequent messages from the same person. Would you rather they just blocked them?
Best filter is being over 50.
Yeah I agree no reply is Fabs take on not interested, but it doesn't change the fact it's rude. I stress my argument is for polite messages not wanna fuck type messages.
I disagree, not replying just means you will get repeat messages again and again as people forget who they have sent messages to. If your not interested then just say no thx and yes block them as your not interested. I still say women relate a full inbox as a gauge on her sex appeal otherwise why wouldn't they block people they have no interest in ever meeting or engaging with. Only people that shouldn't do that are those like social organisers bit like social butterfly's they who set up specific accounts for that. "
People who send message after message, after messages with no reply are thick as fuck.
I'm happier as a rude cunt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The profiles that act the maggot when you say you're busy snd cant meet or don't send face pictures to them immediately.
It seems that some folk think, because you're online on Fab, that you want to fuck right there and then... "
Had this yesterday cause I didn’t send pictures within 24 hours when I said I was working, I did offer to phone on my lunch break but it wasn’t good enough lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s probably not that much bothers me anymore. Being ghosted happens oh so often now it’s almost the norm for fab.
Same as I don’t date a shadow comments cause I have no pics, I do have pics just not for everyone to see but again I kinda just skip over these comment now. |
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1 - folk who read messages and give n I reply this to me now is just an instant block
2- couples who post meets for this single guys yet as soon as the message is sent the couple block you
3- single guys all being tarnished as dirty perverts and desparados I mean this site is a swinging site and shagging is involved we are all adults we all get that but that doesn’t mean if we send you a message we are automatically asking you to drop ur knickers and invite us in
4- people who are a love themselves and look down on certain ones I have seen a few statuses aimed recently and to be honest if fucking bullying people come on this site and regardless of there looks of there image if they are happy wirh that then why do other folk need to be nasty about it |
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1) Trolls on forums that turn every thread into an argument
2) As above in regards to football related threads
3) Close up kebab pics, especially with Mayo
4) cock pics with guys holding their cock up ( if it can’t stay hard for a pic what hope is there)
5) Sky remote pics
6) pics in toilets
7) Manky rooms in the back of pics
8) Fill in later on profile text.
9) Sydney uni warning? I assumed they had a university but what do they study there for it to create a fab warning?
10) text speak messages
Apart from all that, fab is brilliant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was thinking I had none, but I have a live one in the inbox right now.
Vague messaging, just come out and ask what you want to ask. Don't say "can I ask a question?" or say "I have an offer you can't refuse" then just send about 6 messages filled with shite and not what you're actually wanting to ask. Maybe I am just in a bad mood today  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was thinking I had none, but I have a live one in the inbox right now.
Vague messaging, just come out and ask what you want to ask. Don't say "can I ask a question?" or say "I have an offer you can't refuse" then just send about 6 messages filled with shite and not what you're actually wanting to ask. Maybe I am just in a bad mood today "
Those kind get on my tits too....think they've just read a Men's Health article on "How to seem quirky and interesting to women" when it should actually be entitled "How to come across as a total fud". |
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"I was thinking I had none, but I have a live one in the inbox right now.
Vague messaging, just come out and ask what you want to ask. Don't say "can I ask a question?" or say "I have an offer you can't refuse" then just send about 6 messages filled with shite and not what you're actually wanting to ask. Maybe I am just in a bad mood today "
The "offer you can't refuse" vague insinuation he's the best I'll ever get, or trying to buy his way into my knickers goes straight on the block list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies/ couples who say
"" no cock pix or instant block""
You look at their pix and they've got half the fruit N veg section in their pussy 
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Comes in handy for shoplifting. Got a 4 man tent and Wok up mine at my last trip to Aldi. |
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By *ougueWoman
over a year ago
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"Ladies/ couples who say
"" no cock pix or instant block""
You look at their pix and they've got half the fruit N veg section in their pussy
Comes in handy for shoplifting. Got a 4 man tent and Wok up mine at my last trip to Aldi."
Best reply in a thread ever |
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"Ladies/ couples who say
"" no cock pix or instant block""
You look at their pix and they've got half the fruit N veg section in their pussy
Comes in handy for shoplifting. Got a 4 man tent and Wok up mine at my last trip to Aldi."
Did you go with wonton intent? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies/ couples who say
"" no cock pix or instant block""
You look at their pix and they've got half the fruit N veg section in their pussy
Comes in handy for shoplifting. Got a 4 man tent and Wok up mine at my last trip to Aldi.
Did you go with wonton intent?"
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"Ladies/ couples who say
"" no cock pix or instant block""
You look at their pix and they've got half the fruit N veg section in their pussy
Comes in handy for shoplifting. Got a 4 man tent and Wok up mine at my last trip to Aldi.
Best reply in a thread ever "
Whatever happened to the four men ? |
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First message asking for facepics, If I wanted just anyone to see them I would have them on our profile. Even worse when they never even sent theirs first
People that don't read the profile
I really dislike the "Fab if you'd lick me" pics you see a lot of now a days
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First message asking for facepics, If I wanted just anyone to see them I would have them on our profile. Even worse when they never even sent theirs first
People that don't read the profile
I really dislike the "Fab if you'd lick me" pics you see a lot of now a days
Mr"
Yeah agree with this part about face pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First message asking for facepics, If I wanted just anyone to see them I would have them on our profile. Even worse when they never even sent theirs first
People that don't read the profile
I really dislike the "Fab if you'd lick me" pics you see a lot of now a days
Mr
Yeah agree with this part about face pics "
Does the last part confuse you though and you just lick your phone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First message asking for facepics, If I wanted just anyone to see them I would have them on our profile. Even worse when they never even sent theirs first
People that don't read the profile
I really dislike the "Fab if you'd lick me" pics you see a lot of now a days
Mr
Yeah agree with this part about face pics
Does the last part confuse you though and you just lick your phone? "
I’m guessing that’s a typo unfortunately which happens on these touchscreen phones |
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"First message asking for facepics, If I wanted just anyone to see them I would have them on our profile. Even worse when they never even sent theirs first
People that don't read the profile
I really dislike the "Fab if you'd lick me" pics you see a lot of now a days
Mr
Yeah agree with this part about face pics
Does the last part confuse you though and you just lick your phone? "
Of course, Surely everyone does that |
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"Ladies/ couples who say
"" no cock pix or instant block""
You look at their pix and they've got half the fruit N veg section in their pussy
Comes in handy for shoplifting. Got a 4 man tent and Wok up mine at my last trip to Aldi."
Noted. I'm needing a new wok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The meets section being full of people who probably have no real intentions of having a meet. "
There is a woman in Glasgow puts a meet today flag up every day without fail. Yet never gets any veris. Can only presume she's just after the attention or uses it to show she's working.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally overweight, out of shape females who dictate what the want,
especially when they say they want a face pic but have no face pics in their own profile and show only horrific pics of fat bodies.
Boak |
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"Totally overweight, out of shape females who dictate what the want,
especially when they say they want a face pic but have no face pics in their own profile and show only horrific pics of fat bodies.
Boak"
Can only the slim, in shape females dictate what they want? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally overweight, out of shape females who dictate what the want,
especially when they say they want a face pic but have no face pics in their own profile and show only horrific pics of fat bodies.
Boak"
We're all waiting on that first full body pic where you put Chris Hemsworth to shame.
I'll get comfy. May be waiting a while me thinks.... |
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"Totally overweight, out of shape females who dictate what the want,
especially when they say they want a face pic but have no face pics in their own profile and show only horrific pics of fat bodies.
Boak
We're all waiting on that first full body pic where you put Chris Hemsworth to shame.
I'll get comfy. May be waiting a while me thinks...."
Didn't want you waiting to long miss muff so
HELLO
BTW no idea who this Chris guy is haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I've got another one...
Men who think just cause a women isn't what HE would deem attractive, that she isn't allowed to have a choice in who she shags. Fuck her preferences, bend over and take any boabie!
Boke indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally overweight, out of shape females who dictate what the want,
especially when they say they want a face pic but have no face pics in their own profile and show only horrific pics of fat bodies.
Boak
We're all waiting on that first full body pic where you put Chris Hemsworth to shame.
I'll get comfy. May be waiting a while me thinks....
Didn't want you waiting to long miss muff so
HELLO
BTW no idea who this Chris guy is haha "
Grrrr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally overweight, out of shape females who dictate what the want,
especially when they say they want a face pic but have no face pics in their own profile and show only horrific pics of fat bodies.
Boak"
You win today's best internet comment on being a dick |
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"Totally overweight, out of shape females who dictate what the want,
especially when they say they want a face pic but have no face pics in their own profile and show only horrific pics of fat bodies.
Boak"
Are you ok hun? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally overweight, out of shape females who dictate what the want,
especially when they say they want a face pic but have no face pics in their own profile and show only horrific pics of fat bodies.
Boak You win today's best internet comment on being a dick "
Yeah that comment is bang out of order, please treat people the way you expect to be treated yourself with respect, kindness and love this is meant to be a fun site not a bullying or harassment site. We are all human beings and deserve to be treated fairly and equally. |
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By *reedyKWoman
over a year ago
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"Totally overweight, out of shape females who dictate what the want,
especially when they say they want a face pic but have no face pics in their own profile and show only horrific pics of fat bodies.
Boak"
I am all for freedom on speech but this is just down right rude and nasty.
Anyone of any size, shape, height etc has the right to dictate what they would like in a sexual partner. Are over weight women like me meant to just be grateful and accept anything we are offered??
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"Totally overweight, out of shape females who dictate what the want,
especially when they say they want a face pic but have no face pics in their own profile and show only horrific pics of fat bodies.
Boak
I am all for freedom on speech but this is just down right rude and nasty.
Anyone of any size, shape, height etc has the right to dictate what they would like in a sexual partner. Are over weight women like me meant to just be grateful and accept anything we are offered??
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It certainly wasn't the best thing to say... Esp if some of the ladies are already self conscious about their weight
Plus no one is forcing anyone to look at someone's page so if you don't like don't look its quite simple.
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"Totally overweight, out of shape females who dictate what the want,
especially when they say they want a face pic but have no face pics in their own profile and show only horrific pics of fat bodies.
Boak
I am all for freedom on speech but this is just down right rude and nasty.
Anyone of any size, shape, height etc has the right to dictate what they would like in a sexual partner. Are over weight women like me meant to just be grateful and accept anything we are offered??
It certainly wasn't the best thing to say... Esp if some of the ladies are already self conscious about their weight
Plus no one is forcing anyone to look at someone's page so if you don't like don't look its quite simple.
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He got the response he was after as that statement was never going to end well.
I'm all for people having an opinion but there's a way to word it and that certainly wasn't it |
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I annoy myself the most on here because i'm sheggight at actually thinking of a good opening message to send....people are all so different so i generally like to start with a nice polite "hello, how are you?".....its the ultimate ice breaker, why do so many take offence to it? |
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"I annoy myself the most on here because i'm sheggight at actually thinking of a good opening message to send....people are all so different so i generally like to start with a nice polite "hello, how are you?".....its the ultimate ice breaker, why do so many take offence to it?"
They prob hear it a 100 times a day mate... I'm the same I'm no the best at first mails but I try put something from either their status or from their profile into my mails to show I have actually read their page |
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"I annoy myself the most on here because i'm sheggight at actually thinking of a good opening message to send....people are all so different so i generally like to start with a nice polite "hello, how are you?".....its the ultimate ice breaker, why do so many take offence to it?"
Brut or Old Spice |
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"I annoy myself the most on here because i'm sheggight at actually thinking of a good opening message to send....people are all so different so i generally like to start with a nice polite "hello, how are you?".....its the ultimate ice breaker, why do so many take offence to it?
Brut or Old Spice "
Hahaha love it.....you couldve replied but thats funnier  |
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over a year ago
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Guys who send nasty, cryptic messages then immediately block you so you can’t argue back! My
nose is bothering me now and it’s annoying me. I’ve had two in the last 24 hours |
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"Totally overweight, out of shape females who dictate what the want,
especially when they say they want a face pic but have no face pics in their own profile and show only horrific pics of fat bodies.
Boak
Are you ok hun?"
He is fine. Just gaslighting it's the fat burd problem rather than a small cock problem. |
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"Totally overweight, out of shape females who dictate what the want,
especially when they say they want a face pic but have no face pics in their own profile and show only horrific pics of fat bodies.
Boak"
1. Just because someone isn't to your taste, doesn't mean others don't find them attractive.
2. Everyone should have the choice in who they play with. Just because I'm overweight doesn't mean I have to play with anyone who asks.
3. If you knew the amount of abuse women get on here, I think you'd have been nicer in your evaluation.
Either way, I really hope you're a much nicer person than your comment suggests, and I genuinely wish you the best that Fab has to offer xx |
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Folk who are totally disnissive of folk who. Take rhe time to .essage them even if folk are not interested a wee message will have the genuine folk grateful and well the others can always be blocked but to ignore all can be demoralising for those who are trying to make contact wi folk x |
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"Folk who are totally disnissive of folk who. Take rhe time to .essage them even if folk are not interested a wee message will have the genuine folk grateful and well the others can always be blocked but to ignore all can be demoralising for those who are trying to make contact wi folk x "
Serious about this for a second.....
In the same way that guys complain about not being given a chance by women/couples, you have no idea what woman/couple's experience of Fab has been. They could have received 10 cunty messages that day then thought "fuck it, you're getting dinghied pal".
In the past, I've replied with a polite one liner only to them be barraged with messages. I've blocked women for this two btw. And I couldn't care less if people think I'm rude for doing so.
No reply means not interested. You're no more entitled to a reply on here than you are a fuck. |
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Not much bothers me, fab is a minefield for me to negotiate so it is what it is.
Sydney university however, can do one! Is this the biggest mass panic/chain mail ever? I can’t move for the amount of headlines I see and peer re_iewed, published scientific journals analysing fab life no one has ever seen……. |
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RE the unread messages.
Think we can all agree that a large part of the problem is ignorant aggressive males treating every woman on here like a free prostitute and bombarding them with one liners.
However, at same, there are a lot of woman on here purely for attention with no intention of meeting. Or will only meet if suitability reimbursed.... |
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"Folk who are totally disnissive of folk who. Take rhe time to .essage them even if folk are not interested a wee message will have the genuine folk grateful and well the others can always be blocked but to ignore all can be demoralising for those who are trying to make contact wi folk x
Serious about this for a second.....
In the same way that guys complain about not being given a chance by women/couples, you have no idea what woman/couple's experience of Fab has been. They could have received 10 cunty messages that day then thought "fuck it, you're getting dinghied pal".
In the past, I've replied with a polite one liner only to them be barraged with messages. I've blocked women for this two btw. And I couldn't care less if people think I'm rude for doing so.
No reply means not interested. You're no more entitled to a reply on here than you are a fuck."
Absolutely this
I deleted mails all the time , I've found when I say a polite no thanks its usually met with the sender calling me a slag , cow , whore ( that's the go to vocab for them) .. so rather than me slaughtering them I'd rather just delete the mails I have no interest in .. not saying everyone's like this just after being on site 11 years I've had more than my fair share , so I'll keep deleting mails as a no thank you .. cunty probably but its says it on my tin |
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Most annoying apart from all of the above, is when you get contacted, asked stuff, send pics, they like them, and so on, and then suddenly there is radio silence, even after a meet... And message been read.... A polite no longer interested or anything really goes a long way... |
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A bit of common decency is all we ask for, we all have rights wether we all agree what they rights are or not.
Live and let live and treat others how we would like to be treated ourselves.
Arseholes deserve to be treated like arseholes, end off! |
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"A bit of common decency is all we ask for, we all have rights wether we all agree what they rights are or not.
Live and let live and treat others how we would like to be treated ourselves.
Arseholes deserve to be treated like arseholes, end off!"
Totally agree with you treat everyone with kindness, love and respect. We have all been through a lot in these last few years and that’s bad enough. This is a site meant for fun if you get a KB knock back move on and take it like an adult or try again. There’s a someone out there for everyone. |
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Yes I'm having both those problems just now and it's so frustrating, if they'd just read my profile it would save me writing loads of no thanks messages x |
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"A bit of common decency is all we ask for, we all have rights wether we all agree what they rights are or not.
Live and let live and treat others how we would like to be treated ourselves.
Arseholes deserve to be treated like arseholes, end off!
Totally agree with you treat everyone with kindness, love and respect. We have all been through a lot in these last few years and that’s bad enough. This is a site meant for fun if you get a KB knock back move on and take it like an adult or try again. There’s a someone out there for everyone."
I need to be kind, loving and respectful in my 9-5.
If I couldn't be a rude cunt on here I would spontaneously combust. |
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over a year ago
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People who don't read my profile
"FAF" messages
Random friend requests
Abuse when I politely decline their offer
Messages just to be nasty about my profile
Think that's it for now, but I'm sure I'll think of a few more!!! |
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When someone posts a thread,and certain people,piss all over it, and i don't mean in a fun way, maybe making a few jokes,cos after all i do that Its the one's were They comment, They have absolutely no interest in the thread, They just want to pick a fight basically,sad really, but hey ho , apologies for the grammar |
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"When someone posts a thread,and certain people,piss all over it, and i don't mean in a fun way, maybe making a few jokes,cos after all i do that Its the one's were They comment, They have absolutely no interest in the thread, They just want to pick a fight basically,sad really, but hey ho , apologies for the grammar "
Yeah no need for that or trying to cause trouble we are all meant to be adults here. |
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"How shit the insults are when I say “no thanks”. I mean, it shouldn’t happen at all, but folks could at least make it interesting and not just hit with a cliched fat comment "
As already indicated on here it’s a fun site, if it doesn’t happen move on no need to be nasty or abusive show kindness, love and respect. There is a someone out there for everyone. We have all been through enough over the last 2 years and now face more struggles going forward in this life. |
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As already indicated on here it’s a fun site, if it doesn’t happen move on no need to be nasty or abusive show kindness, love and respect. There is a someone out there for everyone. We have all been through enough over the last 2 years and now face more struggles going forward in this life. "
I think you’ve misread my message. I’m not nasty to anyone.
I’m saying that the folks being nasty, if they insist on doing so, could at least be interesting when they do so |
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As already indicated on here it’s a fun site, if it doesn’t happen move on no need to be nasty or abusive show kindness, love and respect. There is a someone out there for everyone. We have all been through enough over the last 2 years and now face more struggles going forward in this life.
I think you’ve misread my message. I’m not nasty to anyone.
I’m saying that the folks being nasty, if they insist on doing so, could at least be interesting when they do so "
Sorry I was only advising others to treat everyone on here the way you expect to be treated yourself.  |
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