So if you arranged a social to go for few drinks to go out for the night and you got there and the guy/woman was already d*unk what would you do? Would you be offended? Would you stay and go ahead with the social? |
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over a year ago
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"I'd leave. Suppose you could put it down to nerves but they've made fuck all effort in my book. So my arse would be straight out the door."
This. It would really put me off and possibly leave me feeling a bit unsafe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most normal people would leave ASAP. The repercussions of what could happen if you stay could be lifechanging for either the male or female and whether your the sober or d*unk party. Only a predator in my opinion would continue with the meet under these circumstances. |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
We met a guy at his room in a hotel. Had a previous social and he was fine. Turned up at his room and he was already d*unk. He then downed a full glass of wine in a couple of minutes. He got more d*unk.
We told him he was too d*unk and left. We paid for half the room as we’d agreed to do that but probably shouldn’t have. |
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I’d love to say ‘fuck off your pished’ but in reality I would stay for a very short time to make sure they are okay to get hone safely then I would message them saying that for their well-being and yours you didn’t appreciate them being d*unk. |
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By *ugehandsMan
over a year ago
Fife/ Newcastle |
If someone was d*unk for a social meet I'd be happy enough to chat with them but wouldn't ever consider play.
I understand why people would be very annoyed when they make arrangements for childcare etc, and spend time and effort to look good and smell good when meeting new people only to be let down.
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over a year ago
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"If someone was d*unk for a social meet I'd be happy enough to chat with them but wouldn't ever consider play.
I understand why people would be very annoyed when they make arrangements for childcare etc, and spend time and effort to look good and smell good when meeting new people only to be let down.
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Yeah as bad as being stood up (or worse in some ways!) |
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I rarely drink so I’d be more than annoyed.
I think if they have arrived first and ordered a pint or a glass wine while waiting I’d be ok, but if they were d*unk then I’d just leave for a million diff reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely drink so I’d be more than annoyed.
I think if they have arrived first and ordered a pint or a glass wine while waiting I’d be ok, but if they were d*unk then I’d just leave for a million diff reasons."
*sneakily hides his three empty beer glasses and flings 3x airways into his gub.. |
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It depends how d*unk . If having a drink was on the cards for the night and maybe had a couple before meet I wouldn’t shoot them down maybe just nerves. If I turned up and looked as if been out all day then a different story . |
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over a year ago
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Well i agree on sober sex being better, however a few years ago I did drink because of nerves and once we got to hotel I wasn't fit for anything. He was a gentleman and took me home. We laughed about it after and went on to have a second meet that was great but I felt like a complete idiot lol
Never happened since  |
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We've got a code, for escaping when a social meet isn't going to work for one of us.
Unfortunately Louise forgot, and got it wrong, so I was left wondering whether she wanted to go through with it or not.
The couple were far from what we expected as far as the photos and chat went, to the point of having been downright dishonest, but we couldn't get time together to use the code again!! We were in their house!
In a panic, I found the answer.... In a massive glass of rum, with a tiny bit of , which did the trick! Sex was utterly impossible!
Needless to say, I managed to scrape her out and we escaped 
We laughed all the way home. And have changed our code to something we can use twice, or more. |
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Happened to me I arrived at that couple's house.
They were both wasted and the pictures they sent me was them 10 yeard ago...
I politely said I am sorry I feel terribly uncomfortable I have to leave...
Left I was really think what if they had a bad reaction to me leaving...
D*unk at a meet not for me.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thats got danger written all over it the issues of consent blur and the consequences of that are life changing.
I don't drink so know my limits and respect others and certainly d*unk meets are out |
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I would politely excuse myself at the earliest opportunity. If I’m meeting someone I would hope that they didn’t need to be d*unk to go through with a social meet. A social meet for me is to ensure that there is a social and physical attraction on both sides |
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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago
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"I'd leave. Suppose you could put it down to nerves but they've made fuck all effort in my book. So my arse would be straight out the door."
This.
Tipsy you could understand for nerves maybe but d unk? Nah. |
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Definitely a no go.
We always say to people who we chat to not to drink too much alcohol as booze and adrenaline of the meet with potential fun can at times be the wrong mix.
Don't get us wrong a wee drink together is fine but to be passed is not a thing we are into personally.
Happy New Year to you all by the way folks.
Holly and Darren XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks like there is a broad consensus, yes. I guess miracles do happen
But yeah, I too would certainly not be progressing with anything sexual. I'd probably stay for a bit and ensure they are ok and can get home safe, and possibly suggest we reschedule for another day depending on the situation. Could be nerves gettting the better of them, so I'd make sure it doesn't scare them off meeting forever either. |
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we have had a few to get over nerves before going to our first ever meet and when going to CJs for the first time but not to the extent where we where pissed. It doesn’t help performance and we are about to have a great time…….. we wana remember it!
Never went to a meet and the person has been pissed but i’m following the advice from here and we would politely leave! |
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Drink can make people do daft things that could end up in disaster so it's not for me...I don't like being around d*unk people as it is if I'm sober let alone having a social with someone I don't know. |
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