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First mmf

By *irtycumbo OP Couple over a year ago

Glasgow

Hey everyone, so hubby and I experienced our first mmf last weekend with a bi guy...First time introducing a man into our sex life and first time my husband has ever been with a man! It was great fun! Just looking for some advice...

We were unsure how these things normally start (being very new to this). When the guy got here, hubby answered the door bollok, I was in bedroom... And we just went straight into it.

Next time I feel I'd like to sit and have a drink and a flirt and tease, but not sure if most people just want to get straight into the action. Can anyone give us some pointers from their previous experience. The only other thing we have done is go to cjs...only one time, Amazing night... Then the dreaded lock down hit! Thanks everyone ??

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By *leasure domMan over a year ago

Edinburgh

Different scenarios with different couples. Drinks beforehand; dinner beforehand (where the people at the next table seemed to be straining to listen in to the conversation); couple playing then me joining in; female answering the door dressed in sexy outfit and the two of us playing before he joined in; 3-way soapy shower.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go with what you feel comfortable with and what turns you on. As the last poster said, there are lots of options and no harm in mixing things up a little depending on how you feel.

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By *ohnnyrepMan over a year ago

Edinburgh

Personally I find it best with a little chat, flirting and finding out what everyone looking for in the MMF

Some women turned on watching their guy with another guy. Some like to watch their woman with another guy before joining in Some just like to watch.

Of course if your all so horny nothing wrong with just going for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If we haven't met before, we prefer to sit and chat with a drink first. If Jess is happy to continue, she always makes the first move, it's very erotic!

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By *lasgowguy1Man over a year ago

Glasgow

I’ve been lucky enough to have three meets of that type and all three have been different.

Each one was discussed pre meet to ensure no misunderstandings. All were very good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had 2 mmf, not from this site tho but 1st one was we met, chatted for a bit, got a bit of each others vibe and just as I felt like the convo was about to die I suggested we went to the room, all had a great time. 2nd time the woman answered naked and the guy watched all the fun, then for the courage to top me as I topped his lady!

Point being, every meet will be different, it's better to chat beforehand about what's gonna happen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have a drink and chill or go straight for it - both fine options but always good to create many scenarios and keep things fresh!

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By *4Fun11Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

So many different scenarios.

Try them all out. It will be great fun

And find which ones suit you best.

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By *ivingthegoodlifeMan over a year ago

Aberdeen

Always good to have a drink/chat before getting intimate. Normally you’ll find one of the couple will make a comment that starts the ball rolling after some light chat then it’s fun fun fun.

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