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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So what is everybody's idea of a good social/ meet?
Mine is going out for a nice dinner couple of drinks and just genuinely relaxed banter lol
Love to make people laugh
But what is yours xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ideally I want mind blowing amazing animalistic sex but failing that I guess a coffee or drink will do.  
As long as there’s good conversation and a few laughs thrown in I really don’t mind what we do or where we go.  "
I think we all want that but all have to settle for less that our fantasy's haha or at least I do xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Getting absolutely hammered in a pub until we both throw up before being kicked out then staggering to the nearest hedge for a nap where we both lay in the spooning position smelling of spiced rum and poor life decisions. Always the most romantic of evenings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what is everybody's idea of a good social/ meet?
Mine is going out for a nice dinner couple of drinks and just genuinely relaxed banter lol
Love to make people laugh
But what is yours xxx"
One that involves a follow up at a later date for fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Coffee or drink in a pub or cafe.
No dinner or lunch or cinema thats a date.
I don't do dates 
You should try it sometime
You might enjoy it"
I do all the time..with my husband |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A coffee somewhere public and central, hopefully involving cake.
Nice and relaxed, good chat, laugh, flirt but no pressure.
Then arranging something more private and a hell of a lot dirtier at a later occasion if the socials gone well.
That's the ideal. I wouldn't feel comfortable going to the cinema or out for an evening meal on an initial social meet with a new person. It feels to intimate, cinema lacks interaction, and I've the found that the more intense an initial meet is the more expectations there are for more afterwards (from personal experience)
I'm not looking for a date, I'm looking to test attraction and connection before we consider being sexual.
However I've previously made friends on Fab which involved socialising in different scenarios, and I've met people at group socials and gone on to have amazing sex that same night so nothing is ever set in stone and I always respect others preferences and boundaries.  |
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