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Every day we get winks and friend requests from people who have no pic's at all on their profiles and expect us just to except them or get back to them. WHY Would we!we no nothing about them.
Is it just us or do other people feel the same? |
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By *arpdiemCouple
over a year ago
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No it's not just you, we just block folk as it does say in our profile not to send them as that's what the result will be so they obviously don't bother reading our profile or just couldn't care what we want, either way probably not people we'd want to meet. |
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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago
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Yeah, get them too.
Probably not to the same extent as couples and single ladies, but it's still not nice.
I have to wonder what sort of response a blank profile with feck all in it thinks they'll get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every day we get winks and friend requests from people who have no pic's at all on their profiles and expect us just to except them or get back to them. WHY Would we!we no nothing about them.
Is it just us or do other people feel the same?"
Yip wife gets them all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me  "
snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get "
I could turn mine off and probably still get one message a day but I just prefer to use the filters  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get
I could turn mine off and probably still get one message a day but I just prefer to use the filters "
same..just saves my time and theirs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have sent out message to people many times asking what they likes
As to try and start rapport
Not sending winks or genitalia pic
Also never get reply which is rudeness as well "
Not really rude as the site does state that a non response should be taken as a polite no thank you. That’s due to people sending messages to others without reading profiles or checking they meet the others requirements. Not saying you do that but for example I get messages every day and my profile is VERY clear. I could put on really tight filters and blocks (I do use some) but I don’t like that as sometimes there a bit of social chat with others (like about a forum post for example) that I’d miss. I don’t see why I should miss out on that because others can’t read or ignore my profile. In this case the “no response is a polite no thanks” is perfect.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have sent out message to people many times asking what they likes
As to try and start rapport
Not sending winks or genitalia pic
Also never get reply which is rudeness as well "
Taken from the Site FAQ
“There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have sent out message to people many times asking what they likes
As to try and start rapport
Not sending winks or genitalia pic
Also never get reply which is rudeness as well
Taken from the Site FAQ
“There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?”"
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get "
This ^^^
Everytime I see a post of people complaining about certain messages they recieve I just roll my eyes as the solution is simple block everyone from messaging you and do your own searching
The people claiming to have hundreds of messages everyday clearly do not use filters  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't even mind the winks or friend requests, even though I state on my profile I won't accept one without having previously chatted.
What does make my ring sting big fucking time though, is when I actually send a polite "no thank you" and then get a run down of their sexual prowess and how they're gonnae have me dripping like a knackered fridge and needing peeled off the ceiling.....if I only give them the chance.
Bolt ya fanny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I pay zero attention to friends requests, that wee box is never looked at, I won't give it any of my time as it's full of picture collectors wanting a look at private photos.
I look at winks, sometimes wink back.
I have my filters set but they really need a location filter. Block anyone not within xx miles from messaging. Do people really think I'll travel 500 miles for a shag?!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't even mind the winks or friend requests, even though I state on my profile I won't accept one without having previously chatted.
What does make my ring sting big fucking time though, is when I actually send a polite "no thank you" and then get a run down of their sexual prowess and how they're gonnae have me dripping like a knackered fridge and needing peeled off the ceiling.....if I only give them the chance.
Bolt ya fanny."
Why, why won't you meet them, even if they don't match anything you've clearly stated on your profile? You're on Fab, surely that means you're dtf anyone who asks. So why won't you meet them? WHY!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't even mind the winks or friend requests, even though I state on my profile I won't accept one without having previously chatted.
What does make my ring sting big fucking time though, is when I actually send a polite "no thank you" and then get a run down of their sexual prowess and how they're gonnae have me dripping like a knackered fridge and needing peeled off the ceiling.....if I only give them the chance.
Bolt ya fanny."
Then tell ye it's "your loss"? There's a lot of them out and about today!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get "
I'm filtered to the eyeballs and my profile is about as inviting as herpes but somehow a few still get through. I think somebody's dug a tunnel under my inbox! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get
I'm filtered to the eyeballs and my profile is about as inviting as herpes but somehow a few still get through. I think somebody's dug a tunnel under my inbox! "
I may have dug the tunnel but I didn’t tell anyone where it was. I must have been followed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get
I'm filtered to the eyeballs and my profile is about as inviting as herpes but somehow a few still get through. I think somebody's dug a tunnel under my inbox!
I may have dug the tunnel but I didn’t tell anyone where it was. I must have been followed "
Haha ...I snuck past YOUR filters sweetie pie. Muahahaha.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get
I'm filtered to the eyeballs and my profile is about as inviting as herpes but somehow a few still get through. I think somebody's dug a tunnel under my inbox!
I may have dug the tunnel but I didn’t tell anyone where it was. I must have been followed
Haha ...I snuck past YOUR filters sweetie pie. Muahahaha. "
Oh so you did!! I remember now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get
I'm filtered to the eyeballs and my profile is about as inviting as herpes but somehow a few still get through. I think somebody's dug a tunnel under my inbox! "
There's not a "fucking nugget" filter though.
They can be verified, meet your age requirements, no "boabie hanging over the shitter" pics and still be a fucking nugget.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get
I'm filtered to the eyeballs and my profile is about as inviting as herpes but somehow a few still get through. I think somebody's dug a tunnel under my inbox!
There's not a "fucking nugget" filter though.
They can be verified, meet your age requirements, no "boabie hanging over the shitter" pics and still be a fucking nugget.
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Some are even double nuggets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get
I'm filtered to the eyeballs and my profile is about as inviting as herpes but somehow a few still get through. I think somebody's dug a tunnel under my inbox!
There's not a "fucking nugget" filter though.
They can be verified, meet your age requirements, no "boabie hanging over the shitter" pics and still be a fucking nugget.
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I for one am grateful there’s not a nugget filter. I’d be screwed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get
I'm filtered to the eyeballs and my profile is about as inviting as herpes but somehow a few still get through. I think somebody's dug a tunnel under my inbox!
There's not a "fucking nugget" filter though.
They can be verified, meet your age requirements, no "boabie hanging over the shitter" pics and still be a fucking nugget.
I for one am grateful there’s not a nugget filter. I’d be screwed"
There's a nugget rating though.
You're registering as fairly low....but worth watching |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get
I'm filtered to the eyeballs and my profile is about as inviting as herpes but somehow a few still get through. I think somebody's dug a tunnel under my inbox!
There's not a "fucking nugget" filter though.
They can be verified, meet your age requirements, no "boabie hanging over the shitter" pics and still be a fucking nugget.
Some are even double nuggets "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get
I'm filtered to the eyeballs and my profile is about as inviting as herpes but somehow a few still get through. I think somebody's dug a tunnel under my inbox!
There's not a "fucking nugget" filter though.
They can be verified, meet your age requirements, no "boabie hanging over the shitter" pics and still be a fucking nugget.
I for one am grateful there’s not a nugget filter. I’d be screwed
There's a nugget rating though.
You're registering as fairly low....but worth watching "
Ooh! I’ll have to up my nuggetry. Is that a word? It is now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me snap.
I find it weird folk not using all their filters.
Guys moaning about guys messaging them..use your filters.females on gloating about the 100s of messages a day they receive.use your filters for what you are looking for.or maybe it's just so they can advertise the amount of mail they get
I'm filtered to the eyeballs and my profile is about as inviting as herpes but somehow a few still get through. I think somebody's dug a tunnel under my inbox!
There's not a "fucking nugget" filter though.
They can be verified, meet your age requirements, no "boabie hanging over the shitter" pics and still be a fucking nugget.
I for one am grateful there’s not a nugget filter. I’d be screwed
There's a nugget rating though.
You're registering as fairly low....but worth watching
Ooh! I’ll have to up my nuggetry. Is that a word? It is now "
It’s in the Fab DICKtionary |
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"I have sent out message to people many times asking what they likes
As to try and start rapport
Not sending winks or genitalia pic
Also never get reply which is rudeness as well "
You can't send replys to everyone you don't want to meet, firstly you would spend all your time talking to people that you don't want to speak too and secondly people don't like getting told that you're not interested in them and that comes across as rude |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me
Didn't know that you could do that I'll try that now "
Hopefully it makes a difference for you |
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"I’ve the filters set up so no profile without photos can message me
Didn't know that you could do that I'll try that now "
Just updated filters. Set them when we set up the profile that was the first time I'd looked at them since |
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"I pay zero attention to friends requests, that wee box is never looked at, I won't give it any of my time as it's full of picture collectors wanting a look at private photos.
I look at winks, sometimes wink back.
I have my filters set but they really need a location filter. Block anyone not within xx miles from messaging. Do people really think I'll travel 500 miles for a shag?!
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Yeah 500 miles away asking if you are up for fun tonight and can we meet. Well wait and I will jump in my helicopter. Toot toot
Do helicopters toot. If not they should |
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"I pay zero attention to friends requests, that wee box is never looked at, I won't give it any of my time as it's full of picture collectors wanting a look at private photos.
I look at winks, sometimes wink back.
I have my filters set but they really need a location filter. Block anyone not within xx miles from messaging. Do people really think I'll travel 500 miles for a shag?!
Yeah 500 miles away asking if you are up for fun tonight and can we meet. Well wait and I will jump in my helicopter. Toot toot
Do helicopters toot. If not they should "
Ooh now I need to know if helicopters go toot!!
When you challenge those kind of people about the distance it always makes me chuckle when they say they're actually local, when the GPS says differently. Love to catch them out and call their bluff! |
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"I pay zero attention to friends requests, that wee box is never looked at, I won't give it any of my time as it's full of picture collectors wanting a look at private photos.
I look at winks, sometimes wink back.
I have my filters set but they really need a location filter. Block anyone not within xx miles from messaging. Do people really think I'll travel 500 miles for a shag?!
Yeah 500 miles away asking if you are up for fun tonight and can we meet. Well wait and I will jump in my helicopter. Toot toot
Do helicopters toot. If not they should
Ooh now I need to know if helicopters go toot!!
When you challenge those kind of people about the distance it always makes me chuckle when they say they're actually local, when the GPS says differently. Love to catch them out and call their bluff!"
It's when you ask how big their cock is to reach from Liverpool to lanarkshire. Normally the answer is sorry didn't realise you were so far away. Ffs basic info haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I pay zero attention to friends requests, that wee box is never looked at, I won't give it any of my time as it's full of picture collectors wanting a look at private photos.
I look at winks, sometimes wink back.
I have my filters set but they really need a location filter. Block anyone not within xx miles from messaging. Do people really think I'll travel 500 miles for a shag?!
Yeah 500 miles away asking if you are up for fun tonight and can we meet. Well wait and I will jump in my helicopter. Toot toot
Do helicopters toot. If not they should
Ooh now I need to know if helicopters go toot!!
When you challenge those kind of people about the distance it always makes me chuckle when they say they're actually local, when the GPS says differently. Love to catch them out and call their bluff!
It's when you ask how big their cock is to reach from Liverpool to lanarkshire. Normally the answer is sorry didn't realise you were so far away. Ffs basic info haha "
Haha the usual guys who obviously leered at the teacher instead of concentrating in Geography and who think Scotland is a wee village! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We see winks as a interest in our profile that they have read and wanting to chat that little bit more however we see random friends requests as a no no we like to chat first and see how it goes before accepting friends requests etc
But we understand not everyone does it this way and people do it differently. |
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